i think Donggook already explained in the past episode why he keeps on playing prank on daebak. he just want to see daebak's different emotions since daebak is usually calm. he doesnt cry a lot like any other kid. please stop judging donggook because every parent has their own way of showing their love to their child. i live this family so much because i can see how much they care for each other. both mother and father did well in teaching their kids.
mintymint I’m definitely not judging. I thought he did it cause he was the only boy. That’s what my father did to my little brother. One time me and my family went to the aquarium and was in the shark exhibit and my dad pretended to throw my little brother to the sharks for being so disobedient the whole day. 😂
I only watched Sian for the first time a couple of days ago and i understand them, mostly it's also the dad's way to make them stronger. Since Sian grew up with his sisters, he only relies on his father about manly things. I grew up the same way even if i'm a girl my dad said the reason why he's doing such things (Like pranking) is because it's part of his way of training me. To keep me stronger in the future because there are a lot worse situations that might happen.
Watch your back, Secretary Lee. He may be a kid now, but he'll grow up soon enough, and before long he'll be thumbing through a dictionary and looking up the definition of "revenge". ㅋㅋㅋ
ForeverCellist yeah i think because since he is the only boy all the other girls say unni and nobody says noona expect him so he probably still doesn't understand that he is different from them lolol
As a side note, I wish people would stop getting so worked up about Donggook's pranks on Daebak. Daebak is his only son after 4 girls, I'm not surprised by how he acts with him. Honestly, I think it's better than him totally babying him. Bbakie might cry in the moment, but later on these can be good funny memories for him. As long as Donggook balances it out with showing Daebak love and support, that is, and he does. Now if Donggook was *always* like that to Daebak it would be different, but he obviously showers Daebak with love (as do his sisters) and his pranks are isolated things (they just seem way more often since it seems to be like every episode, but remember they don't shoot every day).
i love Daebak..but mybe a lot off ppl can't accept the way donggok plays with daebak.. for me he just want to toughen up daebak bcoz he is a boy..despite all those pranks he loved his son so much and so does daebak..
how come people said he failed as a parent, oh please, once daebak grow up. do you think he will always be like this? searching for his dad all the time? at least there a memorable thing he did with his dad. and please,this guy has 5 children already -.- and cant u see how harmony their family is?
Maybe not...it's more out of fear of Daebak becoming a kid with mental illnesses later on. It's more about it...but I don't think from what we are seeing is such a problem. His sisters are always supporting him...Although "I want Sian to display more emotions" could be equal to the whole "it builds character" idea of some toxic masculinity parents.
@@Princessshamanarta I think of it more as to balance out the love and care his whole family gives him. Daebak's elder sister's shower him with love as their only brother and the father also will as he is his only son. Though I've never seen the mother, it is in a positive aspect to assume she does as well. However, with this showering of love and exposure to media, it could lead Sian to become arrogant if they praise him too much. The small harmless pranks seem like a way for the father to build up Sian's confidence to the real world he is being raised in which will be especially harsh as it is the media (regardless of his gender). Sian needs to learn to be strong (personality wise) , not because of toxic masculinity, but more to be able to handle the criticism he will get when he makes mistakes or the drama that the media will make of him (If he is involved in that in the future)
People who says this is too much probably don't understand how people have different methods of bonding with their children. Opinions are good but saying how "bad" or "horrible" Donggook is is not FOR YOU to judge. My uncle is also a prankster and my cousins were always tricked just like Daebak from a young age and they have a very close bond with each other. Their house was full of laughters and sometimes he pulls pranks on us as well when we were kids. Believe me, Daebak will miss the times donggook pulls pranks on him once he grows up and donggook grows too old and tired to pull any more pranks just like how my cousins feel. My parents were overprotective and never allowed me to do anything extreme so I grew up very distant from them. I felt envious and sad looking at my uncle's family and sometimes even wished to be a part of their family instead. So stop making conclusions/assumptions solely based on your narrow minded so called "opinion"
True. I love my family but, while growing up, I was really envious of families like these. I was distant, cautious, and awkward with my parents up til I was in High School; they were really strict and I don't remember ever playing with them (my mom got friendlier as we got older though, and I get to joke with her these days). To me, they are family goals.
shinkumi4ever I get exactly how you feel. I'm jealous of my friends who share secrets with their mum or dad and talk about their daily life so comfortably. My parents always told me I should never get sick, eat nutritionally, follow an organised lifestyle, go to a good school get good grades and find a stable job. Our daily conversations are always "How was school?" "Did you do well on the test?" "Have you put any thoughts about your future plans?", I know it's good for parents to ask that but somehow I felt empty and awkward around them. I want to get close to them but I'd get embarrassed because of how awkward it is. It's really sad to admit this but I know almost nothing about my parents' life before they had me bcs they never or even want to talk about it as it "doesn't concern me and my future".
same here.. I can totally feel you.. I'm not open with my parents too.. I grow up with a nanny, and I rarely met them through growing up. I want this kind of family.
To those people who keep saying "Donggook is a bad parent!" and "He should stop pranking him!" obviously don't see how much Donggook loves his son. This show doesn't shoot that often so we only get a tiny glimpse of their life. If you think his pranking is gonna hurt Donggook and Sian's bond, it's not. Donggook is very loving towards all his kids. Sian's signature line, "I can do it!" isn't out of thin air, it's because his dad kept repeating it after him. Heck, sometimes Donggook is the first to say it and then Sian proceeds to chant it. When Donggook is gone, we've seen Sian say that he misses his dad. There are things that does make me question Donggook's parenting but his pranking was never one of them. If you ask anyone who was pranked as a kid by their parent, how their relationship with their parent was, there's a large chance that they have a strong bond and find the pranking to be nostalgic.
I don't really see how this is cruel and mean because this is normal with big families. Daebak is the only boy of the family and since he has 4 sisters he has to learn how to toughen up. They baby him and I think that by playing with him it toughens him up a bit. That's how my parents are doing my brother. He's the youngest and weakest out of my family, so we often tease him to toughen up is personality.
I think this kinda pranking is a cultural thing. I saw a Korean family who did similar things to their youngest son. When I saw them teasing him sometimes I felt like isn't that too much, but and almost felt telling them to stop but as the time went on, I realized that for his age, he was very independent and didn't get scared by anything. At that point (age of 7) he didn't seem bothered by it and just laughed through it all. I think it might depend on a person though. My parents didn't joke with me when I was a child and I feel like I would have gotten a bit traumatized by such things cause I was a sensitive kid.
its not a cultural thing. its a dad thing. it depends on the type of family as well. there are some cases where dads (moms too) are just too immature and takes pranking too far. my parents didnt do that to me either. the father of my children does. i do it too. LOL
He is just wow he just cant stop pranking the kids lol. But the more he pranks the more the girls learn about protecting thier little brother just sooo cute!
klovershows He’ll be fine. He is learning to deal with different situations. And pranks or not, his dad has also helped him get over many different fears. He’ll be okay
Deabak is kind of who is rlly calm baby I think deabak and ko jiyong is the same character who is being extremely calm down anything happen seungjea and deabak’s father match each other pretty well both naughty and tease other people❤️😂😂😂
just watching the kid cry made me remember when i was on a rug and my sister rolled the rug so i couldnt breath it felt like i was gonna die my worst nightmare is to die suffocating
Lol Awwwwwww he is so meannnnnn lmaooooooo poor babyyyyyy 😭 at least they saved him quick so it wasnt so traumatic...his fathers endless teasing lol all the kids are so cuteeeeee when saying fighting lol should watch them more