@@infinity_spiritGaudian and custody aren't the same thing in the States not sure how it is in Uk but she should file for r sole full custody and that way she won't have to answer to anyone regarding Aaliyah.
@@l.c7240 So he could show off her nice things like he bought them. Hence taking her designer gear. He would get the same heat. After all he took her there. The birth mother is a mess but so is he. He never looks neat or groomed. It takes two to fail a child yet he seems to get less heat.
Part of me side eyed the mother, if she as mother to both was manipulated to help them Aaliyah back. Maybe they convinced her they’re ready & feel more responsible & best Aaliyah with her actual mum dad. I have a brother that got into certain “lifestyle”….has daughter. In fact because I was actively in her life since she was a baby, she called me dad when she started talking even tho corrected. No matter what trauma been through with, they still thinks & treats them with forgiving and naive….the mum likely want to do right to what the son asks
This is so relateable for me! I’m taking guardianship of my 2 year old baby sister and have been raising her since she was 7 months old. My dad’s ex partner (her biological mom) is on crystal meth and an alcoholic. She has 2 other young kids she can’t take care of and is pregnant AGAIN with some next man’s baby. Instead of being grateful, she acts like I stole her child when all I have done is give her child a loving home and a future. If I had not stepped in, I wholeheartedly believe my baby sister would be dead right now. When we got her at 7 months, she had the worst diaper rash the Paediatrician had EVER seen and showed signs of neurodevelopmemtal delay due to lack of stimulation, because the woman (can’t even call her a mother) would lock her away in a room all day with no attention. She would have bruises and a swollen face that this woman could not explain. Today, she’s a happy, healthy cheerful toddler and mark my words, I know God’s got me and I’m going to give her the best life ever!
This is wonderful, you are the best big sister she could ever have. Keep holding on, God has u & will bless you for your selfless and loving care of your sister🙏🏾❤
I’m sorry your mother should not have left to run to her house for any reason with out taking Aaliyah with her 🤷🏾♀️she knows her son your brother is NOT to be left with Aaliyah UNSUPERVISED period the end this could have ended deadly not to mention Aaliyah could have been put back in care soooooooo happy Aaliyah is safe at home but clearly you can’t even take time off for rest it may be in your best interest to pay for private help and a nanny because clearly family can’t make be trusted to follow your rules nor the court order ❤❤❤❤
Nah ya brother is the opp. He packed a bag full of babygirls' expensive items for a supposed visit? He left her & didn't check the environment? What did he think he was doing by dashing her there, for an unapproved, unplanned AND unsupervised visit? Nah he the opp.
@@Poeticfloetic irresponsible. why would you ever jeopardize your sister’s guardianship accountability, by making a decision to leave Aaliyah on an *unsupervised* visit with Gina? I’d say he’s mad as well. It just makes it seem clear to me why both parents do not have guardianship. They clearly do not know how to make wise decisions on behalf of a child. It’s so unfortunate.
So they (social workers)can't visit her when she refuses to take your niece back, but they (the social workers) can visit you anytime she calls them? You the one doing the right things is the one that gets put under the microscope? I cannot even comprehend this b.s. I am so sorry girl, please keep thriving❤ ❤❤❤
Your mom shouldn’t have left her in your house, ur brother shouldn’t be anywhere near her unless you’re present and she should never go back to her biological mom because she clearly doesn’t care about her wellbeing.
she didnt pick up after anyone. The child was going to be taken by child protective services and she stood up to take the kid. She decided to take the baby, not pick up her brothers failings.
@@nellasultannNah it’s definitely his failings because he isn’t raising his own children. His sister has taken the parental roll when she shouldn’t have too because her parents failed her.
Girl why is your brother still there for? Like he's the reason this all happened, he shouldn't be given grace he's just a bad as ‘Gina’. They're both clearly not fit enough to be even left alone with their daughter. I really feel for those poor babies living in that state.
All now the WOTLESS brother couldn’t help to retrieve his daughter out that demonic situation with his own baby mum, a situation which he also caused by being FASS. When there are kids involved, I’m heated 😤
Sounds like thr relationship was fake from thr beginning and she just got with him to get in with but Daina but that didnt work and he has no backbone to stand up to her.
How did your brother have another baby with this woman knowing how hard it was to find a responsible guardian for Aaliyah. Those pictures are horrendous. The parents need to get down on their knees and kiss your damn feet for giving their child a good life. What kind of life would Aaliyah have had with this woman. I feel bad for the other children.
Easier said than done. A guardianship works when the parents are deemed incapable of being parents. However things change, in a way Daina is acting the same way a foster parent is if no biological family members are available. It’s understood that the legal parents can have the child back when they are better from whatever issues they have. Of course things can get worse, but you know what? A messy and dirty house will not prevent a parent from keeping their child. Sounds good in theory to adopt but not realistic.
@@Chazzabox1obviously it’s not just about the house being messy or they wouldn’t of taken some of her other kids. I wish people would actually listen because D said there are lots of reasons why the children were taken use your listening ears next time.
@@KingRose339 You’re kidding right? My response was specifically about messy homes, maybe you should read to understand not reply. It is very clear a messy home is not enough.
@@Chazzabox1your message if factually incorrect. A special guardianship is legally binding throughout the child’s minority! (Until 18 years old). Special guardianships are RARELY overturned in which the child would be turned to their birth parents. The parents retain very limited legal rights, and as such, adoption is not possible without the consent of the parent (s).
EVERYONE of them is wrong fr that!!! You’re Aaliyah’s legal guardian and Nobody consulted with you before taking her over there? 😢 & then what even made them think it was a good idea🤦🏽♀️girlllllll Yes her mom is wrong but she was never supposed to have her in the first place! Your family ain’t had your back.
I agree 100%, I would’ve told em until Daína comes home Aaliyah ain’t going nowhere especially not without me(the grandma) being there. But I’m glad she’s back home.
@danielledavis6784 You're absolutely right! You can tell I ain't got no kids😅🤣🤣, but I do remember my mom saying bring extras in their baby bag for accidents to a cousin.
NO ONE WILL MENTION THIS. BUT REAL TALK YOUR BROTHER IS TO BE BLAMED AND HES COSTING YOU ALOT. THAT BROTHER OF YOURS NEEDS TO GO GET HIMSELF TOGETHER REAL TALK. He pick up that woman and had a kid with her. He don’t have nothing for himself so he couldn’t get his own child either. Thank God for you tho. Respect
I can’t believe they left the other girls there! I wonder if any of the workers/officers involved would let their own kids stay in that house for a sleepover or a play date for a few hours 🤔
That’s the part I don’t understand especially after seeing those disgusting pictures of their living conditions? How is she allowed to keep the other children? Two taken but two are still with her, how? If she was found unfit for two of the kids what makes her fit for the other two to stay? I’m thoroughly confused about how that works.
@@iAquarius202this is the comment I was looking for. I’m sooooo confused how a house is unfit for 2 kids but safe for 2 other kids. Someone make it make sense??? I seriously need someone to explain this to me.
I know this isn't about blaming but rather prevention. However, what was your brother thinking taking her there in the first place? Did he not see the filth in the house?
I dont want to judge but why did your bro take her over there with the place in such a condition plus his youngest daughter still lives there! 😩 AND social services allowing their brother to visit place too! Social services should be doing the necessary REGULAR checks on her & living conditions! Major safeguarding alarm bells ringing! She has children in her care smh
Hi Daina, as someone who works for Children Services i can tell you that you can add your mum as a guardian. I believe social services will need to carry out a viability assessment (necessary checks) to ensure Grandmother is safe and capable. I’m so sorry you had to experience this! your poor niece 😢
If the Grandma will leave Aaliyah with the son without being able to correctly safeguard her from being kidnapped, then she should not have guardianship.
@@beepbopboop7727I agree. However i’m certain Grandmother won’t be making the same mistake twice - and with these checks in place Grandmother will take her position as Aaliyah’s guardian more seriously. Of course this decision lies with Daina herself 🤍 just informing her that this option is available x
I feel you but I understand why it would feel weird to have your brothers child call you mother. It might confuse the child at a young age or send mixed signals about how everyone is related.
@@aleksannuki I think that’s something that can be easily explained when Aaliyahs older tbf but I can understand not wanting to completely sever the bond between her and her mother
I just wrote a similar comment because actually two of her children were taken (one with Daina and the youngest in foster care) and the other two children are allowed to stay with her in filthy conditions? How was it determined she’s unfit for the last two kids but somehow fit for the other two to stay with her? It just doesn’t add up at all, I truly don’t understand how that works.
Im sure she had two children previously then aliyah then the new lil one The two last children are for her brother She states this in previous vlogs, not sure if you seen the vlog when aliyah was a baby and they came for Christmas
Daina, everyone is at fault. Respectfully, everyone that was present that day and allowed Aaliyah to go out of that front door is at fault. Thank God nothing happened to her, but imagine if it did!
Agree - In my opinion - ‘Gina’ needs a family support worker to help with setting a routine with the kids and doing tasks around the home. She needs encouragement and guidance. On a positive note, Gina has a spacious home with great natural light. Dear Gina - instead of using the cleaner on the side of the toilet, maybe try Harpic (I use the Black one - does wonders for me 👌🏾 Read the instructions and then see how it works for you (if it does). There are many products out there. Also your family need to take responsibility, show consistency and stability for the baby - including Chy. In terms of your driving - have you tried short term insurance (just to give you time to find suitable insurance)? On a positive note, also glad you went to Jamaica and spent time with your dad! Happy belated to your friend Paige #Stay blessed ya’ll 🙏🏾
I have to agree. Aaliyah has to be supervised when with her mother *or* her father. If grandma had popped to her house, the sister or the friend should've intervened until she got back so they could be supervised.
@@balanceis_key Putting the responsibility of policing the brother on the youngest sister is unfair. He is her elder. The fault lies with the brother. He is the one who took her there without permission. It's called showing off. I have seen part time fathers do that in my friendship groups. Showing off what the child has like they grafted to put clothes on the children's backs. Then you get women with low discernment looking at pics and saying "he is a great dad" Smh
I’m confused “Gina” says you went to the Pub.. & that requires them to then come to your house after.. but they didn’t feel the need to check where Aaliyah had to stay.. which happened to be at “Gina’s” a persons who’s history they know 🤷🏾♀️
Which then makes me believe the police did tell social services they did a welfare check.. don’t have Snapchat but from Daina’s description and everyone’s comments.. that never happened .. they and her brother dropped the ball.. Hope she & Aaliyah get to go to Jamaica together soon!!
Dianas life went from doing fun youtube videos with her former partner and living the life of a young couple, to so much responsibility and hardships in such a short time. And why are you the responsible guardian if your brother is literally there, what has he done to make him incompetent to take care of his own child?
Someone give this girl some flowers for raising children she never made, it’s probably extremely difficult and tiring so Ms Gina has no right to talk to you disrespectfully, you might not be her bio mother but you’re doing a damn better job at raising what should’ve been her responsibility and making sure she has a stable home to grow up in, that is strength and I don’t think you get praises enough
The relief I felt when I heard Aaliyahs voice in the background ❤ so sorry that this happened Daina smh. I feel so bad for all the kids involved 🙏🏾. Keep doing what you're doing for Aaliyah, its definitely the best for her ❤
THIS!!!! I was so infuriated at that woman! But that is how they are here in the UK! They take everything as a ‘domestic’ and they want you to fix it 😒
At all! They only want to get off their ass when something has already popped off. Their unwillingness to intervene actually encourages people to do things that could’ve been avoided. By that point, kids could be so traumatised if people can’t control their anger ☹️
Respectfully, why isn’t your brother and mom having to take accountability for what happened that day?! I feel like only Aaliyah’s mom is being villainized in this story; though I totally understand!!! Both mom and bro failed on the guardianship “rules” the day she was taken. Nevertheless, Diana, you’re heaven sent. You’ll be truly blessed for all you do for your niece
@@Justonevideoplease because she's raised her kids. Not all grandmothers are willing or able to make up for their kids mistakes. It should fall on the father of anyone else at all to get those babies out of that hellhole...
It's embarrassing she's doing a story time to monetise off of aaliyah's trauma. Many parents don't go on holiday without their children, but she is not Diana's child however the brother was seemingly allowed to take the child from his mother in order for him to give her to the child's mum. He then left the child there and walked away willingly. Daina mum probably favourites her son, and does let him have unsupervised contact with aaliyah but then they don't let the child's mum have that, so it's biased. All of the emphasis on the "expensive" clothes shows the immaturity, a child isn't in a better circumstance due to having designer clothes and some people don't have the money to buy their children designer clothes, but their child is loved just as much. It's materialistic and I'm not surprised aaliyah's mum is rubbed up the wrong way. Whatever has happened can't be so bad, as aaliyah's mum has kept her other children from what I gather. I hope Diana can provide some stability for aaliyah and they can all co-parent aaliyah, so that aaliyah gets to see her mum, dad and siblings whilst being cared for by her auntie. It seems to me the fact Diana has aaliyah is more hurtful to the mum then perhaps her being with a carer she didn't know, and Diana will always be biased to her brother. The child was taken off them both so Diana should remember that.
You are acting like she pushed her way into Daina's home and started snapping pics and grabbed the child. Funny how most of the women commenting are putting the heat on the mum. The brother is not fit either and also has supervised access but he gets preferential treatment clearly despite his failings. Smh. He took her there with her stuff to show off imo. He is not all there and is selfish too. Imo
Your mom should have never left, I’m so shocked. This would have never happened had she not. She should have sent him home then handled whatever she had too. That’s the point that created all this. Gotta make better decisions when it comes to safety and children. Completely traumatic for no reason.
So unbelievably traumatising to hear this story..this will be engraved into aaliyahs life for ever Gina if you are reading this comment ENOUGH IS ENOUGH NOW!! Stay strong Daina! You are a blessing and god has got you and Aaliyah closely in his arm. Input your boundaries girl, any time you are away the brother is not aloud to come over period. It’s as simple as that…he didn’t need to go over there! It’s very selfish and unfair, that house was 🤢 I’m in utter shock!!
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This is the thing, family disputes are so traumatising to children Even if they don’t understand exactly what’s happening, they can pick up on the general mood and that can have long lasting effects. The birth mother is so irresponsible and selfish, she’s not even trying to do what’s best for Aaliyah, it’s all about her 😑
Im not being mean, your mom brought this on you. Your brother must (like Gina) be supervised when this child is in his company. Everybody failed that Baby. Review your handling of her, and hold your mom acxountable for this debacle. Im not being mean.
Imagine its like your being punished to look after you niece. Something aint right. Prayers are definitely needed. Its hard because your job is social media and whatever you put out that baby mother is gonna stalk you and try to use that against you. Isit possible to file for restraining order? Gather evidence of stalking etc. As for the social should be ashamed of themselves the house is disugsting.
as a mother you are entitled to a break looking after children or child is a 24/7 job you dont get no days off you was entitled to that break away and some you time!! Handled the situation perfectly and the "perfect fit" comment 😂😂 aaliyah is so lucky to have a role model like you in her life and thankfully. Because of YOU she will grow up in a loving enviroment and have everything she needs ❤
I’m so sorry sis this sounds so stressful you need another holiday to recover from the first one 😭😭😭 Jesus this sounds like every parents/guardians worst nightmare 😢
Your Social worker you were speaking to in the car needs assessing herself! Very unprofessional. All the evidence was there that the person they are supposed to protect a child from, was resisting. She shouldn’t have even questioned or challenged your suggestion to call the police.
Hun, I know her behaviour is hurtful but try not to stress about how she's acting. She knows the good you're doing but it makes her feel bad about herself, so she is deflecting and taking it out on you. This is a classic reaction which is why it is best that you have very limited contact with her. Keep your head up Hun and stay blessed 😁💛💜
I’ve got to say it. Your MUM messed up BIG TIME! She must know her son’s head ain’t good- Even a stranger can see that by the state of his decisions in life- so she had NO business leaving him alone with Aaliyah for even 5mins. What a Lack of wisdom from a grandmother because it could have been avoided. It’s sad it seems like you’re the only one in the family with sense. Sorry girl Kmt❤
My mother adopted 4 of my brother’s daughters during my childhood & I assisted her w/ raising my nieces. And I’m telling you if my mom and her family had to go retrieve my nieces from their mother & she started to make a scene! My mom would’ve kicked that woman right through her damn window onto the pavement🤣🤦🏽♀️Right-hand to God! And my nieces would've just had to live with the memory of seeing their mother fly through a window and the sound of the Ambulance 🚨 💯🇺🇸
Im so sorry you and Aaliyah went thru that sisbbut one word of advice DO NOT TRUST YOUR BROTHER. Im sorry but it has to be said. Sending you and the rest of the family love and blessings xx
Nah and then hearing your bothers voice in this has me HEATED!!!!!!!!! This is NO joky ting, he NEEDS to understand that on some big mon shit this is highly inappropriate and fcked up for the child to have to go through😤💔💔💔
Gina trying to sabotage the SGO won't mean A will return to her care like she thinks..Her recent actions and state of the home only adds more to the existing concerns. Supervised contact for both parent is in place for a reason. Gina should never have had that opportunity. A must have been so confused, glad shes back home with her Auntie mama. Deffo back to 6 x per year. Set out all dates in advance at least 2 supervising in a place they cannot flee. Daina's got this x
Yet the brother willingly took her there after waiting for his mum to leave. He saw an opportunity to do it and did. Also. She was a fan but how did she know he was Daina's brother to be a fan? He has not been heavily featured on the channel so clearly he told Gina who his sister was and she saw an opportunity. He is suspect too. I have brothers and trust. They have messed up but they got the same condemnation. They choose who they lie down with so 🤷🏽♀️
Its been years since I've had Snapchat, and you made me download it. I wasn't prepared for that at all. It's not just about the mess. She has cleaning products out for the kids to get to. Why are they even out? It's not like shes been using them. She obviously needs a mental health check
Everything about this story just pissed me tf off. No disrespect but your mum is to blame for all of this, you left Aaliyah with her not her father, so if I leave her with you that is where she should be at all times!. She knows her son is not a fit enough parent to leave alone with his child so why didn't she take aaliayah wherever she went? She just invited more chaos into your life because she didn't think about her actions. It's only gonna get worse from here, that Gina is a agent of chaos and she won't stop until she ruins your life. Please please stay prayed up, and pray over Aaliyah because this Is spiritual warfare.
But Gina only when far off because Dainá was in Jamaica on vacation… and Dainá mother probably would have through that Gina would have pull a stunt like this.. Gina really need help cuz the pictures of that house then try too blame those baby is even more crazy..
Girl, ain’t body listening to someone who does not have all of their kids. Diana you are doing amazing and Aliyah’s life is so much better because you are her mom.
OMG!!!! wah kinda DUTTY NASTY environment is that. That girl really had the audacity to open up her trap and talk, and give you any kinda kick back while police was there to see with their very eyes that the children were not in a safe CLEAN space. Full Custody is in order here, lawyer up, 6 supervised visits revoked. What!? Daina, you are an amazing MOTHER, and that baby recognizes that. This is why she calls you MOM.
I genuinely didn’t think the pictures would be that bad because hooooow 🤢☹️ I felt sick, especially after seeing the toilet smh. Such a sad situation. Glad Aaliyah is back with you Dainá & I do hope her siblings are in good care 🤎
I don’t have kids so who knows how I’d act but I like to think I’d be eternally grateful to the woman stepping up to raise my child, and not do anything to further emotionally scar the child or alienate her from me 🤔 I’d even be deeply embarrazzed!
Not if you’re not well, mentally. You won’t see the good in others, you might only see your pain. This woman is not managing. You will be fine, most people are. Luckily these situations although they happen a lot, it’s not normal. Poor mental health is no joke. The messy house thing is unfortunately very normal with people who have no will to take care of themselves, everything is hard work from brushing their teeth to washing a mug.
@@Chazzabox1 I agree she’s not well, that’s why I say I’d like to think I’d behave differently but who knows. I’ve had my own fair share of mental health issues to the point I would never have kids since there’s the risk I wouldn’t cope. I can totally see how she’s only seeing her pain because I’ve done it, though not to this extent. She’s disregarded the actual reality of the circumstances she’s living in, and the only thing she’s thinking is ‘yeah but I gave birth to her soo…’ Doesn’t matter if the kid gets traumatised or sleeps in dirt ☹️ I just hope one day she’s well enough to look back at how Aaliyah is brought up and think wow, someone really did that for my daughter?! I feel like the day she starts to feel some shame and embarrassment in hindsight, will be a sign she’s healing. If she just goes on living like this unsupported blaming Daina, then idk for her
Im fuming. Shes a disgusting human being. Everyone is wrong, your bro, gina, social worker, the police alla dem. failed Aaliyah BIG TIME! Next step legal adoption and your other niece too. You handled it so well cus boi sah if dat was ME idk if it woulda guh suh
Sounds Like Its Time For An Attorney Or Lawyer And Draft Up A Permanent Claim To Your Niece Or File For Full Legal Custody To Cut Through The Chaos And Drama So You Can Get On With Your Life Peace And Blessings And Future Success On Your Endeavors 💙🙏🏾💞🤗
Dainá your soul is beautiful! I commend and honor you gf! I’ve got so much more to say and feel in my heart for you but imma leave it at that. May God continue to bless you and your family abundantly!! ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 thank you for sharing/showing what true love really is 🧠🖤
Massive flaw in social services to leave her somewhere she legally wasn't allowed to stay, what if something bad had happened while she was there who would take responsibility. Such a complicated situation. I agree with a few of the comments maybe you need to look into adopting alyaiah if possible
How can Aaliyah Mum have soo many kids & don’t be looking after them!!!She sounds like a child having children SMFH!!! Aaliyah mum sounds so f’in irresponsible!!! There’s real women out there that genuinely want kids & can’t have them!!! 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I agree, life is so unfair there’s women that will do anything just for one and Aliyah’s mum gets to have more than one and probably will have more as well
The toilet almost emptied my stomach yo 😭😭😢😢😢 nooooooooo no man. I’m angry like this happened with my own child. WTF!!??????? She shouldn’t be allowed to keep ANY of her kids she clearly needs some mental health services bad. Who could live like that and with young girls around!?????
Your mother and brother are also responsible and should have some sort of accountability. It's not only Gina’s fault. You bother intentionally packed items and took the baby there. Terrible situation. Glad you have her back
That sounds crazy but honestly, for you and aaliyahs safety cause you know she stalks you on social media, i recommend not posting when you travel or go anywhere until you get back. I dont know how feasible that is for you, it just seems like she was able to take advantage of you being in jamaica cause she watches you.
May I just say it also makes me angry that you have to keep revisiting the whole story to EVERY DAMN OFFICER AND SOCIAL WORKER LIKE???? ARE THERE NOT RECORDS?!? Why are these wallads just rocking up with NO PRIOR KNOWLEDGE?💀
There is no way they did a well fare check.them pics 😮😮😮😮 blessings too u daina for been such a blessing for AALIYAH I pray god keeps blessing u both always 🤲🏾🤲🏾
When she said pub … my first thought Daina don’t look like someone that goes to pub..😂😂 . … anyway wishing you strength and lots of love girl 🤎🤎 proud of you 👍🏾
Honestly your mom is also not the person to put on papers cause this all happened under her supervision so she obviously did not pay enough atention she led the girl be with her son and now it all went wrong. So maybe dont leave the girl to anyone of your family again.
