I've learned just from being on the job I got that women HATE being ignored or feeling like they are. It's one of the funniest things ever. No matter what her position is and when you do the "what ya say?" thing.
My girlfriend tried to argue with me, I wasn't having it I tried to end it after every point she made saying I understood and would adjust accordingly. She got so frustrated, she cried. She then admitted she just wanted a reaction to show that "I loved her still." Not me helping her with rent, feeding her, buying clothes, etc. Arguing is what shows love? I was toxic at first because I constantly reminded her we lacked compatibility and if she didn't want to date me she could move on, she's beautiful and could do much better than me. That is always a problem with them, not you. Just work on yourself and if you can slowly help them if you're going to put yourself in a toxic scenario, try.
