Me crying at the corner because my father expired before I get into teenage. I am just listening this topic just to imagine how I would feel if he was still with me.💔
Brother i am sorry for your loss brother just dont give up if no one is with you came back to this comment and tell me i am with you brother never forget i am with you and i am proud i know the feeling of dont having dad ❤😇😞😊
like being a daughter and still having that ego obv inherited from my father and having arguments daily for some stupid reasons i dont know about others but for me i can not just have any talk with him i am honestly so separated from him. why am i relating with the male ego ??
I'm sorry for myself in this case, bcause my father is "ACTUALLY MEIN TOXIC", why? I won't brief but, really he is Mnaipulative, dominating and Toxic. And I'm studying just so that i can escape with my mom from this much torture. The only blessing I'm reciving is that he let me study atleast.
Going through same 😖😞 literally same thing My father today said to my mother , to teach me cooking and there's no future of mine in studying just because I argued with him when he told me to do something but I had to study 😭 I am really feeling as if I am in hell I want to escape this home this has become a prison. Even my mom is not supporting 😶 This ego of him will surely destroy me, he don't even want i study. I have seen many parents treating their topper child in much respectful way and I am also a nerd who really want to study so hard to crack JEE, boards and prove myself , I can work hard I want to but MINE PARENTS ARE REALLY TOXIC, they don't want me to study I am in 10th, I want to crack JEE but I know they won't let me study peacefully. I will lost my dreams due to them and they behave as if they are the best parents but I am the one character less out there who doesn't deserve to be happy or they mean I am not happy by my choice . I have nothing to do I can just see my future ruining and still I will have to smile because nobody really feels or understands . Everyone thinks parents are always right always in our benefit but NO only someone going through this can understand I am sorry for wasting your time, just I don't have anyone , friends or any close to me to share this , just crying and writing whatever goes in my mind. This situation cannot be overcome because parents can say child is bad but child cannot say parents are bad , any child cannot do anything only bear this . I wish you bright future and pray to god that your father soon get you ❤️ My father never will, he is outcome of some sin by me in my previous life maybe😞
@@siyabansal3545 Common siya, we share same pain in diff prespective. The worst part is of this mental trauma. one may heal from physical pain, but it may take whole life to retrive from mental pain. Father's won't understand our pain, but we do understand our pain. Promise yourself that you'll grab every opportunity that makes you easier to escape and live free, not telling to run out (absolutely not) but by * being quite till you can fight * accept till you can reject * grind till you can binge your choice, life, rules Sucess is only when you got painfull memories to overcome from. OKAY.?
@@siyabansal3545Are u serious? You have written such a great para, this shows you are studying in English medium school and are really good in studies. There are more than thousands students want to crack jee but they are very poor and even their parents don't support them. But still they become successful. Just Never Give Up.These all sacrifices and Hard work will worth it. And You already one step closer to your dream if you said true above.
@siyabansal3545 hi sis/bro btw idk who you are but I can only give you one advice...... Believe in God he will not ruin your life your just overthinking ..... Don't think about your future and past just focus in your present Btw I'm also in 10th and sometimes I also get stressed about my future due to my parents but I believe everything will be fine at the end...... God have a better plan for you
My father is not too much toxic. He loves me. He allow me to study. After 10th he didn't forced me to take any stream. He always supported me. He allowed me to take any stream whatever i want to take. He send me out of house for studying in 11th and when i want to comeback from patna he never told anything and happily allowed me to come back. And after all he wasted too much money on me. But now i am not able to study but he sometime told me to study not too much but to study. Sometime he got angry when i want to go out like my brother. But now i understand that why he not allow me to go out like my brother because it's not safe outside.your father is not your enemy he want you to be successful in life and that's it. No other thought he have in his mind. So love your father. LOVE YOU PAPA❤
7:35 bro that's true,I am having alot of conflicts with my dad,I ofc never say he doesn't know anything but the thing is,there is a generational gaps that would forever exist,like even if I would have kids and their age ....I wouldn't understand them easily,my dad is always demotivating me
Father ho ya mother both are equal and inspire me everyday and teached me the important values and gives me advice in every situation Thank you so much bhaiya for this video . 😊
Bhaaiya everytime i tru to do good to parents , they only find mistakes and introduce me to its negative side 🥺 and i again get sad. 🙂 Sometimes this convert into toxicity.
It became soo common for me uk And for you aswell ig.. soo like, y dont u stop getting depressed about it and start ignoring it? Ofc if they're trying to bring out some better in you, u should apply their suggestions but if you really think their nature is toxic, then u need to ignore all tht and start thinking about something else And to cheer up myself, i keep a personal diary where i release all my stress and listen to music. You can try this too, maybe it'll help
I am a daughter, and i too have the same relationship with my father, i always think that he is the most "toxic" person in my life. He has overexpectations from me due to my studious nature, he just wants me to study 24/7, he never wants me to go out, either with my friends or with my own "mom". He doesnt even allow me to talk to my friends or go to my school trips. He wants me to fulfill his dream of cracking upsc, and doesn't even ask what i want to do in my life. He just wants to see me as a topper and wants me to get AIR
he's behaving like a dictator more than a father... you have raised his expectations... he's dreams are not yours to achieve... it's unfair to you...make him understand that..
Please make a video on narcissistic parents/ father who neglects our needs but always tends to understand themselves superior and right. I do think he's destroying my future and doesn't let me choose career i want. kindly pls make a video
Well Maine suna hai zyada tar jiske parents narcissistic hote hai unke children har chiz mein top karte hai, waise mai galat bhi ho sakta hun but maine suna hai
@@sumellikaxedits_ fir toh bohot mushkil hota hoga tumhe i wish ki tum jo chaahte ho wo tumhe mile kyun ki ab tum ismein kuch kar toh nhi sakte aur na hi koi aur all the best buddy
Broo 1 req plzz..! Bhaiya aap bss ek vdo ese kuch topic pr banao ki... Father daughter relationship which aren't good as before they were... very much complications to talk and very very awkwardness can be seen while just having some thoughtss... bhaiya ye sabb baate bhot khati hai aaj kal... ki yarr Pele kitne kam restrictions the aur abb har baat me bhot diff behaviour and awkwardness 😭😭😭
bhaiya jab khali baite hote hai ya pad rhe hote hai to duniya me kya chal rha hai vo sab yad ane lagta hai aur usse kaise thik krna hai vahi sab apne aap sochne lagta huu.....
Yess Pranay Bhaiya This video is very Strongest video for every teenagers 🔥 Bhaiya mai isse bilkul relate kar parhi hu mera bhi apne father ke sath yahi mindset ho gya lekin mai apne iss mindset ko jarur change karungi and aapne father ki baato ko samajungi... 😢❤ Thank you so so much for give the truth and the harsh reality of every teangers and his parents ✨🙏🏻🙏🏻 and You are always treat us like a young brother/sister to you 😊🙌🏻❤ Love you Big Brother 🤗❤
My father's supportive, but I feel he's not good at sympathizing. I was telling him how I don't feel good enough for him and mom sometimes and how life was seeming a bit pointless, I broke down in tears in front of him, and I couldn't really stop when he told me to. If mom hadn't taken me out of their room, I would've gotten beaten. 💀💀
I am 20 years old and I am currently in the 2nd year. When I asked my father for money, he refused and said that he did not have it and when would he become self-dependent. Actually I had a lot of problems. I earn money on my own and bear all my expenses myself I want to
You should be proud that you are self dependent now and after you will do something you can also take the responsibilities of your parents like they lifted your till 18
@@sonumalik.. Koi nhi bro ab tune decide kar hi liya hai ki tujhe kya karna hai toh all the best for your challenges abhi hum dono ko aur bhi duniya dekhni hai i wish you will succeed in your life and achieve what you want 👍👍
No!! Means I am good with my father, not that he will eat me my mother is also good, but the problem is that I can't talk freely something to my father or scares too sometimes
Bro 😢 i am interested in painting, arts and my dream is to become an actress but my parents are not ready to accept it I am getting fear to tell this all things which are blocked in my heart and mind😢😭😭
My sister and me were talking about what would happen if we got a little brother. Then I said I will teach him how to fight. And my sister told me that he won't give me to teach him to fight.
Whatever happened to you is bad but don't forget that whatever happens is for good, you can come to this place today only for tomorrow. If you didn't experience this when you were a kid, you probably wouldn't have learned so much today, so whatever happens is for the best 🙂
I can say that I am very lucky I am having a GOD gift that my mother and father both are teachers and when I think nobody can understand me i am struggling with studies and problems related to them even when i am not telling them they some how know about my problems, in knowledge my parents are way higher than me protecting me from bad things habits and worldly distractions and I think most of the people who have parents they have a wonderful GOD gift .
sir please make a video how to stand when you are going through family problem when your parents are fighting your grandmother and grandfather are not well
well some parents might be toxic, but to judge them like that one must know them well. and in your scenario u know your father better than anyone else. So, try to talk it out if it's not possible then make a friend or someone else your moral support. if you ever feel like you need to talk just reply to this comment and then we can talk.
@@user-Ak329 you know what my father is also the same Smartest is his own fantasy but I am the one victim of his wants and ego , he just wants I follow him blindly and I can see me regretting in future
@@siyabansal3545 try talking to someone else about it or writing about your problems. Bottling up your feelings might lead you into having severe mental health issues.
No bro he is most probably not toxic , it's just male ego . All boys have ego in them after hitting teen age most probably the age 14 and above. You will understand it after you are an adult.
bhaiya mujhe lagta tha ki aisa sirf mere sth ho rha hai....mujhe hi aise lag rha h...but...y sb k sth hota h aaj pta chala .....aur kafi acha lag rha h mujhe y Jan k....🙂🙂
everyday we fight on stupid topics nd the thing is our thought never matches but sometimes i think he is correct but sometimes i think he iss my wellwisher but really he know the pressure on a jee aspirant while being in regular school
I can't relate this.. my father is bestest and very supportive They are my biggest motivation (both my mother and father) I know kuchh logo ko sunne mei achha na lage but it is the truth
I always respect my parents and i never thought that I am superior than them , and i will never ever think that my father is my enemy ya mere gharwale dhushman hain ya etc.etc.. and it is true as well But... Koi sunta hu nahi hai bhai meri ghar me, shayad kadka hu isliye
exactly Bro Mere dath bhi aisa hi hua h ki college 3rd yr ke bad se mujhe realise hua ekdam se ki mere parents ne kitna kuch kiya hai mere liye nhi to mera kya hota 😮 2:34
Bhaiya last 1 min. To bilkul hi relate kra Diya Aaj hi meri friend school trip ke liye gyi h MANALI Or meri family ne nahi Jane Diya I miss that 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Bhot pray krne ke baad school se trip notice aaya tha phir bhi nhi Jane Diya Support me sirf papa the Or Puri family also bua against thi Sabke Mann ki ho gyi😭😔😖😣😩😫🤧
8:43 bruh bro my mother us not like that too... you don't know how much intoxicating words I hear as a middle child in my family... Some days before my mother said that she gets negative vibes when she looks at me... and ofc my father acts like he's the all knowing and most wise person on the planet that he isn't... like literally arguing with a professional about something that he has mastered in (eg arguing with a doctor about a cure of a disease which he thinks he's wrong) is totally absurd!! OK I get the point that you have the right to say anything to your child but atleast TRUST us a little? NO! all they need is societal acceptance bro.
not to mention the fact that they judge me based on my childhood that is like 5-6 years ago (me being a 17 year old). plus that now I am into self development from the last 1-2 years.
Thiss video is fantastic...it gives a a framing to teenagers mindd...✨😊i am waiting for more content on thus channel...#Besttt bhaiya...# Prannu bhaiyaa...❤❤🎉😊😊
9:06 is jagh pe aap glat hogee bhaii.....bachpan se 2 saal ka thb se mera baap mujhe or meri maa to daru pe k martaa araa hiii....or aaj bhi martaa hii...aab aaj me 17 saal ka hu....or kabhi mujhe ghar chord kar kahii door clg mila to me...ek pal bhi nhi chorugaa
Bhaiya.. mere papa mere sbse bade support system hain nd he is my best friend... I love him so much.. like the person who is the toppest priority of mine is my dad my baba💗🌷🧿
Why having friends is something bad My best friend died and brbad sa ho gya hu koi chiz agr kisi se share nahi ho pati to dimag khrab hone lgta he We motivated each other in studies ab nhi hota
