Bro I don't know whether u are reading it or not .one suggestion pls don't start without context ..you start so direct it looks like I am listening from middle
No one is against alimony and maintenance for housewife. people are against alimony and maintenance given to working women. Working women are earning money still getting money from husband and they have 50% right in their father's property and husband property also. Indian need gender neutral laws.
you should ask for gender neutral society ....The day , society becomes gender neutral, gender neutral laws will come automatically. Since the society is gender biased , wo gender biased laws exist. No father or son gives 50% share to the daughter of sister in property, that's a reality.
And working women also have to give dowry & dowry installments through out the life in the name of culture and customs of religion..... The day this gender biased society becomes gender neutral, gender neutral laws will automatically come.
The parents who don't even want a girl child , kill them in womb , do you think they will give 50% property to her ? Female foeticide was extreme in entire India . Parents just want sons & daughter in laws ......not daughters. The society is not gender neutral. Husband's father & husband himself have snatched the share of his sisters in property, what right they have to question one time maintenance....it is far less of the money to the money that husband & his father did snatch for their sisters
As a woman, I don’t agree where she talks about equality of laws for man and woman. Women have been misusing laws and we have to accept it now Are woman suffering?? YES Are we denying the fact that they have been suffering? NO But you cannot ignore that men are suffering as well. Why is there a harm to accept it? The kind of passion and soft aggression with which speaks about woman suffering and almost denying suffering of a man is clearly visible.
Women suffering means a lot to society! But men suffering is not even considered suffering. These days people are normalizing men bashing and suffering. It's a crime to be a man !
@@JamisonWolf magar apna dhanda chalne k liye sab theek hai bol rahi hai 34:00 was like fasle aligation hi to lagaya hai zyada se zayada kya hoga thodi beizzati hongi rishte dar thoo thoo krege aur ladki ko kya mila isse kuch nhi bas thoda sa tumhe mahine 6 mahine idhar udhar bhagaya jo wo chahte the hogaya aur badi baat mar to nhi gai na bhale zindagi bhar ka tumhe trauma hua ab koi tum ko apne beeti se shaadi nahi krne denga but ladki ko kuch nahi milana ye sabse jyada matter krta hai. Tumhe to kuch nahi hua na ha mahine 6 mahine Jail me rahe ho but mare to nhi magar akhir me ladki ko kyaa milaaaa..😂😂😂😅😅
@@ankit_67-mc2uq kio bhai kyaa dushmani hai aurat se.mujhe to pasand hai mai sirf isss aurat ki baat kr rha tha mujhe kisi bhi aurat se kio personal problem nhi hai agar isski jagah koi ladka bhi hota jo hypocrisy/dogla baate kr raha hota usse bhi mai aise hi point out krta.
Well, because she's a divorce lawyer and she has settled a divorce for 250 crores for a female celebrity. Fact of the matter is she doesn't even want to listen the men's side then why she would agree the laws are biased. The laws are skewed af, period.
If women are getting harass there are laws to protect women. Men are getting harass there are no laws to protect men and that's the problem is. That's why we need gender equal laws
12:02 all my female friends who live with in laws say this. They are expected to work full time & do unequal contribution in house work, child care and elder care.
All women who work have 3-4 household helps. so tell your female friends instead of cribbing become efficient. They are as inefficient at office as they are at home. Also their jobs are useless as they do not contribute a single penny in household expenses
"All the laws are predisposed towards men", didn't even care to explain which law, its pretty sad how she is justifying law favouring women by some fantasizes version of law which favours men.. Man, This lady is filled with biasness, waste of time.
@@montusinghsodhi No Bro, When you see her tone, she is not only stating. She is undermining the plight of Men and spreading fake scenario as a weight to balance the laws favouring Women..
@@montusinghsodhi bhai fir tu isi ki maan le or apne MA Baap ko Pados mein baitha de …shadi k baad.. yr tum kaise aisi statements ka sath de sakte ho? Maa Baap se jyada bada kisi or ko kaise kr skte ho? Ye awrat to badla utarwa rahi hai jaise ki ladki ghar chhod k aayi h toh tu b chhod ..gr8 Bhai apni biwi respect karo .. wo b kisi ki beti h.. jaha wo sahi h uska b sath do.. but this is vulnerable and disrespectful statement ki MAA BAAP ko pados mein rakho , or ye chutiya agree kar raha h prakhar..
bhai she is totally on side of females....every time you ask about male suffering she mentions female female female female female female......abe question hi nahi ghus rha uske dimaag me.....atleast bring someone who talks about both or ateast ground reality .....not taking side of any one gender
The gay story discussed here, was totally my story. I was with a guy, we were best friends/ lovers but he hated the idea of physical intimacy. Post marriage I found out he had other preferences. I welled up listening to this. Because nobody understands what I went through
What a ignorant discussion,80% Indian are middle or lower middle class.Propsosing dusara Ghar lelo, don't live with your parents, live nearby, Is so ignorant.. Instead of teaching generation about ethics, morals and patience - Do not promot individuality.
She is speaking for people who can. And rent par bhi le sakte ho. Kabhi kabhi bahu bete ko kitchen mein sona padhta hai. Ek toh plan karo ki next 5 years mein itna toh kamao dono milakar ki rent afford karo. And for those 80-90% in their locality, where I stay, rent is 15k a month, jyada hai, but impossible nahi agar dono decent kaam kare. Honestly efforts kar rahe ho woh toh dikhna cahiye na. Ya honeymoon bhi yo mein karoge?..
How creating a functional satisfied family is individuality, because some parents cannot handle separation? I understand if they need help, but perfectly office going parents need to keep tab on your night activities, imagine how creepy that is…
Bro do a podcast with @DeepikaNarayanBhardwaj her people can get a reality check about men's status nowadays in India, This Divorce Lawyer is also manipulating facts and same Women biased like our laws.
I love how this guy acknowledged how serious he is about his relationship. Dating with the intention to marry is a sign of a true man so Kudos to that!
I am a guy. Not at all offended by anything she said. I am not being politically correct here at all. Facts are facts. My reality is different from most average guys. Ab koi reply karega, jalan ke saath, that says more about you, than about me. Just as I thought. NPCs LMAOOOOOO.
34:00 was like fasle aligation hi to lagaya hai zyada se zayada kya hoga thodi beizzati hongi rishte dar thoo thoo krege aur ladki ko kya mila isse kuch nhi bas thoda sa tumhe mahine 6 mahine idhar udhar bhagaya jo wo chahte the hogaya aur badi baat mar to nhi gai na bhale zindagi bhar ka tumhe trauma hua ab koi tum ko apne beeti se shaadi nahi krne denga but ladki ko kuch nahi milana ye sabse jyada matter krta hai. Tumhe to kuch nahi hua na ha mahine 6 mahine Jail me rahe ho but mare to nhi magar akhir me ladki ko kyaa milaaaa..😂😂😂😅😅
lost is when she said " I don't agree that laws are against men " ...there is no man's perspective....but I understand, she has female clients. Explains a lot. I mean she shpuld talk data......cmon....
She has female clients because alimony is a big illegal business today supported by law and government. I just hope she gets back for every single family she has destroyed in her life time.
I don't understand one thing. Whenever such issues come up, why are only males or men blamed for everything. I mean, clapping cannot be done with a single hand similarly devorse can not be just the fault of the husbands. Now I am not denying that such situations do not occur, but we must also understand that somewhere, the laws are also biased towards the women. I heard one person saying, that if 5% of the cases of marrital rape or devorse are based on false aligations on men, then at least 60-70 per cent are true so he implied that we should focus on those 60-70 per cent? Why the hell should we do that? Everything is not black and white. I feel she is a little biased, for instance, she says that the mother in law expects the women to manage both household and their jobs, so why cannot men manage the housework? I mean couldn't she have given the option of a compromise like some days of the week one will cook and the other days the other one will cook.
True example of Women Empowerment. She must have worked very hard for several years and hence at the top today which would not have been possible if she would not have got divorced. Cheers to her enthusiasm and courage.
Anyone saying law are unbiased is either blind or biased. It’s as simple as that. I do agree that larger section of societal practices are favouring men whereas laws are favouring women. She’s very biased and never interesting to hear those with biased mindset
Very true. Initial years after marriage are very important to blossom. Some inlaws are very demanding and dramatic, they create misunderstanding between the couple. This crack in couple's relations remains forever.
Shw doesn't understand the DHARMIC concept of marriage,shw doesn't understand d religious aspect of marriage n all of sudden she brought her women's equality chant.......bus madam pata chal gaya k aap divorce lawyer hooo
@@sup9023 no one fully understand dharma but people know where is it leading which is sustainable development,live n let live with respect n respect toward entire universe LIVING N NON LIVING ,this madam is speaking like a good lawyer I DON'T HAVE ISSUES WITH IT ,she IN A WAY claimed few thing regarding marriages n she quoted MANUSMRITI ,there i exactly knew she is no where close to being A INFORMED PERSON when it comes to DHARMIC OR SANATAN concept of VIVAH OR MARRIAGES ,our ultimate goal is not just HAPPINESS....she said ultimately our goal is to be happy.......we don't suffer from ONE LIFE ONE BOOK ONE GOD....n thus we must be gappy coz it is not coming back....SRY we believe in KARMA N TIME CYCLES
You can put aside happiness even because sadness happiness is part of life but dont put aside intimacy, its really important to be intimate with your partner
Why pre-nup is not a thing in India? Clearly urban Indians have their negotiables/ non-negotiables chalked out before marriage. Now that they have already decriminalized extra marital affairs, the next step should be it. Also, being a girl I support not giving alimony to a working divorced spouse if she is working and very much able to manage her own expenses. If they have a child or the girl was forced to leave her job after marriage then that's a seperate issue.
Because in India we have stupid democracy where value of vote of a non contributing parasite, a criminal is same as honest, hard working, tax paying individual.
Only problem with Prakhar podcasts is that he speaks toooo much. Even before the guest completes his/ her statement, he bombards with another question. I so much wish that he allows the audience feel the emotion of the guests
@@sup9023 bhai tere jaisa gyani nahi hu. Na tere jaise bade bade shabd fek ke Marta hu..... Ye topic ke baare me koi sach kabhi nahi bol sakta. Bas isliye kaha tha maine
@@JamisonWolf 2 min me samjh lene wale ka dimag bada ya pura video dekh ke bhi tere jaise kuchh na samjhne wale ka dimag bada. Ab soch aaram se baith ke ye baat
34:00 was like fasle aligation hi to lagaya hai zyada se zayada kya hoga thodi beizzati hongi rishte dar thoo thoo krege aur ladki ko kya mila isse kuch nhi bas thoda sa tumhe mahine 6 mahine idhar udhar bhagaya jo wo chahte the hogaya aur badi baat mar to nhi gai na bhale zindagi bhar ka tumhe trauma hua ab koi tum ko apne beeti se shaadi nahi krne denga but ladki ko kuch nahi milana ye sabse jyada matter krta hai. Tumhe to kuch nahi hua na ha mahine 6 mahine Jail me rahe ho but mare to nhi magar akhir me ladki ko kyaa milaaaa..😂😂😂😅😅
Prakhar said negative comments ka bhi kuch sentiment hota hai I will come directly to the sentiment The lady with all due respect should not be do a podcast she might be very good lawyer but no knowledge of ground reality, incredibly biased also I didn't feel I might get something out of their conversation even when prakhar got her to admit that the laws are making men suffer her answer was both suffer I mean c'mon
Wow men like u really ignore all the problems of other gender nd only focus on whats men problems ...she is absolutely on point talking about what happens and you mister should keep your mouth shut when u urself dont know anything about the reality ... narcissistic and partriarchal mentality people just want women to die for them
This woman is so biased. I stopped listening after 30-40 minutes coz I can’t take any more of her bullshit. Being a woman I am saying this. Though, good job Prakhar.
If u act like a feminist before marriage, you are more likely to end up in divorce because after marriage you get to know that nothing is about feminism. Feminism is a mask to hide inefficiency and parasitism
Vandana ma'am, your explanation and pointers about weaponising law are so accurate. You are really a genius and a great human being❤. My pranaams to you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
He is talking to a woman who was abused and divorced and had 750rs. In her wealth. Who then studied law to become a lawyer. While his only concern is fear psychosis, and policy issues that too only at time of divorce when men may be asked to pay money. He has no life threat, parent isolation issues, physical ans sxual abuse all through his marriage. Get some real issues for men. Youll be surprised but there are many men and boys waiting for their voice to be heard who are abused in life. Immature, hypocrite
Hi bhaiya... I'm 21 and I need your help with one thing... I feel like you're a upgrade version of me ofc you're better then me in psychology... I love how you gets in deep and point out the exact problem... I give advice to others about their life but I don't follow them myself... I want to know... How to overcome the mistakes from the past.... How to overcome the regrets and how to overcome the people to whom I didn't said goodbye too cause I regret not saying that now..... please help me with this...
At 53:10 i don't agree with her at all, if you don't have money to afford a child to send him/her to best schools and universities of the world you shouldn't have them at all. She's just putting her yardstick everywhere.
Schools, colleges, universities and institutes will keep charging a hefty amount every now and then that doesn't mean we should not have children because we can't afford such money sucking institutes. This is the exact trap common people with sheep heard mentality falls into. But yes, at least we will have a low population because in coming years no one could afford even the basic necessities without spending gazillions anyway.
Best to rehne do basic lifestyle bhi nahi mil rahi hai india mai zyadatar kids ko. Upar se toxic parents k roz k jagde. Arpita khan (salman khan's sister) Dustbin me se mili thi salim khan aur unki second wife helan ne adopt kiya. Ese hazaro bachhe hai. Human trafficking mai ladkiya fas jaati hai. Kyuki parents peda karte jaate hai. Aur bachhe misuse hote jaate hai.
Kya boring podcast chal raha hai prakhar bhai 3-4 episode se. Aaap khod ke Heera mat nikalo kyuki aap rogan nhi bane abhi. Aap upar upar ka sona Chatto famous credible personalities ko bulakar. I am fan thus giving my 1 paisa wala advice. Kyukinmaja nhi aa raha hai.
Prakhar bro you are my fav youtuber now a days Really love you personality and communication skills and your voice Bro earlier i used to think during SM controversy time ye kitna kamina admi but after watching from your side my thoughts changed. Looking forward for more of your podcasts . I guess you are making the best podcasts at this time not talking about the guest, talks or topics etc its about how podcasts should be unfiltered clear and at the same time chill and both the host and guests are having equal contributions For people reading this - Dont take me wrong here Raj and Ranveer are good but their podcasts become lika a interview at some point .
Marriage is an extremely conservative concept....it doesn't really matter whether you accept or not. If you are not traditionalist it really becomes difficult to enjoy the life post marriage. Its damn hilarious how having emotional baggage is being normalised no matter whether it is about ex or your family trauma. Get your shit together guys and girls. Live an ethical life,think about how your decisions would shape out in future and protect yourself. Definitely Marriage is not about living in a lala lands. Characterless and unethical people did existed in earlier times also.Most of the cases these are the people who have these kind of mess in their lives. Dont get motivated by these kinds of talks to lead an bleak and unethical paths.We exist because majority of our ancestors made lots of sacrifices and led an ethical lives. Characterless/narcissistic people who only think about their own needs live an extremely gloomy and grim lives ,there family and bloodline ends with them,as it should because selfish people are not meant to be the part of society. We are social animals and its our duty to live in an sustainable manner helping each other out
India divorces bardaasht nahi kar sakta kyuki Vo toxic parents toxic childhood bad marriages ye sab bardaasht karne k liye ready hai😂. Girl child abortions Wife ka career gaya tel lene Wife k parents k sath nahi husband k parents k sath rehna hai couple ko. Alag se nahi reh sakte. Dono k parents bachho ki shadi hote hi retired aur tired ho jate hai😂. Job karte hue wife sab ka khana banaye bachhe sambhale aur husband tv dekhe. 😂 Ek ladka 1 month kitchen mai apni mummy k sath kaam me help kare phir bole ki ha mai lifetime ye kar sakta hu😂. My mother is best esa bolo. Washing machine mai kapde daalo sab mummy k sath co operate kar k dikhao. Apni sagi ma se phir tumhe pata chalega😂asli rup
Really?? You got brainwashed by feminists.. Tumhe lgta hai ghar ghar mein rehke cook, clean, Washing clothes is harder then go out and work.. ?? Do you know how hard it to go out everyday can earn money.. ?? It's a privilege which woman have That they can stay at home... And agar job pasand nhi aa rhi ya nhi mun mat jao.. Dusri dhoondhlo, nhi mood toh mat kro.. Men don't have that option.. If he is sick, tired, there is hot, cold, rain outside he have go out everyday and work.. Wake up every day at 7 am them get ready by 8 .. Reach office at 9am Or ar work.. Then just got 1 hr lunch break at 2pm then after 9-5 reach home by 6 take some rest.. Prepare for dinner and if have kids spend some time with them, with family then sleep.. Next day repeat the cycle.. And you have to follow it every day.. Got rest on Sunday where you mostly sleep then if you wanna go travel take permission from boss, get stress at work, deal with all types of customer, tolerate their bad behavior, tolerate co-worker, tolerance if boss scold.. Worry about work, worry about money.. It's doesn't seem to me happy lifestyle..it's very sad actually.. And women have option to not live this lifestyle.. Most of women doesn't like to work.. It doesn't make them happy.. What makes women happy spend time at home with family, kids people they love.. So i don't see this obsession with work and career women say.. Feminists lie to them
Talking about toxic parents toxic mother in law.. Kya tumhari mummy toxic hai ?? Girl child abortion - first of girl or boy abortion is murder.. You are killing a child.. Jo log bolte hai unprotected sex kr liya and unexpected pregnancy hogyi.. Shadi se pehle hogyi toh abortion krlo.. It's wrong you are killing a child.. It's murder . So girl abortion ka koi point nhi hai. In modern day 2024 No one doing it.. Normal man, and normal middle class, educated good family.. Vo yea sab nhi krte girl child abortion, demand dowry, doing domestic violence. Mother in law treat wife bad.. Yea sab old baatein hai and bahut backward area, village mein hota hoga abhi.. 90% normal log jo hai.. Normal family. Normal husband don't do this.. Tumhare he city ya town mein kitne log dowry maang rhe hai , domestic violence kr rhe hai, girl abortion kr rhe hai.. Mother in law bahu ko tang kr rhi hai.. Parents toh bechare aajkal bcho ko kuch bolte nhi.. And bahu ko specially.. Husband k parents k sath isliye rehte hai because men and women are different.. Traditional gender role matters.. Men is suppose to be the leader.. And you are his responsibility now.. Aur tum sirf husband k parents k sath nhi rehti tumhe husband ka house, uske parents ancestors ka house, property mein right.. Uski wealth, uski family uske parents kisi family ki wealth.. Vo sab bhi milta hai.. Husband k parents ki sabhi cheez pr right bhi milta hai In return husband ka wife k parents ki property, unke house, unki money k uper koi right nhi milta.. jab king ladki se jo beggar hai usse marry krta hai she become queen of his kingdom.. Got all the powers Ulta if queen marry beggar man.. He still remain beggar and he didn't get any power of queen kingdom.. So tum sirf husband k parents ko dekh rhi ho unke sath rehna baki cheeze jo mil rhi hai vo nhi dekh rhi.. And what's wrong living with husband parents.. If you have problem with his parents it clearly mean you didn't accept them as your parents and not family orientated
30:56 , "If you look at larger bandwidth of laws ...I dont wnat to quote sections and start confusing ... But most laws are pre disposed against women" Pls mam quote the sections we will not get confused , unless there arent any
In 90s they say don't live with your uncle aunty, now they are saying don't live with your in laws, in future they will say don't live with your husband. So everyone will be lonely and in depression and sad. They are trying to destroy family system.
She just brushed off everything these lawyers will put men through. The mutual concent is purely about money doesnt matter what you did dueing the marriage, which itself a sham!
This woman is such a bs and bias! She don't wanna even listen to the other side. Nobody is saying there's no or less atrocities on women but there is a lot of atrocities on men socially and domestically as well. Atleast women have most the empathy & sympathy but there is so less support for men rights because its always men the prime culprits.
I'm in such abusive marriage but don't have courage... To walk out.. i have 18 years old son n 12 years old daughter.. he ised to beat hit me .. now I'm totally quite introvert kind ..manyatime clueless ..what to say ... Mind had become numb...hehas many mistresses also Now .. I'm completely quite whatever he says ..bcos of adverse effect on my kids The hight of my son is only 5.3 ..he has become fat although he exercises He feels n acts like dumb ..same.as me .. thats impact of living with wrong person.. Just to save my 2nd child from teuma i just zipped up my lips .. I know i am doing wrong still don't feel thay power to walk out .. I don't hqve parents or any other support.. .. If a man or his family is red flag .. don't marry .. ...
Sorry to hear that. But I believe if you try to become financially independent I think the confidence will automatically grows. Start from small but try to start something from home be it an youtube cooking channel, may be teach sewing, etc. You will find many options if you search online about passive income I know it's not easy but all I am saying is please try. There is no way someone should live like you are living, you deserve better. Please try, don't lose faith. I hope you come out of this some day
Hi prakhar, Bring Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj mam. She will change your perspective! We know you made video for promotion and harassment for men. And I think you need therapy brother! The way you are reacting I can say you are in a bad relationship. Regards
There is nothing wrong in that... His friends are not coming inside your room.. It's good to travel with bunch of people around rather then alone all day.. As you have more person to talk, feel comfortable, safe, You have 24 hrs a day it's not like husband friends bothering you all day.. And plus wherever you go on honeymoon there will always be other random couple, people around.. So you can never be alone... There always gonna be people around
@@akhilmahajan9759 I don't want to start an argument. But honey moon where people are supposed to spend quality time. Be romantic. He chose to roam with his friends. The only time I got alone with my husband was at the hotel. room. Random people are not going to have breakfast, lunch n dinner with you. N sit with you . Talk to you all day.
@@veena0991 I disagree.. Maybe he is shy and don't know.. You have plenty of time when you hang out even if friends are around.. I think you watch too much movies, drama and your expectation are different But real world is different then fantasy.. You still spend quality time together.. Even around friends.. And at night you have plenty of alone quality time.. And still if you feel like you wanna spend time alone with your husband.. You can plan some solo trip again.. Communication is key in relationship.. Men and women are different.. And they have different personality, think different,.. So maybe your husband think it was right decision to do.. And you may don't like it you should talk to him.. And communicate with each other. According to me your husband is pretty cute and innocent and nice guy that he took his friends with honeymoon.. He may doesn't have experience with woman and he may feel awkward so.. I think it's red flag atleast you know now your husband was not playboy in past 🤣 and he is innocent
@@akhilmahajan9759 my husband had 8 ex GFS n live in relationship. So definitely he was not awkward around women. I paid 50 percent in my honeymoon . N then we planned another trip n he again went with his friends. I told him I want to go alone but he created a scene. Now I have left him to spend time with his friends.
@@johnyyyespapaa a women who is not family orientated in not worth to marry.. Simple.. And all laws are definitely against men.. She is fully biased and wrong.. Because she herself is divorced and say same thing about her husband.. That he harass me, did domestic violence.. Typical feminists
34:00 was like fasle aligation hi to lagaya hai zyada se zayada kya hoga thodi beizzati hongi rishte dar thoo thoo krege aur ladki ko kya mila isse kuch nhi bas thoda sa tumhe mahine 6 mahine idhar udhar bhagaya jo wo chahte the hogaya aur badi baat mar to nhi gai na bhale zindagi bhar ka tumhe trauma hua ab koi tum ko apne beeti se shaadi nahi krne denga but ladki ko kuch nahi milana ye sabse jyada matter krta hai. Tumhe to kuch nahi hua na ha mahine 6 mahine Jail me rahe ho but mare to nhi magar akhir me ladki ko kyaa milaaaa..😂😂😂😅😅
@@JamisonWolfyeh caste aur women discrimination mein ek hi counter dete ho tum log . Hazaron saalon sei kiya isliye ab hume jhelna padega 😂 . Koi sense wali bhi bol lo
@@JamisonWolf So, suffers karti hain to awareness failao unke liye, there are laws for their plight they only need awareness about them but there isn't even law for mens plight..
If she working is advertisement then why she want to marry working guy. Marry a jobless. He will take care of house and women will earn money. Someone have to take care of household chores.
