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Justin Paperny discusses dating after a federal prison term.
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Justin Paperny
Dating After Federal Prison
To be or not be’ is the opening line in Shakespeare's Hamlet. We are not talking of Hamlet today, though I will steal from that and say to tell or not tell, as it related to dating after federal prison. I am going to share my experience and some of the experiences of my clients. So, let’s get started.
Dating After Federal Prison
It’s Justin Paperny at White Collar Advice and today we’re going to talk about dating after prison. Now, I've been told by a number of really great clients my experience was easier, because I went to federal prison and I did not have children. And there's a lot of truth in that. I was 33 when I went to prison. I was single. So there is some truth to that. Incarceration is harder on your family and your loved ones and even though you're the one serving time it is harder on those that love and support you, namely your wife, your children, your husband.
Dating After Federal Prison
So, I get that, but on the flip side, while many of us go to prison divorced or single, or not married, we come home and we want to rebuild our life. We want to get this experience behind us and I believe a huge part of that, next phase of succeeding post-prison including relationships, well really is, you know go back to how well you did before you went to prison, and certainly what you did in prison, because when it comes up you want to be able to speak about it proudly and articulate- how hard you worked while away and how the experience didn't beat you down. And rather than run to clichés like, okay, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, it would be a value I think to be able to articulate a very coherent realistic way what the experience did to you, what you’ve learned from it and how are you becoming better. And, I worked hard in prison to prepare for that when I came home, knowing that at 33 I want to date and rebuild my life.
Dating After Federal Prison
Many, many months, like a year or so ago I did an interview with Esquire magazine. I frankly totally forgot that I done it and someone was released from prison and they call me. And they’re like, hey bud, I read about your quotes in Esquire magazine. I said tell me about it. He said, you are talking about dating. Then he actually sent me the magazine. Now, it is in this Esquire magazine, with Rock on the cover, talking about dating after prison. So, we are talking. He is like you know, I have a successful business, I have money, I am divorced. I was never really that happy about going to prison; not like anyone’s happy to go to prison. He didn’t think he was guilty and he take a plea, simply because he thought he’d get his ass into too much trouble.
Dating After Federal Prison
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Dating After Federal Prison
18 сен 2024
