Dating in 2023 😘 The Do's & Don'ts - Sergio Talks Podcast #3 

One of my friends posted a clip of your podcast on her ig story and after seeing the full episodes, I am officially hooked! This is great casual conversation that really reflects how friends talk about these types of subjects. I love the bond you guys have. It reminds me of how I talk with my friends

You guys are awesome, Sergio when you say all the things you do when you pick a girl up, like actions do speak louder the words and it is beautiful ❤ gentlemen ❤

Love this podcast ❤ As a woman a really appreciate the change of perspective coming from you guys 🤔 I feel like society focuses more on what a girl expects and what man got to do…no so much on the fact that men also have some expectations :) anyway, great work!

Fair, thought out, calm…I enjoy hearing you guys. It brings me back to my 20s and wishing I knew more self aware men back then when I was trying to carefully date. Good work guys 🎉

Continuez les gars c'est super intéressant d'avoir des points de vue masculin sur ce genre de sujet. En plus, vous êtes marrant !

Love the vibe. You guys are wild. Touched on a lot of good points. A lot of experiences I can relate to. Leave Carl alone, he’s just figuring it out😂.

I like the vibes u gave guys 👌🏽 also it's nice to hear the piv of a man especially these days when some things are not done anymore..

I love the “whoever asks to go on a date pays” I always offer to pay or at least pay the tip when I go out. I also feel very uncomfortable watching the guy pay because I’ve always had to pay for everything myself. Is there another mind set I could have? What can I do to feel less uncomfortable when others pay for me? I’m sooo stealing the “ice cream” first date SO SMART!

I can't believe i finally found you i always saw your video on TikTok love from Rwanda 🇷🇼

C'est tellement intéressant avoir les points de vue de gars sur ces sujets. Continuez, j'adore vous écouter discuter!

Cant really relate to having a lot of experiences dating. But nonetheless this episode was so much fun, so many new things I learned again. Damn ,Sergio talks everyone 👏

17:46 these do's and don'ts are great. Also the no talk about exes, you're right it's not therapy. I think that if you're bringing your ex up it sends intentions that you're not ready. You can mention that on the next dates (if there is another date). I also think talking about the number of people you've slept with shouldn't be mentioned on the first date either.

I think this episode is really important for girls/women and the boys out there. (So they can become a man ). But in general i learned allot ☺️

amazing podcast and i had enjoyed it made me laugh ❤😍

Well, again, I don’t go on the first day for food - just a walk and a drink a snack afterwards. Cause I don’t like thinking about the bills and also in the walk it waaay easier and not that awkward to talk when you are not face to face and sit

Bro. Your videos r so funny and so true

A well put-together woman in a relationship shows the world that her man takes care of her. This bolsters a woman's attraction to a taken man because she wants that for herself. To "take" him would mean that on some level, she is better than the woman who caught him in the first place. It is the trade-up idea that she can be better than 'her'

Kharl is so sweeeeet😫

“it takes a special type of woman to make her man feel like that..” you’re missing the other part of the equation. a woman will treat her man like that when she feels safe with him EMOTIONALLY/mentally (& physically).. aka having the difficult conversations, no emotional neglect etc..

2:22 okay, what I have noticed in my dating apps experience is when I ask questions and I am pretty chatty so even from dull hey how are you have smth to tell and give clues what to ask for men in a while just lose all the fucking interest in convo. I have like archives of texts which I really can’t understand why the guys ended or ghosted. Like I wasn’t pushing, I was asking questions but not interrogated, wasn’t too chatty and gave the chance to ask me at least the same questions in response and nope, it’s just doesn’t work out. And I have no idea wth Ugh dating now is sooooo difficult

5:33 when I know I'm not paying, I never overload the bill. I could never. I know the value of money and I want for us both to have a great time. Even if he says order wtv you want. I'm like yeah I'm still not going to order out of the ordinary expensive items on the menu. That's just me.

Im from nz ,i think matt would be a good husband. Nz men can be lazy, im moving back to Melbourne so i can get good dates. To many people build there relationship off socials its weird. Im hot ive been told im a 10 but dont build things around socials its weird

Which love island were they on?

How about if the girl pays? I've had guy friends tell me they feel emasculated when girl pays. I prefer to pay, especially on the first date, because i know guys end up having to always pay

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I also think woman aloud to be woman is hot. Men shouldnt pay for everything but 1st date is on man. Im a giver but man should make effort or whats the point. Im also super respectful so will thank man for the effort.

11:25 lack of gratitude for the date and assuming he's paying, those are the worst icks. I always still offer to pay half even if it's the first date. How do you not say thank you?? I'm saying thank you the second the receipt comes. Smh ppl.

I’m here

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It be cool to be asked as a guest as a womans point of view. Talk about narcissism and just general.

Or exes topic I just don’t ask Ever I follow the rule: if you are not sure what is gonna be the answer, or not sure if you want to know that - just don’t ask and that’s it

Do these girls have no manners at all, like you are picking the wrong girls. Bill should always be put in the middle of the table, girl should always offer.

Being on ur phone on a date? That’s so f rude! And you said “she’s not taking pic of you, only the food” that would be weird if I take a pic of the guy on the first date innit?)

Under 600 views in 2 Days 🤣🤣🤣🤣

If you have many dates per month. Like 10 dates per month. You cant spend 200$ for each of them. You would be a total fool for spending 2000$ for a maybe second date with unknown women Also nowadays women ghosting/friendzoning/playing games with descent guys is way too common for you to blindly trust a women on first date My advice is to only do starbucks coffee date. Ice cream dates. Dessert or drinks type of dates. Anything that cost less then 20$ Also if the vibe is off or i know there wont be second date. I will split the bill 😂 You are not her dad. And she isnt your wife or girlfriend to spend money for her Guys wife up women way too quick in their head. While women tend to reject guys for the smallest reason or out of playing games So carefull with your hard earned money, most of those girls wouldnt even text you back and you out there paying her expensive sushis and shit 😂