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Being from the A, there’s been a shift of some kind over the past decade. Dating wise, don’t think the legit dudes aren’t catching hell either . Overall, it’s bad for any person who means well.
I was there for my Birthday last December and I loved it. You're right, if your looking for entertainment Atlanta is it. I won't live there just visit. I'm staying my butt right here in Florida.
@@fancydani Men are visual and sexual so that's nothing new. Let's be real, a lot of women don't have 2 nickels to rub together, bad credit, and nothing truly to offer a valuable man other than problems. A lot of women don't even respect a black man nor feel he is good enough unless he holds a certain financial status.
I wish I could like this a million times. The flexing here is at an all time high. I'm leaving as soon as this lease is over. I feel like if I stay here I'll never get married and have any children. It's like a big high school everybody messing with everybody smh. I'm staying single until I live here. #ProvertyAtItsFinest
LaTonya Moore yasssss thanks for watching ! It’s a few success stories dating/ starting a family in atl ... but for the majority- NOPE that’s a party city period
I've only been living here in Georgia since Nov 2017 jobs are easy to get if you have a trade (for guys from my POV) it's alright cool much slower than New York City. But now that I'm in my 30s I'm focused on my Net worth I have a dating app I'm coming out with.
U shoulda been like bitch a** nigga you ain't gone get too me and become cheap! Spend that bag on me like you did on them other bitxhes and this coming from a man
Once you leave you WILL find your husband. Speaking from experience girl. Atlanta men have an infant like mentality. It’s all about performing for the social scene like high school. That’s not real life. In my new city Ive been able to earn more in a new job market and met someone who was ready to have a life together.
@@kingsanders2047 Indianapolis is a blue collar town in the Midwest. The job market in that town is mediocre at best. The people there are middle class hardworking people. None of them have much. Drive 🚗 three hours up the road to Chicago for a different story.
@@jeremy072579 thanks, I havent tried chicago men. But I'm scared of them cause they seem crazy, it's been two stories I've heard of in indiana where chicago men done killed their women over something so stupid. But hopefully they all not crazy like that lol cause aside from they mild tempers they seem cool and funny as fuck in general
I miss the old Atlanta where clubs stayed open to 5 in the morning now you got clubs closing at 2 a.m. or 3 a.m. everything is damn near watered down even dating people are not genuine anymore or sincere people only f*** with you for what you have going on at the moment that's why I'm glad I'm single 36 no kids but I just moved back to Atlanta from Arizona
When I got out of the military I flew into Miami by way of Panama, on my way back to Texas I went through Atlanta I almost stayed. I’m glad I didn’t, I don’t do fake very well. If your legit, cool, but fake, nope. She looks like a beautiful respectable southern bell, just stay safe.
Beyonca Blanca I’m telling you! People mad for no reason, like there’s not hundreds of other videos just like mine saying the same things if not worse.. people big mad
@@fancydani I'm glad I left Atlanta on November 2nd 2018 I had a rough struggle the women are out for guys wallet meaning they are materialistic. The people are super fake not all of them most of them. I can't even get a date down there. Oh, the job market sucks down there, and they charge too much on state tax. I tell people all the time Atlanta is not the only city in America you have other States and other countries that exist. People want to move to Atlanta to get famous it's a party city.
Yes sis my advice if you love family, want a husband and children and remain HIV negative LEAVE!!!!!!! Don't waste anymore time here, these guys think they love the ratio until they end up on HIV AIDS meds my cousin is a pharmacist so trust me it's bad, several new cases of AIDS patients needing meds each day, so RUN Sis don't walk you seem like a quality woman with a great life ahead of you
I think you should travel outside of Atlanta to meet your husband or be open to meeting men outside of Atlanta. You’re beautiful and wear perfume too! It sounds like a lot of people in Atlanta are starstruck 🤩🤩 too. You’re right, I told my cousin the best place to meet your husband is at university. Don’t give up hope you’ll meet your husband!!! 😃😃 But when you meet him keep the relationship private, you don’t want any negative influences around. 😎😎😎
Great video girly! I feel u 100% the egos are out of control. Got bums out here calling themselves kings with 5 baby mommas and women here accept anything no standards at all. These boys don't open doors, call your phone, or plan a date. They text you and show up late for everything! Just a new Vegas if you ask me. I'm outta here in a few too. If you want marriage, respect, and loyalty Atlanta isn't the place to be.
Pamela “The Beauty” Ricardo girl speak on it ! I know this guy who liked me , 40 plus still living at home with this mother .and worked at a call center but was aroooogant as hell Thought he was this shit
The successful men here in Atlanta don’t hang out much. We are too busy making things happen. If you think there is only fakers here that’s because you never met a man like me while here.
I just watched your video. You are so beautiful and you speak well. Like you, I am just a normal beautiful black woman. I feel you! You are speaking the truth!
It's a different world, once you move away from Atlanta. So many other opportunities elsewhere. Finish your school or start your business. A medical license or law degree is comparable to most careers in entertainment, long term wise. They're careers will be over but you'll still be working🤗
I tried Atlanta for a bit and the gay guys are bold being gay is normal down there that s"*t tripped me out...... I almost got into sooo many fights because dudes is looking at me crazy. I couldn't get out of there fast enough. Those gay men gave me a whole new perspective on what women go through.
Well i'm sorry about your experience. This is my first time on your channel. Sister I think ya'll should come home to West Africa... We have nice African men who'll worship ya'll. Women and children are ascribed as Goddesses. Feel free and come. Ghana, Africa calls.
This is true! 😩 These ppl are the worst. Especially the natives. Their mentality is distorted. Don’t know reality from their fake life. It’s sad. They’ll have all of the designer but no investments, properties, tangible things. I live here, moved here a year ago and I hate it.
This is a trip this sexual behavior has been going on for years I have never been their to experience the freak neek if I'm not mistaken but what I have heard it was wild so I'm not surprised but it's sad I do remember looking on youtube saying the hiv was like a third world country I remembered this woman moved there years ago soon as she got settled there called me crying saying the men just treat her like that's all they want is sex,
I noticed that too when I lived there a few years ago, more women driving and the dudes were in the passenger seat. The dating energy there was definantly different than up north.
Fancy you are absolutely gorgeous my Sister! Thanks for your take on the dating scene in the ATL.👌 I live a few hours outside of Atlanta and I've thought about moving up there a few times? It even happened back in 2013 if a job, but that opportunity fell through, so I moved back home. I'm originally from Miami Florida. Miami has some of the same issues but definitely a whole different flavor from the "A". You wasn't lying at all in your video boo, lol. The only individuals who would give your video a thumbs down, are folks you were describing, involved in shady business. As you well know, it's extremely shady and suspect for guys to date in the A as well. I'm a homeowner, I have a job, I own my own car and I have a business. So I can definitely vibe with a female who's about her business or has plans to own one. But similar to what you pointed out, there's a big difference between business and BS. I subscribed to your channel, so I'm definitely looking forward to more great content from you. I'm in the process of creating a channel myself and would love to collaborate with you in the future. Stay beautiful and keep making great content like this.🎥😎👌
Your hair, complexion, full lips and bold eyes make it easy for me to focus on you but your tone of voice and logic makes it very easy for me to respect your mind. This ladies and gentlemen is another banger great content and she leaves a respectable image for all the ladies in the comment section. Thumbs up for her.
@Tyrone jacobs jr Damn Tyrone. You're so right. The GAYTL is a facade. They are Shitty. No wonder I didn't make friends when I lived there. I don't vibe with phony. I didn't spend $1,000/month on some fucking car trying to pick up women like those thirsty, trick ass ATL dudes did. Most of the guys in Atlanta that I know who spend all of their money on cars; You go over their house, they ain't got no food in the house. Go in their refrigerator ain't no food in it because they've spent all of their Georgia Power Bill and rent money on some dumbass car trying to pick up bitches. Atlanta is literally a city saturated with Simps and Tricks. It's really sad. Where did you move to after you left the GAYTL? Do you like where you're living now?
This girl is a sho-nuff cutie-pie. Ladies try to look like her instead of Nickie. Or Cardie B or especially not like Reannah. This is how a beautiful black woman should look and sound...
You have to realize to never judge a book by its cover pay attention to personality mentally and you’ll see what kind of person you’re dealing with it doesn’t matter where you meet the person what they do
Born and raised in the atl. No matter where u go, the game is the game. Dating apps, bars, clubs, strip clubs, church, music venues, workout scenes, sports scenes,etc. no matter where u looking, u gotta wade through the bad to find the good without having your will broken. She told the truth about the negatives of dating in atlanta but she didnt find a husband so it sounds like a fail but just because she didnt find one doesnt mean other girls cant. They key here is you have to put yourself out there and show interest first and alot of women arent gonna make that move because they dont wanna look thirsty but we know u dont have any water so why u fronting. If u keep doing the same things and expect different results, good luck with that. The sad truth u have to accept is that men are raised different now and if u waiting on a good guy to approach, they scared asf and sit and played video games and their social skills with women are just weak asf.your dream guy will walk right past you and he will like u but yall will never get a chance to make that connection. If u not ready to be aggressive like that, i dont think you will be sucessful here. Good luck ladies. Dont give up.
One thing I cannot stand about women IN GENERAL is this expectation that guys are to be the ones to initiate everything. Like, WTF?! It's way harder to earn money and be independent than it is to put on fake Crayola crap, waltz around in tight ass clothes, and pretend like you're naturally beautiful. The standard women set for guys is way higher than the ones guys set for women. And you have the audacity to complain when you can't get the man you want? Like... Bitch, go get him instead of waiting for him to get you. Cinderella is a fucking fairly tale-seriously, stop living your life like a children's storybook.
I've only been living here in Georgia since Nov 2017 jobs are easy to get if you have a trade (for guys from my POV) it's alright cool much slower than New York City. But now that I'm in my 30s I'm focused on my Net worth I have a dating app I'm coming out with.
First off, for a woman, understand that you're not competing with other woman with a degree, or a better job, or making her own money. Women are gonna get compared to the women that are younger, slimmer, better personalities, better attitudes. Men are looking for something completely different than what women are looking for, especially the top echelon of men. Be weary of the men that admire you for your job, degrees, money, house, ect. Secondly, it'll serve women greatly to look for congruency in men. Is he walking the walk and not just talking the talk. A man interests lies where he parks his finances. If he is not investing his resource in you, he's playing you for a fool and wasting your time. Nothing else speak louder than when a man invest his money.
Men with real money move in silence real is rare fake is everywhere. I'm scared to move to Atlanta for fear of being mauled by too many women I'm a picky man.
These women want it all off the rip. Sounds like they should date rappers or ball players. And we know how they are going to treat a women. I have news for the ladies. All guys aren’t rich. Maybe some should date white guys ,because they are already training them to keep us down. If your strong minded, and confident you don’t have to worry about flexing trying to impress a women. We as blacks should focus on building instead of tearing our women and men down. No body’s perfect no matter how much money you have or don’t have.
If you're looking for someone superficial you'll definitely find it in most major city. And if you're looking for someone real you'll find it too. The best way to describe it there VIP people, fake and wanta bee VIP, and regular 9 to 5 people.
I been here for 4 years and I'm from Pennsylvania This is Black Hollywood basically. But I can definitely agree with you on the things you are saying. But real men don't want the party scene females to be there wives. But its the same in most states. New York, Philadelphia are really no different but one thing about Georgia its alot of scammers and transplants(people from other states)here which makes it even harder because now you have so many transplants here you may really never get to know who a person is or was in a different state. But I can definitely say that everything you stated is true, but we all have to remember its not even the people that are from Atlanta, that gives the city a bad reputation it's the transplants.
There’s good and bad people everywhere. There are normal guys and girls here everyone is not in the industry 😂😂 Y’all make it seem like It’s lights camera action as soon as you land. Y’all must be attracting the wrong men. There’s a lot of good men here. 💍
@JAY BLAZE wtf does her hair have to do with YOUR life? And how do you know it's not her hair, not that is any of your damn business. How long have you been with the academy, since you're the hair police?
GREAT VIDEO YOUR MAD PRETTY DANI IM CHE IN NYC. I WANNA MOVE TO MYRTLE BEACH WHEN I RETIRE. NO ATL FOR ME. KEEP ME INFORMED. GOD BLESS YOU BEAUTIFUL. CHE. 1
U need to come to Texas. I would love to go out with u. We could go to a NFL game or something and kick it a lil real and see where that goes. Replay back to me
You are a real cutie pie. They dont come much better than you.. Makes me wish i was 30 years younger. I would tell you something you have never heard..
Its like over half of this revolves around how much money men do or not have and how much they will spend on you. Nothing about their character, their personality, intellect, treatment of others or anything of substance. Like 90% of the criteria for what you look for in a guy is what he has and what out can get from him. This is what's wrong with modern relationships.
