Dating the Way God Intended 

Praise YaH your eyes now opened to Truth! More Truth...of 3 marriages, if your husband of your first marriage is alive, then relationship 2&3 were Adultery, not marriage, according to Scripture. Luke 16:18, Mark 10:11-12, Romans 7:1-3, Hebrews 13:4. Covenant marriage is till death do part. Do not seek another relationship as long as your Covenant husband is alive. Be reconciled if you can be, for the sake of your children, but if not possible, remain as you are (married, but living apart). All divorce plus 'Remarriage ' = Adultery everytime, no exceptions! If spouse has been in sin, Yahshua's message is..."forgive 70x7"! Shalom!

@@valerieheinrichs7519 There was adultry in the first relationship alone so the 2nd and third were not adultry. Dont speak of details that I did not give you sister. I was telling my testimony. It will help people out there. My other 2 also cheated on me as well. So biblically yes, I was able to move on. The only thing I did wrong was not ask God if they were the one He wanted me to be with.

Ahw love you sis! 🤗

@@hannahking1984 hmmm... if your first Covenant husband cheated on you...what should be the response according to Yahshua's own words? There should never be a third husband unless there was the death of husband #1, then death of husband #2...as a widow free to remarry husband #3, and it not be Adultery. I don't know your story, I just know what Scripture says! Even through a testimony, cannot make others think it's ok to have more than one husband when the first Covenant husband is still living. I have a great grandfather who had 4 wives, and each one was a Covenant wife...because his wife always died, before he took another wife. I guess the only question would be, did you experience the death of your first husband? If not, then husband 2 & 3 were men in Adultery. All divorce and Remarriage is Adultery, according to Yahshua's words. No exceptions. Of course if there was Adultery in this regard, it too requires Repentance. Shalom.

@@valerieheinrichs7519 I will not share anymore of my personal life and I dont have to prove myself to anyone. One thing I know that the scripture does say if an unsaved believer wants to leave a believer to give a certificate of divorce and let them go. I also know that there are circumstances where abuse takes place and lives are in danger that God will instruct us to leave. You have to think that abused women will see this and truly put their lives and childrens lives in danger going back and wont make it out alive. There are times and places and truths that are written and need to be studied in the word and I have studied them and God has given me peace in my situations. God bless you sister and I pray God shows you the truth.

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AMEN

Amen. I recently just got out of an unhealthy and unequally yoked relationship during which we developed a soul tie. It's been rough bc as much as my being yearns for God, my body still feels attached to her, and she still occupies my thoughts. Please pray for my deliverance in this space.

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Amen!

Wow!

The marriages were arranged...

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Same hahaha

Spiritual life and values Social life Emotional engagement Physical in marriage I love this

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God is good

All the time god is good

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It’s not too late 🌻

What if we're too young to date?🍎🍏🍎🍏

It's you again! Hope everything's going well! Hope you took notes aswel haha!

@@Minister-Peter-V1-Church Haha hey there! Things are certainly looking up. I should take some notes 📝

@@Londonislove get ready for the blessings. They are about to come. Stay close to the Lord! You don't wanna miss this season! It's supposed to be the biggest season of blessings yet.

@@Minister-Peter-V1-Church Amen 🙏🏼 I feel it in my spirit too

Move forward with your life with God. The past is the past, let it go🙏

If that's your calling as long as it's in purity may the grace of the Lord be with you

You can ask God if He has destined you for a life of single blessedness. Apostle Paul wrote about it. I also used to say the same thing but from time to time God is telling me that it will lead to a lonely life FOR ME. I dont know about you tho what He has for you

Most definitely. That's why you take time to get to know them. Not every couple will get married within 6 months. For many it is upwards a year to a year and a half or so depending on time, distance, work and other activities going on in life. It's why the foundation should always be friendship. There is no rush. At the moment you are ready to commit to the courtship process (after a prayer to God about it first) one should have gained somewhat of a steady friendship by that point. During real friendship you pick up on their life story, their habits, goals, etc. It is why courtship may seem "quick". With all the time between being introduced formally and getting to know someone as friends, having group Bible studies and developing a social network of shared activities in the local community and building trust, then intentionally committing to the courtship process with someone you've closely befriended and grown attracted to (and God gave you the green light as you went along) to further investigate more deeply the potential marriage match... It all adds up in the end to seeing if it will really work out for the long haul. ❤ From there it will be decided if there will be a betrothal/engagement. You know when things are right and there won't be any guessing games to figure out like in your average dating setting. When you know you are ready to marry that is the time to get into the process of courtship. It doesn't need to be done after learning someone's first name or having only one social outing with them. Take your time, be friends for a year or two if needed! Just also be aware that the person you really start to bond with may also be open for others to extend the invitation of courtship to them as well! Let God lead you. You have free will. So if you wait to stay in the friendship zone for too long (2 years+) while you know deep inside you want courtship you just might miss your opportunity. Any self limiting beliefs, insecurities, significant financial issues or other huge stressors should ideally be dealt with before entertaining the idea of real courtship or else it can negatively affect the process and/or possibly the beginning stages of marriage.

The right one will find you.

Is he a born again believer? if so then you should ask him what are the things he desires. How do you feel about him?

About his faith, I’m not 100% sure tbh and that’s my bad. We are both in the process of running after God now and it’s been interesting. I feel like he is genuine and different than other guys around this age and is a lot more gentle and kind. He hasn’t done much wrong to give me a reason to just call everything off. The thing is though because we are young and our relationship hasn’t always been Christ centered which is what I want to fix if I should even continue this relationship.

@@miadicristo5446 Well if y'all both are in Christ and have the Holy Spirit inside, then y'all can continue to date, what y'all should look forward to is Marriage, boundaries. However if one of you are struggling with a type of sin or it has become an addiction then I would talk to each other and decide. either way God is what I should be seeking more so God bless.

@@miadicristo5446 save yourself for marriage sister! Put GOd first In your life and get close to him first!

Do not fornicate until you are sure he is your husband. My Input from years of experience. I wish I knew ths when I was younger.

The Lord has specifically outlined that he doesn’t desire his children to be unequally yolked. Spiritually,Muslims and Christians are exactly that. God would not lead you to something that would contradict or cause you to disobey his word.