Good advice for temporary relationships. If you want to have serious relationship then be yourself. When it's the right person, you don't have to do all this and stress so much to get them to like you.
Yea but she is right play a little hard never go easy on a guy on the first let him work hard to get you 8f he is a man he won't mind to work hard to get his girl if she has standards. Men do love girls who has standards n they're serious they will approach I'm not talking about boys who in the age of 30 pretend to be a man but scared to work hard for a high quality woman.
Girl's dating tips: Listen more, talk less. Be mysterious and he'll be dying to know more. Boy's dating tips: Listen more, talk less. Be mysterious and she'll be dying to know more. In the end, no one talks during the date. 😂
Literally my husband said around 20 phrases during our first date, he was only looking and listening. If a man likes you he'll be dying to know more even after years of marriage, if he doesn't he won't even try to learn anything.
It's not about don't talk Is more like, don't make the whole conversation about you, ask questions, say a little bit about yourself, but encourage him to talk more about himself And of course it can be also a good advice for man. Everyone likes to talk about themselves, mostly if there is someone genuinely interested. So do that an the other person will get a good impression of you.
@@jessaye4921really? The thing is, my bf doesn't ask me anything. I really am confused, is he not interested in me, or just don't know that to ask/talk?
Heres actual advice; If I want to talk, talk as much as you want, but also let him talk of course. Dont try and look mysterious, try and look like you, you wont be able to pretend being someone else forever, and yku will be attracting the ones of your "fake" persona, and pull away the ones who would have liked the real you. Eventually they will leave you if you end up not being the person you pretended to be, understandably, I would too. There are tastes for everything, so look for the ones who like you for you.
This is bs. Actual advice? Ur better than her? It never said don’t be urself. It says how to better urself to make the person like u more. Its like giving advice to a football player telling him to do something right that he’s doing wrong, and advice is always given by someone who is better than the one who’s receiving it. Ur delusional fr.
Sometimes I feel we should just be ourselves like i don't get why our generation loves to be mysterious or like a baddie ,just be urself you'll love urself💌
Fr it’s how I got my boyfriend.. I’ve never used any of these tricks just been myself 😭 at the end of the day the person will like you for you and you can’t fake yourself all your life..
That's actually true. Playing mind games is exhausting. Just be yourself. Dont try too hard and dont test the lengths people would go for you. It's so freeing when you can just act like how you would around friends and family with someone you're interested in. When I played mind games men either idealized me too much or I slowly lost myself trying to hide aspects of me just so they won't lose interest.
My boyfriend and I also were online friends for a few months and then we got interested in each other so we met. we connected so well, and we even talked a lot. Mysterious aura, etc is not necessary, just be yourself. We even kissed on 1st date. He didn't think anything bad about me not having standards or something like that. He fell in love with me, and now we know each other for almost 5 years
I genuinely appreciate where you're coming from. I've watched tons of your videos as they appear on my feed and I love that you're a girls' girl and that you make these videos as a way of looking out for girls with less experience. I think the heart behind it is really sweet, but now that you've reached a position where thousands of impressionable girls probably *do* look up to you, I implore you to really think about what you're saying to them. As someone who has been in relationships with men who are massive red flags, I think that it's definitely important to teach girls that they should have standards, because they deserve a man that treats them right. However, if you are looking for true love, the last thing you want is for your interactions with men to be forced. While these tips probably do work, I don't think this type of advice is great in the long run. If you're dating for the experience or just testing the waters, it's no big deal, I suppose, but if you are looking for a lifelong partner, manipulating them and putting on an act around them might not be the best foundation for a healthy relationship built on genuine feelings for each other. I don't mean any hate towards you; I hope this doesn't come across that way ❤️
😊Yeah, I agree. I just feel like the only things someone should know and keep in mind is to have self-respect, self-love and certain boundaries. Other than that, behave and let your partner behave in any way that make you both feel happy, loved and in peace.
It's givingggggg 2000's mildly toxic advice for pre-teen girls 🙃 Seriously. It's like she's reading from a magazine. I'm glad that there are still sources of pressure out there that can make young girls feel anxious and awkward and not like themselves while interacting with guys.
@@ItzyoChannel-17817 No... You've posted 27 comments kissing her butt, you're way too far gone to have a reasonable conversation 🥴 I don't feel the need to discuss adult topics, with children. Thanks.
Pro-tip from an actual happily married elder sister: don't listen to any of these tips! Be yourself, always be honest, don't play any games and do what you want. Your person is going to appreciate you for who you are. Look for someone who you feel like yourself with. 7 years into a relationship. Married for one. Had sex on a first date ❤
It's out of context but yk I've been getting signs since like 2 years.. Though for 4 months they had stopped still there were subtle ones that this celebrity is my future spouse.. But it's TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE! what should I do? And whyever will universe reveal its not like I'm an God incarnation or something right? I once had decided to give up on him but at night i dreamt an old man talking to another man about to not to give up.. What should I do? Should I give up? Or not?
This video is very sad. I don't want to look at my future life partner like they're an animal that have to chase me and do special things to get my attention. I like this person, they like me, we gonna hang out, go on dates and everything is going to go naturally. The other person is human, just like me, why treat them not like one?
Honey boo, this is tips for a situationship not for a real relationship. If you need to pretending or anything like that is just that the men is not the right one ! Don’t forget it 💗
In my (and the girls around me) experience, I have literally shared these same tips before because they do work; IF you’re looking for that “cool” “fun” or hot boy that usually ends up being a pain in the ass. The best way to find the right type of guy is be what you want to attract. Be wholesome if you want a wholesome guy, be adventurous if you want that type of guy, and so on but never forget to take care of yourself even physically (it’s reality). Good men prefer women to spend their life with, so be what you want to attract
@siakishori9683 guys are sick of games. If you're gonna, have all these dating rules and not going to be yourselves, we're not going to stick around. If you can't show us who we're going to be with, we're not going to waste our time. We're tired of putting in a bunch of effort to get the minimum, if any, reciprocated. This us why you'll see men alone and barely paying attention to women. The attitude she has in this video is one of the main reasons you'll here women asking "Where are the good men at?" We're avoiding people like her.
Never be too available makes no sense. Be as available as you want, not being “too available” only makes a difference if you want a petty, superficial relationship that lasts a few weeks.
I'm guessing this is for the very early dating stage, because if you want a real long term and healthy relationship, you'll eventually have to be really vulnerable and open with each other. You can't be mysterious forever. Cause what if you go through a health emergency and you need their help? Don't hide that. Test his commitment to you by how he reacts to more serious things like your health emergencies that will inevitably happen. But yes, playing the mysterious card on the first few dates is always fun :) Also hell yeah, act like the catch you are 👏🏻
It's out of context but yk I've been getting signs since like 2 years.. Though for 4 months they had stopped still there were subtle ones that this celebrity is my future spouse.. But it's TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE! what should I do? And whyever will universe reveal its not like I'm an God incarnation or something right? I once had decided to give up on him but at night i dreamt an old man talking to another man about to not to give up.. What should I do? Should I give up? Or not?
i agree with the listen more but not to be mysterious, to be relatable. everyone wants to be relatable with someone and have someone to listen to what they have to say.
she calls herself a girls girl but this really seems like quite the opposite. telling girls to talk less and not be themselves, not do what they want? isnt that what you’re against?
Jazmin, I was depressed When your video came up first on my screen… let me tell you, your energy and advice are two of the main things that made me realize (almost) my own value and potential ! Thank you so much ! I love and respect you truly 😍
The sentiment is nice but i dont think this advice is good at all. Youre no better than he is. Youre not a catch but neither is he. Youre just two people trying to see if you like each other, treat it that way. All my friends are great and i didnt get any of them trying to be mysterious or playing some social chess shit. Just be open and genuine and you'll find others like that eventually. Honestly, doing so much to get someone to be interested in you or want to get to know you is wierd. Just find someone whos actually interested in you. Cant keep up the act forever. And frankly, some of what she said was borderline manipulation. Trying to get him to chase you? Specifically picking out how to look when saying something? Thats _weird_
My turn. Don't bother trying to be mysterious or hard to get or anything because if that's what it takes for someone to like you, they're not worth it. Be yourself.
It's out of context but yk I've been getting signs since like 2 years.. Though for 4 months they had stopped still there were subtle ones that this celebrity is my future spouse.. But it's TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE! what should I do? And whyever will universe reveal its not like I'm an God incarnation or something right? I once had decided to give up on him but at night i dreamt an old man talking to another man about to not to give up.. What should I do? Should I give up? Or not?
Bro how is her skin and face fantastic she doesn’t need makeup I wish I was her but I know that’s not possible! And she’s is right in her videos she always says don’t worry about what people say and I did that and now I feel like myself and not some people s toy and a slave she saved my life thank you so much
My sister is only one year older than me so we go through dating stuff pretty much at the same time, giving each other tips, but these were REALLY helpful.
I would also like to add something very important. DO NOT use dating apps. It is dangerous to meet strangers in public. Please don't do it. You could get sexually assaulted. Also, I would not give my number to a random guy. You gotta vet him. Don't meet in person right away. Talk to him or text him for at least three to six months. Don't let a guy touch you without your consent.
Y'all!! My bestie said almost nothing in her first date and just continued the Conversation a little bit and he rejected her saying that he doesn't think someone can pursue this relationship if she couldn't even pursue a simple conversation 💀🥲
It's not about don't talk. I think what she say is more like, don't make the whole conversation about you, ask questions, say a little bit about yourself, but encourage him to talk more about himself. Everyone likes to talk about themselves, mostly if there is someone genuinely interested. So do that and the other person will feel comfortable around you and will get a good impression of you, and you will learn more about him. (This not only applies to dates, you can do this sometimes to know nore about your friends or people you are meeting)
... Look if you go out with a guy and he spends the entire time talking about himself... don't date him... you don't want to date him... He will most likely never think about your needs and that relationship
This is accurate for me. I consider myself a good guy and I have disagreed on some things that she says but 100% if a girl gives in to easy chances are nobody will take her seriously. Especially selling content because everyone who does is putting themselves out there already so in my opinion and experience are pretty easy to get. This was a long I agree but from a man’s perspective I was kinda impressed and had to share my input.
I love this girl she is confident and I don’t have a older sister to give me advice on things like this so this is really helpful please keep doing what you’re doing it’s great and really helps me and others ❤
