dating won't solve your problems. 

I hope for his success.

dont --> don't shouldnt --> shouldn't You write contraction without apostrophe. No punctuation on first letter, no period

@@Videeooo do you think i actually care?

@@VeryNormalUser-WiggleWorm Still no punctuation first letter.

​@VeryNormalUser-WiggleWorm ur his friend trying to boost his channel >:(

and then catch them in a net and sell them to Tom Nook for massive profits 💸

@@SvengelskaBlondie lol true

You’re not him

@@SvengelskaBlondie Hell yeah. Wait for Flick then sell for even more profit.

And if butterflies don't get attracted, you still have a beautiful garden

bro how the vid got poseted 36 minutes ago and you replied 48 minutes ago bro's in matrix

what video does he say that?

MY DRILLAAA

🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙

@@PrimeSpork ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-BIF-w7OlYso.html

feel u dude

Man I wish to say the same about me but I haven't found a relationship and haven't found my passion

Same except i dont have any passions & i hate life

Hell yeah dude, live your life and enjoy the fuck out of it. Happy for ya stranger

What’s your passion?

it's the comment on top of your lmao

@@i_hate_losers busted

Keep copping

​@@kiril10 When you are old enough to spell, we'll talk about adult things.

Cope

Very true

Exactlyyy

That may be true, especially when younger. But when you reach 30 and you're established, life can get pretty lonely. It's less about fomo and more like I'd like to have someone to wake up next to and have dinner/watch movies with.

I just want to get physical, but u don't need a relationship for that

My problem is a combination of both this and sexual desire. I realized that I wanted a relationship out of selfishness, not out of genuine love for another person.

This.

True, I've got relatives asking me when I'm gonna date and why don't I have a boyfriend yet? It's not easy trying to take care of yourself and see someone at the same time. I'm 24 now, gonna be 25 in a month, and am jobless and have no license. I struggle with a lot in my personal life and don't wan the other person to see me as a burden it's someone that isn't together.

​@@katethedimensionexplorer273 I am literaly in the exact situation you just described. You are not alone sister

This comment....hit harder than any of my dad's oldies rights...

​@@katethedimensionexplorer273Same exact situation, but males are often seen as walking atms anyway😅😅😅i recently got disgnosed with a weird sleep disorder that causes me to be stunned after one hour of stressful activities...which means i have felt useless for 23 years of my life😂 now i am healing from this stuff, and from anxiety, and if society will not collapse thanks to the economy...i will try my best to stand on my own✌🏻

Yeah right?! That's very cool!

You see the constant cuts? This dude redid multiple parts of this video many times. It’s not real. He is exploiting your invulnerability via being relatable. It’s like tricking a dog with a treat. Keep thinking this is real and authentic and keep coming back to give him more money. It’s his goal.

@@tainbual5687 Of course he is going to cut. Sometimes you get lost and do annoying long pauses that nobody wants. I don't see what your problem is, the videos are quite good

@@TheTrooper1878 it's not my problem, it's the problem of trying to be this real authentic true old soul guy when in reality he's a guy who takes the best parts of his speech and produces it as whole. Imagine if everyone who ever gave a speech could fully edit every single thing they said or did. Imagine if anyone who gave a speech hand-picked their prime moments and we never saw any flaw or mishap whatsoever from them... wouldn't be good, right?

​​@@tainbual5687you're not making the point you're trying to make dude. he's not exploiting ass for bs like that's the opposite of what he's doing. there's literally no way you can see him exploit you for money in his videos other than ad revenue. niko's goal from the beginning is to bring back the old authentic feeling old style youtube videos bring, and of course that includes some cuts here and there, editing dead air is not a new concept or anything the dude is still trying to entertain people, that's the point of trying to make a channel. like imagine if a youtuber posts a video talking about a specific topic and halfway through it's mostly either dead air or they're stuttering a ton on the points they're trying to make. you wouldn't want that, would you?

it is if you have enough

Yeah, I'm literally at a point where I think having a girl would be better for me overall cause it's all I think about and obsess all day everyday, so if I finally get a girl then maybe I can focus on other stuff

@@xlReap64 Ay look, man to man, i was happy as fuck and never suicidal. Got a girlfriend and she fucked it all up and even after leaving her, life has never been worse.

@@SchizoidDog69 got a girlfriend as well, fucked me up badly. treat yourselves better yall.

Gotta love yourself first

Lmao RNG. Fair point though

Gacha players: "So you're saying there's a chance?" 😎😎😎😎😎😎

RNG is impossible to avoid in this life tough

If your problems go away when ur with someone. It'll come back worse when that person leave, and trust me, it sucks.

yeah, more often than not, these relationships are like band-aids, they feel amazing while they last, but once they go, up comes the morbid sorrow and despair

@@Hyokorano. It will if your core values don’t change. Going into a relationship changes how you think of yourself. OP for example is now a better person because of a relationship. There is no such thing as “right time” or “why bother”. If their relationship ends, which I hope not, so what? Self love isn’t enough and people need to accept that. It’s normal human biology and it’s been ingrained in our brains since the start of times. Unless you have issues like being a serial killer, rapist or anything crazy you’re fine.

@@whitewolf2265 I belive there's a right time. For example, there were times when I got into a relationship and I had a lot of problems going on and, when the relationship ended, my depression came back worse. I agree with you about growing as a person while in a relationship, but you NEED to be prepared to be in it. You can't break up and in the next week be with someone else, this attitude, for example, is an attitude of someone who doesn't love themselves and need another person to fulfill their emotional problems. So, I say again, if you go out, looking for what you don't have, you might end up without it.

12:17 h

You probably then didn't have real problem like solving the financial situation of your family by yourself in your early 20s

@@examplenameyoutube nah

@@examplenameyoutube nah

​@@examplenameyoutubeSame bro, same.

This video and 80% of the comments are coping hard. Not having to spend time chasing women irl and online gave me so much of a needed mental break. She actually pushed me to get better jobs and improve myself too. A lot of these guys here are involuntarily celibate. Feelsbad for sure it can happen to anyone, but saying otherwise just tells me you’re coping hard with the fact you got zero hoes. But that’s my opinion.

I wouldn't say "sadly". It's not like those relationships had no good moments. And it also teaches people what they really want and need. I feel like if you as a human-being are ina position where it's fine for you to be together with someone that is not good for you, you need to be with them to learn what a good person looks like for you. It's 2am and quite hard for me to put this into words properly, but essentially, I think if you slide into a bad relationship, you eventually would have anyway, because you were lacking knowledge about yourself, that would have prevented it in the first place. I hope that made sense.

hey i hope it all gets better for you!

I would just focus on getting out of whatever rut you're in right now before ever focusing on a girlfriend. I'm 21 turning 22 this year and I have never been in a relationship my whole life. I wish you well sir. ❤ 🙏

focus on yourself, get new hobbies and maybe you will find your significant other there :) people often meet while sharing the same interest

four dollars is crazy

@Tattlebot you dont understand life kiddo you dont even deserve gf if you keep acting like tough edgy shit

@@NobleSix-1403 Shut up you're using a photo of game character 😂

You are right about the values part, honestly it just didn't come to me at the time of making this video. However, when you have something in common with your partner hobby wise, it makes it easier to spend quality time together. Otherwise doing so can prove to be a struggle. But it's true, you don't have too many things in common

@@nikoyaps it's less about having common interest, and more about having a common vision for the future. frankly when you both have a full time job, build career, do house chores, take care of kids and pets, there will be not much " spending quality time together", but that doesn't hurt a good relationship. it's the joint effort to keep things afloat that makes a couple stronger, don't base your ideas on romantic hollywood movies produced by elites with lots of free time

Idk, seems to me like you're pretty self-centered type of a person. Both the first and second part go in favor of that. I'm one of the people that believes that a human can never be whole without a partner, hell, we're literally born to mate and reproduce and die. Everything else, like finding your own passion and stuff, is just the mind/ego's way of dealing with the anxiety of death, for like 99% of the people. "I may die, but at least I've built something." The second part, children and marriage, should be viewed as a "blessing", but instead, a lot of people such as yourself view it as curse. "Free time"? What the hell do you need so much free time for, when you have kids? I agree that everyone needs their alone time, but some people are taking it too far - they're not getting married and having kids, because it costs money and time. Met a couple that was like that, both in their 40s, their appartment is filled with Star Wars stuff and they're both morbidly obese. So is that worth sacrificing such a crucial part of life for? Getting to indulge in your gluttonous pleasures and some made-up imaginary worlds, such as that of Star Wars? People who refuse to grow up just repulse me so much. They're stuck being kids forever because of some trauma or something, and instead of seeing a therapist, they waste their lives doing nothing and living hedonistic lives filled with nothing but empty pleasure, so yeah, it's better that they don't reproduce. However, I do agree with the main point of this discussion and stuff, which is - don't date until you've got yourself together, at least for the most part. Yes, humans need intimacy and love, but it's better to first build yourself up as a person, build a healthy ego and mind capable of being responsible in entirety for yourself, and another whole person's emotions and needs. When two people like that meet, they are bound to win at life, basically.

@@ragingsaviorkami9862 First off, you are wrong, I am not self-centered. if anything you sound painfully shallow and empty, having a belief that all we exist for is to just sh!1 out a new generation. Feel free to stay there with your belief. I don't want any part of that. I find it quite hilarious you also needed such a wall of text for such a basic and smooth-brained belief.

@@ragingsaviorkami9862 I feel the guy you respond to is right as I also feel you're right in some way but could not explain it. I'd rather copy paste a quote I've found somewhere but don't remember the source, because it may bring a nice perspective to you too : "Love without attachment is the purest love because it isn't about what others can give you because you're empty. It is about what you can give others because you're already full'. Now some people prefer loving through family and "full-time" romantic relationships, and may get whole that way, others prefer to practice love differently, and thus be whole differently (i.e. maybe only friendships, or through people-assisting jobs). There are probably as many ways as there are people.

Its always that one comment that is so long often its just being irrational than having a short comment that is simply straight to the point that isn't rude

@@ACDCvirus They could have summed it up nicely by saying "your sole reason for existing is to find a partner and procreate", I despise this kind of thinking cause it's an utterly selfish thing that doesn't care or take into account anything or anyone else. ​ @endyx2708 One of the reasons I say that it's a bad idea to view relationships as "completing yourself" is that it's a bad way of viewing a parter. You are basically just using someone else to "make yourself complete", that's quite selfish. It's much better for both you and a partner to see each other as "complements", you are there to add value to someone else and not just selfishly add value to yourself.

I'm so happy that you're on the right path now, congratulations brother. You sound very similar to me in many ways. One of the things that changed me completely was learning about self love. ACTUAL, self love. It essentially comes around to the realization that I loved others and hated myself, as a result I gave people's judgements way more credit than they deserved, and even criticized myself harder. In the end, we are not as important to others as our minds think, and that's actually liberating. If you allow yourself to be flawed, the people that meet you will meet the REAL you, and thus you'll only meet those who are compatible. Good luck out there and keep doing your good work ^^

dont wait too long.

Dude, all props to you, really. You deserve it. Now you have a random stranger rooting for you.

damn that hit

there are times when doing things that you feel is your most authentic self is the most loving thing you can do for that person.

@@ngartwork8289 Hmmmm.. Guess that's my que! Thanks

fucking same

the whole point of the relationship is to build with each other

@@dhiabondka3082 😯

12 This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you.

You´re just like me (except the studying for 7 hours part)

Then this video doesn’t apply to you 😂

that means you've found the one

i mean it is possible it just is unlikely

Not to mention that there's no time

If you have to look for the right person instead of them just naturally finding you They probably aren’t the right person

no he is not

You say that like you just have to go down the street to get one

I think at this point you should start studying women and their behaviors when it comes to seduction. Having the foundation of living your passions and finding yourself is half the battle, but you still need to know how to seduce someone.

Gaming >>>> girlfriend who doesn't like that

7 If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him.

Matthew 10:17 But beware of men: for they will deliver you up to the councils, and they will scourge you in their synagogues;

Reject humanity, man go monk mode.

Hoes = 0

My 2 previous relationships in Highschool also taught me what to do and not to do but I have no interest now lost all hope with that waited too long and not mature so yea at least I got my cats.

Imagine if farmers looked at their fields and said "we don't need to plant anything, crops will sprout when the time comes" and then we all starve to death. The reality is if you want a girlfriend or female partner you can boost your chances by enhancing your appearance and social abilities.

can you talk about your ex vampire energy? it can help me figure out some things in my current relationship

​@@shtefan7385 So, she was and still is my classmate, which resulted in us spending a lot of time together, and it made me, an already empathetic person even more empathetic towards her, and oh boy there were a lot of things to be empathetic about her. To begin with, she had terrible parents who basically neglected her, multiple bad habbits like not eating breakfest or anything before 3pm, not drinking water, heavily procrastinating, and being pesimistic. During our time together i was on top of the world, i was already feeling good before we got together and the relationship made me even happier, thing is you cant be happy when your other half is constantly being negative. So i dedicated to dedicate a lot of myself and my energy into trying to help her, i tried to introduce her into healthy habbits like, believing in herself, actually eating, drinking water, having a sleep schedule, not procrastinating. I tried to also make her convice her mother to take her for a blood test, as some of her syptoms signalised thyroid disease. And when she told me she self harmed i was convincing her for 2 months to go to a psychiatrist, a school one but nonetheless. And around the same time as i was trying to get her to a psychiatrist i started to doubt the relationship, i wasnt feeling the same kind of energy as before, i was losing temper with my really close friend group really easily, simple insults which you always do with the boys got under my skin, i had no energy for anything and was also starting to feel down. So after some thinking i decided to breakup with her as nothing i could have done would help her since SHE needed to want to get better, and it really didnt look like she wanted to. It hurt a lot, as i still to this day almost a year later cant stand her pressence around me After the breakup she pretty much blamed me for everything and saying how i broke everything when actually the only thing i messed up was i told her about my doubts way too late, thing is i didnt consider that humans have a battery power as well and mine ran out, i didnt think she was causing any issues to me directly. She wasn't a bad girlfriend dont get me wrong, actually a textbook one, i wish that my next partner will be so cute, cooperative and understanding as her, but the way she handled herself wasnt, and thats what caused the issues.

L take

Dating is a privilege, not everyone can

Answer me or scared

Disagree, people shouldnt need anything like "relationship skills" to find partner. If they both love eachother they wont care about any of that and just accept eachother as they are. If someone needs to have some special skill to date someone then that person is not the right partner and its not true love.

It really just depends on the person, I think that's just it.

@@mrshark8826 Naive mindset in my opinion. You’ll only be unprepared for things while everyone else isn’t.

While this does make sense my instinct tells me to invalidate your opinion because you used the word copium

@@fddingI mean the word fits. It's pure cope. Most of the people watching just don't want to feel bad for being incapable of dating, so they try to rationalize their lack of experience as a good thing.

A lot of men out there are shallow and narcissistic, it's not worth it sometimes

Getting a girl cause ur nasty ex moved on is a stupid idea, it wont make u feel better, and ur just using another girl cause ur jealous ur girl moved on,

Absolutely rough and actually like in your Same exact situation. I think it’s fine to try to rebound as a distraction but don’t get to serious about your rebound and let them know about your situation as well👍

Sounds like you're looking for a rebound which gets an innocent person involved as collateral damage.

in the right place at the right time

@@Nqrii Idk man. It's just that it gets to me that she is trying to bond with another person so fast after a 2 year relation.

"Easy"? Where?

Well, maybe you are tring wrong, just that... I just consider a failudre or hard when someone is not happy and be forced to keep making stuff that person not want, so even when a couple break up, and has some sadness if borh are fine when the pain washes away, it is easy... But if you had a stalker or soemthing, that is hard, becase one side not respect the other... i not get a relation early on life, but i never really get that much efforts on getting one anyway. I mean, i avoid partys, i avoid people that not talk about shit i like, it totally reduces my number of potential partners, anyway, it lead to more solid relations, because found a girl that like games, like anime, like cool stuff for me is rare, but if she like those stuff, we can make more stuff together, and handle better anything in general... The most beauty girl, is just beuaty outside by validations, and her inside? I got really luck, because the most beauty girl to me was the girl i like before talking, and it is the key, get a coffe or dinner with someone you can't talk anything, that is really hard, for sure.

@@viniciusschadeck4992 Yeah, you're right and I do agree with your points. Thanks for sharing

@@thatrandomcrit5823 i feel some sarcasm, if you did it because of my english, well, sorry to not put enought effort on fixing everything on that text

@@viniciusschadeck4992 You felt wrong, it wasn´t sarcasm, I was just thanking you

WTF IS LESBIAN STYLE

@@ZHH_Studios i’m a girl too

@@avcables_Oh ok i thought it was sum gay shi

@@ZHH_Studios LMFAO WHAT i’m so confused now

@@avcables_ lmao no I thought it was some shi guys started to do like those e-boy type niggas that act all gay and shi for no reason so I was confused

JOB 8:19 19 Behold, this is the joy of his way, and out of the earth shall others grow.