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David Archuleta - Hell Together (Official Music Video) 

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The official music video for "Hell Together" by David Archuleta.
Streaming now on all platforms: orcd.co/helltogether
I am very excited to share this video with all of you. This is a really special song for me. It was inspired by a very special person in my life. My mom. I was touched by her love that she showed to me as her son. Even though she didn’t understand my reasons for the life transitions I had of coming out and leaving our church at first, her willingness to understand the struggles of coming out as a queer person in the midst of a conservative community is not an easy one and I was inspired by her and other moms who faced a fear of leaving all they knew to show love and courage for their kids. I don’t think there’s greater love than that.
Starring: David Archuleta & Olivia Cava
Directed by: Lily Judge
Cinematography by: Ryan Kerr
Choreography by: Olivia Cava
Edited by: Lily Judge
1st Asst. Camera: Kenji Bennett
Steadicam Operator: Luke Dyra
Gaffer: Patrick Hyatt
Key Grip: Jonas Fischer
Best Grip: Lyle Michos
Best Electric: Nareh Dovlatyan
Swing: Paloma Ronquillo
Hair & Make-Up Artist: Joseph Adivari
Stylist: Andrew Philip Nguyen
Styling Asst.: Cynthia Pham
Color by: Ryan Kerr
BTS Photographer: Lucas Markman
Production Asst.: Ellie Jackson
Associate Producers: We Make Movies
Location: The Cosmic Church LA
Insurance Services Provided by: Irene Quintero - Momentous Insurance Brokerage, A Marsh McLennan Agency Company
Written by: Ryan Nealon, Sam DeRosa, Jordan Sherman, and David Archuleta
Producer: Jordan Sherman
Mixed by: Squids
Mastered by: Squids

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@davidarchie
@davidarchie Месяц назад
I am very excited to share this video with all of you. This is a really special song for me. It was inspired by a very special person in my life. My mom. I was touched by her love that she showed to me as her son. Even though she didn’t understand my reasons for the life transitions I had of coming out and leaving our church at first, her willingness to understand the struggles of coming out as a queer person in the midst of a conservative community is not an easy one and I was inspired by her and other moms who faced a fear of leaving all they knew to show love and courage for their kids. I don’t think there’s greater love than that. I hope it pays tribute to anyone else who’s had the courage to make the changes they’ve needed in their life to improve and learn to love themselves or love their misunderstood loved ones. And if you were left alone without that love and support you needed, then this song is for you. If you’ve been told you’re going to hell for being queer or for leaving your faith too, then we’ll go to hell together. 🔥❤
@AndrewStottisTheIndiWerWlf
@AndrewStottisTheIndiWerWlf Месяц назад
Thank you for sharing your story and beautiful music with us.
@jonahwilliams4966
@jonahwilliams4966 Месяц назад
Thank you for this video and song. As someone who is queer and is still struggling to find his place in the world I really appreciate this
@javabrown4851
@javabrown4851 Месяц назад
Beautiful Dave. Always like you, glad that you are happier, living, and loving your life.
@EverythingPlus.101
@EverythingPlus.101 Месяц назад
Your music made me understand that the true LOVE is not going to heaven together but renouncing the "heaven" to support your family or friend. This is the True LOVE ❣️❣️❣️ Anyway, after reading ancient gods, religion and politics history I understand that there's no HELL 😅 It is all misprinted lies to control us.
@bluekimchiandrea4476
@bluekimchiandrea4476 Месяц назад
And those of us who are straight allies, we will go to Hell together ❤️ anyone struggling, I hope you find your loving and supportive family elsewhere and please hang on, you ARE loved
@snookyms
@snookyms Месяц назад
I saw my son walk away from the church, but I struggled so much with it. I was one of those parents who thought I could stay in the church and "be the change" or the ally. I was also told by a local area seventy that I was to be the one to "save my family" by doing everything I needed to do by going to church/the temple/paying my tithing/being faithful. Looking back, that was so emotionally messed up as it put all the guilt on me to "save the family". Our son married his husband last March and all of a sudden, things changed for me. My husband and I went to church the following Sunday (Easter 2023) and as my husband and I walked out I knew I was done with the church and have never been back. Listening to this song though, all of a sudden it did hit me, I don't want to be in someone else's heaven if I can't have my son and his family there with me. The song says it very well, the way my whole thought process has changed this past year in particular. I know my relationship with my son has also changed. We have always been close as he is my only child, but it felt strained for about 5 years after he came out and I still continued to go to church...but not anymore. We are back to that close relationship again. I now realize how hurt he was that I was choosing the church and ignoring the hurt the church was causing him. Not anymore, I choose the love of my family over the demands and hurt of an organized religion.
@alyssa1905
@alyssa1905 Месяц назад
Your son is lucky to have you ❤
@RamontheGreat
@RamontheGreat Месяц назад
I love this!! Your son is so lucky to have you.
@glorialewis8227
@glorialewis8227 Месяц назад
You are truly blessed and a blessing. I remind myself daily that God doesn’t make mistakes. I am proud of your son for acknowledging who he is and not hiding from the stigma other Christians (and l use the word with trepidation) put on him. Your son is lucky to have you as his mother. Spoken as a mother of a gay son and a transgendered daughter. My mother asked for my son’s new address in order to send him a birthday card. She put in the card, all the clobber verses condemning him to Hell. Thank God, she passed before my trans-daughter came out. Hugs and lots of love to your family.
@issactrigeros1282
@issactrigeros1282 Месяц назад
We have one shot in this lifetime and we all should make the best of it and keeping the ones we love closest to us and just enjoy the journey together because we don’t live forever Good for you and your family
@mindyedwards3574
@mindyedwards3574 Месяц назад
That 70 was not speaking for God. I think we’ll all be surprised how much more love and grace he has for us. It all works out in the end. Even if you’re no longer LDS you’ll always be my sister in Christ.
@josephgarner94
@josephgarner94 Месяц назад
Clearly David’s mother has been a huge support to him but it’s inspiring to think about what comfort she might bring to those that didn’t have supportive parents when they came out. Just knowing there’s adults or parent figures out there that will love you for who you are is a big deal.
@UTRose45
@UTRose45 Месяц назад
what is supportive of telling your son he's going to go to Hell?
@josephgarner94
@josephgarner94 Месяц назад
@@UTRose45 somthing tells me she doesn’t actually think they’re going to hell. The sentiment is that she loves him and they’re going to stick together.
@misskpyle6885
@misskpyle6885 Месяц назад
​@@josephgarner94 exactly!
@catherinem8473
@catherinem8473 Месяц назад
I love this comment so much. Sooo true
@christinanielson8985
@christinanielson8985 Месяц назад
I can't really even express how grateful I've been for this song. Many of David's steps on his journey out paralleled mine and helped me feel less alone.
@missmosvegankitchen8238
@missmosvegankitchen8238 Месяц назад
This is so powerful. The walking out the doors at the end. It took my mom three days after I told her that I was lesbian to tell me that she loved me no matter what. I left my childhood church but I never left God. My God loves me just the way I am! Thank you for this song
@kharding1956
@kharding1956 Месяц назад
Are you familiar with Calum Scott's song, "No Matter What"?
@missmosvegankitchen8238
@missmosvegankitchen8238 Месяц назад
@@kharding1956 yes, I adore Calum. Another huge talent
@JT0007
@JT0007 Месяц назад
Homeboy can sing 🫡🇺🇸🇬🇧
@dawncoe1293
@dawncoe1293 Месяц назад
So beautiful. David you are perfect just the way God made you. Your mother is such a blessing and I hope this will help others be accepted and accepting. Powerful song, powerful video.
@ElishaThomas-uu6kx
@ElishaThomas-uu6kx Месяц назад
I am very greatful that I have been washing your music videos from a young age till now I realize that I'm actually walking the same path you are I have praid to heavenly father that if i serve a mission he will take the gay away and i learned that is not the case when i was done with mission i gave one more chance to heavens that if I work really hard and keep the faith after another two i felt trap and commandment force on me i thought i would continue of happiness but it is still not the case that's when I had a fall out form the church and felt so much of a failure. No one came to rescue me because for my faith not even my faithful family because all they thought is a disappointment in me. During that time in 2015 till now 2024 I use to hold on to everyone in church to stay faithful and to protect each other now I'm just holding on to myself and learn and grow to love myself because that is what I got for my personal revelation 2015 to till now. I'm still wanting to take the sacrament and paid tithing as long as I don't drink and keep myself happy and clean in my own home and always use the atonement continue. I plan to be single and continue to be single and I feel fully that is it my path in life. Now I am involving myself more with so much experiences in life with so much different 15 different jobs I got myself involved with through our 12 years of my life and I'm so grateful for that. Now I am planning to run my own restaurant and just build up my own life and for others but for me. So listening to your songs make me feel not alone and I thank you for that and sorry I had to give almost my full life story I felt that I should and thank so much David you are an amazing person to me.
@josemiguelfurcalmorel7824
@josemiguelfurcalmorel7824 Месяц назад
This is so real. Thank you David for giving us this song and making us feel like we are not alone.
@davidarchie
@davidarchie Месяц назад
❤️❤️
@AbbyKuusisto-cl7lr
@AbbyKuusisto-cl7lr Месяц назад
​@@davidarchieI Love it!!!❤❤❤❤❤
@charlenemack7040
@charlenemack7040 Месяц назад
I just subscribed to your channel and doubled the number of subscribers. Have a wonderful weekend Jose.😊😉
@nanaquajo1
@nanaquajo1 Месяц назад
❤❤
@chris_wizzudz
@chris_wizzudz Месяц назад
Leaving religion is one of the hardest, and yet most freeing things one can ever do. It allows us to embrace our true selves and live our lives authentically, without the man-made dogma and fake authority looming over our heads like a dark storm cloud. Proud of you and your mom for choosing to live your free and authentic lives, David!
@alienjugakepo1415
@alienjugakepo1415 Месяц назад
❤learn buddha, spirituality, read bhagavd gita. You will find..god isnt judgemental..unconditional love for his creations
@zinlucascamargo
@zinlucascamargo Месяц назад
That's it! ❤
@homeatnumberninetyfive
@homeatnumberninetyfive Месяц назад
honestly, isn't it wild how weird it feels when you leave? Like you don't even know who you are - but also - what a beautiful thing to explore and learn about ourselves?! (obviously the beginning was tricky), but im nearly a year out and I feel A L I V E for the FIRST TIME in my LIFE! x
@user-xf5uo6gf2z
@user-xf5uo6gf2z Месяц назад
I struggle with OCD and epilepsy but sexuality is not about self expression. They're not any better. There is a mental health component to closeted thinking. His attitude is so defiant now. Swearing. Panic attacks. Fashion. Sin of suicide.I mean look for me rebellious meant spending as much money as I wanted or talking back but David this is illuminati level dangerous. You're playing with your soul . Let them lock the gates you'll be screaming when at the apocalypse and second coming You find Jesus says I never knew you. But Jesus you're not inclusive. Tough. You're part of the goats not sheep. Believe me Christ wanted to save sodom. You choose to or not to be queer. But being a fighter over this is puzzling . Respect your life choices. If I talked this way to my parents I would have gotten slapped with a cane or dad calling the police. Or they'd just leave me for another home. For my cheekiness. Or burnout . Rock and roll to me that was rebellion. But why gain the world and lose your soul David! I never received that love Dave.
@xXEGPXx
@xXEGPXx Месяц назад
@@user-xf5uo6gf2z If your fear tactics worked they would already have. A heaven spent with people like you would be worse than any hell
@lego_queen3
@lego_queen3 10 дней назад
David as a fellow Utah Queer, thank you so much for this song. The more I listen the more I resonate with it. I hope that some day my father will make the realization that his child is more important than the Mormon church.
@graysongoal
@graysongoal Месяц назад
I grew up Mormon, too, and haven't spoken to most of my family (including my mom) in about a decade, partially because I'm both queer and trans. Honestly, this video was probably the best possible birthday present 😅 I'm so grateful that your mom and family are truly loving people, and that we get to celebrate them in such a beautiful and public way. 💜
@tashahansen8531
@tashahansen8531 Месяц назад
❤️‍🔥sending all the vibes🌈🥹😭❤️‍🔥
@thelojay
@thelojay Месяц назад
happy belated birthday ❤️
@maxolivia4911
@maxolivia4911 Месяц назад
Same. I'm queer(a lesbian) and grew up religiously and have no relationship with any of my family. You aren't alone, internet stranger. You've got rainbow family all over the world.
@benjamingardea4511
@benjamingardea4511 Месяц назад
You can’t have experienced religious trauma and not feel this song deeply. I am not LGBTQ, but I have many loved ones who are. I profoundly regret letting religion create a divide between us. Leaving was the hardest and best thing I’ve ever done. Thank you for your incredible voice David!!
@jeremiahgabriel5709
@jeremiahgabriel5709 9 дней назад
It sounds like, in whatever end, you hit a point and you chose them. That religious bullshit is fierce and complicated. It took you a while to get through it but you did. Good for you. It's one thing to be a rainbow person and leave to be yourself, but is a different thing entirely to have it not directly affect you but you leave because it's harming those you love.
@mrcase77
@mrcase77 Месяц назад
As a lesbian ex-Southern Baptist. I’m glad your mom chose you. What a beautiful song and story. She got it right. That’s really special.
@chrisanntoelupe984
@chrisanntoelupe984 Месяц назад
Beautiful! I left for the same reason as your mom. I no longer believe in an LDS sad heaven. Heaven, to me, is where my family is. 💕🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️💕
@PhoenixGoddess4444
@PhoenixGoddess4444 Месяц назад
You are a beacon of light, David!! So is your supportive mom. I’m 53 and I left the church at 45. No regrets at all leaving. Spirituality is in your soul and not from a pulpit. So grateful you and your mom are realizing you are more than seen as a human being outside of the torturous constructs of that church. You and your mom are perfect! Exactly as you are. I’m so glad you are realizing this. Sending you love on your journey of life!
@GoodDeedADay
@GoodDeedADay Месяц назад
So beautiful! Instant tears on the first notes!! The footage of you as a baby, you at the piano echoing your Crush video, the dancer looking like your mom, then that hug at the end… tears of joy for you coming through the other side & livjng your glorious truth!! Bravo, David!!! 🙌🏼🥹💜
@dansil92
@dansil92 Месяц назад
I love the visual of the completely empty church. That's what made me finally leave after 30 years of mormonism. I realized God was not there, it was an empty building full of empty promises. I'm one of the lucky ones who's parents have escaped too. Thank you David for writing a song for us, the forgotten, the ones who were abandoned by the community we loved and tried so hard to fit into.
@rialloyd1670
@rialloyd1670 Месяц назад
Thank you for writing this.❤
@intuitiveplantscoaching
@intuitiveplantscoaching Месяц назад
thank you for this song David. I left the church just 6 months ago after leaving my abusive marriage. It's so wrong the way the church influences people to see those who leave. We aren't influenced by 'evil spirits', 'lost', or 'going off the deep end'. I have learned that it's BECAUSE of peoples values and their desire to live in truth that they leave. It's easier to stay and takes a lot of strength to live in truth when it rocks your life and you are misjudged for it. For me, I couldn't stay because of all the abuse I see in the church. It's so apparent when you've experienced psychological abuse and know what it looks and feels like. It's hidden if you don't know the in's and outs of what abuse truly entails. I SEE YOU, and everyone else who leaves because they want to live in truth. I wish everyone in the church could still SEE people who leave as good hearted, loving humans with just as much worth as them. Thanks for this song! I've been listening to it so much.
@artrojas4732
@artrojas4732 Месяц назад
When my dad, who is a pastor, told me I was mentally ill when I told him I was gay when I was 18, I tried everything not to be that despicable being he told me I was. Conversion therapy, going away to retreats or “encounters”, working in church and nothing ever changed. Since I moved out from my parents house, they’ve been away and every time we see each other, I can’t tell anything I’m doing in my life because it’s sin. Because been away from the church is “the sin”. Last week I had a very traumatic experience and the only thing my parents told me is that God was behind this, that I was uncovered from his presence, that I was gonna die, and my dad even told me not to speak to him again. As a 32-year-old man who lives by himself, I felt so alone and abandoned my whole life and after these experiences, I feel like that again. I came back to be on antidepressants and I feel worthless again, just as the day I came out. Somehow, this song makes me feel I’m not alone in the struggle but the fear I live sometimes is stronger. Thank you David for giving voice to the voiceless
@janey79
@janey79 Месяц назад
You are not alone. I'm glad you found this song, this is exactly why David does what he does and and you discovered the true reason for the song - as you said, giving voice to the voiceless. I hope you find community and are able to choose the family you deserve.
@dakotaisme2870
@dakotaisme2870 Месяц назад
Honey you are not alone. The irony to those who say God is the enemy, in reality are the real enemies of His children who are gay or different in other ways. God loves His children. I have a gay son and nephew as well as several cousins. (Come from a huge family) I so wish I could give you a hug, because You are a child of the King💜
@joklip7928
@joklip7928 Месяц назад
You are loved. Despite what your parents say know that GOD LOVES EVERYONE!. He loves you and so do we ❤❤❤. If they dont know that than they're not any better. We are called to love each other in loving kindness. ❤❤❤
@Angry20Something
@Angry20Something Месяц назад
Please don't give up. I'm so sorry your parents couldn't be there for you. It's not your fault.
@eileen8433
@eileen8433 28 дней назад
I am so sorry
@williamgrogan7322
@williamgrogan7322 Месяц назад
Try as I might, I can't find words to express how I feel about David and this song. Suffice to say I think David is one Brave young man in coming out to his LDS family, friends and the public. I've been a fan since his days on American Idle and am so pleased to find he is still singing and being such a positive role model for young people today. This is sorely needed in today's backlash environment where so many states have passed draconian anti Gay laws. I admire you, David. If there is a heaven, We'll see you there.
@acepavedthewater
@acepavedthewater 3 дня назад
I am an active member and i just want to say that I'm so grateful you have the courage to speak up about your experience with your mom. I can't imagine how hard your journey from there to here must have been but I'm glad you're here. David you're a strong soul and so is your mom. I love you and I'll always support you ❤️ i hope to cross paths and meet you in person someday because i would love to just give you a big hug and tell you how much of a great person you are. That would be a dream
@mashinarose
@mashinarose Месяц назад
I grew up in the Mormon church, I'm 20 years old and came out when I was 15. I finally left when I was 18. I remember seeing you preform on American Idol growing up, seeing you at family search conventions in SLC a few years back. When I heard you left the church, I knew I wasn't the only one who was facing a struggle of being in a conservative community, and the struggle of dealing with the aftermath. My parents weren't accepting at first, but they came around real quick. David, I want to thank you for being a huge role model for me growing up, and even now.
@rommelyadao1544
@rommelyadao1544 29 дней назад
Very good in using the term "church". Leaving church is not leaving God.
@Melissad309
@Melissad309 Месяц назад
David this is so beautiful, moving and powerful. I’m in tears 😭😭 those clips of you and Lupe when you were a baby. And fhat ending omg
@dornoche8962
@dornoche8962 Месяц назад
Just gorgeous. Everything about this is love. The love of dance, love of music with you at the piano, loving embrace of a mom, and the love of your family in the pictures. The light still shines in you as you leave and close the door. Beautiful! 💛🫶
@madalenaclaro7427
@madalenaclaro7427 Месяц назад
This song should turn into a universal song for all people who for some reason are not accepted by the others, violence, racism, xenofoby, religion, sexuality, disabled persons, every one have their pains, and no pain is more than another, they are just diferent. Sorry for my english. Hugs from portugal.
@bluegalaxy14
@bluegalaxy14 Месяц назад
If hell were filled with people like David, wouldn't that be heaven? 🤔 Either way, we, Archangels are willing to go anywhere with you, David. 💕
@Kamarca
@Kamarca Месяц назад
I'm not religious but when I heard him sing Imagine on American Idol I thought he was an angel.
@NoeliaPena-ll6ss
@NoeliaPena-ll6ss Месяц назад
Jajajaa buee
@thisisme1999
@thisisme1999 Месяц назад
Thank you David, a simple beautiful video so appropriate for telling the story of unconditional love. I wish you and Mama Lupe the best.
@jlsmithsfragilechaos477
@jlsmithsfragilechaos477 Месяц назад
When my child came out to us 6 years ago, this is very similar to what I said to them. We left our religion as well because of how they treated them and the rest of the LGBTQIA community. We were chastised for supporting our child and giving them unconditional love. So when this song came out it hit such a special spot in our hearts. To all of those who don't have support from their moms, I'll be your mom now.
@LisaBenjamin-jt4mq
@LisaBenjamin-jt4mq 29 дней назад
And myself as well. I am a mother of a young adult gay son, I am myself within the spectrum of LGBTQIA (though predominantly closeted, especially to my LDS family members), AND one who was raised LDS though I'm now completely inactive since 2012. I love both of my precious beautiful children unconditionally, and I will be that Mom as well for anyone who doesn't have that with/from their own Mom.
@jeremiahgabriel5709
@jeremiahgabriel5709 9 дней назад
Both of you mothers in the comments section: thank you. As a rainbow adult man, I don't know if you can ever know how much your actions mean 🌈
@sockpupplet3395
@sockpupplet3395 4 дня назад
You don’t know how much this comment means. I have no one to leave with me, but this song still means so much. But knowing that even if i just have some stranger internet mom, maybe i feel just a bit more loved
@LisaBenjamin-jt4mq
@LisaBenjamin-jt4mq 4 дня назад
@@jeremiahgabriel5709 you're so very welcome. 🥰 It just crushes my heart to know that there are those who are left/made to feel that they're not worthy of unconditional love, most especially from their own mother, just because of who they are and how they not only accept themselves as they're innately created but also their capacity and choice to love unconditionally. You ARE WORTHY, EVERY BIT AS MUCH SO, as those born heterosexual. Please continue to be your best wonderful self, and know that there's always a huge warm spiritual hug sent out to you from someone who truly loves you as another child of our Eternal creators/parents.
@LisaBenjamin-jt4mq
@LisaBenjamin-jt4mq 4 дня назад
@@sockpupplet3395 you're so welcome. Much love and hugs to you. No, I may not be able to physically leave with you, but I'm taking your hand and walking out with you spiritually. ☺️🥰
@SoyJohnMontoya
@SoyJohnMontoya Месяц назад
OMG, you made me cry!!! I’m pretty sure my mom in Heaven will switch to Hell for me!!!
@mformason5834
@mformason5834 Месяц назад
Most definitely ❤
@tylerfrederick246
@tylerfrederick246 Месяц назад
David, I am welling up in tears. Your song after listening to it 70 times since it came out March 28 changed my life forever. Every time. I listened to it, I felt the power. Oh, David I love this song so much! David, if you go to Hell, I'm going with you. Thank you so much for this beautiful, evocative and powerful song. Love you brother!❤
@mamawapikiya
@mamawapikiya Месяц назад
we will have a great gathering there together!
@akisaintlaurent
@akisaintlaurent Месяц назад
This is truly heartwarming. Your relationship with your mother is so precious it brought me to tears when I found out the story behind this song. I'm glad you have such a loving mother like her. And I'm so happy you feel more carefree in expressing yourself now, as someone who has been a fan since 2008. Hoping for wonderful things to come your way each day 'cause you deserve them.
@ftgjt21
@ftgjt21 Месяц назад
If a parent should choose between their religion and their kid, it should always be their kid.
@charlenemack7040
@charlenemack7040 Месяц назад
Absolutely.😊❤
@charlesmendeley9823
@charlesmendeley9823 Месяц назад
A religion that makes a mom choose between itself and her children is, by definition, false!
@homeatnumberninetyfive
@homeatnumberninetyfive Месяц назад
AMEN
@clare2439
@clare2439 Месяц назад
agreed!
@richardpearce400
@richardpearce400 Месяц назад
Agreed
@dbbush1141
@dbbush1141 Месяц назад
Beautiful! I’m a member and an ally. I hope our church comes to realize how much richer we we’ll be with you and others welcomed in to full fellowship. Not sure if you would ever come back because I don’t know you but I pray for the day all are welcome and no one has to choose between the church and their family. This song says it all.
@xXEGPXx
@xXEGPXx Месяц назад
That will not happen, the bible is an officially homophobic book, so unless the newer testament comes out this will never change
@anna-louisemahoney9273
@anna-louisemahoney9273 Месяц назад
I agree because I am also a member but I have a gay uncle and aunty
@charlenemack7040
@charlenemack7040 Месяц назад
I just subscribed to your channel. Have a wonderful weekend.
@carsonscott1107
@carsonscott1107 Месяц назад
Honestly, this is one of the best responses a believing member could give. Not asking us to come back, but hoping for the right kind of change so that others aren't forced to make that extremely difficult choice. I wish more Latter-Day Saints had your mindset.
@IndecisiveJR
@IndecisiveJR 21 день назад
I'm genuinely curious is this a concern...I have health issues so I haven't physically went to church in a while but I know my church has some gay people or lesbians. The pastor has spoken that he believes it's wrong but all are welcome and shouldn't be judged by the congregation. So the whole choosing between family and church thing sounds odd to me. My brother is gay too and his church is fine with it
@samreilly7152
@samreilly7152 Месяц назад
I am a faithful Catholic, but man this song hit me. I am not gay, but I have a best friend who is, and I know people who are. I know the God I worship would never love them any less for it. I did not understand the woman dancing in the church very much, but when he hugged her at the end, I was crying. What a beautiful song sung by a beautiful man.
@thatslife208
@thatslife208 Месяц назад
My take is she represents his mom. She resembles her too.
@mariettaborders1647
@mariettaborders1647 Месяц назад
@@thatslife208you are right his mom is a classically trained dancer and it does represent her
@scoutmattox1055
@scoutmattox1055 24 дня назад
When I first stopped going to church seven months ago David’s music really got me through the guilt. My kids have severe special needs and the experiences we had of rejection and being ostracized all while my husband was in the bishopric led to really bad ptsd. But none have looked at my like I have trauma, they look at me thinking that I must have had a crack in my testimony somewhere. My husband called me at work like it was an emergency when this song came out 😂 but it was an emergency in a way, it healed emotional pain that should have been urgently healed a long time ago. Although Ive left, I’m still working with the bishop and the stake president so that the special needs families that still go can get the help and support they need in hopes that my story can prove that testimonies can indeed break from disappointment and heartbreak. Thank you David ❤
@alissagalyean1843
@alissagalyean1843 Месяц назад
It destroys me that Mormon parents will be satisfied with only being able to visit their children who walked away from the church for all of eternity. Living a celestial heaven to have to have to continually walk away from your children is never an example of “godliness.” I’m so happy that your mom chose you and you still found a way to create a song that gives space to those of us whose parents made a different choice! ❤❤❤
@The_Man_Chidi
@The_Man_Chidi Месяц назад
But choosing to walk away from the Church is not also fair. When everyone walks away, who will remain?
@melon4966
@melon4966 День назад
My mam is an active member and hasnt left my gay brother side heck shed go to hell and back for him she love his bf like another son
@MyDreamIsAStory
@MyDreamIsAStory Месяц назад
I have never gone to church. My sister worked in many churches. She would preach about love, loss, and forgiveness, but yet stepped away from her family and refused to talk to us. If she were to call us today, we would still be here. But she refuses to answer calls and blocks us. So in a way I always had a negative view on church. In some ways I blame it for taking my sister away from us. Like maybe they had a part in making her ghost us. And in addition I live in a pretty conservative area of the country. I have seen so many people talk about God and go to church, but the second someone is different they shun them. I refuse to be a part of that. I believe God is accepting to everyone. He does not shun people because of who they choose to love or who they are. What matters is the goodness in their hearts. Evil isn’t being who you are. It’s treating people like they don’t matter. This song is incredibly beautiful.
@intanfawaida7767
@intanfawaida7767 Месяц назад
his mother is a classical dancer, and the woman dancing on the altar depicts the figure of Mama Lupe. I love this song Dave😊
@djdingwall1
@djdingwall1 Месяц назад
So very very beautiful. So emotional, touching and heartfelt.
@marcomarkuvic4837
@marcomarkuvic4837 Месяц назад
Hallelujah, what's it doing for ya? When it's in the way? Hallelujah, wish we knew it sooner Walking out with grace
@julienielson5671
@julienielson5671 Месяц назад
I left the church a few years ago, and it broke my heart to lose my community. It broke my heart to feel like I was letting my family down. One of the reasons I left was because I wanted to openly support LGBTQIA+ people and I couldn’t exist in a world that taught me otherwise. This song makes me ball my eyes out. Sending all the love and support to anyone out there who came out and needed some extra arms around them. Sending my love to those who did something hard like leaving a religion.
@jeremiahgabriel5709
@jeremiahgabriel5709 9 дней назад
As a rainbow man who escaped religion, also crying lots, thank you 🌈
@luiztavaresdelucena5148
@luiztavaresdelucena5148 Месяц назад
David, I, too, was a gay member of the LDS church. They might love us, but they will never fully accept us. You did the right thing. Keep strong, keep discovering yourself. We are humans and need to be loved. Stay strong, we the community are with you. ❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰
@fairywingsonroses
@fairywingsonroses 25 дней назад
I've hated church since I was 4. My mom and I fought brutally almost every Sunday because I didn't want to go. We've both left the church now, but the hurt and mistrust it caused never went away. I vowed when I became a mother that I would NEVER raise my own child in the church. It has been the best decision. This song really speaks to me. My mother put church above family, but this song sends such a very powerful message that it doesn't have to be like that.
@JedHenry
@JedHenry Месяц назад
I love it. For years the Mormon church used David Archuleta as their caged songbird. They loved him as long as he sang their tune. Well, this bird has clearly grown teeth, and he bites back!
@honeyb.981
@honeyb.981 29 дней назад
Beautiful metaphor of the caged bird. I don't even think of it as growing teeth and biting back in the end; the bird realized there was no latch on the door, so he pushed his way out and is now free. David hasn't seemed aggressive or especially volatile toward religion; it's more like he seems more relaxed and free, like he's not afraid to finally be himself
@JedHenry
@JedHenry 28 дней назад
@@honeyb.981 Valid point! Maybe I'm projecting my own angler a little, haha. Thank you for pointing that out.
@AaronNickolas7
@AaronNickolas7 28 дней назад
Oh my God, I LOVE that!
@villegasni
@villegasni 25 дней назад
They love everyone. And you should see the money the church donates to these so called organizations that want David to be there spokesperson. In the end they will have to answer to God.
@AaronNickolas7
@AaronNickolas7 25 дней назад
@@villegasni the Mormon church does NOT love everyone. They love their money giving members and tolerate everyone else. And the only organizations that the Mormon church donates to are the organizations that will make THEM look good. All they care about is money, asses in seats and publicity.
@atlantida250
@atlantida250 Месяц назад
What a beautiful catharsis, now you can move forward and live according to the dictates of your own conscience, I belong to the church in Chile, and I deeply respect your decision, may God bless you, never forget that not being in the church does not mean being far from God ❤
@nicoalbadan6577
@nicoalbadan6577 Месяц назад
I'm a LDS CHURCH member, and I am great with my life, I support David although his decision.
@tashahansen8531
@tashahansen8531 Месяц назад
I cannot fully express how deeply grateful and infinitely happy I am for you and your eternal mother ❤️‍🔥 I left the church eight years ago and it gave my son courage to come out very shortly after he knew that I was resigning. The agony he had been suffering was soul crushing - to think he feared me disowning him broke me. ❤️‍🔥 N E V E R ❤️‍🔥 ❤️‍🔥Thank you Thank you Thank you ❤️‍🔥
@heatherbrownmusic7536
@heatherbrownmusic7536 Месяц назад
I've been wondering what the music video would look like since this song came out. To me, the dancer in white represents how I always felt like I was doing the song and dance the church told me I needed to do. Always seaching for validation in white. "Look how good, how pure, I am!" It was also so real to me. It's difficult to describe just how devastating it is to realize the truth. And at the same time freeing. Thank you for this song. It means so much to me.
@jamesmorgan1967
@jamesmorgan1967 Месяц назад
The choreography was so tense and raw. It felt like such a struggle. I love your interpretation. Thanks for sharing it.
@rdhaley96
@rdhaley96 Месяц назад
Such a gorgeously-shot, raw, and honest video. Your candor in sharing your deconstruction with all of us has been really beautiful to see. And I’m so happy to see you at peace more now than ever. The beautiful thing about walking out like you did at the end is that you can go anywhere else now. There are no more walls. I can’t wait to see where you venture next. 💙
@jamybailey
@jamybailey Месяц назад
You said what I couldn't put into words!
@binah7744
@binah7744 7 дней назад
Hi David! I’ve been listening to this song all month. I was singing along with it and just started weeping. I left Christianity completely years ago, and the song brought up old feelings. It’s incredibly moving, and I’m so, so happy that you made this.
@DavidArchuleta-gv7ro
@DavidArchuleta-gv7ro 6 дней назад
@viannetsang4788
@viannetsang4788 Месяц назад
Awesome song 🎵🎶 Your lyrics reflect what people feel when they are raised in a very traditional culture that they can't break away from. So glad your mother is your constant support- an Archiemom indeed.
@CARLETTA1957
@CARLETTA1957 Месяц назад
It happens in a lot of religions but I don't see those people bashing their religion like he has. Just walk away and shut up! He not only left the church but he left his belief in God.
@fpinto2
@fpinto2 Месяц назад
@@CARLETTA1957you don’t get to tell David to shut up. Guess what? He won’t. He’s done being controlled. Live with it. And take your rage elsewhere. We’re celebrating an artist here.
@Slicksterzz
@Slicksterzz Месяц назад
@@CARLETTA1957 He hasn't lost his faith in God, not by a long shot. God and churches/religions are two entirely different things. The latter are manmade institutions, as prone to error, failure and corruption as any other. And if the LDS Church refuses to accept him as he is for no reason other than that they don't approve of who and how he loves, then they should be called out on their bullshit.
@mamawapikiya
@mamawapikiya Месяц назад
@@CARLETTA1957 good for him if he did! If not, that's his path - HIS path, not for anyone else to have a say about.
@chlyri
@chlyri Месяц назад
​@@CARLETTA1957easy to talk like that when you find it acceptable to treat people the way the church does.
@limbeta
@limbeta Месяц назад
Moved me to tears! Dogma is no match for motherly love
@lisagrace6471
@lisagrace6471 Месяц назад
That is a profound statement.
@littilwood
@littilwood Месяц назад
"If I have to live without you, I don't wanna live forever." Truer words have never been spoken.
@_betterwayz
@_betterwayz Месяц назад
Bow your head, don't be bold You'll survive by doing what you're told Said love is earned and we can't choose But the more you grow, you know the truth And all I want is to make you proud If I would run would I let you down? You said If I have to live without you I don't wanna live forever In someone else's heaven So let 'em close the gates Oh, if they don't like the way you're made Then they're not any better If paradise is pressure Oh, we'll go to Hell together You and me, that's all we need Blood is thicker than the pages that they read I'm afraid of letting go Of the version of me that I used to know Crying tears in Sunday crowds Took my hand, and we walked out You said If I have to live without you I don't wanna live forever In someone else's heaven So let 'em close the gates Oh if they don't like the way you're made Then they're not any better If paradise is pressure Oh, we'll go to Hell together Hallelujah, what's it doing for ya? When it's in the way? Hallelujah, wish we knew it sooner Walking out with grace You said If I have to live without you I don't wanna live forever In someone else's heaven So let 'em close the gates If they don't like the way you're made Then they're not any better If paradise is pressure Oh, we'll go to Hell together
@alonjmorales24
@alonjmorales24 Месяц назад
My process is hard for me, I am going through mental disorders, my mother does not accept the fact that I am an LGBT person, I left the church 1 year ago, thank you David for showing me that all is not lost.
@user-mz3px1xs2l
@user-mz3px1xs2l Месяц назад
You are far from lost! I felt free and at peace when I left the church. The burdens of perfectionism, scrupulosity, and always feeling like a failure are lifted. You have a wonderful rest of your life ahead of you. Live every minute ! Internet hugs from a proud dad of an amazing gay son! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@patrickklein2765
@patrickklein2765 Месяц назад
You should be very very proud of this song, the message and the impact it will have on many people. No "religion" has a right in any way shape or form to tell you who to love and how to love. Every structured religion should be teaching kindness, empathy and love for humankind. Simple. Be good to others and you will go to Heaven. Thank you for bringing your song and message and thanks to your Mom for making a courageous choice to believe in you and her heart!!
@JENALYNE
@JENALYNE Месяц назад
WOW WOW WOW. I can’t even imagine all the feelings behind this entire thing… so deep. The song is beautiful, the video is outstanding, the childhood clips are the perfect additive, the metaphorical dancer/hug is 💯 like wow… David Archuleta, you are THE BEST independent artist I know!! You and your whole entire team… 🎉🎉🎉
@leemori7741
@leemori7741 Месяц назад
Standing proud for you David ❤ God's love is always personal for each one of us, believe always.
@heidi_ohhh
@heidi_ohhh Месяц назад
I have such vivid memories of your American Idol season. A time when I was quietly struggling with the realization that I was gay- a very formative time. I can't tell you how cathartic it has been, hearing your song, seeing the video. David, from one queer ex-mo to another, thank you!
@ReyxuZ
@ReyxuZ Месяц назад
Forever an Arch Angel! Thank you for sustaining your music.
@pjselarom1290
@pjselarom1290 23 дня назад
To all the mothers who walk the talk. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY! Please put these singles into an album, Mr. Archuleta. Beautiful.
@annabelledodge9534
@annabelledodge9534 Месяц назад
Gosh , not me crying over here! I just love David and all his songs. He really knows how to move people. His voice is amazing 🥲 David keep singing and doing what you do please, your voice is so beautiful and so is your family. God loves you no matter what and so do we ! ❤
@Kelmiri
@Kelmiri Месяц назад
After being a faithful member for my entire life, I left a year and a half ago. It has been the most heart wrenching thing I have ever done, but it has also been the most freedom and peace I have ever felt. I am now allowed to be just me, love the woman I adore, and from the outside looking in I can finally see that that great foundation was made from the hands of man, and not God. There is so much pain in losing such a sure version of myself, but I am willing to walk this path to be free of a church that was never true and wanted so much of me for nothing in return. People will say we were never faithful, but that says more about them than what we had to go through to be here. I wish my parents had chosen me. You are so loved. Bless your new life, and I will love mine too.
@CalCalMilli
@CalCalMilli Месяц назад
You and your sweet mom are showing so many people what true love really is. Thank you for sharing your story with everyone. The little kiddo in everyone deserves to have a parent/grown-up in their lives that chooses them over religious dogma. Thank you again!! ❤
@rissa72878
@rissa72878 Месяц назад
So much love to you, David, as a mother who chose her children & niblings over a church.
@Beebsentrance
@Beebsentrance Месяц назад
I just lost my Mother. I pray to God to trade in my life to my mother, because I coukd never live without my mother. I was in depresion and grieving , but I decided to continue.Thanks for the song David. I wept. If I couldn't continue to listen it because the song is beautiful with gut wrenching lyrics. Love to every mother in the world. Love to you David ❤
@naynaythegreat1
@naynaythegreat1 Месяц назад
This is a beautiful tribute to all the moms out there who accept their children no matter what. I'm sharing it with my mother, and I hope others do too!
@sharhondajohnson8023
@sharhondajohnson8023 Месяц назад
Yes go David Archuleta great song. Hell Together is a great song. I like it listening on Fri 4-26-2024. You Tube Music brought me here.
@mothersgauri4137
@mothersgauri4137 Месяц назад
This song should win song of the year on every chart that exists....really. David , his heart, his soul and his music....what a tremendous gift to the world.
@chazarcola7639
@chazarcola7639 Месяц назад
It won't.
@cathymoriarty2464
@cathymoriarty2464 Месяц назад
This song & video is so beautiful & emtional. I’m an active member of the LDS Church & it makes me sad you went through what you have with the church. I love you unconditionally & have since you were on American Idol. Your mom is AMAZING!!❤️
@Baytona81
@Baytona81 Месяц назад
Love you living your life to the fullest, not stuck behind a cult.
@sanaltmr
@sanaltmr Месяц назад
DAVIDDD!!! OH MY GOD!! THIS SONG IS BEAUTIFUL!!! Hell yeah!! We all are going to “mormon’s hell” together, which means HEAVEN to us!
@cheswynprins
@cheswynprins 22 часа назад
The more you listen to the song, the sadder it gets. This is the type of song that should actually be climbing on the charts. David is a great artist. He deserves more credit and recognition than what he's actually given. This is just one of the many reasons why most mainstream artists don't come close to artists like David. Shout out to all the parents who have their child's backs like David's mom.
@mariacaballero8215
@mariacaballero8215 Месяц назад
Doesn't have to be about coming out. I feel your mom ...my family all fell away and it's not the same. I don't want to be in a heaven without my kids.
@freemangriffin4953
@freemangriffin4953 Месяц назад
I love this song so much! It reminds me of my late husband Jamie and my late mother Alice - she softened her homophobia through her love for my husband. While she ought to have done it for me I am grateful that her seeing our relationship as valid and beautiful helped her to end her indoctrinated "beliefs" (that aren't really beliefs). Thank you, David, for this beautiful song!!!!!
@orielbrigs
@orielbrigs Месяц назад
This is so POWERFUL!!! I am in tears how courageous you and your mom are…THANK YOU for showing us this strength and this POWER!!
@visions30
@visions30 Месяц назад
God is always with you as long there's love. Keep the faith and stay truthful to yourself David Archuleta!
@notenoughtreble
@notenoughtreble Месяц назад
I can’t move on from this song David. I’ll never get this closure in real life… so having it here is healing. Thank you to you AND your mom ❤
@brandonwilloughbymusic
@brandonwilloughbymusic Месяц назад
Even as a heterosexual male, this song speaks volumes on how Love conquers all. What a great message!
@avianlord1304
@avianlord1304 Месяц назад
no matter what you do , you alway choose the kind and good path, god and goddess will always watch and bless you for that.even in the darkest hour i love you david !!!
@tiendungle1398
@tiendungle1398 Месяц назад
This could be an all time comeout song. You make us proud, David! We could sing this song to all the parents out there that we’re still their kids and love them no matter how.
@chariethe
@chariethe Месяц назад
Leaving the faith of my childhood was one of the hardest and most fulfilling events of my entire life. It really shifted my reality and I was frankly overwhelmed by the pain that came along with it. But it was worth it! I'm happier and more fulfilled than I've ever been. You are so lucky to have a mom that chose her heart over everything else.
@castiel3674
@castiel3674 Месяц назад
I can't even imagine your struggle, but from all your songs I could feel you're still fighting. David, you're not going to hell. And if the main requirement to get to heaven is based on who you sleep with on your bed, then i don't want that heaven ❤
@SparklySpencer
@SparklySpencer Месяц назад
I just watched this for the first time. I paused as you walked out the door. I cannot tell you how moving and beautiful the expression is in this! I am crying rn. David, I really admire your family's dedication to memorializing their experiences together with video -- in some ways I believe is helped you grow as a person and helped you be more comfortable on camera. My family... lets just say they were once better at family memories with pictures. I am glad you were able to highlight your growth over the years, its an important transcendence and acceptance of who you are as a person, and it validates your decision to leave a discriminatory book club behind. I have great compassion for your mother and this video is more complete now than the beauty you showcased with the audio version only. I am not sure additional verses are needed (as mentioned on twitter). I understand this is the unconditional love a parent has for you and the beautiful expression and respect you both share for each other.
@goniners20
@goniners20 20 дней назад
This may be one of the most powerful and insightful songs I’ve ever heard. As a former worship leader that came out 10 years ago - I can’t tell you how much this song means to me and how beautiful the relationship with you and your mom is. Thank you for sharing this!
@alextruong1826
@alextruong1826 Месяц назад
I was 16 when my Mom knew that I dated a guy. 2 years later I dated a new one who was then my partner for 11 years. Throughout that time, I noticed my Mom gradually accepted him but she never said it out or verbally shared her feelings to me. My ex and I broke up in 2020. I'm now with my current partner since then. When I let Mom know that I'm dating a new one, she just keeps silent. I actually never have an acceptance from her either formal or informal. I feel that there is a barrier between me and her that prevents us to share our thoughts and feelings. I tried so many times to let her know my feelings, hoping that she would have shared the same but her silence really bothers me. I'm still waiting for her acceptance until now. And here listening to this song, it made me cry and wish that my Mom and I could just be like David's Mom and himself. (We are Catholic too and I did think of ending my life just like David did)
@Glamorrous
@Glamorrous Месяц назад
Your mom is amazing for supporting you and speaking about it. It’s not easy to leave a community you were raised in but she’s 100% right. God loves his children and no one deserves to be told they don’t belong. I’m happy you get to live your truth 🤍
@SilentMasquerade
@SilentMasquerade Месяц назад
So beautiful... It's raw, it's real and it's the truth 😊 the only message from God is this. Love with no condition, no shaming.
@rhadpenguin
@rhadpenguin Месяц назад
Cried my f***ing eyes out to this song. It's challenging to not receive that kind of support but makes me all the more happy and proud of your mother for having the courage to stand by your side, even if it means leaving her old world behind. Thank you forever David
@jrileybigjar
@jrileybigjar Месяц назад
Beautiful. There is nothing better than parents or people for that mater who GET it! It should be more than ENOUGH for a parent who is proud and accepting of thier son and daughter treating humanity well and having respect for others because they taught them to be like that. No matter how they were born. Bravo David!
@outwardbound2241
@outwardbound2241 Месяц назад
If there's a God he loves us just the way we are. Keep on shining David and Lupe. Beautiful song ❤
@DrDJBadMed
@DrDJBadMed День назад
He loves us all, but not the sin
@jennifercleveland5703
@jennifercleveland5703 Месяц назад
David, you are saving so many families, so many lives. I wish it could hands been an easier road for you. We are so lucky we had unconditionally lovng moms who would choose us over anything.
@carolclement8322
@carolclement8322 Месяц назад
Love the music video. It seemed like the dancer represented your mother's internal struggle as she tried to make sense of her conflicting feelings and beliefs. 2:49 felt powerful, when the dancer stood still and looked in your eyes, like she was finally seeing something important, understanding, and her internal conflict was over. Very moving music and video! Thank you for sharing. I admire your bravery to be vulnerable, open and authentic.
@octavianotovar2850
@octavianotovar2850 Месяц назад
In some cases where the parents are not behind their child. This makes u think you wish they were. Life would be easier . I just get jealous sometimes that I don't have that. This song is amazing.
@Erin-Thor
@Erin-Thor Месяц назад
Beautiful, touching, emotional and sung giving David’s voice a chance to show off his amazing range and talent. 💜💙💚💛❤️🧡
@pastelpastelpastel
@pastelpastelpastel Месяц назад
Exquisite. What a love story you created with visuals and your music ❤️❤️❤️ The flashbacks of motherly love. Your mom dancing! And the love continues with the last embrace. Such a tender, simple video. Bravo to all involved. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@Geoffhassett8612
@Geoffhassett8612 Месяц назад
the upper notes are amazing, so beautiful, and beautiful lyrics. "you said if i have to live without you, i don't want to live forever" wow, this songs makes me so emotional.
@josephhicks3190
@josephhicks3190 Месяц назад
This is so nice, thoughtful, and beautiful that David dedicated this song for his family. We need more people like David in this world and it makes me feel like I'm not all alone at all in this world👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
@hannahhatt
@hannahhatt Месяц назад
Omg 😭😭 this video!!!!! Gah this will help so many people. I never knew I needed this song until you released it, it’s made me feel so validated after leaving the Mormon faith. Thank you David 💖
@kanielagifford293
@kanielagifford293 Месяц назад
I'm in tears, so touching, you (David) are a blessing to so many and to myself!!
@alizadavis9217
@alizadavis9217 Месяц назад
I have been following your journey since the beginning and I just need you to know how grateful I am for your vulnerability. I've been in the process of leaving the church for the last few years and it's so cool to see someone I've always looked up to being able to thrive outside the church. it's still a struggle every day but I find comfort in knowing I'm not alone in my experiences. love you David!
@orlyagawin2786
@orlyagawin2786 Месяц назад
Such a bold statement. This song, beyond being an antithesis on the church and its oppression, is about a Mother's love. Such love is faithful, strong, unconditional, and unending. I admire you, David, for taking this big step in the narrative of your discography. All the love to you and to your mom!
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