Dealing With Difficult & Annoying People 

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Or you can just tell them to get lost..

I don't know but facing their truth hurts so much

And that's why I love Nature!!!✌️💗

@@shelll9254 Me too! I adore nature. I go to the woods or cemetery all the time to get away from everyone. It's better there..

It's good that you know how to be happy with yourself, but don't let them get to you, don't become like them ( rude or angry) . It's your life live happily with harmony. I wish you luck ❤️

just ignore them

@@alinaderi3953 how? If that person keeps getting in your face and hogging all the conversations?

Correct only works dat why . Stupid n dumb ppl . 100% need punch good lesson

@@alinaderi3953 no punch in face

agreed

Walk away every time is one way (they can't talk to them self is one wày) or if you want to piss them off, (wistle the Laurel and Hardy tune) it's telling them what you think ,,,,

Waleed Akbar yes, they are often annoying

What is yr tips to deal with critisers...

true it's the most annoying thing when they think they know everything and often the ones who make the most mistakes but when they pick on your mistakes they make it look as though you have commited a great crime i hate double standards 😡

@@zainabmoledina8508 yeah

@@zainabmoledina8508 sounds like my annoyjng 15 year old sister

True though...i really want to but they will report like a kid..

@@kopiiseverything994 Yes through these suggested approached we always hear ,we know the true solution is to analyze them and confront the (repressed motive)guiding their behavior. Asking them irrefutable questions they can only respond truthfully to"What's the attitude all about ?Your psycho drama? Yea whats up with that?What are you mad at without provocation ? "If it's unprovoked ,it's you right? "etc.While realizing you dominate them like a hawk over a mouse because they have no insight or self reflection ,keep deducing back their behavior to it's initial cause, usually buried deep in the unconscious.Make them dig it up by mocking the excuse they give.(What does that have do with anything?What does that have to do with me?It's usually an inferiority complex or jealousy they are compensating for or transferring onto you as a host.If you don't get anything out of them and have to deal with them don't contribute to their frenemy ploy.They will use that as a shield. Establish that you vehemently don't like them and you are after them like a lion spotting a gazelle.Use them for sharpening your mind observing every flawed logic of what they say. 1+2 usually =4 with these types, to skip around their true motives.(rationalizers)It's always a casual apples to oranges thought process of mindlessness with them.Like stunted babies they don't understand their emotions and behaviors yet.These types are not cureable, it's a behavior ingrained from their formative years.So don't compromise with their excuses or feigned friendliness..It's their crutch they hit you with later.Let them know your analytical eye see's right through their ulterior motives.Battle their obnoxious with cold deduction as to why they act without reflection.It's always a form of projection they themselves have rationalized and minimized as something more respectable.As bad as it sounds the most effective solution is to just punch them in the face,they will leave you alone. But this usually involves a heavy fine.So just disarticulating their whole frame of logic is all you can really do.They are not in touch with reality objectively.Their behavior can only be rationalized and isn't defensible therefore it can be reduced into just infantile fits whether they admit to it or not.

@@sobek-re3761 yikes. appreciate the effort to give advice but .. dude your grammar is everywhere, i couldnt understand a thing you said.

@@AkaSuzukiOtakuDesu I think you're confusing grammar with vocabulary and terminology or something.You couldn't understand a word I said, seriously? Ohh kay.I'll take that as a compliment.I guess it was a little heavy, blunt and over articulated or something but I made it crystal clear.I don't know what you're talking about,read it again.Those kind of behaviors aren't easy to explain,everyone knows that.That's really the whole point.The mainstream,Wayne Dyer,passive approach may sell alot of books but ...Nahh it's not realistic.

It's my family members...I can I do this

Yeah!

Shallow statement like how do i " Stop unable them"

Yes

Enabling is a no no!

Thanks Mr Nobody, will have to check it out. Thanks for watching! :)

Will check it out myself

thanks. will look into it..

was it good?

Gant8065 me too bruh

Gant8065 HAHAHHA

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Me too but more difficult than you think

What else are you forced to do by this person?

mikey777799 how did you manage to stop and turn off people when you have to work with them every other day?

looking buzzed out on something helps.

Smart!

When you understand why it makes it easier

I call them scammers. Watch out!!!

Thanks very much, we sure are going to try!! :)

Ratalyst yay!

Learn about narcissism and cluster B personality disorders and your life will become much more easy :)

What if they watched you watching this video

What if you watched them watch you while you were watching this video, and they recorded you watching the video while they were watching you? Im so sorry

@@lordsasquatche8608 well I dont like to watch people I get enough problems of my own, but if i could watch them watching me watching this, I wouldn't need to watch this, What do you mean your so sorry for?

Try and learn more strategies that they don't know so like that you get a unseen comeback

Turn off the north american continent power grid you need balls for that

Haha, yes it's all too common Fez :/

Thanks so much Baselard! Probably because we put out some videos, and then had to have a break for a while :/ We will be back with hopefully a lot more videos over the next few months!

Zhiling Fu I love it what you said. God bless you. Wise words. Thank you !!!!!!!!

Sorry to hear you're in that situation Tony. We would recommend for people that pick on you at work, that you don't show them a reaction that you're affected by it. Essentially standing up to them in a non-confrontational manner, sy showing them that their actions don't hurt you. When people tell you to 'shut up', seems very confrontational, and you can either walk away, or tell them that everybody has a right to speak (of course giving them the opportunity to speak also).

If a friend tells you to shut up or you talk too much they are NOT your friend. Wake up to the fact. Not nice to realise but it will empower you to make friends with people who treat you as a friend and with respect.

Patrick D Unless they are joking about it and it’s something you both say to each other

If someone tells you to shut up tell em make me if they just get mad and don't do nothing you've won that confrontation

Thank you for your views Patricia!! :)

Thanks so much LEE, appreciate you watching. There'll be more videos coming soon!

You're most very welcome :)

Thanks Alicia, appreciate the kind words and support!

+Ratalyst You're welcome!

Suggest a different approach that you CAN do? Stroke their ego and ask them to guide you on a few of the areas you're not clear on?

What a brilliant comment RfR! Thank you so much for the support, it's very encouraging :)

Sounds like mother. Lol. A compulsive nagger

obliged ? then find a job rent a house or you are 12?

Same here my mother father complain me always no matter how good I try to be to them

Gabriel Rodrigues me too

Me too gabe

Gabriel Rodrigues me too. Mine is awful

Thanks you! We will keep it up indeed, some more videos are on the way :)

Thanks SP! We sure hope so! :D We are working hard to get a heap of content flowing continuously! Thanks for your support.

Thanks GE! Really appreciate it :)

Thanks Pradeep!

Thanks for watching +Rebecca, and glad you got something out of it :)

Thanks Ronin, glad to see you here :)

I totally agree, after a year of doing this keeping my control and not showing any upset of annoyance, I had to take stress leave. I am just back to work now only two days and their solution is mediation. Which in my opinion with a bully is just a licence for her to say and do what she wants to her victim and then they have to shake hands go back to work if they want to keep their income. Although I am about the 10th victim of hers and there is a pattern there. I have had this twice before and have moved on and now I will have to move on again. Some people just love the whole thing and to her mediation is her way of thinking she won because this has got to you. Bullies will always blame the other person and will never stop.

Thank Y@30. We will try to get more content up in a few weeks :)

Thanks so much Arthur, really appreciate your comment :)

Thanks so much for watching Dion! :)

Thank you Pradip :)

Thanks for watching :)

Thank you for watching it :)

Mine too

Finallyn someone else whonhas the same problem

Trust me you are not alone I know that feeling

Thanks Rockha2! Glad to have you on board :)

Thanks RD, we hope so too!

Hi Rigum!

Because their [new agers'] content appeal to and boost up people's egos.

Well we're glad you're one of them! Thanks for your support Haleema :)

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Thanks for watching Jonathan :) We have had a surge in interest on our Introverts video, so the subscribers are picking up. Now that we know people are interested, we are working on quite a few more videos and should get them out real soon. Thanks again for you interest, really appreciated!

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+Ratalyst great video, thank-you

Good luck John, sometimes it truly is the only option.

BazingaDude 24 Hi , it best for you to just stay away from him if you can. If not then Tell him, if you tell anybody what I told you, I will tell some other things worst things about you more than what I told you. I will find out & you will be embarrassed You will look really bad more than me.