Dear Future Wifey S4, E420 - Guard Your Mouth (Pastor Eben Conner) 

I have a similar testimony.... I went back to college in my late 30s with my best friend and our first class was Algebra. Math in the past was never our strongest area so when we got in the class she said I'm not gonna pass this class. I said well I'm gonna make an A. She looked at me crazy and I said watch what you say. So then she changed it and said well maybe I'll make a C. She made her C and I made an A. She said I'm gonna do like you from now on I'm making all A's from here on out. I said good. We both graduated at the top of our class.

This whole message is a small window into lessons learned in my life. Over the years in my life, the Lord has often humbled my heart, spirit, and tuned my conscious so sharp that when I am contiplating in my head to speak on a topic that I felt well within my right to do so, the Lord would mute me with peace and tell me to remain humbled because that isn't your battle, it is his. And this too shall pass.....This was another positive life message for me and so full of joy and laughter. I love the many blessings from this podcast. To God be the glory.

This one was an eye opener, a lot of what was said I've recently been convicted of. I came across this episode just in time, may seem like just another episode but this is life changing for me. Thank you Laterras for your 'yes'. God bless you.

WOW! This was exactly what I needed yesterday before I open my mouth😮‍💨 I pray going forward...LORD! HELP ME PLEASE w/this tongue of mine🤐 Laterras your podcast and the guest you bring give life🌱 for me. Thank you for allowing GOD to use you as a vessel and being in Obedience to HIS WORD🙏🏾

This is such an awesome episode....Getting black families back together again for the great wealth transfer and Kingdom dominion. When he talked about the coffee, I, laughed so hard. Even though I really don't have a problem with my mouth and attitude. My parents were married for 61 years. But I've experienced it before. The episode with RC & Lisa Blakes was the bomb.

Never heard those true words before "the devil spoke to me first" LOLOL but thank you pastor for being so real; stay encouraged and let's all keep following God's path for our lives. Thanks to you too as always LW.

Man, I needed this! I am lining up my mouth, I will be testifying soon! ‘Human factor....’ talk about it GOD has faith, the way He trusts us....amazing to me! The Pastor put his phone down

At time stamp, on about 1:01:01 (approx) I had to stop the video because I felt something when I heard you say "I want to know the land better than anyone else" I had to replay that part a couple of times. I cannot put my finger on it but it is directly related to your future wife. Either way, a great session with Pastor Conner he is an out-of-the-box leader. Will put September on the calendar!

I had to watch this twice. Hilarious! The words that come out of my mouth can shift my life - that's a word right there. FACTS 💯! Pastor Eben 🙌🏽 If I ever have to bleed, I'm bleeding up - not down. Great podcast!

Another powerful episode that spoke to me. I'm in a place of transition and this is exactly what the Lord has been revealing to me. Thank you!!! ❤

My God, my God. You are mighty and wonderful. I appreciate this message so much as I wasn't going to watch it because I don't talk to anyone crazy so I figured guarding my mouth was the least of my worries. Low and behold life and death is in the tongue. I definitely need to change my words. Thank you Jesus for continuing to feed me.

He look like he can be related too Mark Curry aka Mr. Cooper

The best reminder. I been taught this way for years. I don't 'Say it' Enough! I have to continually feed on the Word that produces life. Great Podcast. God's Word is EVERYTHING! Yes he sense of humor his a plus.

This podcast never fails. God is definitely the driver behind this podcast, the host, all its topics and guest! This one saved my life: has shifted my faith and has reinforced how the power of the tongue can make or break you! Changed my life and I will give my testimony soon.

Here I am a year later listening to this and it’s an on time word! 🙌🏽

The transpsrency of this epidode was wind beneath my wings and confirmation that my words changed my world!!!

Thank You, thank You Father... You never miss an opportunity to speak Your mind. Glory be to God for this conversation 🙏🏽 🙌🏾 ❤ My word! Faith Faith Faith! Coffee story 🤣🤣🤣the thoughts that went on in your head killed me!

Bless Me Lord To Speak only Faith Filled Words in the Name of Jesus. No matter how I feel or whatever the situation is,. Help me God to Hear and Adhere to The Residence of Your Voice. 🙏🏾

Wow...I had been going back and forth in my feelings about ministries asking for a specific amount of seeding. This post opened my eyes to what I've read and know to be true... SPEAK THOSE THINGS THAT BE NOT AS THOUGH THEY WERE and YOU HAVE NOT BECAUSE YOU ASK NOT! 🙌🙏🙇❤📖❤🙇🙏🙌

All I feel....is GRATITUDE...all the way in Europe... You both touched my 🤎 and soul! Thank you for your honesty ...this is what I needed..to NEVER give up!!!

This was a very valuable episode. There’s some real nuggets here.

Love this interview!!! Life changing..

Thank you so much for reminding me on guarding my tongue and heart.

This episode blessed me so much I had to pause and take several notes...

This episode left me bleeding. I know I am working on guarding my mouth. Word received.

Best episode, hands down. Look at God.

That "Jesus go to the car I'll be there in a minute." took me completely out. Lol He had that Simon spirit.

Not he got the coffee, so he needed the cup!!!🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♀️ Host just cracking up😂😂😂

One of my favorite episodes!

Stop! U talking too much of my business 😂

He reminds me of Mark Curry 😊

Great perspective on his divorce

May need to take a trip to Texas in September for the singles service

All I can say is thank you. New subscriber

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I love this!

Good

🇯🇲 😂🐔Foot soup

'Jesus go to the car, I'll be there in a minute' LOL 😆 Right!!! Love the transparency and episode!!! The angels 😇 have to harken to God's Word. They don't know the difference between us saying it and God saying it. 'His Will is His Word' #Chills 👏 🙌 👏 🙌 👏 🙌 God!!!!! Amen

I CAN CHANGE MY LIFE….BY CHANGING MY WORDS!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

I am literally at a place where I am just operating on faith when it comes to a specific issue. This episode was so reassuring that God will come through for me, I don’t know how but he will. I will come back to testify. Edit: Jesus did it. Wow I am in awe of God!

The Starbucks story is just too funny but a very valuable lesson.

I love that you said we can marry the person God chose and still fail at it. That's good word. I hear so many ppl say if it ended in divorce, it WASN'T of God.

I can totally relate to how sharp your tongue can be. I too could cut someone with my words without a care on how they felt. Well, it’s been 5 years now since I’ve made a total change with everything in my life, it’s such a breath of fresh new attitude. ❤️👍🏾💪🏾🙏🏾

Wow, this episode just stirred my faith, I paused just after your discussion on declarations to declare what I would like to see, to recall the promises that are yet to come to pass. Awesome 👏🏽

The Starbucks story 🤣🤣🤣🤣!! I do struggle with negative words spoken to me when I was young. A cycle I'm trying to break - please keep me in your prayers 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️.

Pastor Eben You've been a blessing to my friend JP and his family. Seeing his maturation ministered to me, now you minister to me online. Thank you for your diligence to the Lord.

When I tell you this message was for me I'm not joking!!! I keep keeping myself down due to my mouth and God sent this!! God please guard my lip gate!!! That's now my daily prayer 🙏

That’s good! And a whole word….”your mouth is either going to bless you or, curse you”…..SO true….and something I needed to hear. Right on time! Jesus!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

I am watching this episode now and it blessing me so much thank you so much. Side note chicken foot soup is good for the soul.🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

For the past year God has been telling me that "You can have whatever your faith will go shopping for. I believe that everything that God has for us is either within our reach, or its within the reach of our faith

This one is such a blessing! I laughed, hollered amen multiple times, all while being pierced with The Word of God causing me to reflect on what comes out of my mouth!!! whew!!! 🔥🔥🔥

This episode is powerful! Our words hold so much power! Thank you 💚✌🏾

This episode is soooo enlightening! I skipped over it so many times...but I finally said let me see what it's about because EVERY episode this season has been absolute FIRE. And this one exceeded my expectations by far. So much wisdom!!!! I am spiritually full and overflowing. I need to sow some seeds.

I SO GRATEFUL YOU CHOSE HIM AS YOUR PASTOR! REAL ANOINTING!

"I think he needs the cup too." 😂🤣😂🤣 "I saw them dial three numbers & I knew I had to leave. SMH 🤣😂🤣 And yeah, culture shock is real. Just like when I move to Georgia (& Texas in 2000) back 2004. I'd NEVER seen so much black people & Hebrew Israelites in my life, except on T. V. & magazines. It was TOTALLY different from me having been born & raised in Phoenix, Arizona. It took some getting used to. 💯💯💯

This brother is emotionally mature and wise. Bleed up, not down. Awesome mindset. How wonderful to have people in your life to bleed up to. I need that. It’s been a CHALLENGE during the pandemic. I am online every Sunday, and most Tuesdays and Wednesdays, however I miss the fellowship, engagement of being in church in person, and having those Godly, wise people I can reach out to for council…

People really got to seek GOD if marriage is for them or not.If it's not its ok.

Let your words be seasoned with salt that you’ll always know what to say. (excerpt from Colossians 4:6)

This episode is a confirmation on my intentions to speak life out of my mouth at all times. If I’m not speaking life, then it doesn’t need to be said. Whew, this series is speaking to my cells!!

Awesome message and word. I like how the Pastor's transparency reaffirms how we are mankind, before we are Christ like in a lot of instances. We will never be so Holy where we can cover up those flaws and imperfections. And with this, God gives grace🙏 Keep bringing that fire brother.

The Starbucks gift card is brilliant because people who don’t attend, usually have a view of the church as always wanting money from them so to have a church give something to them(other than a track or a quick sermon to convince them to come) is powerful.

"Change your life by Changing your words" "My heart controls what I say" Pastor !!..... My God....If this podcast didn't force you to pay attention to your mouth and heart, you missed the whole meaning of of GUARD Your Mouth. Thank you Gentlemen for your transparency. Thank you genuinely for speaking on how you need to honor GOD more in our mouth and heart. And how it will help you identify where you are in your walk! Maturity and wisdom over time should change your perspective and how you speak over your life! Feelings do tend to get us in to trouble and cause us to speak out of emotion instead of self-control and alignment with the word! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Your authenticity is awesome and much needed!! Another one Laterras, you gave us what is needed in this season!! Keep doing what you doing!! Kingdom Royale is coming to full fruition!! Blessings to you both!! 👏🙏😁🙌👏🙋‍♀️ "What if the words of your mouth can shift your life!!"

Am I wrong for thinking Pastor Eben is fine?🙈 Lord...let me close my eyes and just listen🤣

This guard your words series is getting my thoughts, actions and words ALL together. 😫 This will be on repeat 🔂.

"Ur mouth is going to bless you or curse you" that is powerful. Thank you for another inspiring podcast.

I absolutely enjoyed this episode. So profound. So hilarious. So encouraging. Gotta speak it in order to see it!

Jesus go to the car, I'll be there in a minute 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

THIS IS ONE OF THE BESTTTTTTT PODCAST, HOLYSPIRIT IS DEALING WITH ME WITH MY HEART & MOUTH. THANK YOU FOR SHARING. GLORRRRY TO GOD.

This is so so on point. Thank you. Its so great to see black Kings supporting homeless black future Kings. Thank you and may God continue to bless you 🙏

Laterras I needed a good laugh and this Pastor was very real and very hilarious. Episode with a lot of lessons. Keep on doing a good work. Shouting you out from Jamaica 🇯🇲

That coffee dash to the chest for Carmel on the cup's side Testimony, That's transparency 😂 Stay Humble and This podcast PREACHED betta than we shouted🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you Pastor Eben and Laterras for this one! Keep speaking into Kingdom Royale's future and manifestation Laterras!!!💕👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This really Blessed me, the Word and the words❣

I truly enjoyed Pastor Eben. He is my brother's pastor. When he said to guard your mouth no matter what I see. God has been on me about Proverbs 3:5-6. Thank you for the confirmation to shut up and trust God. I am not married but it blessed me.

Im not a christian or religious but I love and enjoy your Podcast.....thank you

Greetings Kings 👑 thanks for the wonderful message and transparency. Mr. Laterras I sent a Zelle donation from my ministry for Kingdom Royale! Your Vision is a Legacy that’s already impacting lives! Grace, Peace and Blessings to You, Pastor Eben and Kingdom Royale!

This was a great testimony on faith as well as guarding your mouth. I appreciate it. I'm struggling in an area, but this is truly helping me to stay focused. "Change your words."

I really appreciate this pastor wisdom I'm going through a divorce myself my husband call it quite.I refuse to bleed down I didn't know that what I was doing I was listening to the Holy Spirit thank you for this man of God 😇

This was powerful 👌🏾 I will pray that I take care of my words. I like when the pastor mentioned that our words can was destroyed us or lifted us up 🆙. Thank you for reminding me to be careful with the words that comes out of my mouth 👄

This is so good, Had to watch this again!!! That is soo true. When I was going through my divorce my Pastor told me no matter how much I may want something to work, I can't force someone to stay in something they dont want to be in anymore....And with God's help and with no anger nor bitterness nor resentment in my heart towards my ex, I was able to let her go, and release her back to God...That was two years ago. And since then my life has catapulted to another level with my relationship with God, and in every area of my life

This conversation was WONDERFUL!!!!! Such a great Word!! THANK YOU SO MUCH to you both!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🔥🔥💙💚💜

Thank you for this episode. I really needed this. I watched the episode with Pastor Connor and his fiancé this morning, and I had to find this one.

Wow A Starbucks Ad just came on right after the Starbucks story 😊

The angels don’t know the difference between us saying it and God saying it!!! WHAT???!!! Sir, you just made me happy 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

I love his Jamaican story. Yeeees, that's awesome....He sounds like Pastor Colleen and Dennis Rouse, the highest giving was during Covid.At Victory World Church.... When I visit Texas, I'm coming to this Church.. Such an awesome story....Love it.

Great podcast... Yes, monitor your words and speak life not death into it.

Definitely yes, when I was speaking positively about my life, everything was going on well! I tapping back. I am more than a conqueror

I was blown away yesterday watching this and shared it. My daughter heard the first 20 minutes and had me to send it to her. It let me know I'm human and am not the only Christian who has the capability to lose it. I wish the married couple here could be on your show (ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QG5wQcy6Rg4.html) because ironically, it reinforced what was conveyed yesterday. I've been a fan for a while and hope one day to sow, but for now, my way of sowing is watching, liking, and sharing and being subscribed 3 times.

my trajectory is that I grew up seeing pastors begging from congregates and were on full-time ministry. some people would give them scrap and this kept me sceptical. My uncle who was a pastor was always telling me to join the ministry. Plus what kept me single is that I never want to marry someone who cannot look after the family. My sisters were always looking after the family as the husbands either went for other women or neglected the marriage. So I never wanted to have a child I would look after alone because my parents were my role models.

I need to see this, don't do cursing be when I get push I spit out things I can't take them back

Amazing interview, loved the transparency and the Godly wisdom shared in a practical way. Thanks LW! I love this podcast, it’s truly a blessing to my life.

Woaw amazing episode and I just can’t stop watching it because I have been believing God for $3700 so that I can evaluate all my credentials as a foreign trained nurse and register and start my nclex review classes and go to South Africa and write the exams..God have mercy on me because this will change my life and also help me to change my mothers life,this will be a great win for my family 🙏🙏🙏🙏Thank You Lord for You are able and that You are still in your miracle business🙏🙏 Lord I am going to stop crying because this episode has given more reasons not to cry because $3700 is not bigger than Your throne. Lord I pray for divine connections beyond human understanding and I know that whatever I am going through is nothing before your throne,thank You Lord 🙏🙏🙏

A-Ma-zing!! Podcast “Guard your mouth” Great interview! Love my Pastor Eben. Thank you Laterras Whitfield and Pastor Eben for blessing us with God’s word and principles. I listen and follow the teachings of Pastor Eben and he keeps it Real. I needed to receive this spiritual feeding as a reminder especially right now in my life dealing with my job. Speak it and believe it in your heart, both must be in sync. I admit to being guilty of praying but not guarding my mouth and words. I am growing spiritually in Christ. As some like to say I’m a work in progress. May God continue to order my steps as I continue to follow him and align me with his word. I enjoyed the message and podcast. Thank you and may God bless.

So many gems in this podcast! Laterras may your son see himself as God sees him!!!

"If I'm destroying you verbally, I'm not edifying you like God requires." Hmmm...hmmmm

This Really Blessed Me and a lot of things the Pastor said... is confirmation of what I am taught at my church. I loved this podcast!!!!

So the tongue is a little member and boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by a small fire! And the tongue is a fire. The tongue is an unrighteous world among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the cycle of nature, and set on fire by hell. James 3:5-6

Jamaican food is world renowned! Chicken foot soup is delicious 😋.

My pastor is 3 words Ah Ma Zing 🤣🤣🤣❤️

Every episode of Dear Future wifey is an eye opener so much that you have to reflect and change your path all in God's name...🔥🔥 Therefore I pray that all of us in this comment section is unconditionally loved,protected,anointed with his blood...Amen

This episode has encouraged me to be consistent with what I confess, and to believe in my heart that what I'm confessing will come to past. My husband and I are going trusting God with our finances due to a job loss. However, I confess that we are more than conquerors. Not only will we have provision to meet our needs, but we will have more than enough to meet the needs of others!! Also, I confess that my husband and I will be able to be a great blessing in helping your vision to help our young black boys. I claim it in Jesus Name!! Amen!!