I lost my dad from a heart attack, an alcoholism an that day I learned some day my mom would pass she go t sick in 2018 an made it through she is still sick on oxygen an the last 5 years I lost 2 aunts,my grandma and cousin from overdose this week. My other uncle committed suicide. I have mentalillness an deal with that. If I could go back to when my dad passed I would tell myself it's not my fault. I'm 33 now the fear of loosing people never goes away. But for some reason when I learned about Islam it made me feel like this won't be the last time I see my family. Beautiful video.
Islam teaches us this isn’t our real life anyway, it’s simply a test. Thank you for sharing that, and I think you’re one of the strongest people for being able to bear all that
My dear, if you feel like talking to someone anytimrle please do let Me know. Always there inshallah. Sister to sister. Suicide isn't an excape. Play surah baqarah in your house for at least 40 days. Don't miss ok
Exactly, I had that sad epiphany of like your parents are growing up with you and growing into old people. Your siblings are growing and going to leave and live their separate lives. We forget that parents are aging right before our eyes.
I am christian, none of your words were harsh, but eye opening. You are doing Allah's work! Beautifully worded. Music culture is extremely toxic and puts narrative in our head, but we should protect it like we do our body. We should put in what we value whether it be the quran or other wise texts. Thank you sister, this is helping me on my path to be a better human overall. You deserve all the good things that shall come to you!!!!!
8:00 I had a near death experience since that happened my world view had changed dramatically, the only thing I think about is how I can increase my deeds, minimize my sins as much as possible and how I can increase my knowledge in Allah before I die...
May Allah protect us from bad endings. May Allah allow us to acknowledge and be grateful for all that He has blessed us with. May Allah forgive us all and unite us all in Jannah, where we’ll have no pain of separation nor any fear, Allahumma ameen. 🤍
I can hear and see you talk forever and ever. ❤.. One day I hope to be lucky enough to have a face to face conversation with about life love and Allah and I feel you have alot of insight and knowledge about life , real life and how to live the rite way according to Allah. I hope you never stop what you are doing and I hope you have 100,000 subs before the end of the year. 😊
(00:00) 🎙 Introduction (00:28) 💡 A Deep and Blunt Topic (01:06) 🧠 An Eye-Opening Experience (02:11) ⏳ The Concept of Time (03:15) ⏸ No Pause Button for Time (04:21) 🗝 The Key to Prioritizing Life (05:19) 👪 Appreciating Loved Ones (06:19) 💔 The Sting of Realizing Loved Ones Will Pass Away (07:23) 🌄 Living in the Moment (09:00) 💉 A Near-Death Experience (11:17) 🙏 Cherishing Every Moment (13:40) 😌 The Perspective of Being the "Luckiest" (15:14) 🏞 Savoring Every Microsecond (17:02) 👨👩👧👦 The Value of Family (19:17) 🕌 Family Grounded in Islam (20:24) 📜 The Hadith on Good Deeds and Legacy (22:25) 💫 Death as a Soulful Journey (23:01) 👋 Farewell and See You Later
Growing up I always felt grateful knowing no one in my immediate family passed away. Fast forward to end of 2021 and my oldest brother, baby niece, mother, aunts and uncles all passed. It was one loss after the next. The thought of death doesn't really hit you until you experience it with the passing of a loved one. This life is so short. May Allah grant us all a good end. Ameen
Hi Farah. Just wanna say thank you for creating such thought provoking dawah videos. I'm an Indian muslim, currently living in 🇨🇦 as an immigrant. I recently went through some rough times both relationship & career wise, & it took a toll on my peace, confidence & imaan. I'm trying to heal and your videos hv helped me a lot in that process. Also they hv inspired me to reconnect with my deen. Thanks a lot for that & may Allah bless you!
@@munsirabdulla1900india is not the best place to live as a muslim and in the time of The Prophet Muhammed PBUH the sahabas did immigrate to Habesha twice
@@Prozonxx During RasoolAllah time there were only few muslims.RasoolAllah had to dispatch few Muslim to protect Islam and the Muslim. I am not talking about only Indian Muslim.How can a Muslim from any country justify their economic migration to west with war migration to Abyssinia? India has 200 million Muslim. There are cities and states with sizable Muslim populations.Why can’t move to those areas? Do you think west is safer places to practice Islam?Or else all of those Muslim involve in dawah there?
@@munsirabdulla1900I'm not a kind of person who will explain my life decisions to random ppl on youtube😂. Most of the comments like this leads to nothing except unecessary arguments. Allah knows my intentions and that is enough for me.
We really are not here for long subhanAllah. My brothers and my sisters, fall to the ground and give sajdah to Allah, say Allahu akbar and say thank you to Allah almighty. Oh Allah thank you for enabling us to pray. Really what is there to fear? This is Allahs world
this is such an important reminder that resonated with me more than i can ever describe. ive been going through a low right now in terms of my imaan and spending time with family etc. so this was the greatest reminder id ever come across and it couldnt have come at a better time. alhamdullilah. thank u so much for posting these farah, please keep these videos going, because they do so much good..
I realized this after my mother's diagnosis. And when she passed away everything changed on completely another level. I never really understood what death and separation was until I saw my mom leave and I couldn't do anything.
16:35 that’s me too. i get so in my head about these mundane things that feels so big then i remember my family or parents might die one day and it snaps me back into reality 😭😭
Wow. You... are... fantastic. I don't know why the algorithm dropped one of your videos in my feed (but I'm glad it did). And I've only just skimmed a few of your videos so far. But you are mesmerizing. You're a natural at this. Your delivery is SOOOOO genuine, comfortable and just awesome. I think you're going to be a MONSTROUS success. Like top 0.01% level success. And I'm pleased with myself knowing this. Congrats. And DO NOT STOP!
I think it’s beautiful you were able to come to the decision of reverting without having been born into it. That takes a lot of strength and will power. May Allah swt guide them as he did you. Inshallah when they see you practicing they will be inspired. Just make dua for them and work on getting that Jannah entrance, so long as you are orienting your decisions with that mindset, you’ll be doing good deeds automatically and inshallah you may be able to save them in the hereafter. You can literally wish for anything in Jannah, so don’t lose hope ♥️
@@usraa7006 JazakiAllahu khairan dear sister, ameen may Allah سبحانه وتعالى guide them 🤲🏻 you can indeed ask for anything in jannah but you can't save non muslims from the fire so may Allah guide us all to islam and maintain us on the straight path ❤️
However i don't think you should constantly have this thoughts, you will be in constant fear as if you're sitting waiting to lose that thing whatever it is. Because this what happens to me, i want to cherish them to the fullest but i don't want to constantly think that i am going to lose this eventually.
i needed to hear this, ty sis, jazakhallah khair may Allah continue to bless you 🫶🏽 also, the comedic timing of the ads ??? 😭😭 i be tearing up and then all the sudden "AUDIBLE 🤩🤩" and then i start crackin up ^^
I was stuck on room that was on fire before one month. The fire started from the door so i Literally had to run through flames. It was a matter of seconds when i was inside the room that i realize (i am gonna die!!) and then i start thinking about my parents and their loss. Cuz my sis and bro were with me also. One room with 4 ppl on fire include my cousin. But we run through the fire. As a muslim the fire hurts. But the idea of hell is going to be crazier. I am always saying thanks god. That we ran from such fire. I spent 20 day in hospital my sis is still there also my cousin. Life can turn upside down in a moment. We had plans we were gonna go to a holiday to japan after come back form my uncle home but it vanished. In matter of 15 min in total. So yeah life is not Expected. Lets always be almost ready to die.
I've been thinking about this lately, found an interesting idea to remind myself of my own mortality. a life calender to check every week. I used to do that on an excel sheet but recently I've found a site that creates a printable poster for you for free! I'll add the link later for anyone who'd be interested in doing that. Seeing a poster of your life and checking it every week might sound like a depressing idea to some but for me it motivates me and reminds me to live more intentionally, to take hard decisions faster, set my priorities right, remember to prepare for my after life
I love listening to your podcasts because it’s like talking to your friend, where you can relate on thoughts/incidents and learn. I love the relatability that you may not necessarily get from other people
I lost my mom two years ago. I am honestly so blessed to have had her as my mom and have had the bond i did with her and I will cherish it for the rest of my time here. This podcast really resonated with me because im like the first example, after losing my mom i'm so AWARE of death and I talk about my mom, death and how close it can be alittle too often that It probably can be depressing to others. But it REALLY does put things into perspective. Thank u for this podcast! I feel like were both on facetime rn and sharing our thoughts and ideas!
As salemou aleykoum. Thank u so much for this video may Allah grants u Jannatul Firdaws. I know that you are Saudi. I wanted to know if you would think it's a good idea for a half tunisian, half french to live there as a dentist or engineer? (i am only 17 years old, but I plan my future job based on Saudi Arabia😅). I speak english fluently, I can read and understand a little bit Arabic, but I am serioulsy learning it. I heard about kind of "racism" against North African (even though I have a light skin). But my dream is to live there to practise my deen in a better way and raise my future children in a better environment (I live in France). JazikAllahu khayran
A very very VERY similar thing happened to me. I was in the car (perfectly normal) and suddenly I started hyper ventilating, experiencing heartburn and my arms were feeling super tight I actually couldn’t breathe lol. At that moment I had tunnel vision and I thought I was having a heart attack. My parents took me to the hospital and the doctor did some ECGs and other cardiac related tests, she then told me I was fine. At that moment I felt like I was the luckiest girl ever, another thing at that time in life I was being severely bullied and was very looks conscious ; I really believe Allah made me experience that situation to show me that life is more than what is superficial and to this day I’m so glad that I experienced that pain and trauma in the hospital.
this opened my eyes to a lot of things, and just last night i was looking at mom sleeping and it hit me that oh she is not gonna be like taht forever and there will come a point where i will be alone, Whatever they do, we need to appreciate them more, if not for our own sake then at least for allah
Where did you get that long closet behind you mashaAllah, I need it so I can minimize the amount of clothes and stuff I have so I can have less things please 🤝🤍
I would like you to wear a new hijab(my fave is green hijab) in each video. Don't you think it would be more beautiful? Well Allah loves beauty, not that your current one has any problem but I'd like to say a change wouldn't hurt you or your channel. From Taha Ja'farzadeh. p.s.: Farah in persian means happiness .
I just lost my mom due to heart attack in the morning Eid al-adha recently, she gone right in front of my eyes. I was surprised because I wasn't expecting that happened pretty soon. But a few days before she left us, I felt something really different that I'm going to miss her. I kept looking at her face when she hospitalised. I noticed something is really different but I don't know what it is. She usually will be discharge after 2/3 days. The fact that doctor said she's doing well. I'm slowly accepting her death because I know everyone will die eventually. It just that the thought to process the whole moment before she passed away is so painful. But I'm glad I had opportunity took care of her, gave whatever she want and needed. It such a weird experience, sad, and traumatizing. The good things is I can see our family becoming really close, openly talk about sensitive issue, we all face challenges altogether. It is harder to say goodbye after we brought her to funeral. Sometimes I felt like I wasn't a good daughter, I didn't put much effort to say I LOVE HER, I always busy with work to keep financially support my family. I've learnt a lot. I am no longer bother about wanting to die *suic**** the fact that I still struggle with mental illness long time ago. I just want to embrace my time in this world with my beloved family and friends while I'm still alive. I want to keep learning and giving before I die. I want to be available for the one who care about me the most. I hope I'll be fine someday. Thank you for your sharing. Hope you're having a good day. Stay safe and god bless you.
19:00 You are right. I'm living with them as they are part of me and I'm part of them. As you said real Muslim families living as a unit with the ultimate goal of worshiping Allah and praising him and doing the good deeds in life before our short journey on earth ends.
It was narrated from 'Ubadah that the Prophet said "Whoever loves to meet Allah, Allah loves to meet him, and whoever hates to meet Allah, Allah hates to meet him."
OMG, I almost died for few times, bad to say I think that, but I would rather die from natural disaster or something like that, for example I could die in Istanbul, because I wanted shopping on that place where blast bomb(, but I went there day before around same time) and I also was in Adana there was the earthquake versus I almost collapse after surgery it was horrible feeling it like extremly intensive nausea etc..
Such a beautiful reminder maShaAllah. When I start remembering death what crosses my mind always is the Day of Judgement. I just try to imagine it and I start asking myself lots of important questions like: am I getting ready for it? Am I getting closer to Allah? Am I giving this dunya more of me than I should?... the list can go on and on, and just thinking about that gives me motivation and makes me looking forward to meeting Allah even more, inShaAllah 🥰 . It makes me realize what really is important. Elhamdulillah ❤️ Keep up the good work Farah! May Allah make these podcasts your ticket to Jannah. Allahume amin!
