Thank u for the insight ! It’s indeed v difficult to have Venus in Virgo . I from my personal experience can relate to your this video as I have Venus in the first house with sun Saturn and mercury in Virgo . Relationship fails , marriage has challenges , career went for a change .always found myself empty .. finally at 38 years of my life I studied again to work for social welfare and started to accept what is offered to me without expectations and I am finally moving towards peace .But yes it’s so difficult that no matter what u feel stuck!
I have the same planets in Virgo ascendant sun,Saturn,mercury,Venus . really facing lot of issues in my career,and marriage life .most of the astrologer said me after the age of 39 years Venus .mercury get matured .
I dumped someone with this placement today. He was so critical all the time it definitely did sour the relationship. It’s the only time I’ve ever been in a relationship and had to dump someone and felt no sorrow but relief in doing so.
I know this is an old video, but I just have to comment on how I love your honesty along with remedial measures. You are a true Brahman completely qualified to take the position of an astrologer 🙏
My husband has this placement.. hes too critical like a mother-in-law that it killed my attraction towards him.. i try but to live with this everyday is difficult.. too much calculations and manipulation in the relationship.. her was physically abusive when i was pregnant.. i endurerd it all because i loved him.. 10yrs of relationship and there is so much pain in me.. this relationship always felt one way.. i feel so alone... But i hold on because its so easy to divorce and i don't want to do that i don't give-up at all.. i keeep reminding myself that i married for life and its a commitment i wont go back on.. may god give me patience and take me away qiickly.. he constantly says that there are good ideal womern out there.. since two months into marriage it hurts me.. i used to react in the beginning nowadays i haver gone numb... I don't talk anything other than necessary with him.. i don't take his criticism to heart.. i ignore di my duties and go on... I know yhis universe knows whats inside me... May god giver him happiness.. may the higher power let whatever is right happens.. i surrender.🙏
Oh, amazing! And you’ll have him raise your kids? I could just sarcastically say: you are so strong to hold on! And stay strong through the punishment of a narcissist. 💪🏽 I’d already start to save some money for your kids therapist. Or you just want your kids be like you. If divorce is so easy nowadays, why don’t you do it then, instead of suffering? Are you more worried of how others may see you? When did it start the brainwashing of women to think: „ I’m extraordinarily strong, staying with that insufferable man without character, who’s physically abusing me.“ WHEN??!
Staying or moving on is upto you and you only know what's suits your situation...but whatever you choose....am rooting strength and peace to you...❤...in either ways may peace chooses you and heal you... lots of love to you sister..❤
@@8all8at8once8 hi.. I do not know ur name.. i don't know if I shud address you as brother or sister.. all I ask is you are not in my shoes.. so please stop judging me... I have no family mum or dad.. no one who can support me.. I gave away all my jewelry and saving for his business during lockdown he had a major loss in his business to support him inwas working until lockdown and after that I had a high risk pregnancy I became a diabetic and struggle health wise.. if I step out today I don't have a roof nor food for my kid.. i know all this was my stupidity to trust someone is so naive and wrong these days. I couldn't take his abuse anymore so I have recently come to the conclusion of leaving him. But I need to wait sometime to figure my away out.. i have to put my toddler to play school and get a job wait few months save up for a roof and some good and move out with my kid. I always used to beat myself up for my kid to not grow up without a father what if she asks after she grows up... But now I realised she will also ask me if I put her through this abusive environment to grow up.. so I will choose the less harmful one for her.. i don't know if am doing the right to thing but my intention is there will b peace for my kid to grow up. So, please don't jump on someone and make ur conclusion because u don't know brother/sister that what the.hell that person is going through.. i care less about what anyone around me think.. am worried only for my child's future
@@harithavalmiki9390 thank u... It's been a long time hearing a kind word.. thank u for ur kindness.. do pray for my kid we need prayers to get through. I am leaving just figuring out my way. Thank u again.
Sir, I am that unlucky lady having vinus in 6th house in Capricorn ascendent, moon sign and also in navamsha chart...And going through Vinus Mahasabha...Whatever I suffered during this period can't even express...May God help me to come out of this situation...Thank you for this video sir because now at least won't blame anyone else for my misfortune...It is all because of my past bad karmas
I have Venus in Virgo in 12th house. Past Relationships have been lousy. I married and after 9 years divorced. I don’t feel hopeful. Ironically I came upon astrology after my divorce.
Sorry...I would Like to defer...but when u over give ,other half start taking u for granted....relationship should be two sided in healthy way....As a virgo venus...we should start loving and valuing ourself first ,then only we can extend love to others....And its true unconditional love is true form of love
I have quite good Venus in my chart in Capricorn in 5th with Lagnesh Mercury and parivartana with exalted Saturn. Saturn in 2nd. Also Venus ruler of 9th and Mercury is ruler of 10th and 1st. 7th Lord in 3rd ( 9th from 7th), no aspects on it. In D9 Venus in Libera. My marriage life is fully sh...t, 2 divorce and half of my life fighting with my ex, non-stop courts now for over 7 years. I have Ra+Sa in D9 in Capricorn and Rahu Mahadasha, so not always Venus is guilty for marriage .
Im a man with this placement. Heres some insight about this placement: Advice for ladies for dealing with men with this placement: you are going into a very adult relationship where there is going to be alot of expectations of you. But your man is going to be of service to you and very rewarding as well. That has its good and bad. Take it how you want. If you know, that youre not built like that, to handle that level of a relationship, where your man doesnt treat you like a little girl and he is expecting a full grown woman, then stay far, far away from this type of man. Most women are not full grown women, theyre, little girls, so theyre going to have a difficult time adjusting to dealing with that energy because that means alot of accountability/ responsibility and work. Thats where this "lack of love/the love feels like work" angle comes from but its really not true. It doesnt mean theres no time for fun in the relationship, it means that fun has its time and place. Venus in other placements have a fantasy child like view of love and relationships where connection is based on chemistry, initial sparks, and physical attraction. Youre not going to get that with a Venus in virgo placement. Hes going to be giving off friend zone vibes. But with that heavy dose of realism, this placement is much more prepared for a real marriage that lasts then the other placements because theyre so realistic. As a woman, all you have to do is pull your own weight, handle your business, and be constantly self developing yourself. This placement is all about boundaries, and expectations. if you can do that youll have a great partner.
Hi Punniet! Debillitated Venus in Virgo squares/opposes houses where " value" as a mutable not fixed or hingeable thing. So much ease in Tau and Lib shows true not as a labored , studied, dogmatic or copied value
Mercury, sun and Venus all in Virgo in 4th house in d9 chart. Sir is the debilitation cancelled? How will married life be? What r remedies? In D1 Venus and rahu in 11th house in Pisces.
Sir, I have debilitated venus in hasta nakshatra, whenever I am going to relationship, somehow disputes start in my family.. they don't like my gf. But I have parivartan yoga of venus and mercury.. Mercury in libra.. Does it cancel debilitation??
I have venus in Virgo and mercury in libra, sir will this create parivartan yog? Here should I consider my venus as debilitated..? Will I have the effects of this debilitation?
I have a debilitated Venus and yes have suffered a lot in marriage. 2 operations due to Crohn's disease etc etc. Am a brahmachari although married. Cheating husband. Verbally abused when I spoke of divorce. No one really helps. That's how the world works I guess.
Punneit Sir, I am taurus ascendant and Venus falls in 6th house but Libra sign. Saturn also conjuncts Venus in 6th house. Ketu Alone in 7th house and Rahu + Moon in lagna. Mars + Jupiter in 8th House (Dhanu).. I was school topper but always failure in romance, later in 2007 father left us, he used to torture mom for money and I used to prevent them since childhood. I have seen so many battles inside house that I have no trust over marriage (Well I dint do anything bad) Now I am working as a software architect since 2007, job is good.. but due to this family issue people isolate us, also I am not a "salesman" that I can boast myself, so people does not even care. This social stigma made me bachelor even 37th year running now. What a curse ! Can you share some light or can I take some consultation? I have tried matrimony but people had insulted us (as my dad is alive but not with us) so much that I better stay and do my job not selling my respect. Nasty society and illiterate people, this all made me workaholic and I keep doing study and research in technology but life is dry.
My Venus is in Virgo and Mercury is in Libra. Iam a cancer ascendant.. will it be considered the same or any rasi parivartan laws applicable here? Please enlighten me..
@@jomonjos3462 in the process of trying to get married. I won't lie, this relationship started with lots of struggles but my darakaraka is also Saturn in aquarius so my spouse is a bit unconventional when it comes to relationships. It all depends on your chart so don't worry and try to stay positive