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lol just got a new apartment after going through a horrid divorce and everything in it, I’ve built such as furniture cause I told myself I don’t want to be one of those women who has to depend or need a man around when I’m usually working on things in my home and I feel so DAMN proud of myself! Relationships and love is overrated! Love yourself first, ladies! We’ve been sold fairytale lies since we were little girls.
Giiiiirl ‼️ I took my boys to their dad's apt & the woman in me was sooooo tempted to help him fix it up, suggest some curtains, some candles - JUST SOMETHING to spice the place up a bit. Then I remembered who he was & I channeled my inner savage. He's so gross, in his hallway closet are clean clothes mixed with dirty clothes 😂he doesn't even have a hamper 🤦🏽♀️I really had to scale back my desire to fix it. What is it about that an innate need to fix stuff or help ppl?? I'm honestly starting to hate that I'm like this🥴 Nonetheless I just walked through & said "wow you gotta lot of work to do...oh well guys mommy see you in a couple days!"
Yes yes yes!!!! I think one of the first things I came to realize on my healing journey was that most men actually do know how incredibly valuable women are, despite what they say …..even some of the toxic, narcissistic ones, they absolutely know the reality of a woman’s worth but most of them will never admit it. All the negative stuff men say about women is projection of them feeling so unworthy themselves, they have to make women feel worthless. The classic misery loves company. If most women knew how truly valuable we are, they wouldn’t be able to exploit us in every way possible. Thanks to channels like yours and social media, we are finally getting there as a whole in realizing this! My abusive toxic high school/college ex dusty ADMITTED this to me in his late 20s. He always put me down bc he knew I was out of his league and if I knew my true worth, I’d leave him. So in his eyes, the only way he could keep me was making me feel like I was the lucky one to have him. Straight sociopathic.
I am not an exotic woman (Unambiguous black woman) but this is one of the best videos I've ever listened to and spot on! I've never heard a woman break it down like this about these dusties! Women ADD to men's lives and men suck the energy out of a woman's life!
yes! most guys don't have the ego boost of a woman texting and checking in on them every couple of hours, actually caring about their day, having someone to vent to etc
Im so sorry for commenting a lot but i can't help it😂 When you spoke on how we can make a quality of life for ourselves & those around us, that really hit home. In our old house my ex's cousin came over & i had some homemade veg soup in the slow cooker & we were making pumpkin hot chocolate bc it was the fall. Im a huge decorator so it was giving all the fall vibes. His cousin sat down & was like "N&^%$, you don't deserve dis woman & dese churren." They both started laughing & my ex proceeded to tell him how fat, broke & lonely he was (which was true but it still didn't make his cousin's statement any less true either). What im trying to say is we've had nice homes & not so nice places BUT NO MATTER where we lived, i ALWAYS made it a home for myself & my children. There were days when we had absolutely nothing & my kids didn't even know it. Till this day, im always setting the mood, making things nice & pleasant for us bc i enjoy comfort & giving comfort to others. Men don't have the know how to bring comfort to themselves letalone others. Like you said, they're content with living low quality lives & when they're tired, they'll simply find a woman who will give it to them. Subbed‼️thank you so much ❤
Omg yes! Women are the ones who know how to make our homes more enjoyable even if we are poor. A man will literally sleep on the floor for 3 years and watch a TV with no tv stand. Most guys barely even have pots and pans in their home . 😂 women will have appliances for cooking, things to make the apartment smell good, and we know how to make things festive and fun. Most guys don’t even know how to have fun and enjoy their everyday life without including video games, seggs and corn…. Women know how to enjoy the simple things.
I have no idea how you came up on my feed as I am not light skinned or mixed. These de-centering men videos are hella funny and true and I’m married and co-sign what you say.
I went to Wafflehouse today and the toothless middle age male manager was bullying the female waitress who was prob in her 20's. Started out teasing but at one point hit her with a towel and I could tell she was just taking one for the team. I know woman have play they role...but come on its Wafflehouse
I am dead serious about hair. I feel about hair the way most women feel about height, its a deal breaker. Luckily I'm on the spectrum of asexuality, aromanticism, and am an introvert so men have always been fodder to me. I rather enjoy being along especially with the options out there. Thanks for keeping me cracking up with these videos, all facts! 😂😂
Im convinced my dad chose my mom because she's a pickme and she's easily impressed and tricked. And in return me and her got the short end of the stick as usual!
Your videos have helped me so much more then therapy ever did 😂 i grew up in a cult so the last thing i had to unlearn was male worship. Think about at a young age us girls were taught to pray to a man when in reality its our mothers that do everything. There are no female gods. So you grow up subtly worshiping men subconsciouly
Been listening to this series as a late teen to warn myself and if others around me are triggered (listening in private or earphones) it's proof it's real . Accidently played a series of decenter men series around mom she got triggered (the older the marraige it gets dusty) she's proving it's true😂😂😂😂😂 no offence to mom but marraige is dusty!
Yup 😂 my parents don’t know this channel exists . They would probably get mad. (They’ve been married for decades and have been through hell and back…) and yeah, this is supposed to be a secret channel that you’re not supposed to let others hear because others will get too triggered by it .
Omg I work with a guy who has one eye to the left I think it’s a lazy eye. He got mad at me because he doesn’t have his license and therefore I wouldn’t consider him
My friends mother who in her 70's was bed sick and still had to get up to give her 70's husband his meds and called him her other baby...I never want that for myself.
I was talking to this guy and I said how I wanted losing my virginity to be romantic and he responded with a crying laughing emoji. He also was an avid 🌽 watcher so he thought i really had audacity to want to center myself and be made to feel like a princess especially when losing my v card because it can be a painful experience
Omg the dude is mad!!! Dont give him the v card ! I lost it as a challenge in my early teens and deeeeeeeppplllyy regret it… it scared me for many years i didnt even wanted to be touched… i had bad experiences on top of bad experiences after i tried to put me put their again… i finally found one that broke the cycle and kept it at my level and we both worked to satisfy us both! Im not with him anymore (he wanted to work abroad) but the experience that i had woth him makes me hopeful to have someone again who wants to give ; not just take and be holes to be used!
Listen, I’m not an exotical but I’m so happy the algorithm recommended your channel. I’ve been binge watching your de-centering men series and it’s giving me life!!! Agree with every single word.🤎
