Decorating Our New Christmas Tree! 🎄🎄🎄// Garden Answer 

You will never regret teaching Benjamin how to respect someone else’s property. He will always be welcome in someone’s home because they will know he knows how to act. Drench yourself in the wonder and beauty of the season ... we will all survive!

The tree is beautiful! Your parenting of your "Child", is 100% right! Teaching him at an early age boundaries and respect you're not going wrong! I applaud you and Aaron for all the hard work you put into your family and sharing your lives with us the viewers! God Bless and Merry Christmas!!

Glorious tree Laura...and parenting is hard. My Mum had a saying when I was growing up...look with your eyes and not your fingers. When out, we weren’t allowed to touch anything without permission...taught my children the same way....❄️🎄🥰😘🇦🇺

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas.....especially since Laura's face is decorated with glitter! 😍

It's beautiful and I agree with you on Benjamin...we learned to not touch and my Mom never strayed from what she wanted to do in the house. Your a great Mom Laura!

HELLO LAURA! LOVELY! MAY I ASK HOW MANY TREES YOU ARE DISPLAYING IN YOUR HOME THIS YR? AS FOR NOT "CATERING" TO BENJAMIN, I WISH MORE PARENTS UNDERSTOOD THAT CONCEPT. FROM WHAT I CAN TELL YOU ARE A GREAT MOMMY! BENJAMIN IS SO VERY BLESSED!

The tree is beautiful Laura.. Russel approves.. an angel on top of your tree and one under it 😇

You are doing Benjamin a great favor by teaching him to be well mannered.

"We look with our eyes, not with our hands!" That's me in every single store shopping with my kids 😂. That tree, though. Just beautiful.

I absolutely love spending time watching all of your videos...I especially enjoyed your parenting observations. I am recently retired from my 47 year first grade teaching career and it is refreshing to hear someone express the need to use everyday situations as teaching tools with their children. You will be greatly rewarded! The tree is lovely as is your family! Happiest of holidays!

That parenting technique makes so much sense. Benjamin will grow up to be a very well behaved boy. That tree is beautiful. Great job

Love love love your tree!! I wish I had the knack for such talent!! As for Benjamin yes spend as much time with him! You can never get that time back!! Teaching him to not touch and respect is the best thing you can do for him!!

We need "We Love Russell" T-shirts !

I’m laughing so hard at Russell since I have a cat doing the same familiar crunch on the tree. Your tree is lovely and you are teaching Benjamin the right way. Love your channel it’s my favorite.❤️🥰

I was an antique dealer and I took my children with me all the time going to auctions, estate sales and antique malls. They were taught from babyhood not to touch and as a result we became known throughout the antique community and they were welcomed everywhere. Your tree looks lovely! Why not craft your own angel, you could incorporate fabric or ribbon that has a special meaning for you. You could use a doll figure from a craft store or perhaps you have a doll from your childhood you could use.

Your tree is beautiful!!🌲🌲🌲 And Benjamin looking for Russel is sooo cute!😊 And your parenting is spot on! Boundries and life skills early on will pay off later in life!😊

I love the final shot of Russell sleeping under the tree. He looks so peaceful.

The tree turned out beautiful as usual and I loved Benjamin and Russell helping you out this year! The shot of Russell at the end was hilarious. I completely agree with your parenting approach and also glad that you are scaling back a bit this year. But let's be honest, your idea of scaling back is most people's version of amping up!!! Thanks for the Video!

Russell is my favorite 😂 I have three rowdy cats, so I understand! So much fun and mischief!!💖🎄Your tree is lovely. I LOVED this video! Do more decorating videos! Benjamin is a lucky boy 💖🎄

Beautiful tree! I love that you are spending the time to teach your darling boy how to be mindful of things that are to look at and not touch. We were not heavy handed with our sons, but taught them to respect other people's objects as well as things in their own environment. Did it work all the time? Nope. But I have to say I didn't decorate to avoid mishaps. I did a certain amount of childproofing of our home for safety’s sake and I’m not gonna lie I did keep certain delicate items out of reach, but for the most part it worked well. Our cat is a different story...she’s a climber. You can't even see the cup hook in the ceiling that I use to anchor the tree!😳😬

This tree is perfect. I love how it turned out, and the tree itself is quite a treasure in itself. It looks like a real tree from where I am sitting. Your ornaments are beautiful, and I really love the tiny lights all over. I could go on and on. I love Christmas, and if anyone is not in the mood, they will be after viewing this video. Thank you.

You are teaching him right Laura, they won’t learn if you don’t start when they are young. Love the beautiful tree. ♥️

Love, love, love your approach to teaching Benjamin not everything is to be picked up/touched. Manners matter!!

Laura, none of us know what we're doing when it comes to raising our children, we simply do the best we can to raise our children with great morals and ethics. From what we have seen you and Aaron are great people and doing an amazing job raising Benjamin. 👪

You’re tree is just beautiful. You’re doing the right thing with Benjamin . If taught early to respect things it will become a natural behavior as he gets older. As an educator of young children, the best way I found in teaching them ‘gently’ not to touch things that are off limits, is the expression, ‘Use your eyes’ rather than constantly say ‘don’t touch’ ! Believe me, it works.

"I could fuss with this ribbon for hours." I can totally relate.

I always...always put ornaments "inside" my tree as well as the "outside." Also...I was the only person I knew who does it. lol Woohoo... I'm not alone. lol

You are doing a great job with Benjamin! He respects the cats and the chickens. And by involving him in the process of decorating the tree he feels ownership in the creation. He learns that things are breakable and it's not a crime if something does break. Thank you for sharing! Peace and Joy!

Right on target with little Benjamin!!!

Doing a simpler Christmas also. Sometimes simpler is needed and just as fun. It’s the spirit that’s more important..

Such a beautiful tree, and I enjoy all of the music you and Aaron select for your videos!

Can you have a christmas house tour and Christmas Yard tour in night to see your beautiful Christmas lights

Beautiful!!!! Love your approach to parenting. Same way my mother brought me up. She never put things away, she just let me know they were off limits. Wishing your family all the best for the season!! ❤

I was told to put up a gate around our tree - nope! Baby gon learn today! 😂

I'm watching this again. Love your Christmas decorating spirit and style. Merry Christmas to your family! 😀

Benjamin will learn to "use his eyes and not his hands" on the tree, Russel on the other hand may be a lost cause

You are absolutely right teaching your child respect of things. You will see that he will self discipline himself as he gets older! Love the tree!❤️

1. Love the glitter on your face from decorating. 2. Love the final shot of Russell sleeping under the tree 3. Everything looks gorgeous. Love the stories of your ornaments 4. I am not a world traveler, sadly. But, I did get the trip of a lifetime, and went to Europe with my daughter. My favorite ornament is a white glass pine cone from Belgium. I'm an empty nester, with no pets. This year, all my ornaments are glass. Imagine my shock on thanksgiving, when I walked into my living room, where 7 adults were watching a 5 year old shoot his nerf gun into my tree! He'd rummage through the tree, get his bullets back, and go again! I wish his parents taught him to leave trees alone. Crisis was averted, he was very nice and did not shoot my tree anymore after I asked him not to. 😏. 5. And Benjamin clearly will be an excellent tree decorator in the future. You should get him trained on loving to fluff the branches as soon as possible. 🤣🤣. He is so cute.

Beautiful tree and wonderful parenting skills! So many adults don’t teach their children boundaries anymore. I could go on a rant about that but I won’t. Great job all around 💚🙃

Love the tree, love the ornaments, especially the kitty one at the end. 😸 I completely agree with your parenting method. Too many parents remove all “ obstacles” instead of teaching boundaries and respect. Those kids grow up to be teens & adults that have no coping skills and an erroneous sense of entitlement. Thanks for bring a touch of joy to the holiday season.

The cats love the trees. one of ours always climbed it and played with a favourite ornament she liked.

Hobby lobby has some pretty Angel's and Santa's for toppers that are more than 15 inches high. Hope that helps.

Breathtaking! This was such a great video....little bits of cuteness and sheer beauty rolled into one wonderful treat for us. Benjamin is so precious and that last shot of Russel made me cry. Seriously..why do I cry? Thank you Laura🌲❤

Our cat is naughty just like Russell. Your tree is lovely.

You do such beautiful decorating you have really motivated me to do more gardening and getting in the Christmas spirit. Your parenting is spot on I was raised the same way and that's how I've raised my boys my mothers motto "Look with eyes not your hands" lol teaches respect for others

Hello from Budapest! It is great that you have a decoration from our city! Merry Christmas!

Your tree looks beautiful! I was glad to hear that you're taking a step back this year and simplify. It's not good when we get too busy and can not enjoy the season for the special time it is. I think you are right on with your parenting philosophy. Loved the shot of Russell at the end. Happy Holidays!

My tree is going up. First time since my husband passed. . . Thank you for your glorious example.

Stunning tree, Laura! .... and absolutely on point with your ideas about teaching Benjamin🌺

Hi Laura, Beautiful Job! I started watching a year ago when you were making bows for your Christmas Trees. And have been watching you do all your gardening and teaching me things with that also:) Thank you and Aaron for all the sharing you do with us!

The tree is gorgeous and I applaud that you're teaching boundaries to Benjamin.

Beautiful! I like working towards simplifying. Especially as a grandmother! It is a must to have a tree for our little grand ones coming, but simply this year with dried fruit garlands that I made, white lights, and evergreens. Decorations limited to the front porch, the tree and the mantle. Christmas decorations of past years have been given to my children to use in remembering Christmas' of past at home.

Designer Tip: Place COMPLETELY PLAIN Ornaments Far Into The Tree, To Achieve Depth, Color, Shine . . . By Doing So, You Reserve Your Detailed Ornaments For A More Noticeable Location.

I saw that tree at Home Depot, too. It is beautiful, but too big for my small living room. 😔 We bought a slim tree - our first frosted (is that the right word?) tree.

Russell sleeping under the tree should me made into a Christmas card.

Beautiful tree, love it the way it is. If it is still too bright have you thought about a dimmer and just backing off a little bit. Thank you for your videos.

Whenever she says Benjamin i always think of Garrett watts' babydoll 😂 anyway That's a lovely tree 😍 and that cute little baby angel sleeping under it 😽💕

I'm catching up on older Xmas videos, so I don't know if anyone will see this. I had an extra bright tree and used a dimmer cord and adjustment thing (not a switch), more like a slide. That's probably confusing. Anyway, it works well. Love your tree and that precious Benjamin.🎄

When my son was one (34 years ago) - husband put the Christmas tree in the playpen - son was on the outside looking in - one of my favorite pictures. The following year husband anchored the tree to the wall.

I think it's a great idea to start teaching Benjamin at a young age to look but don't touch the pretties. I have a similar situation with the cats. Our oldest kitty is 12 and is so mellow and likes to just lay under the tree. Our youngest kitty is a 4 y/o that LOVES to climb the Christmas tree. Ugh!

If the tree has LED lights, that may be why you’re having some issues with brightness. We prefer the older style lights because they seem less harsh to our eyes. However, I think your tree is so beautiful 😍!!

My daughter put a 5' tree in my grandson's bedroom and decorated it with woodland themed ornaments and the only rule was they had to be break resistant. He could decorate to his hearts content, and one low branch was always loaded with ornaments. She would redecorate every morning but I actually loved to see the one loaded up, it was my favorite branch. He enjoyed his tree and now is very careful with the main tree that has breakables - they just need to learn. My favorite part of your tree is the items hung inside the 'holes' like a secret garden. What fun! We always hide a pickle ornament on Christmas Eve and everyone forgets about it in the morning until all the unwrapping takes place and then it's a race to find it - the winner gets a really good present. One year we got the front yard sign 'Mele Kalekemaka' since we are huge Christmas Vacation fans. Boy you have stirred up some holiday anticipation - YEA! Can't wait for your outside light show.

Awww the kitty under the tree how sweet is he. I just want to snuggle this cat!

Have at least 3 more children 😉 and teach them just like that! Benjamin needs some brothers and sisters! 😊

Love your parenting style! I was taught the same! As kids my parents got compliments all the time about my brother & I because we were so well behaved when we went anywhere. We grew up in church setting and I think that helped a lot. We knew what to do and when to ask for something. We knew not to interrupt the adults and we helped get the food/table ready & cleaned up after dinner at whosever house we were at. I’m trying to instill what we learned to my 3 kids. You guys are doing amazing! Benjamin is so sweet! 😊

It looks wonderful. I was looking at Home Depots trees last evening. They have really pretty white one I am thinking about.

You have the most amazing decorations on the tree. I like your tree very much, the emptiness in your tree was at your advantage . You have been able to decorate the depth of thee the most amazin tree and your decos are still shinning through. Well done Laura. You are the most amazing lady in decorating your Christmas tree.

Laura my jaw dropped a bit & I chuckled a little when you said you had a 9ft tree & only showed you had 2 tubs of ornaments.😲 We have a 7ft tree & prob like 8 large boxes for that tree alone!😬 I have 1 tub alone for just the 4ft in my room!!!😅 We like em' really packed! I do the same thing w/ laying ornaments deep into the tree for depth too.👍 I can't wait to see the rest of your house when your done - you always do such a fabulous job!🤗 I just started yesterday on our 8 trees!😆🎄 I love that you are teaching Benjamin to be respectful when he is young - you are doing it right!!!😉 Btw...on our main tree the whole botton row that hangs down are the "cats ornaments." Ornaments that look like our diff kitties. They seem to know they are theirs & might bat at them once in a while, but I think like that they get to be represented on the tree too! They don't match always w/ the Reds & Golds of the rest of the tree, but it makes us smile.😂 Also, I think the cats are determined that I put that tree skirt down there as a big cat bed for them!!!🙄😄 Gotta love the little stickers!😼😸😻

Beautiful! I too have tons of Christmas decorations but over the past 5 years I started rotating what I took out each year. It simplified setup and take downs and made decorating fresh and new again as I took turns putting out old family favorites that hadn't been out in awhile. The outdoor lighted garlands and the lights in the magnolia tree however always came out. A gift to the neighborhood.🎄🎄☃️❄

Beautiful tree!!! Absolutely agree with your approach to parenting.

You confirm what I thought about that particular tree at Home Depot. We bought the next one down in brightness, also 9’, and itI works fine. As much as I don’t like colored lights on a tree inside, they don’t glow as bright as the whites. I grew up with a cat who climbed our trees! Ugh!! Spray bottles were kept by the tree. And...I spent more time decorating once my kids were in school. When they were toddlers I adjusted the projects for them to help with.

Laura, I found that our tree was too bright also. So I bought a dimmer attachment. What a great difference. It also turns the tree lights off.

“Russell... does what he wants”. I love it! My cats used to get in the tree. Then for about three years I hung a ceramic thing near each of their entry points with orange oil on it and that kept them away. Can also just used cotton balls. Then started adding a couple bells near the floor in the center so I could hear if they were under the tree, which I allow because I’m sure they love the tree way more than me since they choose to hang out under it. Thank you for ALL of your videos. Merry Christmas to all of you!

I just have to say.... your parenting skills are AWESOME! You are doing a great job😘. I love watching your channel!

Beautiful outcome Laura. I always enjoy seeing a traditional tree, along with the popular "themed" trees. Great job working with Benjamin. You are wise to prioritize your time. You will never get these years back with him. Merry Christmas to you and your precious family.

Gorgeous!!! It's stunning! I also agree with your parenting choice - teaching Benjamin boundaries now is wonderful - it's hard to be consistent, but honestly it is SO worth the effort! I love your priorities! Simple is good - these days with your sweet boy will FLY by!

The tree is beautiful! Thank you for so much inspiration! I just started my big tree today and I feel like I’ve been in a rut. 😂 Now I’ve got some new ideas! I sooooo agree with you about not removing every single thing from a child’s path! It teaches them how to manage in different circumstances. I may be going out on a limb, but to me (as mom to 5), it’s harder work to take the time to teach them what is safe or not. It seems like the easy way is to just remove everything from their path. I’m giving you a big “high five🖐” on the decision to teach him what he can and cannot touch. He’s a lucky little boy and so precious! ❤️💚👏🎄

The way to get more glitter in the center is to wrap the old glittery tinsel that you can still buy completely down the pole top to bottom. Great fill in for fake trees.

You know you can always plug the lights into a dimmer cord. We have dimmers on all our trees and it's so nice to be able to adjust the light. 😊

Beautiful Tree! We have one in our house that I am living with as well this year but it is growing on me..LOL. Do you ever go to market with your parents to buy stuff for the garden center? I bet you could find an awesome angel at market, also it might be a fun new video idea, you and your mom going thru the big markets and buying stuff for the garden center. Also I 100% agree with the parenting advice my wife and I do the same thing, we use all our nice glass ornaments and our kids were taught to look and and touch!

I did not decorate my two trees in my house this year, only lights and a star. They are beautiful-less is more some years.

Thank you for responsible parenting tips for people. I work in retail. So thank you! Greatly appreciated!

Beautiful tree! Great parenting. When mine were that age I’d say “Look with your eyes, not with your hands.”

Hi! I love your videos, they inspire me so much. Can I buy ornaments from your parents store? Thank you.

The angel looks like shes up in heaven. cute!

HELLO LAURA - I love everything you do, your a great mum and dad. But I love Balsam Hill trees. Try to at least have a look at them. Love from Australia.

16:01 I think your Christmas tree has a scent of catnip for Russell lol. I love your Christmas tree it turned out beautiful I do the same thing with my ornaments I placed some into the tree and then as I go out they end up on the ends eventually. There are some Christmas tree adapters that you can add a dimmer not sure if you're interested in looking for one of those for when you find your tree is too bright.

Your tree looks so pretty. I love the gold piano ornament. It made me think of my grandpa who passed away a few months ago and loved to play the piano and write music. We haven't put up a Christmas tree in at least 13 years, but maybe i'll get a table top tree this year.

Love, love, love your tree. I like all the lights. And the ornaments sparkling is so beautiful. And Russell’s antics is hilarious! Thank you for sharing. 🙂

Your tree is beautiful! I love the choice of ornaments and colors. As far as Benjamin - you are teaching him at a young age (as my mother did with me) boundaries and respect, which will benefit him for the rest of his life. As far as Russell all I can say is good luck.

I think your idea about Benjamin is spot on! Of course, that's probably because we did the same thing - all the time, not just at Christmas. Now my boys are teenagers, and I loved seeing Benjamin's sweet hands helping with the tree! xo

Looks beautiful Laura, I think you are right on with Benjamin and Russell sleeping under the tree! LOL looks like he loves it

YEEEES!!!! I've been waiting for this! The tree is so beautiful and the colors are just fantastic

Beautiful tree! I agree with Tammie your parenting 100% right on never to early to start teaching respect and we can tell its working. Now Russell is another story he is so funny and cute.

I enjoyed this video a lot, Laura. Thank you for taking us along again. I really look forward to this time of year and your projects.

Russell being naughty is so cute. 😄 And Cheddar sleeping under the tree is precious. Loved this video! 🎄

another wonderful, wholesome video as always! a couple of questions for the weekly recap, 1) have you ever seen Japanese Gardens, what are your thoughts? travelled around Japan this summer and their gardens are simple, elegant and beautiful and 2) what is your favourite Christmas song? lots of love Helen, from Manchester England x

I always get a kick out of your Xmas projects because you end up with glitter alllll over your face by the end!

Laura, Love your tree. Benjamin is adorable, and you are so correct to let him know, what he's not allowed to touch. He will be welcome everywhere, because he has been taught what's allowed and what's not.

Benjamin sounding out words already! Dont want him to grow up😭