DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES: Laquisha Buford v Johnny Buford 

Take that 3yr old to preschool and get a job. Help that man out

She keep saying she wants to talk about their problems. You’re the problem ma’am. You lazy and don’t wanna work he needs help

I'm a woman and if my husband was always paying the bills and something such as this put us in dire straits... I would immediately try to find a job and keep looking until I do.

She responsible for Nagging him to pay bills but not responsible enough to get a job and help with bills? 😮

I can't just sit around and not have any money. I have to work.

1. She needs a job. 2. They need better communication. 3. They love each other and it shows 4. Judge Star was on point in everything she said

I’m a stay at home mom and if my husband was this stressed I’d be driving him to work putting my baby in the car and DoorDash,UberEats,Instacart if I couldn’t afford childcare.

This is a good guy!! Don’t take him for granted

To me if the wife was worried about the bills getting paid she would have contributed & tried to find employment a little harder. A marriage is a partnership. Even if he told her she didn’t have to work, you see y’all struggling, Its all hands on deck.

She is irritating my spirit! You love that man unconditionally so do something to help the family financially!!

With all due respect, she is the problem. This man stepped up to be a father to her child, works 24/7 as a result of increased expenses and all she can see to do is argue, deny him partnership and throw up a divorce?.... I could only hear that so many times before I sign the decree.

Lady Get a Job!!! 💰 There needs to be income from her too, even if it’s temporary!! Why doesn’t she see this?! She’s the problem!! Why Judge Star did not advise her of that!! I’m irritated 😡

She needs to get a job!!!!! If you tell me you want a divorce, I would say thank you. I can struggle by myself.

She may need to get at least a part time job or go to school while he is at work. She needs something for herself

I wish the judge told her that she needs to work. That man needs help! What is she thinking!

How can a person desire you when you don’t work and are not contributing and they’re trying to support a family on one income during very trying times??? She’s lucky that he even stepped in after she had that child from the other guy. Ridiculous.

I'm sure it's a nice feeling to be a kept woman, but it's nothing like having your own. Especially when it's needed for you to step in financially for your family.

How is the compromise only directed at him? She needs to get a job! If only for a little while and maybe just part time, but she needs to help her husband out! He's stressed out and he needs his team mate to help him!!

It's women out here that would love and appreciate a man like that. Please get a job to help your man so you all can build a great life TOGETHER ❤️

This is a no brainer --she needs to get a job of some sort. She didn't need to be told this. The baby isn't even his and he is taking care of everything on his own and she is sitting home being resentful. Be responsible and get a job lady.

She's so selfish. The route cause of their issues is finances but she hasn't got a job....wonders why he fusses about spending money on dates but they living paycheck to paycheck. He's working all the hours he can but she's not happy because he don't make her feel special. Yet I didn't hear one thing she does for him. You can't make this sh*t up

The wardrobe stylist, make-up artist, and beautician... They are ALL the complete truth! You are so beautiful Judge Star. One love. Respect you so much!

Some women know their family is struggling & they go figure a way to contribute not complain & stress out the primary breadwinner. Though she's right communication is key in any relationship.

Once again Judge Star hits it out of the ballpark. This couple is adorable. Praying they will make it. I'm rooting for them.❤

Pre=Marital counseling/Date Night are both great ideas Judge Star, I'm rooting for this couple ❤

Respect comes before love. I’d rather have respect over love than we can build a relationship together.

Those house fires are no joke. My family and I went through the same thing this time last year. I was pregnant at the time. Our mortgage tripled. I hope they make it! They seem like a real, genuine couple.

She wants to be a housewife long term however she should have her own sources of income so she will have extra money to get through difficult times.

I like them. Stay grounded and focus. Both parties...remain focus. (Sis): Find your passion and strive towards it. Something tells me he will support you with it.

The husband biggest mistake was telling his wife he would take care of her and the children. The wife expected him to keep his word. She obviously don't know how to be their for her man. He allowed pride to get in his way.

SHE SHOULD BE GETTING CHILD SUPPORT, FROM THAT CHILD'S BIOLOGICAL DAD ❤💯

I was always taught as a woman, make sure you are independent and work because there’s nothing like having your own money. Even if your married or living with your partner you must have your own money regardless because you never know what tomorrow holds, it’s also important for both parties to contribute

I’m sorry but if I see my spouse stressed to the max I’m going to help an any way possible!

I can’t watch this, sista girl need a job!

Been through a few of these same problems in my marriage. I learned the hard way that constantly fighting, threatening divorce, lack of communication, & differences over finances will break a marriage down VERY quickly. I changed by managing my emotions better, building my husband up as a man, and lessening financial pressure in the household. This couple could benefit from counseling. The wife also needs to attend counseling (alone) and try to contribute to the household finances.🙏🏾

She needs a job. Mr. Bugord chose wrong.

So shocked that the judge didn't suggest that she gets a job.😮

When judge Star hit that gavel; she dropped the the mic bam 💥

I felt so disgusted with her that she has to gall to have this man working so hard to take care of her and another man’s child and she won’t get up to work. I hate her feeling of entitlement and complaining

Did this lady say it's "always money with him..." Ma'am your husband is extremely exhausted... all he can think about is money bc You WONT GET A JOB!!!! Then got the nerve to want romance 🙄

She wants to be WANTED. He wants to be HELPED. Mrs. Buford, try to get a job, part time, remote, whatever. That will ease a lot of the pressure. He'll have help financially and have much more energy and time to dedicate to you.

As they walk away she’s still harping. They just finished resolving some stuff and she’s still going on about stuff they resolved. She got a lot of work to do to cut that out.

Ppl need to realize that intimacy plays a big roll in a relationship. I get the quickie thing sometimes because that can be exciting as well. But the foreplay is ummmmm it just brings so much more to the making love part. I agree with the wife I want to feel wanted during the love making so I get it. Not just getting straight to it.

I can’t watch. Get a job lady. You can hire a daycare provider with your income. If you share the cost to be the boss you can start to have meaningful conversations.

There's no excuse as to why she can't get some kind of job even if it's working as a security guard a certified nursing assistant, telemarketing in the privacy of our own home.

She needs to get a job period

She could work a part time job on evenings to help out. Then they can plan to make more money once everything is taken care of. Or she could sell stuff. I’m not working right either but I pay a few bills and provide food while I watch my daughter.

She seems like she wants him to do everything. Marriage is about teamwork.

I’d have an attitude if I was him too. She should take the baby the daycare and go to work. 2 incomes better than one and then they’d be able to get their own crib

Girlllll!!! It’s always the money cause y’all don’t have much to spare!!! Duh! I could say a lot, but it’s already been said in the comments. But I will reiterate this: GET A JOB!!! 😩🤦🏽‍♀️🙄 Judge Star you should’ve been on her azz more about this!

Nice case! They just needed some guidance. Best of luck to them!

So for the ppl who lives in lalaland? Are y’all still gonna say we can love without money? To sum up this case he overworking and is tired and she got too much time in her hand and has extreme expectations not accepting her reality love alone can’t cut it, Very sweet couple I wish them longevity and more income.

She wants him to buy her things, knowing they're struggling. Come on now. Get yo priorities straight. Get a job and help that man out.

They are some of the best people this show has to offer but it's crazy how all of the suggestion were for him to change. He is stretched thin and instead of Star saying give he some time, she tells her she should have her way and he needs to comply. Crazy we are talking about 12h shifts and still not having extra money and she wasn't to talk about this before sex. I pretty positive he think about their situation during all 12h and doesn't need or want it when he gets home. Definitely a turnoff. She's an adult not a child, but it doesn't seem like anyones catering to his needs. smh

She don't realize the sooner she works, the faster they would get out of this situation and she wouldn't have to work again?

I'm a firm believer in working to help with finances. I was taught not to depend on any one

Mr and Mrs Buford try to hold on pray and talk things out, you two love each other.

What they’re not saying is that the parents might need them to be there. HIM to be there. Get your life together, sis. Y’all running that man into the ground.

The love is there ❤ Judge Star came in and gave some stellar advice. She really gave this couple’s relationship the CPR it needed. I wish them the best and I wish for a scarf like that!! OMGGGG!!! 😂

If she so worried about money go make some. Situations change in life and she has to change she is sitting around doing nothing he needs to be the one complaining.

So why doesn’t she have a job??? “I’m looking” isn’t good enough.

Since she already has a child, she can be a babysitter.

Yea she need to get a job n help her man out

He sounds like a leo 😂.

Their going through the ups and downs of the marriage. It sure isn’t the time to throw in the towel. Vows Should Be Taken Seriously… This Man is upset and as he should, she has to snap out of what rut she’s in and go to work…She has a child to look after

The love they have for each other is beautiful ❤

This is actually hopeful, thank goodness

She need to get a job period. He is overwhelmed.

she is so beautiful she definitely can work as a model and realize that she can do something to help in this situation, he definitely is a good man wh is willing to be the man of the house who just needs a little support.

He just has a bit of resentment. But they can work on it. Bless them Jesus!

She needs a job. How is she wanting a divorce when she is the problem by not helping him out and getting a job?

The brother said they hadn't argued in a few days, he thought that was a good time to be intimate with his wife and she wasn't having it, won't get a job either. She has to bend a little bit.

Thank you good work 👏

It is SUPER clear that they love each other! This episode was refreshing! 🥰

The wife is a free loader. This man stepped up to help raise a child. She should be ashamed of herself watching her husband struggle and not making a financial contribution. The husband should cut his losses.

So where is her baby father ? Should he not be supporting his child? I don’t think the judge even ask her that question! I think she is using the young man ,and has too much expectations, while sitting back and watching him work to a frazzle .in my opinion she feels entitled and that is not love.

Imagine this was in reverse they would call that man sorry and tell her to leave asap

Not her complaining about finances but not trying to help

Ma'am go get a job and stay off the internet. He can not afford for you not to work at this time. The man is tired, working 12 hour shifts and part-time jobs, and you looking for romance. He has said multiple times that he needs help financially. Imo she is selfish, she might have a man on the side.

This is what happens when you hitch your cart to an ungrateful person. This has too much free time on her hand....get a DAMN job girl!

Alot of comments covered the financial and breakdown of communication in their marriage. I want to add that I wish and hope they make it. It was refreshing to feel the love despite the challenges and not hear cheating or suspicions of cheating.

Embarrassing as a woman. He needs therapy because what whole man is going for this?! This woman 35 and can’t take care of herself and child. It’s a mess.

Everyone keeps saying that she needs a job. She said she is looking. But has not found one. I’m wondering what she does or can do. So many companies are looking for employees.

THAT'S A GOOD MAN!!!!

I’m trying to figure out how she expect to have money, but not work? I’m comfused. I raised 3 kids working. They are not financially set for her to be sitting her azz at home. My 2 cents

Cringe when she said she wished she just wanted even $10 in her pocket. No wonder he is like that, help out women! Times have changed, unless he's making 6 figures with only working 40hrs a week, you gotta help out and work.

These folk making babies before securing the bag. She already had two. He had children from a previous relationship. Why more? Where was he living for $700 a month?

Love still exists and I’m living for it ❤

She is stunningly beautiful! She could actually be a model if she put herself out there!

He’s very patient-give her a time limit to find a job -if it doesn’t happened unfortunately you have to move on.. I wonder why the judge didn’t stress getting a job?

They should try The Adventure Challenge. It gives couples inexpensive date ideas and they can plan it out. Judge Star gave some great free date ideas as well. I’m rooting for them!

Honestly why is she not working? Help your husband!!!😢

he stepped up and helped take care of you and your child with another man but you see he working his butt off and you can’t find a solution to help you and your husband get some money?

Like how they love each other. Wasnt no set of drama in this case. They gone be fine and u can see the judge love them to. 😊😊😊❤❤❤

This girl is trifling get a job education something to help. All she brought was her lazy adz and 2 kids. Man run you have no kids with her.

Girl-- you need to Get Out And Work!!! You cant complain and not contribute toward the household bills and expect to EAT!!!

You’re his rib. The rib protects the heart. Protect this man. He’s trying so hard. Be his rib

Her the biggest problem is we don't get any one on one time. Lady he started off saying what the issue is. He strained honey!!!

You can tell that he is drained 😢

idk why Star didn't look her in the eye andtell her to get a job and help out instead of wanting, wanting, wanting... and nagging