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Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) Tool for when ANXIETY TAKES OVER 

Calm with Kyle
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Hello Everyone, today I discuss several tools from Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) that you can add to your repertoire for managing challenging emotions and trauma symptoms. I hope something helps! Comment below if you have other tools that you use.
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Hi Everyone! My goal is to create high-quality, short, effective and educational videos specific to Trauma and Mental Health that you can utilize and practice in your own journey. I pull from both clinical experience and the scientific literature in hopes to deliver effective and informative content.
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My name is Kyle and I am a Clinical Psychologist, Certified EMDR therapist and an EMDR Consultant-in-Training. I specialize in trauma therapy, from both childhood, adulthood, present-day and occupational trauma. I often utilize several modalities of treatment including Eye-Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Somatic Experiencing, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) and Mindfulness.
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DISCLAIMER: “Calm with Kyle” and the information and strategies provided by Kyle Poon are solely intended for informational, educational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, and treatment for a medical or mental health condition. Although Kyle Poon is a Registered Psychologist a Certified EMDR Therapist and an EMDR Consultant-in-Training, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for psychological, psychiatric or medical advice. Always consult with your physician, psychiatrist, psychologist, or licensed therapist or counsellor before trying anything in this video and before making any decisions related to your physical, mental or spiritual health.
If you are in crisis and live in the United States, contact the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (www.samhsa.gov/find-help/988 ) TEXT or CALL 9-8-8 or your Local emergency services. If you reside in Canada, contact Talk Suicide at 1-833-456-4566 or TEXT 45645 or your Local emergency services.
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Комментарии : 53   
@LauraMarie_LUV1ANO
@LauraMarie_LUV1ANO Год назад
I just started bawling, I can literally feel it coming up from deep within when you started speaking of what your body does....this is what happens to me when I see my surgeons or I speak about my broken body.... I need so much help and I feel so alone. Failing out of physical therapy so many times. It's so overwhelming and devastating that no one understands me nor wants to help me find what is causing me not to graduate physical therapy, and most importantly get back my life! It's been a long five years. I'm finally taking charge of me and finding such amazing people as you willing to help. This is truly my last chance for any hope me..... Me finding RU-vid has literally saved me from myself 🙏 This is my second video, I am so appreciative of you. And I am now subscribed 😊
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle Год назад
Wow, I'm grateful my info resonated with you. I'm happy to hear you're taking charge! Our body's know our truths, keep listening to it 😊
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle Год назад
There's a lot going on in our world today. Comment and share the tools that you find most helpful for yourself in managing challenging emotions. 😃
@aribella6913
@aribella6913 11 месяцев назад
When I need to calm down, I do something get out of my surroundings, walk or a task that requires physical movement also, I repeat positive things to myself over and over to distract myself from the thoughts that are upsetting me. It works most of the time.
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle 11 месяцев назад
That's awesome! Glad you have something that has helped for you!
@peaceandlove544
@peaceandlove544 Год назад
Hope on your trail machine, stretch, sun, deep breathing, sauna, walk on geass, hold a tree, ice on hands, forearms, face, aromatherapy,prayer, reading, dancing, laughing, talk to a loved one, nice bubble bath
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle Год назад
Thanks for sharing your strategies! Great ones.
@angelsapa
@angelsapa Год назад
Thanks for the "tipp's" man! 🙌🏽 grateful for your work and help brother🙏🏽
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle Год назад
Haha thanks, Angel. Appreciate it.
@listeningwatching
@listeningwatching Год назад
Hot/ cold therapy works wonders!!!
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle Год назад
Thanks for commenting. Yes, that is a great tool!!
@cameronayers2414
@cameronayers2414 10 месяцев назад
Thank you so much! Intense exercise has always been my go to, but not always logically possible in the moment as you mentioned, so having some other options is really helpful.
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle 10 месяцев назад
You bet :) Thanks for commenting!
@jenme7926
@jenme7926 3 месяца назад
Yesterday was a rough day mentally. This really helps, thank you!
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle 3 месяца назад
You're welcome and I hope today was better for you!!
@beatriceappay8081
@beatriceappay8081 11 месяцев назад
Great video! In particular the beginning in the car. You are brilliant and I love your voice and the clarity of your explanations. Well done!
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle 11 месяцев назад
Awe, thank you so much! I thought I was being clever with the car analogy 🤣
@donnachristman2528
@donnachristman2528 Год назад
Thx so much- I need these daily for overload.
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle Год назад
You're welcome! Hope they help 😊
@connie10000
@connie10000 Год назад
Excellent using parables/visual verbage🎉
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle Год назад
Thank you 😊
@maddyolive5985
@maddyolive5985 9 месяцев назад
I've recently gotten into breathwork to calm down. I'd like to try the muscle tensing and releasing you suggested- to better connect to my body :)
@SuperDpoole
@SuperDpoole 10 месяцев назад
Thank you!!!❤
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle 10 месяцев назад
You're welcome :)
@darringodden7225
@darringodden7225 11 месяцев назад
Brilliant advice Kyle. Thank you. After many years of trying I have successfully learnt to control this problem.what are your views on breathing to a wrist watch second hand! I start off at 5 seconds in and 5 seconds out. The calmer I get the better it gets and I breathe once a minute and often fall asleep. It may not be suitable for everyone but I was in a very bad way.
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle 11 месяцев назад
That's a wonderful strategy if you've found it works for you! Very creative. I like the visual part of it too especially following the second hand speed it may require us to slow ourselves down. Good stuff!
@laurierichey137
@laurierichey137 11 месяцев назад
I take a walk, sit in nature, breathing techniques, soak in Epsom salt bath, stretch.
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle 11 месяцев назад
Beautiful strategies!!!
@mariemortreuil5130
@mariemortreuil5130 9 месяцев назад
Good morning I love your videos. I am struggling a lot with anxiety and trauma for 50 years. And would like to find some videos that can help me struggle less. Any suggestions? I have been using regularly the last month the videos for vagus and it has helped a lot. Should I use Calm or using only YOU Tube ? I lost my job so subscribing to different apps that cost money are difficult to do lately. Thanks a lot and have a good day
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle 9 месяцев назад
Awe thank you for commenting. I'm glad they're helpful. I think you're onto a good start. When available, trying to see an experienced trauma therapist would be beneficial. If you have a family doctor, perhaps a referral from them so that it can help with the cost? That'll probably depend on the area you live in though. Sorry I can't be more of a help but glad my videos are beneficial. Wishing you the best. 😊
@orendalifecoaching
@orendalifecoaching 4 месяца назад
I’m curious what books are on your bookshelf?? Do you have a video about that?
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle 4 месяца назад
I do not, but this is a good suggestion for a future video :) Some of my favourites on there are the Body Keeps the Score (See my link in the video description) and several EMDR related books. Oh and on my other bookshelf I have several books from childhood, children stories, etc.
@orendalifecoaching
@orendalifecoaching 4 месяца назад
Thanks for your videos! Ifind them super helpful.@@CalmwithKyle
@robynhope219
@robynhope219 2 месяца назад
​@@CalmwithKyleI own The Body Keeps The Score...am a huge fan of Bessel van der Kolk.
@xiaomengwu3399
@xiaomengwu3399 Год назад
Why when I was extremely anxious or angry or sad, I actually feel very verbal cold, not the heat you mentioned?
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle Год назад
Verbal cold? What do you mean?
@pleasepeople7477
@pleasepeople7477 Год назад
I feel cold as well
@Medietos
@Medietos Год назад
Hello, is it not cheating the body vwhen there are bad big stressors needing to be solved , to then relax?? I mean, having adequate bodily stress responses of things being seriously wrong, and cheat the brain of being heard by just relaxing instead ? I know onw must sve energy, but still. After relaxing the solution is not thought of anymore, since exhaustion has taken over. Need individual stress help/ counselling.
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle Год назад
Hi Claudia, valuable points. It is important for your body to experience the stress response when going through big events. This video is more about when those events continue to have an effect on us and these tools may help in those moments. Of course, please seek out further advice from your doctor. Healthcare provider or counselor. Wishing you the best!
@Medietos
@Medietos Год назад
What is humongous and a "lower base heart.rate"? I yhave had very slow heart beatys and rbreathe as though I were deeply asleep, from triple burnout and sleep deprivation. Still anxious, aroused and stressed, fearful. IDK what to do now, aLonely too much.
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle Год назад
Hi Claudia, please make sure to check I with your doctor or Healthcare provider for answers to your questions. Wishing you the best!
@Kataharrison6974
@Kataharrison6974 7 месяцев назад
I was seriously spraying myself down with the hose in December 😑 and my abusive family still could see that.. like, I was in distress. Anyways, not doing that anymore. Lol.
@girlfrommars7015
@girlfrommars7015 Год назад
Quick fix......Tip cup cold water over your head & back of the neck🤗
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle Год назад
Thank you for the tip 😊🙏🏼. I'll add that in another video!
@TerrileeYO
@TerrileeYO 6 месяцев назад
gargling is abother hence hum laughter wiggleu ·uvula
@robynhope219
@robynhope219 2 месяца назад
Strengthens vagal tone..how long do u gargle? I do it at bedtime.
@RealTalk-mq2ug
@RealTalk-mq2ug Год назад
I DIE INSIDE. THE PAIN IS UNCEASING AND UNBEARABLE. I LIVE IN A STATE OF PERPETUAL TRAUMA AND PANIC. I CAN'T BREATHE. I DON'T BREATHE. I could die from the pain of missing my best friend. Or, actually, not really my best friend, but they guy whom I thought was my best friend... He betrayed and abandoned me, discarded me like garbage!!! (HOW THE FUCK COULD HE?) Replaced me for another. My mind can't fathom, my heart can't comprehend. I live in perpetual panic and constant longing... How could he not miss me? How could he do this to me? Did he just replace me, really, just like that? I'm dying inside. My soul is truly raped and my heart is shattered. REMINDER TO SELF, SWEET SOUL: This was a karmic friendship, meant to be there for a limited time (17-months-ish) to teach you, about yourself! About boundaries, about self-love, about self-respect, about self-worth, etc... About a whole plethora of magical, juicy, alchemical things! The universe, God, your guides, your ancestors, have pushed you, lovingly, in the right direction: into your own magnificent powerful magical freedom! When you let go. The universe will catch you. It’s talking to you. Let go of everything and trust the universe. It’s within you. ✨💫 Jesus said to her: “Mary.” She turned toward him and cried out, in Aramaic, “Rabboni!” (which means Teacher) - John 20:16💖 NOTE TO MY TWIN FLAME: Dearest twin flame, I’m working on myself, I am being 100% healed, on evert level, in every way. This is my purification process. I am doing this for me, for you, for us. I’m proud of myself, and I’m getting ready for you. I love you.
@gaiaceleste333
@gaiaceleste333 Год назад
Real Talk So Beautiful. When you let go. The universe will catch you. Trust the universe which is within you. Teachers come in many forms. Even betrayal and loss. You are so wise and beautiful. Thank you for sharing this with me.
@RealTalk-mq2ug
@RealTalk-mq2ug Год назад
@@gaiaceleste333 awww you're so sweet
@joielle27
@joielle27 9 месяцев назад
You are significant, you are beautiful, you are strong. May you be safe, may you be happy, may you be be blessed, may you see your infinite value and always know that you are loved 💖💖💖
@HiLoveLeighs
@HiLoveLeighs 11 месяцев назад
God forbid the need to process emotions and attempt to pursue any semblance of justice after years of constant crap from people.
@CalmwithKyle
@CalmwithKyle 11 месяцев назад
I imagine that would keep your nervous system quite prepped and ready. Wishing you the best!
@priyaraj9038
@priyaraj9038 10 месяцев назад
#healthcare.nice.reaches 2023.might be Korea. Nice.
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