Did Lazy Fiancé Summon 'Dark Alter Ego Energy' to Commit Murder? | Katelyn Markham Case Analysis 

It’s funny John looks a lot like Dr Grande lol.

@@Ken-fh4jclol maybe it’s his long lost brother

Brutal and on point, as always!

Ken-fh4jc

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I left in the night. I was safe, but had to forfeit my clothes, paperwork, furniture, childhood pictures (which he never returned, and are lost forever, only a few pictures donated from my siblings' books is all I have ... they were of no value to him, but he knew this would bother me the most). It's 24 years later now and spoke to our (>> his) best friend at the time, only to learn that even so recent as 2-3 years ago he was still thinking about a way to retaliate. There is no other thing in the world that I could have done, that would have altered my life course for the better, than leaving this lazy, entitled narcissist. And to think I even felt guilty for doing that for a very long time. There are two kinds of people in the world, and one kind abuses you and plots against you for more than 20 years after you manage to get away.

​@@MegaTinniwhat you did was courageous and smart! You saved your own life! You should stand proud. Your experience struck a cord with me. I wish there was a way for us to DM each other. Your ex kept your pics? These abusers are evil. Mine threatened to throw my dog's ashes out (my dog that just passed away the day before who's body was still awaiting cremation at the vet's office). Yup. Beyond evil.

@@S-nyc That's terrible. My previous dog passed away 2 years ago and it still hurts. How can the people we loved so much choose to harms us so much, right? Despite numerous requests via this friend to give me back my photo book my parents made when I was a baby and child (the only thing I asked for), he never did. By accident, when I left, I was in possession of some certificates of three light motorbikes he owned, and that would costed him some money to reapply for, but even this trade could not tempt him to give it back. I learned he kept my photo album in a humid garage for a long while and then eventually threw it out like trash after some years. So even years after he had the time to come to terms with the break up (and his own parents died in that time), he obviously still chose to discard rather than give them back. There was no basic level of respect towards me, for the years I loved him and stood by his side. The fact that he abused me mentally, separated me from my family and was violent against me, should have made it no surprise. But I still kept hoping he would not be so evil to take away these unique mementos from my childhood and parents. I was 21, he was 23. I am glad I was able to turn my life around and reunite with my family.

@@MegaTinnibut you're alive to tell the tale. Nine times out of ten, you can safely break up with someone. But the tenth time, your soon-to-be-ex could be your killer.

According to Dr Grande, he had a _phenomenal_ disguise. Laziness. I just think the cops were lazy. Occam's Razor.

Yes, in a purely circumstantial case, that is unfortunately not uncommon. It can take that long to build a case to present a case that the grand jury will vote for indictments. Grand juries are regular people randomly picked "off the street", and regular people often lean towards not prosecuting people without physical, scientific evidence.

Sounds like the Dan Markel murder in Tallahassee.

Maybe if he pursued an alternative career, he'd be known as "Justice Grande."

He's just speculating, not diagnosing, and selling some RU-vid.

Bebecat477, great zinger!

@@joe-yuugentwo and a half men…. :)

Paragraphs are a good idea here.

​@@Flamsteretteagreed. It's nearly illegible

@@everetthancock2043 I didn’t have any problem following what the poster said.

@@Andreamom001 good job!

​@@Flamsterettethis person is probably still grieving a brutal loss and you're criticizing their grammar?? Seriously?

Not very logical.

@@eadweard.a very reasonable assumption actually

@@captainomoplata643 Well you think it is, I think it isn't. Let's agree to disagree and let the unbiased reader decide for themselves.

You're right!! Excellent observation!! However, yet another reminder that we're surrounded by more reactive thinkers rather than *responders*. 🙄

You deffo wrote this the other day on a vid… I’ve read this already.

@@stupid0account0nameI saw it in the comments on another Dr. Grande episode too.

This is extremely important advice.

Bravo! I hope lots of people read this advice because too few people know this. Even under better circumstances, it's healthiest to end the relationship, part company and give one another space & time to grieve. Often, if *you* break off the relationship, the only thing the other person wants to hear is, "I want you back." If you're not going to say that, it's best (and kindest) to say nothing at all & steer clear of him or her. Sometimes people can return to being friends, but it's wise to not rush things.

You are so right. My divorce started out “amicably” if you will. Next thing you know I thought it would be ok to let him move back in to be close to our son. Big mistake. Bottom line, the person who didn’t want to end the relationship will interpret any gesture as a sign of hope. Firm boundaries will save everyone a lot of problems.

I mean that all makes sense but he said they were together for over 5 years. The “honeymoon phase” is only a few months. Who knows why she stayed with them she was smart and pretty.

How ironic, he was going nowhere, and so she is going nowhere as a result

* piqued her interest

​@@Ken-fh4jc Initially I agreed with you, but then I pulled out the calculator! (Sorry, I can't do math) so she was only 16 when they started dating, 21 when they got engaged. So 5 years of dating at that age is not a big deal. Kids don't know better. I dated a loser for 4 year and was engaged at 22. (Luckily I was smart enough to know I didn't want to support his lazy, pathetic ass & dumped him). As we get older, even 5 months is too long to tolerate BS. But she was so young, she didn't know better? Maybe low self worth? Didn't want to be single? Poor girl didn't get a chance to leave.

@@HereTakeAFlower oh dear, my bad. Thanks

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Indeed.

original comment, thanks

He is rich so probably not

He spent most of his time watching "adult videos". So at least he wasn't a pedo.

@@adotintheshark4848 He didn't have much choice, since she made it obvious to him he disgusted her.

@@danielhartin7680so she didn't put out. She should have put on her walking shoes about then. Why was she sticking around? Using him? That can make some guys snap.

@@adotintheshark4848 I don't disagree. In fact, a large percentage of these types of cases involve a breakup. Credence should be given to the fact that the breakup of a serious long term relationship is one of the most devastating events in one's life. It's right up there with the death of a loved one, with the added nitro of feelings of betrayal. Not to excuse murder of course, but in many instances the man has devoted many years, perhaps even decades, to building a life with a woman, only for her to drop the bomb that she's not happy and is leaving. There goes all his years of building a life with her....poof. It can push even the most docile of men over the edge.

@@danielhartin7680I couldn't agree more, and a guy can drop the same bombshell on his wife or partner of many years.

Imagine being murdered by a pizza delivery driver.

​@@adotintheshark4848being murdered by a poor is the least fanciest thing I have ever heard

Emotional ties are sometimes hard to break. I think a lot of people feel they've failed & feel guilty. They have a sort of Stockholm Syndrome & it takes courage to get away, some don't manage to.

When you are young, it goes in stages: 1) rose tinted glasses 2) you think you can change them 3) they guilt trip you into thinking it's your fault

@@MegaTinnibut if she was repulsed? Why were they ever in a relationship

Because she was very young and good people want to be "loyal". At that age it is hard to discern who deserves loyalty.

I come here for diagnoses...but it never happens!!

I follow the Doc for the deadpan delivery,, most of these are well known cases but his take is interesting and his analysis is his own... I disagree with him occasionally,, like with his video about Anne Heche when she crashed her car drunk and was horribly burned and the Doc did this incredibly scathing review and then she died the next day....... He wisely jerked the video after about 6 hours.... So he HAS done some less than stellar videos...

THIS! 👍

Then don't date 'certain types of people' anymore. Once you have such an experience, you should be able to detect them sooner and weed out. No? Worked for me. Put quality over quantity. And you only need to find one good person, remember.

After getting out of bad relationships, I would try again with someone else. My mom never thought it was a good idea. It got to the point where, if some guy showed interest in me, she thought he was flawed. Almost all of them were flawed, but the flaw wasn’t their interest in me. Some were simply not a good match for me - guys but incompatible. I have one now who is so alike to me, it’s like dating myself. And all I need is him. I’m done searching and done picking losers and mismatches.

Prepare to play the victim

@@willnill7946wtf does that mean??

its called “having influential family members with money”

😢 yes, very sad. Greetings 👋 ❤

Hola Dr. Grande, from a big fan in Costa Rica❗️🇨🇷 I moved here seven years ago from Winnipeg🇨🇦, which gives me two things in common with the follower who posted above. Keep those videos coming! They make my day.

@@debbiebride1482 👋

No s, Sherlock.

Ya think??

Spaces do not go before punctuation.

​@@MegaTinnilmao!!!

Y’all really getting all tight about a comment I made lol or it could have been another broad . everyone is poly these days lol 😂

Two accomplices.

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This is an insult to Sloths!

You'd need to be more specific really.

@@eadweard. You're an interesting person. I notice that you like to cross-examine quite a few comments on this channel. Difficult to be specific because different cultures have very different ideas about such things. However, generally accepted healthy norms of relationship behavior, perhaps highlighting when, how and why things go wrong. Generally trying to avoid people getting caught up in situations like Dr Grande often describes in his excellent analyses.

It's tough when you're young because our prehistoric desire to mate with a mate usually over rules common sense. Also the biological need to break away from the family home causes a rebellion therefore driving us into the arms of those the rest of the family is against. Personally I ended up with three wonderful, smart, beautiful children but they were right. He was no good.

@@georgeoh-well8116 Definitely import stuff. But these sounds like things parents should be teaching children, rather than schools.

​@@tinareaume7484 I agree with you and I'm glad your children have made you proud of them. I feel that any additional guidance given in the right way is good. People can take or leave it but at least it's there and should lead to contemplation and discussion.

Can't imagine a rebuttal. Case closed.

I’m from Illinois originally, where the town of Monticello is mawn-tih-SELL-oh and Teheran is tuh-HAIR-un…

I live in Sequim, pronounced Skwim. On the Dungeness River, pronounced Done-jen-ess.

Oh and all of the crime and "suicides" his officer uncles and family have been involved with

HEY COME ON,, you can't just say pizza deliverer and smoking pot as some sort of blanket accusation against those things without being thought of as a real jerk,, actually most criminals who do something like this are not layabout dopers who have entry level jobs, which seems to be exactly why the cops didn't think he would do something like this... By the comments in the chat it sounds like hes a Mommy's boy who was pretty coddled and wouldn't have left the area under any circumstances, not really having enough wit or ambition to really formulate any sort of escape.......

That said of course you're right she should have dumped him, no reason not to... Guy was a bum...

@@micnorton9487 Yeah I didn't wrote a novel why he's a loser, just hit the high pts. Sorry my comment was triggering, my guess is you smoke weed?

The Ukraine has killed and arrested plenty of journalists, get off your self keyboard warrior

I second this request!

@@duvessa2003 I'm glad you're also interested. I'll keep posting this request in comments to each of his videos. I hope more people will support. And then perhaps the Dr. Will take this seriously !

@@bstny98 For sure!

Disrespectful to the victim

@@merber6070 No, it isn't. Why are you watching Dr. Grande's videos if you don't like his humor?

@@Flamsterette It would be cool if you could learn to spell. It’s “ humour”.

@@pjnix5618 It would be cool if you could learn to read. I did spell it as "HUMOUR." Wisdom has chased you, but you have always been faster.

Wrong. There is plenty of evidence to support biblical events and figures. There are also thousands of documents dating back to 120BC in multiple languages, all with identical accounts of the gospel. Far more than many other philosophical writers that are never questioned. Sorry that you have been lied to and believed the propaganda.

O your so clever aren’t you

Bitchy gossiping.

Yes, that gave me pause, as well.

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I think maybe you've had a little too much Adderall. His talking speed is perfect

You'd need to be more specific really.

Cannot tell what you are trying to say.

There are plenty of quality men out there who can accept the end of a connection and move on.