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Different Ways To Say Hi On Tinder And Get A Response

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In this Hayley Quinn video, I talk you through what are some good first messages to send on dating apps.
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@JohnSmith-wj2wd 9 лет назад

So, we either say "Hi" and have a 95% chance of getting blocked, or we spend 10 minutes thinking of something clever (Because thát's how long it takes us) and have a 92% chance of getting blocked.... I choose the former.

@supermonk3y07 8 лет назад

+John Smith That's why I deleted the app and quit using tinder.

@alejandrobedoya8589 7 лет назад

John Smith I said hi and try to do something cute....... Its been hours since I didnt get a reply. Even if you got options its been hours

@azuris221 6 лет назад

so am not the one using my brains. u spoke my mind and point of view

@nycjayarmani2327 5 лет назад

John Smith that’s true but it’s a chance to be creative lol

@gusdagher5968 8 лет назад

most girls have the same profile... down to earth, likes beer or whisky, yoga or gym, travel alot or hiking, sports or artsy...

@attilabodi826 6 лет назад

LOL so true

@slumbermaster6932 6 лет назад

i had one date with a chick that said gym is life, we met for dinner and decided to train together, she rain straight to the hip abductor machine LOL

@shooklizard9039 5 лет назад

And men all say im looking for sex im soo fit ,i have big cock

@shooklizard9039 5 лет назад

@@slumbermaster6932 this is why you are a virgin

@danielfulop 4 года назад

idk, over here all the girls have blank profile.. maybe a no smoking or no ons...

@conor-_C 8 лет назад

when they have nothing on their profile description

@pHilL1008 7 лет назад

thats how it is on literally every girls lovoo profile

@shooklizard9039 5 лет назад

You just described most men

@__a6290 8 лет назад

Guys need to be creative to start a conversation, but when women started a conversation in my Tinder they just said "Hi" or "Hey" . So unfair

@conor-_C 8 лет назад

u got a girl to message u first u should be happy with that

@frankdrebin7949 7 лет назад

spoiled brat!

@cicada3312 6 лет назад

am dead :)

@benjaminx7822 5 лет назад

Same

@myyoutubecommentschannel8784 5 лет назад

You mean girls actually initiate conversation with you? What does that feel like?

@GoldfishLiberty 8 лет назад

It doesn't matter what you say. If you're not attractive enough you wont get any messages back.

@AdventuresBeyond 8 лет назад

+Tyler Gall savage

@frankdrebin7949 7 лет назад

A good looking guy with bad photos is in direct disadvantage on tinder compared to a bad looking guy with good photos. When it comes to actually becoming partners, however, that obviously doesn't apply.

@shooklizard9039 5 лет назад

@@frankdrebin7949 dont lie to ppl lol

@eleseclarke6038 5 лет назад

No it does matter I've had attractive guys message me hey and i haven't replied

@josephgoldschild9792 7 лет назад

I had a hot ass girl messaged me, "Hey beautiful, you're very handsome.", and when I replied back to her, "Hey gorgeous, how are you?". She replied back, "It's not the way to greet a girl like that, unmatched." I was like what the fuck?!

@attilabodi826 6 лет назад

same, she said she was offended by my comment, "not gentlemanly enough "

@metallicaandchimaira 4 года назад

This video is too funny. It’s like watching a fish trying to tell the fisherman how to catch a fish 😂😂

@skaownz234 8 лет назад

Thanks Hayley! I used your tips to make my artificially intelligent pickup artist work much more efficiently now. I personalize the message based on the girl's bio, and plug their name into the line's name socket. You're awesome.

@sandyharris1274 8 лет назад

@skaownz234 8 лет назад

+Sandy Harris ;)

@skaownz234 8 лет назад

+Sandy Harris casanovabot.com

@RTO1992 5 лет назад

That was actually helpful - Thanks

@subtard6081 7 лет назад

I dunno about you guys, but I did exactly what this girl said and I've had better luck than I've ever had with some of the hottest girls I've ever matched with. Don't knock it before you try it.

@chieldonkers8377 5 лет назад

Thank you these tips helped not like other videos

@scottb4540 5 лет назад

I'm bi. I was browsing tinder profiles today and I got a match. Girls bio says "hey is for horses". So that lost me cause if I use Grindr pretty well everybody uses hey or hey what's up as an opener.

@goroakechi1068 8 лет назад

Thanks Hayley! This video really helps out!

@michaelcasey8227 8 лет назад

shut the front door!

@michaelcasey8227 8 лет назад

shut the front door!

@StagnantMizu 7 лет назад

i always start with hii, when are we going to a love hotel :D . then they say hii and i say you can try harder

@crispykartel 6 лет назад

What do you do when you matched with someone who you actually know? Lol. And go to the same school, but only have seen eachother like twice, have texted a couple times to invite her to an event but barely response. But now you matched..

@DjSharperimage 9 лет назад

Thanks Haley, I was always just posting "Hi, How are you?"

@dannyfonseca07 8 лет назад

Same

@White0523 6 лет назад

what if the girl you matching with doesn't have anything written on her profil more then her Instagram username?

@toxicgamer123 9 лет назад

LOL OMG THAT SOUND AT 1:00

@artv.9989 7 лет назад

So, Hayley......

@Griff_3 5 лет назад

Art V. Get it bro!!!😏

@NoName-pg1dn 4 года назад

Still no messages back

@lance8027 3 года назад

Thanks for this. Pick up lines annoy me. Especially when I start thinking of saying them. 🤦🏾‍♂️😂

@attilabodi826 6 лет назад

I love how the guy has to do 100% of the work

@TomDavias 5 лет назад

This advice DID NOT WORK. I've tried it so many times but very few replies, and the ones who did respond only send like one message then never talk again

@elonmax3857 7 лет назад

good point, but only works if a girl has a profile with information that give you a hook. Unfortunately the girls on Tinder put often inexpressive photos (e.g. on the beach, on the mountains, behind a white wall, etc.) and have no details in their profiles. So that makes it very hard to personalise your first message when the girls give you nothing. That leads often only to cheesy texts, which I do not want to write.

@vinewood8295 7 лет назад

It's easy for women, all they have to do is say "HEY" as an acknowledgement that they noticed you. Now YOU have to come up with a clever response to get another generic one word response out of her & then keep them coming on the hope that at some point she might wanna meet you in person...Girls have assloads of guys to choose from on these dating sites, they'll pick 10 out of 100 guys that they genuinely like, the rest are just ego boosting notches on their belts of rejections...

@NaoTech85 8 лет назад

well I mostly!! get ignored even when I just say hi, maybe my English? lol

@danielfulop 4 года назад

Hayley, 90% of girls have blank profile with 2-3 pictures of their face... how do I get any information from that to talk about? :D I had 12 matches this weekend.... 1 of them had a profile, 3 of them had less than 3 words (no smoking sign, no ONS, and other interesting stuff), the rest is completely blank......

@Busher50 7 лет назад

I would really love to know how Tinder algorithms work. Surely you can't have so many matches in 30 mins when you've just created a profile.

@zedspoint4614 5 лет назад

I like when they cover their profile with memes.

@choudhuryup6084 9 лет назад

"Mega babe" oml.

@Smith6265 7 лет назад

Very interesting read on the comments.👊

@alejandrobedoya8589 7 лет назад

But what if they dont have an bio

@BrianPreis 5 лет назад

I do all of these things still I don't get a reply.

@farmer1244 8 лет назад

Girls tinder page said she liked tacos. I sent her a message that read: "So Katy, crunchy or soft tacos? I need to make sure you are the taco connoisseur you claim to be. I can't handle having my heart broken by another catfish taco lover.." See what I did thur!?!?!

@amandalively1 7 лет назад

I just take charge and make it personal. Game them dudes!

@eddiebarbosa 9 лет назад

TANDAHHHR!!

@ToxicVaccines_HivHoax 7 лет назад

Fair enough! I think five seconds is a reasonable amount of time to spend reading her profile info.

@Aleksandar6ix 8 лет назад

Yeah, if only tinder ever worked.......the FEW matches I ever had were all scams. Feels like most of them gave up on it, I know I have.

@CidGuerreiro1234 8 лет назад

+tasev1 It works, you just gotta learn how to play the game.

@pmbfit 6 лет назад

Would be nice, since youre def an attractive woman, to show your Tinder messages/matches as examples. So guys can avoid being douche and all, instead genuinely interested in a gal :P

@odieman12 7 лет назад

Thanks for sharing, Hayley. I found this video to be useful. Wish me luck.

@Kyle-ii4fp 6 лет назад

I followed your advice but it didn’t work 😂

@RealCoolGuy 5 лет назад

People who start sentences with "So..." is one of my biggest pet peeves

@phillywhateverguy 4 года назад

Im ugly i have no chance. I dont pursue model looking women either. Also there is no way on tinder to message first. Im ugly anyway. Everyone on tinder is model material

@erolkayar 7 лет назад

car photos always works, even for me

@blueheronmoving7440 6 лет назад

Hey babe!

@rjtheripper931 7 лет назад

THIS DOES NOT WORK!!!!!!! TRUST ME I TRIED MANY TIMES ON MEET ME AND POF AND YET TO BE ABLE TO GET RESULTS!!!!!! YOU ARE TALKING TO SOMEONE WHO SPENDS A LOT OF TIME ON THOSE SITES TOO!!!!!!!

@n0-one0 7 лет назад

Try not typing everything in caps weirdo.

@lylack1 6 лет назад

But what if the girl has absolutely nothing on her profile???

@nakedholerat 8 лет назад

*oriented, not orientated

@logunlove5086 8 лет назад

thank you spelling police

@airindiana 4 года назад

Open your mind, she’s British and using correct language. Orientated is the parlance used and accepted in the U.K. Oriented, whilst an equally correct use is not used in the U.K, unlike the US.

@BotchieGaming 9 лет назад

There is so much more to what you say to her, one must be attractive, look fun based upon your initial picture, be intriguing, intellectual, humble, and well together in the other pictures. Then the "about me" section must be concise but contain so much about you that she feels like you're a genuine human being, yet have a sense of mystery and that she doesn't know everything about you. Once you find a way to pull all that off while not looking like a creep, you'll be perfect and girls will reply to all your messages until they think you are too good for them. *Sarcastic rant over*

@bigbige559 7 лет назад

Hayley, and this is going to sound weird but hear me out, I'm really digging your raspy voice. 👌🏼

@appsaccount9040 5 лет назад

It’s just wishful thinking that people would talk about their hobbies on a dating app. People go there SIMPLY for the sake of seeing each other’s genitals and if they find that attractive they would go for it, else no. It’s as dumb as that !

@epb111 8 лет назад

what if they put nothing in their description and pictures are just selfies.

@gfunkonthecheesetree 8 лет назад

+epb111 most likely they are scammers. I liked two girls who look like models with no description and both matched immediately. When I asked them a question I got no response until a couple of hours later avoiding the question I asked and gave me a #. Have not called because I suspect this is a scam.

@solarwolf857 8 лет назад

+gfunkonthecheesetree this happened to me but gurl i think is real cause i called her number cause she never answered my txt or the first message on tinder but i got the voicemail lolol so idk i really think shes cute

@Kenshiroit 9 лет назад

Tinder is the worst dating app ever. Yesterday I swiped for two friging hours (changing locations age group etc) and after loooooong time I only got one match. WTF Badoo and others are much better.

@alexh6282 7 лет назад

I've been using it for a month now and didn't get one single match... I don't know if this is a bug (I'm not really ugly or have a boring profil) or I'm just not desirable at all

@VforVendetta2023 6 лет назад

They're all shit

@rsmith8113 6 лет назад

I get minimum 2 matches daily. It is not the apps fault that you have 0 match 😎😁

@360FAMOUZ360 6 лет назад

If you’re changing locations and and age group you are resetting your tinder before anyone has a chance to swipe you😂 you need to leave it on specific settings for a a couple of days

@jaylon.713 6 лет назад

How do you get 320 matches in 30 min? Are you literally liking every dude you see?

@calebashton8825 5 лет назад

You said you aren’t sure how you haven’t gotten sponsored by Tinder yet, I think that was a joke but Incase it wasn’t I just wanted you to know huge corporate companies like Tinder don’t pay attention/don’t care about smaller platforms like yours, not trying to be rude, your content seems very high production and really engaging. If you really wanted a spinster bad Adam and Eve (adult toy company) likes to sponsor smaller channels like yourself, but it really comes down to if you wanted to promote adult toys.

@NSEYA01 7 лет назад

Can't be spending 30 minutes thinking up a personalized opener for someone who won't guarantee u a response. My advise, figure out a unique opener with a high success rate & copy/paste that. An opener shouldn't be a ceremonious thing, what you're looking for is a pretext to start a conversation, it can be anything mundane

@motox20 7 лет назад

So...Hayley, I'm ready to let you change my life for the better. ---see what I did there😉😗

@rbrn9 6 лет назад

So.. can I peanut in your butter?

@StagnantMizu 7 лет назад

if you match just ignore her they like it :D wai til they talk also option

@meganmccullough8445 9 лет назад

i feel like the assumption of this video was that guys are the initiators, and that guys were the target audience for this. realized through use of pronouns.

@CHRIMOND777 4 года назад

Megan McCullough that’s how it be 🤷🏽‍♂️ where do you see girls chase the guys instead

@kkp4297 8 лет назад

you can't personalize messages because most girls' profiles are blank.

@deathbystereo- 6 лет назад

This woman is a 6/10

@pieman50005 9 лет назад

where is michael

@ICET100 9 лет назад

He Disappeared into thin air lol hahahaha

@pieman50005 9 лет назад

yeah, im super bummed, sad. I love the Michael videos

@sunnasunna4975 4 года назад

This is just superb, I been tryin to find out about "tinder questions game" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Neeyedaly Romantic Pussnap - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my brother in law got amazing success with it.

@clallen2000 6 лет назад

Guys almost have to use a canned response to all the girls. We don't have the time to read 200+ girls profiles and send each one a different message. Girls may get hundreds of messages from guys but they probably don't check out every guys profile.

@Griff_3 5 лет назад

So (enter name here) how’s your day going? Boom!!! Now if she replies she can start talking about herself and you can just keep asking questions. Which will make her feel good about herself and she can carry the conversation not you. Your welcome😈

@no4869 3 года назад

Bonjour je mapelle baguette

@percy2522 2 года назад

i like to say hi to you on youtub

@danielburford1441 3 года назад

lol

@nicolaspedersen7161 5 лет назад

I was struggeling to get a response to my first messages but then I matched with the cutest girl and I immediatly knew that I Should not fuck this up so I asked her asked her the following question.. Copy Paste and Google Translate ( Good evening "name". My experience tells me that it is very difficult to get a response to the first message, so now I want to ask you straight on and hard. What Should a guy write to a match to get her to write back?) THAT WORKED..!👍