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Tamra is so mean and disgusting to watch. Attacking someone's alcohol journey isn't the way.

Alexis is soo annoying to me. She comes off fake and scripted. If Tamra really thinks that Shannon is an alcoholic and is spiraling down, she is a horrible person for how she’s treating Shannon. You don’t kick someone when they’re down especially if you think they have a problem.

Tamara goes too far for the camera. Disgusting

I really appreciated how Gina and Emily interrupted Tamra’s shaming of Shannon and set her str8!

Alexis thirsty self really thought she ate with her “receipts”. Girl, Shannon already admitted he gave her money so showing wire transfers doesn’t mean anything. 😂😂😂 Now, if she had receipts showing Shannon acknowledged it was a loan, that would be something

This was the WORST intervention I’ve ever seen. Shameful!

Tamara is mean

Tamra is the type that will make you feel dumb and insecure about whatever issue you’re going through. But if you get help and try to be better, she’ll make to remind you of the horrible things you’ve done.

Tamara hides her rudeness by saying its honesty! As if she isn’t a raging alcoholic on the show too.

Gina is so scared of Heather every time Dubrow speaks she agrees and put her head down. She definitely set Katie up to fill Heather's wrath. Messy Gina 😂😂😂

I think Tamra turned it up because Vicki was there. She was making sure she was the main character at that dinner.

Shannon need to keep singing the song that the $70 k was a gift....😂

Tamara needs to shut up! Her son had an addiction problem, how dare she be so judgemental. She drank just as much as Shannon, the difference is Shannon got an DUI which she is holding over her head. Alexis first husband Jim had such a tight hold on her now she has lost her damn mind.

Agree with you about Alexis and not really looking forward to her being on the show. Just because you get a DUI doesn’t mean you’re an alcoholic and Tamara is just so nasty and gross this season she needs to go.

Shannon looks AMAZING! John and Alexis want to be in the show and suing Shannon for relevance. I kept saying “dang Shannon looks good!”. I had no idea she had a facelift until the episode! Great work!

My heart broke for Shannon. The way they treated her at dinner was horrible. Tamra is a nasty person. And Alexis is so cringey to watch. She is so thirsty for camera time.

I understand why Shannon dropped Tamara when she did. Tamara has always been a bad friend to Shannon, I think it was easier for her to drop Tamara then to confront her.

GINA LOOKS CRIMINAL IN THAT CONFESSIONAL 🤣😭

Emily and Shane's relationship hasn't always been strong. He wasn't as engaged when they first came on the show. Get RID of Tamera, she's HORRIBLE!!!

I wouldn't f--k with any of them after that. Nobody really spoke up for her. At least not enough. I definitely would have cussed Tamra TF out. Shit like this drives people to drink.

Hasn’t Bravo & producers learned from RHONJ toxicity & destruction of cast members not to repeat it again with another franchise RHOC. This episode was so bad and abusive.

Tamara and Alexis are annoying

With friends like Tamra who needs enemies. She reminds me of Renna. She uses everyone's story lines to make herself relevant. She's quite toxic, and it's very uncomfortable to watch her be so aggressive when she attacks Shannon. Tamras motto kick people when they're down. Never forgive and constantly judge everyone. Alexis is plane stupid.

Tamara is not a good friend! What she was doing is not holding Shannon accountable, it was mean and hurtful!

Tamar is a monster she’s no one friend

Tamara needs to be put on pause again. Permanently!

The way you let Alexis have it, I absolutely loved it 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Tamra is a mean girl 😢

Omg, why is everyone so afraid of Heather? 😞

Tamra gets her karma with her children I believe, she’s a horrible human and it’s not even good tv to me, it just is gross. Also people get DUI it doesn’t mean they are an alcoholic I feel Hollywood and bravo shows have this obsession with saying “I’m sober” I use to be an addiction counsellor and I just find Tamra’s actions disgusting and doesn’t her son have addiction issues ?

The jealousy is real. These women are hating on Jen for no reason. Emily bye

Tamara is legit mean. I can’t stand watching her on the show. It almost ruins the show for me.

Alexis is definitely giving Single Whit Female because not only does she have Shannon ex, dog look a like, wearing Van Cleef ( which i never saw or heard of until Shannon came on the show), but she is even acting a little like Shannon at this dinner. It seems like all Alexis and John talk about is Shannon because why does she know so much about Shannon???

Tamera is the type of person to push you off the bridge and say she was just helping you.

Tamra was doing the most. Her & alexis plotted that crap beforehand.

Emily is ok. Shes unpredictable. She calls people out when necessary. Emily will comment honestly. Delighted she called Alexis out. 😀

Alexis and John not going to last

Alexis is a whole goofball lol 😂😂 that man will eventually embarass tf outta her! Hope she can handle it lol going waaaaaay too hard

Gina was damned if she did and damned if she didn't. Heather sometimes kills the messanger.

Shannon never denied she received the money from John. She just said it was a gift not a loan. If he sued, he’d have to prove it was a loan and that Shannon did, in fact, agree to pay it back. Otherwise, it’s a gift 🤷🏾‍♀️ So, for me the “receipts” was a flop on Alexis’s part. Also, if Shannon was put on probation as a result of the DUI, I guarantee the court would’ve required her to participate in treatment. Intensive out patient and outpatient treatment is just therapy with a mental health professional who is license to practice with people who have both mental health and substance use issues. So, I’m sure the therapy that Tamra was dissing is an outpatient therapy of some sort.

Please send Tamra and Alexis away. Neither are important to any storyline. Alexis is just there to taunt Shannon. That’s mean spirited. Tamra cares about Tamra period.

So who is GLAD Bravo brought Tamra back? 🤢🤮🤢 What a sorry excuse for a human. True colors can't be hidden when you open your eyes 😳. If not, the drunken screeching will smack you awake 😒. Not a popular move Bravo. You definitely miscalculated THAT one. 😐

Alexis said when she showed her so-called receipts that she said John GAVE Shannon the money. Tamara isn't anyone's friend but her own.

Glad heather and Emily spoke up because it was going to far

Yessssss ☺️👌🏽 Kempire! I’ve been waiting to hear your opinion on this episode cause I am so shook by some of the casts behaviour 🙈

Seeing Alexis this episode and how extra stupidly she was behaving, it's no wonder Gretchen didn't want to be friends with her anymore back in season eight. Back then, I was in the minority of people who leaned more towards Gretchen when she fell out with Alexis, despite Gretchen's friendship with Tamra playing a role. The one point I will give Tamra about Alexis is that her assessment of Alexis back in season seven-that she was phony and pretentious-was wholly accurate. In fact, Alexis has gone on to behave more phonily and pretentiously over the years, which brings me to Tamra's confessional sound bite in this episode in which she said she thinks Alexis is so much different now than she was ten years ago. Girl, what?! Nowadays, she's all but reinforced Tamra's opinions of her ten years ago. But alas, those of us with brains that function know that Tamra isn't really Alexis' friend and that their phony alliance is simply one ingredient in Tamra's recipe for taking down Shannon. So when (not if) this non-friendship epically implodes, the egg running down Alexis' face will be iconic.

You can be honest and share your opinion(s) without being cruel & vindictive. Tamra needs to learn that. Anyone can find themselves in unfortunate situations because life is a journey & people make mistakes & we are allowed to GROW & CHANGE at our own pace... so she should be mindful of that. Like Popcaan said... "With friends like these who needs enemies 🎶"

Tamara used this opportunity as a storyline which is so sad and heather give LVP vibes only show want they want

Kempire, it’s so amazing how much insight you have on these ladies even though you haven’t watched RHOC from the beginning 😂😂😂

Wow. With friends like Tamara who needs enemies eh. 😩

I think with Shannon she uses alcohol as a coping mechanism when she’s going through stuff. Kind of like how some people use food as a coping mechanism. I think she needs a therapist to help her find better ways to cope with stress.

Get rid of Tamra and Alexis. Double Rennas.

Tamra is disgusting she just trying to get her some stay there 💯

Tamra did too much

Tamara is disgusting and what kind of friend does this, my heart really went out to Shannon and I was glad Vicki was there. Alexis is so delusional, tacky, and out of line. I hate that she is allowed a place with the ladies and I hate how the ladies are allowing this.

Tamara needs to go. It’s toxic.

Kenpire is reading Alexis down 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😄!!

Gina wig caught me off guard, Alexis is using Shannon for a storyline too she could of been shady here and there it’s giving I want a spot on the show very thirsty

I think there is a big difference between making bad decisions with alcohol and being an alcoholic. Too many people are not around alcoholics and are throwing that word around.

Good recap, Kempire! I don't know why people are so afraid and intimidated by Heather. She does have a tendency to read the ladies down, but she is no one to be afraid of. They definitely need to grow a pair and start speaking up and reading her back. Tamara is a mean Ole bitty. She goes way to far with how she treats and talks to others. And Alexis is far too thirsty. She's mad because the ladies have an opinion of who and how John J was when he was with Shannon versus how he is with her. I wish they would realize that people act and portray themselves differently depending on who they are around.

YES , KEMPIRE she looked like a Austin Powers evil robot!!

Tamara needs a check for Eddie to cash. So she is trashing her own friend bc she doesn’t have a story line. Eddie is unemployed and they are desperate for money. They are capitalizing on Shannon’s journey. Pod casts , interviews, rhoc etc all Tamara talks about is Shannon.

I can’t stand Tamera. I was so happy when she was gone love Vicky though, and that is her show.

When you were talking about heather and Terry I think the word you were looking for is “calculated”. They are very tactful with what they do and it does come across as they don’t show all of their cards.

Gina didn’t tell Heather that Katie was talking about her because she was chiming in about Heather as well. Emily is always giving statuesque Jayne Mansfield. John Janssen is only suing Shannon because he can’t afford to keep up the lifestyle Alexis is used to.

I love Shannon IDC

Thank you Kempire I do think some of these ladies are too privileged and have become judge and jury. Shameless to take down Shannon but hopefully she will win over this situation. Blessings Ebony ❤️❤️❤️

I've been a fan of every city, but each city has become more vicious than the other on different matters. I watch brief recaps bc I canceled cable. The briefs are more than enough for me to conclude that I made the right decision, on my cable expense 😂

This is petty but did anyone else notice Tamara's horrible confessional look? That dress was not flattering and it showed her crepey arms. Instead of focusing on Shannon's drinking and how she paid for her facelift Tamara should focus on herself.

It was cringy watching Tamera being so disgusting towards Shannon. Tamera did listen to Shannon for years when she'd get phone- idis while drinking but when Eddy had heart problems and hospitalized Shannon wasn't there for Tamera. So Tamera is doing too much!!

My mouth was agape when I saw Gina's new confessional look! A MESS!!!!!! 🤭🤭🥴

15 years is considered the silver anniversary, yes people actually celebrate it

Heather is from westchester and Gina is from Long Island (her accent sounds like Suffolk county). So def 2 different worlds.

How about Emily's reaction to her anniversary gift? She acted like someone gave her a kick in the face instead of a huge diamond ring. .. wtf was that about? She barely even smiled.

Tamra is as thirsty as Alexis and she is as much of a drunk as Shannon lol. I like shannon more. Shes neurotic but not evil.

I don’t think Emily is jealous of Jenn (the way Tamra is jealous of Shannon for example). I think Emily does not suffer fools well and she sees Jenn as inferior to her intellectually. She can’t understand why Jenn can’t get it together the way she would if she was ever in her situation. I really like Emily but I think this has been her biggest fault over the seasons. She can be a bit stubborn and not always see things from other perspectives or life situations 😻 Just to add, I think Emily also shows this level of disdain towards Alexis. But that I understand as Alexis is looking like a bit of a fool so far, coming in all hot and heavy re JJ and trying too hard to fit in with the girls….

Shannon saying nobody came to check on her, when Jenn was literally standing in front of her trying to comfort her….Shannon loves that “victim” role. Can’t stand Gina but she didn’t mince her words with Katie which I appreciated. Now Katie knows where she stands. Note to Katie….it wasn’t a receipt. It was her asking a specific question (was she looking for something on Heather) and a person we don’t know said “yes”. It’s giving I don’t know Heather but I’m going on the show and would like something in my back pocket.

I'm celebrating 15 years of marriage on the 16th. We're going to Switzerland. We try to celebrate in a bigger fashion every 5 years (usually with a big trip).

Tamara is Nobody's friend. Kempire, go back to the first season Shannon was on the show to get a feel for how she presented herself. She was weird. And I never liked Alexis.

Emily is unemployed. Yes she is a lawyer, but she’s not practicing. Who is she to judge anyone?? Tamra has always been disloyal so what she’s doing to Shannon was bound to happen. Gina and Emily did the same thing to Noella by telling her to confront Heather, knowing that it couldn’t end well and it didn’t. I hope Katie knows Gina isn’t her friend

Shannon never was on a break from the show. Shannon has alot of financial bills. Shes still payibf for her kids college. Shes 3 daughters. Her X just got divorced and has a to pay fir that also.

Hello! Hi! I'm the problem is me!! I was waiting on that Kempire😂😂😂😂😂

Happy for all your success and your beautiful new home! Congratulations Kempire!

Yes, 15 years is big for anniversaries. Really anything that ends in 5 or 0.

I'm gonna just say this Gina. You complained about jen paying for glam but not for rent. But yet you can't afford rent on a house for you & travis and the kids. Libe separately. But your glam is scanming you. You waste your money on glam & those clothes. Instead of using that money for a bigger house to rent. Family comes first says you. Clearly not. Plus how long before Gina got into real estate was trav paying the bills gina

This needs to be Gina's last season!

I can’t stand Alexis. Her whole storyline is John Jansen and Shannon. She has been dating h8m a month a knows nothing.

Tamara went to H . E double hockey sticks with Shannon...so MEAN ...for what..so Sad

Katie, mind your Dam business! Who cares if Heather or someone from her camp called paparazzi!! How does it affect you, Katie? 🤷🏾‍♀️ I pray Bravo get rid of Tamra for good!!! She’s horrible!!

Yeah dana wilkey talked about how taylor ghosted her. When she was no longer rhobh. So it's karma for Taylor because dana hid a lot of Taylor and was friends with her before the show

Hair like a helmet ⛑️ !!! 😂😂😂

Let's not forget some housewive ladies have children in collage plus their own bills to pay

That is her storyline to get started on the show

Tamara is the meanest of them all, really dark and bad, i like Shanon, she need other friends, real friends

Shannon has always been self centered. She leaned on Tamra for years for emotional support when she going through it with ex husband. People kept telling Tamra their friendship was one sided. When Eddie was going through his heart issues Tamra realized Shannon wasn't a good friend because she didn't call to check on her and Eddie through his surgeries. But she called to vent about her own issues. Then when Tamra wasn't on the show she didn't check on her. So I understand Tamra when it comes to Shannon. She wants Shannon to take accountability for once because she hardly ever does and do better and not enable her.

I don’t think they used Katie because even when they spoke about it they told Katie not to bring this up to Heather Gina had already told her not to bring this up on camera and Katie did it anyway for a storyline and thought she’d have back up and she didn’t

Tamra ain’t no good.

I have seen this show from the start. Vicky is much better on the show then Alexia. Any damn day!!!

Alexis is just so extra. It's like a little middle school girl. Do you remember when she was a guest on Below Deck? Obnoxious!

Tamara was so mean and disgusting, like I felt so bad for Shannon the way he Tamara was just talking to her. Is she really does need help you really think screaming at her is going to make her want to go get help, and if you're so disgusted and believe she's an alcoholic then why are you not chastising various people for inviting her to functions where there's ample supplies of alcohol. Maybe you need therapy and you need to get something in order, because the way you snap at people is just so aggressive and disgusting. Ask for Alexis, firstly complaining that Katie chose to give Shannon a bit of a break at one event where she didn't feel like she was fighting a two-front war against you and Tamara, yeah how freaking horrible of a person Katie is on that. Secondly, you're bringing out receipts okay did you ask John to see receipts for anything else he paid for? They were together for 3 years, so where are all the other receipts of him paying for other things? and Tamara defending john, telling Alexis like oh everything you're telling us is so much different than what Shannon would tell us Alexis and him have been together for 2 minutes, we're Shannon and him were together for 3 years let's compare and contrast. My ex who has since passed away he had several DUIs, add dealt with substance abuse issues. In a DUI program you absolutely cannot drink, and you are checked up on regularly by the courts and if they find out that you've even had one sip of beer they will arrest your ass. The success rate of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) varies by study, but is generally between 22% and 37%, because they only address the symptom, not root causes.