Discerning and breaking the spirit of narcissism 

I would be interested to hear more 🙏

My husband was delivered too. Now, waiting on God for my daughter’s deliverance AMEN!

I would love to know more also

Thats Awesome. Thank God. I am soooo happy for you. That didn't happen to me. I left my toxic & narcissist husband. I needed to soooo I can do God purpose.

That is fantastic I have faith mine will be delivered too! But this gives me even more hope in my faith! Thank you!

AMEN

We forgive everyone 4 everything in JESUS Name above all names. Amen

Yes it is...but in its right context which is to hold them accountable

Amen so true

Forgiveness does require we address our abuser with the truth. As an expert in narcissistic abuse recovery I have found it detrimental to teach victims blind Forgiveness. As Christians we are to use the word of God to rebuke wickedness and in love openly hold an abuser accountable. In this way we also are gifting an opportunity for a narcissist to repent as well as standing firm in what is righteous and in courage. This is important as narcissistic abuse is about dominance and control. Forgiveness in the right context will not only release a a victim from the soul tie with a narcissist but rebuild your character as a child of the Most High.

Mine too and my sisters and I have suffered our entire lives

@@drkatherine20 praying for you my friend

Dido, unfortunately. It took me many years to learn and understand what narcissism is. I've had to learn what real love is and how to receive it still and I'm in my 60' S now. I thank God that I was led to Him just 10 years ago. He has been so gracious to help me understand what I've been dealing with and how to let go and forgive.

What is this mean some one please tell me

I don't know what level of narcissism you had to endure but I am passing through that as well. My home is not my home, and I'm just tired. My home is where God is. The church. Amen.

Thank you for the witness. In my weakest moment, he hurts me. True.

That's what happened to me. He would attack me at my weakest point tiredness, sickness and just exhausted

Yep so true. What is in them is predatory and it preys on you when you are at your weakest.

Agree. He would make me weak - keeping me up, so I don't sleep, listing all my flaws at one time, threatening things he knows I hate or am against - and continual 'baiting" me for that argument. If he can make an argument get big - he shows himself (and others) how crazy I am and how justified he is. God please help. Please pray for me and I'll pray for you.

Yes this is true. My narcissist wife attacked me when I had undergone a surgery n had not yet recovered fully .👺🥵

Hi. May I ask. Did you mean that we have to stay under the control of the narcissist even after you found about them.? Or you took a step to end that relationship. Please let me know. Because I'm going through a narcissist relationship.

@@lydi2955 the narcissist, once you have been devalued, pretty much hates you and wishes you dead, but not before your lifebis ruined and you are reduced to nothing because it makes them feel powerful. The narc cheats. He lies. Steals. Destroys. Just like Satan. 1st Cor Ch 6, I think, around 6:15-20 is very clear on what your body is--a temple for the Holy Spirit that you are not to treat your body in a profane way. I think you are probably not supposed to marry again after leaving hubby I he's alive, but you don't need to stay there. You can pray and forgive that does not mean you should be a doormat for demons.i would think That's called enabling evil.

​@@lydi2955it depends on if The Father wants you to stay or go. Ask Him and let Him show you what He wants you to do. I left. My ex made me so sick (cancer) that The Father said to me "If you don't leave, you will die. You are worth more to me alive than dead. And don't worry about what other people think of you for leaving and divorcing because number one, it wasn't from me in the first place, and two, people forget that I divorced Israel........"

Same here. keep pressing in to the Lord. It has taken many years but I am finally free.

I like your point about thankfulness. It sounds so simple, but it’s profoundly impactful.

Same here

Whoa... me too

What was good did the situation stop did they leave you leave or you leave what happened ? Would love to know bit more

Same 💖🙌🏼

I don’t buy it. So you had narcissistic personality disorder and now you don’t?

Praise God. I pray my husband will be delivered too

@@DrPhilGoode God heals 100%. I wouldn't say I had an extreme case compared to some but definitely narc tendencies that affected most aspects of my personality and the treatment of my husband. I immediately asked for his forgiveness post deliverance. Believe what you want.

@@seanafair76 I do appreciate your honesty on the possible severity compared to others but I think that part is what needs to be understood. We all have times of low level narcissistic traits. That’s human being 101 and I think we can both agree on that. Most creator self help narc content on RU-vid and other platforms is aimed at learning about the behavioral characteristics of narcissistic individuals. Individuals with (in this example) a cluster b personality disorder such as NPD. (Narcissistic Personality Disorder). Folks with NPD don’t have the emotional maturity and stability required to face their disorder enough to even notice it. But thats mostly irrelevant. The MAIN job responsibility of NPD is to protect the disordered individual from knowing he or she is disordered. That is crazy fascinating and crazy terrifying to me all at the same time. NPD is created from and in childhood trauma and “perfected” by adulthood. That personality (NPD) is who they are 24/7 365. They aren’t sitting around refusing to fix their known narc behaviors. Those behaviors are the engine that will power the rest of their life. The reason self aware narcissists are SO rare is they don’t possess skills to be self reflective. Their own narcissism works overtime to prevent themselves from seeing their own narcissism. A narcissists brain is physiologically different from non narcissists. Like a child born with Down syndrome or born with an arm or leg defect. Can God heal a child’s stub arm they’ve had since birth? Sure he can. Is there even one documented time in human history when He has grown a child’s arm out to full size? No. Has God every healed and taken away down syndrome leaving a “normal” child in their place? No. Even self-aware narcissist will be the first to tell you they still have the disorder. All they can do is get professional help and slowly work on different aspects of how they react to their own disorder. There has never been a documented 360 change since NPD was added to the DSM-5. The reason I say all that is this. The worst thing a person in a narcissistic relationship can do is hold out hope that the abusive and toxic behavior can change. In fact, the narcissist uses a tactic called “future faking” in which they shed tears and promise change and improvement with no intention of following through. They use it to control the victim and manipulate them into staying in the relationship where the abuse cycle will continue for years, sometimes decades. Ten years ago I was the one reading comment sections like this searching for anything I could find that would tell me something I knew wasn’t true. I lived in denial for over a decade that my wife’s behavior was abusive and unacceptable. Always giving her the grace that healing was possible. While never seeing any proof that she had any interest in getting better. But I can’t be surprised when someones narcissism is preventing them from being less narcissistic. If they had the ability to improve and change, they wouldn’t be narcissistic in the first place. Thank you for your time.

Amen

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Getman. Es gibt auch viele Narzisten in der Hyper Charismatischen Christlichen Lehre. Sie entspringen dem Word Of Faith Monument. Und der TV Evangelisten wie Hinn Oder Copeland. Eine moderne Krankheit in religiöser Form.

There are covert narcissist who go to church. My mom will go to church on Sunday and come home and watch creepy movies, expect others to do for her if she does something for someone, she is very good at manipulating, she is a different person around different people. She asked me why do think I don't love you? And before I could get out it's the way you love me. She said I was so hoping you were a girl so you could help me with the others. And sure enough I was the kid that was an adult before my time.

@@love4christ-hi5ql I'm so sorry you had to experience that. One thing God showed me is that He's a Father and a Mother. There are Scriptures of Him covering us like a hen covers her chick's, being gentle with us like a breastfeeding Mother and so many more. I would encourage you to read all the passages about God comparing Himself to a Mother and just what it says about Motherhood in general. You may have to grieve the loss of never having a Mom but that when God promises He will "take you up". "If Mother and Father forsake you, I the Lord will take you up" Psalms 27:10. Let Him heal and take care of you. The word "take" in Hebrew can mean a life long covenant or promise. Look up key words in Hebrew when you read the scripture. If there is more than one meaning, they are all correct!! That the Beauty and richness of The Word ❤️

@@love4christ-hi5ql oh BTW, rejecting Christ has nothing to do with going to church. It has to do with wether or not we open our hearts to Him

@@justice4all977 Thank you. I have my Bible study group praying over the situation.

AMEN! Absolutely 💯% CORRECT. I AM PRAISING GOD WITH EVERYONE HERE WHO HAS EXPERIENCED HAVING HAD BEEN A VICTIM TO THESE EVIL CIRCUMSTANCES WITH Narcissist. OHHH GOD❗ I experienced it... It almost caused me to succumb to spirits of HOMICIDE, AND SUICIDE, BUT NOW I AM FULLY DELIVERED FROM ALL THE POWER OF SATAN. I have overcome by the BLOOD of the LAMB, And by the WORD of my testimony, I FOCUSED ON LEARNING ALL THE TRUTHS THAT THE PASTOR HAS NEEN MENTIONING IN THIS VIDEO. 😢 IT SAVED MY LIFE, AND PROTECTING MY SOUL, EVEN RIGHT NOW. It is written: My people PERISH because of a lack of knowledge. WE ARE ALL WISE TO SEEK GOD'S FACE BECAUSE HE HAS ALL THE KNOWLEDGE , UNDERSTANDING AND WISDOM THAT WE ALL NEED. TO GET ACCURATE UNDERSTANDING AND GODLY WISDOM IS POWERFUL... IT IS PRICELESS❗🙌 - 🙌 - 🙌HALLELUYAH!🙏

This is so true, thank you for sharing.

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I agree x

I agree. We could use more teaching on how to combat the narcissist spirit

Yes, absolutely!! I’d love to hear more.

Narcissists are free loaders manipulators , sneaky that's why serpents represents satan lucifer Hard thick face their trade mark - i hate to say these words but that's what the reality of this world the existence of Narcissists spirit rules freely all over the earth

Runs in paternal side , and now over 30yrs in husbands paternal and maternal side. ONLY GODS MERCY AND GRACE HELPS ME EACH PASSING DAY AS HE TEACHES AND STRENGTHENS ME IN HIM FOR A REASON 🔥✝️🇮🇳

I was devastated by my oldest son, a narcissist. I went no contact with him two years ago. I pray for him, but realize I might not see him change before I die.

Unfortunately mine at 33 years old lives with me

@@nazleyvanblerk1703 My brother was a narcissist because of the repeatedly cycle of abuse. Who abused your sons?

At 33 years old why is he still living with you?@@nazleyvanblerk1703

@@love4christ-hi5ql not all narcissists were abused some get so lost in the power and control. It's a demonic issue and they have to come to a point of wanting deliverance or they won't overcome no matter how they got there. God can deliver anyone but they havevto want deliverance andvrepent.

@@barbarahayes4696 I do agree I feel like my mom had a loving home, my kids father was spoiled but his mom very control. My brother I feel like abuse cause his.

Praying for you now. K

@@KevinZadai thank you so much. God bless you Kevin ❣️

Kristina ....Same here..but I am doing much. better...PRAISE GOD..🙄

How is everything? I am dealing with the same thing. I am praying for his deliverance.

My mother was narc and my dad very codependent. We were abused and he ignored the truth. It's sad now seeing them aged she has broken him.

I am broken. 40 years with a narcissist. I need a breakthrough. God did free me from his family. The women are Jezebels and men Ahabs , my husband is a narcissist Amen!! Pray for me

@@hortencianavarro885 That's exactly the situation.

Both parents and a sister controlling me. Those chains broken praise Jesus.

@@JF32304 if he isn’t out for money can you explain why he is selling things in the video description and also has 2 options listed to make donations? Nearly all modern pastors are money grubbing wolves.

Always accuse that which they are guilty of!

if you wonder whether you are a narcissist, chances are that you are not. Narcissists are not self-aware or humble enough to see problems with their own behaviour

@@stefanielorimer9693 You do have a point... still need to work on myself to get rid of the old me😅

😂😂😂😂 you're right

You are a narcissist. At least you realise it and are trying to do something about it. However, I think that it is incurable.

Stephanie presents a good point. Also, consider that if you had to deal with nacs around you as you grew up, your "narc behavior" may be a learned defense against their treatment of you then and now. Will pray God will give you the answers you need.

Amen! ❤

Easier said than done sometimes.

Narsissts are PERFECT and Superior … why should THEY change ?!!!🤣 You LEAVE the day they put you down verbally….That Is NOT LOVE ….. some stay 30 years and more Before the abuse is seen as such Sunshine and shit going on and on……….. Love from France

​@@lorinelson2276 we are not perfect... Far from it

@@lorinelson2276😅

Wow this is so wild how we’re all going thru the same thing! Just found out about the jezebel spirit as well and it all makes sense. I had an encounter with God in my heart not so long ago, then a week later husband and I get into a massive fight. Sa7an came in thru the cracks thru my marriage, he broke me down and tried to get me but nah the gift of discernment is real. Now my mom & sis, they don’t get it when I talk to them about it either

@@descudi the only thing we can do is to continue praying and trusting God as He blesses us with discernment.

The angels that were kicked out of heaven had the same narcissistic tendencies as Satan. That is what satanic followers do. They are controlled by one another and have no respect. They are all lost, confused, out of control, unloving, and against God. I thank God for who he is loving mankind in spite of disobeying him. God’s love is proof forgiveness is rewarded for the sinful thoughts, ways and actions people repent to turn back to God. Searching for God and wanting and needing God is truths that sets people free from evil. To God be the glory. This video came up when I searched for the Holy Spirit and narcissism. I am 66 years, five days as of my comments. Narcissists need God, the Holy Spirit and Jesus.

Yes. I forgive the offender in the name of Jesus and I release him and let him go to God. I dont keep records of wrongs now but now God is keeping the records and he is taking care of EVERYTHING. I'm trusting God with that. I label the offense as demonic, file it and hand over the records to Holy Spirit and he gives them to my lawyer, Jesus, and Jesus takes my cases to his father in Heaven who is the judge. It is rigged in my favor. Now God is keeping the records and I am doing the releasing and the forgiving. What a breath of FRESH AIR.😅

Yes forgiveness IS LOVE…The very definition of Love, as given to us FROM GOD, in Corinthians says what love is…look it up. The ultimate ACT OF LOVE is when Jesus forgave us our sins….it is ALL ABOUT FORGIVENESS. Corinthians says love PERSEVERES, which means never giving up on someone.

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I believe one can forgive and still give that person to restore your sanity. Jesus our Saviour King asked God to forgive His killers but after resurrecting He remain with His disciples only and had nothing to do with the Pharisees and the Sadducees. Have nothing to do with them. 1 Cor 5:5 hand this man over to satan. Eph 5:11 have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.

This is profoundly true and wise.

I deal with same.Been married 40 years.Want to leave but I like my house,but I'm not treated right, and want to stay in the house.

I go through the same

You left?

@@margaretmetzger8694 Hi Margaret. Your house has more than one room. The Bible is great to read to get wisdom, peace, love, joy, comfort and happiness from God. Doing things keeping it seriously simple aka KISS taking care of yourself first leads you in the right direction. God does not want you to idolize your house. Your house attention is what have you weak and as you say your husband who you say is narcissistic, not knowing and having a relationship with God doing things that upsets you. I am 66 years and five days as of my comments. I have been married 39 years as of December 31, 2022. My husband is in a nursing home. In my opinion I think God and him are having moments together. It is not easy owning a home and being married to a narcissist. I use to own two homes in another city. I gave them up. It seemed crazy and bizarre, and my husband tripped very much as well as many others, but I actually been more free ever since. Searching for truths of God’s ways has been my journey. I live alone renting and watch RU-vid videos of various sorts and listen and learn and be aware of what’s going on in this world. Since I was a little girl, I studied instrumental music and played clarinet. As years went on I played piano. Singing was a gift I was born with and have been singing ever since. I managed to get a recording studio business and did my own original, copyrighted songs playing the instrumentals and doing the lead and background harmony vocals as well as the engineering. I also self-taught Videography/Editing skills and had a great business. I still have my equipment in a storage. 99% of my songs were created because of my narcissistic husband. I still love him and am by his side taking care of all of his medical cares and personal finances. God has been with me every step of the way. I have learned so much being abused, but it has made me stronger, wiser and better. Afterall, I too was born a sinner and have used my God-given abilities and skills to defend myself using my voice and my actions. I was naive, but I refused to die being a coward. Thanks for reading my comments. I pray you find peace which comes from God. As females we are not to be taken advantage of by males or anyone else. God made me in his image and likeness and God ain’t letting nothing or nobody abuse him or control him. That’s how I am living the rest of my living moments till I die. God fave me five great senses and I am using them to the best of my abilities with God’s help. Smiles

Return to your first love and He will heal your soul and direct your path in His righteousness.

Linda, Because of narcissistic abuse , I also had a breakdown in 2016. I almost died. When I submitted all to JESUS, everything changed. I have peace and joy. Praise GOD .🌹

Praying for you Sister. Keep eyes focused on God. We can not be plucked out of God hand. Jesus never leaves us or forsakes us. You are a part of a fellowship family One body of Christ. Find rest in God. Find God peace Philippians 4:6-7, God is our Rock Psalm 18, Pray Psalm 91 over yourself everyday. Take every thought captive 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 every thought is not your own and we have free will say no give to God. God bless you Sister.🥰🙌

Linda I pray god be beside you and protect you from all evil, Am going threw a bad stage of depression at the moment and I no it's so hard to get threw every day, But with the help of God we will get threw it, Tk care and God bless, 🙏🌹

Dr. Zadai- thank you so much for this teaching!! I recently discovered that I am married to a narcissist but always thought I was the one who was crazy. Yet I can identify with every characteristic and behavior response you mentioned. My husband and I were both raised as Christians and grew up in families active in our church. But you have given me tremendous insight and I will pray more fervently for insight and the Lord’s help to forgive. Sally Y.

Thank you.

I prayed for you. Thank you Lord, because I know that I prayed according to His will. ❤️❤️❤️

Thank you so much for your prayers 🙏🥰😇💝

omgoodness sounds like my husband 😢 he used to go have ice cream with his daughter but zelle his ex wife & came the next day to pick up his clothing with her.. abandoned me & cheated but blamed me for everything.. lord thus spoke to me.. ty Jesus I'm healing from this & filed for a divorce

God bless and protect you 🙏🌹

Just lost my baby sister who was married to a narcissist, He wouldn't let her leave. Her note said, you wouldn't give me a divorce, other options were to kill you, which I couldn't do, or this. She checked her self out with out telling anyone of the depth her pain. Now we are all carringing her pain. I'm Praying very hard for you to resist the devil, break free and get your life back.

Praise Jesus 🙌🏻

Amen!

Narcissists do not change and do not bother. They have no conscience. Check Dr. Ramani on RU-vid

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-SPNf0YqM8lU.html

Alas! Narcissists don't change. ALL YOU CAN DO IS AVOID THEM.

Agree!!! I want them helped also!

Yes! You can pray. I prayed while I ran the other way. The longer the time spent under narcissistic abuse, the deeper the damage and the harder it will be to heal. Thank you Dr. Zadai, when you said “sever ties” I felt such peace!

Absolutely!!! Children don't know, they just trust people. However, this has to be done very very carefully using discernment and wisdom so as to NOT harm their relationship with their Father God, the giver of ALL truth.

We are doing an online Teena of Narcissist Parents Youth Group- starting April 15th!

I don't think they better this is real OR they are concealing this very Spirit. One way or the other, Jesus Himself is dealing with and exposing this foolishness.

Yes I agree please do this!

I feel all of your words.

dealing with alot of people trying to control me.

@@carlosleiva7731 Thank you. Wise advice.

Praying for you!

@@KevinZadai thank you so much

I feel like I am in a similar situation 🤔. I am seeking God for what to do to get out or get through which ever God wants for me.

Same in my marriage… God has a better plan for our lives 🙏🏻❤️‍🔥 Father, help us. Heal our spouses!

Amen. Same situation, 40 year marriage, hoping for change in narc husband. Learned what I was dealing with about 15 years ago. Very complex hard situation, 3 children, 6 grand children. Have handled with God, step by step. Can be separated within the house that helps. Little real communication but praying. God can do even the impossible! I am determined to obey the Lord and Not be a victim!!

America = Babylon

Praying

@@KevinZadai thank you so very much!!! It has been a crying-praying day!!

Me too. Praying for you

Me too

Describe what you mean ny ' tight feelings'. I want a clearer perspective.

Give him a link to world renowned psychologist turned follower of Christ Jordon Peterson to help motivate and strengthen him.

@@ljb9001 Has he become a Christian yet it is he pre Christian?

I'm going true the exact same. My Son is a Christian and love his wife and children. He's left her and now she wants to go to counseling and Church. We feel she will never change because this is the 5th rodeo with them. My son married her because she got pregnant. He felt that was the honorable thing to do. 🤧🤦But Lord help them🙏🙌

​@@joolspools777Is he really?? Suddenly lots of celebrities becoming Christians. But are they? Big but. By their fruits we shall know them. 🤔

AMEN 🙏❤️

Can so relate.

Yes..the covert type will drive a victim crazy.

Me too. How are you doing. I hate being alone

Amen

Leslie Lewallen?

Praying

Heavenly Father, send Your Redemption Angels to her daughter at night to speak & give her Your Dreams of Your Love for her. Send people to her in her life to share Your Love & Salvation in Jesus. Woo her heart to You by Your Holy Spirit. Remove people who are hindering her life in You & bring people to help her. BLESS her in Jesus's Name. Thank You. Amen

Keep thanking God every day that she Desires Jesus, that she is a Faithful child of God & she is fulfilling God's call on her life. That's what my mentor pastor taught me.

@@reginathornton7433 .. Amen. Thank Regina.

@@KevinZadai … Thank you Dr. Kevin.

Praying

@@KevinZadai Thank you 🙏

My family accuses me of doing the very things they do. Thats Crazy making. I forgive and love and give them to God. Keep your peace and remain whole.