Disciplining a wife 

He knows you can’t control your emotional nature, therefore the man is using his words carefully. But the key issue here is that you as a woman must be DISCIPLINED by your husband

@@robertghazarian3075 well such way of discipline sound nice to me.Most men are far from being able to do what this man says.Even those so called sheikhs and dayees the youtube is full of.

@@centric145 well we also know that most women love to be disciplined by the bad boy, you can’t be soft and a disciplinary

@@robertghazarian3075 then those spouses make a good match.Everbody s happy.

@@robertghazarian3075 So what do you think, if she is not doing what she is suppose to do, who is to discipline her?

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It's also his duty as the head of the house to discipline and keep his family members, ie. Wife and children in check.

@@Altair-El-Haddadit’s important to marry a many with a strong self-esteem and some sort of power/respectability out in the community and world. By doing this, he doesn’t get drunk with his newfound power in a marriage and family role.

The woman is the source of comfort

How do you take it? You don’t resent him after? How many days does it take you to heal after each time? Is there something you can take to help heal up faster? Can’t do housework and do wifely duties in pain.

​@@LilithsCosmicLounge never resented him and it can take a week to completely heal. I can still do chores. It actually calms and mellows me. I know it's necessary and for my own good.. Some are more uncomfortable than others. Afterwards I am very submissive, even subservient to my husband.

Best to chose wisely.

Making dua for your wife

Why do you think women resist domestic discipline?

Well maybe that works for u and the great nice family background u came from . For many women it doesn’t cause they already have even higher tolerance rate and this strategy won’t work . I advice people to apply ur strategy b4 trying others though. May women thrive making their husband life hell for that power trip . U gotta play different game with them Then

@@bigdaddy7729 The relationship does not sound like a healthy partnership if ones wife is wanting to make a husbands life hell, why would such people stay together? Makes no sense to me.

​@@RubinaMerchantFor the sake of the children

@@TheTopG56 But children get emotionally disturbed in an unhappy environment. Staying for children only works if you can protect them totally from your relationship traumas and thats next to impossible as children sense a lot more than they actuslly show. The hurt, confusion and disruption lasts with them all their lives sadly. Either way they lose out to be honest. Even if you divorce after they are fully mature and have families of their own, its still traumatizes them. Its really difficult and sad when both parties are not willing or able to solve issues in an Islamic way.

I don't think it's wise to listen to women about how we should treat them. Same way we don't ask our children how they would like to be disciplined. Let's all just listen to Allah, shall we?

And address further when it no longer is a healthy technique and when it can cause more problems. I think she also needs to know what she did, there should be no walking on eggshells and puzzling for her about it.

Don t you know?strike her with a feather

@@centric145 Feather? That's a weird way to spell uppercut

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@@narukami597May Allah protect any woman under your care

if you always say something nice (comfort) to your wife, you stop (discomfort) doing that till she behaves again. simple and practical things.

​@@Ontherightpath_2024yes.

Simple, the fact that quran dosent mention it..... dosent mean men dont need discipline..... in fact i can assure you that generally speaking, men whom i know have enough sins to be dealt with then their wives.... its just that Allah dosent shy away of practical facts, so when the prophet peace upon him even being the bravest person who walked earth, he advised him to be patient only when in makkah even after Sumayya was impaled from between her legs in front of her sons and husband.... and many others were tortured and killed.... this is extreme opression, yet Allah dosen shy away from the fact muslims would have been all crushed if they enacted any violent action at that moment to protect themselves.... why? because they were weak at that point and Allah would never advise them to revolt for some ”cool freedom of speech” like actual western pseudo advisors try to shove in the heads of the global southcitizen just to see their state burn in fire.... in a wife and husband situation, remember hat quran is mzde for eveyone, and knowing that the husband is the one providing financial and physical security, he has the leverage.... Allah would not advise women to hardly admonish, or even use force if needed as a deterrent against their husbands while not only they cant because they lack the physical power, but it could worsen the situation into their oppressive husband being more oppressive or becoming violent or dangerous...... so then what to do? .... well easy..... first of all, quran being law making is like a state making laws, it dosent deal with normal civic interactions, it deals with extreme situations and how to deal with them..... so dont be surprised if quran doesnt deal with the fact a women can eventually talk to her husband calmly of her concerns on his behaviour if he isnt violent.... thats normal civic situation.... but when she calculate the situation of not being effective or even dangerous to confront him, then there is the sunnah which is complementary to quran, and where we have many examples of how to deal with that......we need to understand the relation between men and women in islamic marriage is completion when it comes to majority of situations, but it dosent negate the fzct that when it becomes rigid, women cant be as rigid as powerful and having leverage as men do.... so it becomes more of an employer employee situation.... it is nothing degrading for women because we all as men have either employers, or clients or authority over us, its just a situation for everyone... so when your employer can correct you when you do something in your job that is not in his interest according to his goal, it dosent have to be bad.... its just against his strategy..... you on the other hand if your employer takes one of your rights against you will it would be very dumb to just in order to feed your ego you go and try yelling at him knowing that he hzx the power to unjustly fire you..... no what you do is you sent a letter to the authority that keeps him in check and they will give you justice..... in the sunnah its the same, we have so many so many so many women coming to aisha or directly to the prophet peace upon him to complain about their husbands, yet, men rarely you see them doing so until they cant manage, generally speaking they deal their affairs themselves..... so in a muslim state, when you wanna complain about your husband, you go to your father, your brother, or the auhorities that keeps him in check and you complain.... because they will have the power to shut him off .... you dont risk your safety just because we leave in a world where they try to shove into our brains the idea that women have to be equal in everything with men..... thats just impossible..... and like in warfare, a wise genral never indulge in battles he will lose

@@abdelhakyac7285 Why would any decent woman want to go to a relative to complain about her husband and expose his faults? Thats just wrong! If there is any correcting to do it must be done mutually via a civil discussion in the light of Quran and Sunnah.

@@RubinaMerchant okay, if that's your opinion

@@abdelhakyac7285 Its not my opinion. Its sunnah.

They shouldn't get married to begin with

In Islam, the husband and father is the head of the family, and is responsible for all members, that does not imply that women always need to be disciplined, nor that men are always right. Marriage is an agreement, and this agreement includes adherence to the hierarchical structure of authority in the family, if that is unacceptable to a woman, she is free to not marry.

@@MiddleNation I'm not necessarily opposed to a hierarchy in marriage. I'm just opposed to it being weaponised to hurt women which we see happening very, very often. Men act like tyrants all the time and don't get checked for it. But god forbid a woman does something and it's "time to discipline her." I'm genuinely asking, how do women confront and discipline a man that is acting like a complete douche?

@@MiddleNation "Free not to marry" is not the best advice to be honest. Most women want to get married and settle down with a good man. I know I certainly do. And from a religious standpoint of view, we understand and accept that men have authority over us. We just have genuine concerns because of how this hierarchy can and has been used to hurt us.

@@MR-mq5xr Understandable, but generalities about patriarchal oppression do not apply when talking about an individual relationship. If he is, in fact, a good man, the paranoia is misplaced.

@@MiddleNation Okay, that's fair. Thank you for engaging.

Please don’t insult Br Bolsen

Not even remotely. Tate is a degenerate, hedonistic egotist.