Me: Tells joke at perfect time, nobody laughs Other guy: tells same joke 5 mins later at some random time, everybody laughs *Is this what hell is like?*
Bc people can finish their show in month but not 14 days unless they watch 24/7 so this is making people want to pay to keep watching rather than finish their show and never return to the site
I think it's astablishd that 95% of Americans can't spell and the other 5% laugh at them . Autocorrect abandoned me on the word you upity 5% are laughing at
When I was 7 years old me and my mom got into a fight and I told her I was going to run away. She just said OK thinking I was kidding. I wasn't. I went to my room and packed up ALL my things. This took like four suitcases and a backpack. I dragged it all through the hallway and was out of breath by the time I reached the door where my mom was waiting. I looked up at her and asked, "can you help me carry all this?" She laughed and said no because I was running away I had to do it myself. I started crying and called her a butthead before storming off to my room. The End.
Domics is the person I watch on RU-vid that just makes my life feel right and all his videos are reasonable and helps me understand things in this world. His videos are amazing.
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? I feel like a statement can be worthy if it follows at least two. I feel this way because the obvious (kind/necessary: emotional support and kind/true: compliment) and sometimes you need to say something to someone that isn't nice but that they need to hear like if someone is bullying others and needs a good scolding for example.
Nathan Morgan I think it's not really about whether it's absolutely necessary it be said, but rather whether you really feel the need to say it, or think the other person really needs to hear it. I personally think about it every time I think of posting a comment online, for example, and most of the time opt to just not post because I realize I don't really care enough about my comment nor whether people will see it, so there's really no point in posting it. Nobody will get anything from that, so yeah, not needed.
Eh-- It's debatable if 'kind' is the right word to use. I'd say 'respectful' is more accurate, the implication of everything you're saying should be kind, inherently limits growth. Sometimes things need to be said because they're truthful, but it doesn't have to be kind. The English language doesn't function on a unanimous system of moral code.
When I'm silent, people just think it means I think they're right. I can't take 5 seconds to think of a reply despite being notorious for being slow with my speech.
L7vanmatre I get you. People say the same thing to me too. "See? You don't have anything to say because you know I'm right." Bitchhhhhhhh the reason I don't say anything is because I have so many things in my mind that I want to say to you. But all of those things would paint me as a dick if I said them out loud.
"This generation of adolescence think that there is actual merit in being what they call 'savage' as they bask in their two and a half seconds of glory." - Domics 2017
I always thought savage meant doing something cool, like a backflip or something, but apparently u can do “floor is lava” challenges in public places like Walmart and make the employees lives harder than they actually are and get away with it because ur a “savage”
Around my friends: Hey, Yo, *taps on shoulder until they get anyyoed* To my dad: Dude! Hey bro (seriously I'm closer to my dad than friends. To brother: Dude! Dumbass hey! To grandparents: Um, (their names)
Honestly facts. Like when random people feel cool and just say something stupid, then walk away. Like wtf. Especially teenagers. I'm a lil 14 teen year old myself yet I have never once just said something completely random to a stranger.
You know the "is it true is it kind is it necessary" part? We have a poster at my school that says "THINK before you talk, is it.. T rue H elpful I nspiring N ecessary K ind" That really reminded me of the poster
There is a way to say constructive criticism nicely. It is criticism that is helpful and not meant in a mean way. You can definitely pass that through your doors.
Even though it’s criticism, if it’s constructive then it is still positive and nice. Constructive criticism benefits the other person, so you’re not being mean
I hate it when people say sticks and stones may break your bones but words can never hurt you words do hurt Y'all, good for you if words don't hurt, could mean you are a robot or a psychopath😂. But when people get hurt by words it's so different from physical pain. Mental pain is a long and dark hallway we have to go though to recover from some situations. Verbal abuse is a thing, and it can cause serious mental disorders. If you disagree, no true need to leave a comment. I'm not changing my mind and nor are the people in the comments as well. Enjoy your day.
yea, plus we're taught not to say bad words at the same time. why? swearing is rude and can hurt people, they say. oh but "don't forget the sticks and stones, words cAnT hurt you"
"hey, ever heard of the sun?" "what? Yeah" "well then try getting tanner! You're so white!" *walks away* "..." This was a conversation between me and a random teenage boy around my age I have never *ever* met, it took place in a supermarket.
Same. Multiple people have made fun of me for having pale skin. Once some girl pointed to me as she was whishpering to her friend and said "Yeah, whiter than her skin." Then they both laughed at me and the girl's friend said something along the lines of, "Omg you're so savage." Like, no, Debra. That's not savage. Just rude & unnecessary. After that, she reminded me that I'm pale (Wow! Really?? I *Neeeever* noticed!😒) and I was too much of a wimp to stand up for myself. The End
I feel like people in general these days are very rude and disrespectful towards each other and I just think it's such a shame cuz it's so unnecessary..
Ekek Lele right? Why cant people just be nice? Is it that hard? People get offended by so many things now days that youre better off not saying anything at all rather than to say something. I hate it.
The gates of mature, responsible communication: "Is it funny?" no "is it kind?" no "is it true?" yes "is it necessary?" fuck yeah. Do i still say it even if a person won't like me? Yes. Does this make the "dont say it if its not nice" rule complete horseshit? Of course. What is it? "Fred you can't have sex with underaged girls..."
I'm too apathetic to care what others think of me That being said - I'm still not spewing out every crud that comes to my mind Discretion I still follow
As a young teenager (aka I’m like 14) in this generation, I can confirm: 99% of the people in my grade think they’re being “savage” but they’re just being assholes smh
"If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all" Parents, you're telling this to your children, if your 12 year old did this they would never speak again.
Normal conversation: 3 gates 'Wassup m8' Conversation with family: 2 gates 'Hah that's dumb m9' Conversation with best friend: 0-1 gate(s) 'You are now my friend and I say all the things I please bimbo but I still like you don't worry' Conversation with someone I hate: 'I hate you and I'm not hiding it now get out of my field of view before I break something' dont make me hate you xP
Yes finally someone addressing the whole "savage" thing. I'm really glad you brought it up because of how many younger kids watch your videos, because it is becoming so stupid and unnecessary. At my school, people are just flat out talking back to teachers and saying mean, hurtful things to people to get a laugh from their 3 friends who follow them around like sheep, claiming it to be "savage". It's not okay and it's not an exuse. It's just people covering up being a jerk with slang that makes them seem "cool".
RiotMyLpsPls you're probably a troll, @Hinikuna can say whatever the hell they want, its not hurting you? So than get your ass out of their comment when they didn't do anything to you, they're just stating their opinion. And lets not start a flamewar over this because again a flamewar breaks out just because someone is stating their opinion that isn't at all what you believe in
RiotMyLpsPls You have to be a troll. If you aren't get out of RU-vid you 10 year old. This comment is not hurting you in any way, it's not even affecting you.
I agree,and since recently i have "grown up" (i wasent an asshole btw i was a quiet kid) and seen that my piers (aka the cunts around me) are really quiet stupid in there frazing and when attacked back with logic seam to just shout homophobic or un-true remarks
Our class is insane.... Someone in my class was like “hey Teacher I used to call the broad river the dam river bc I didn’t know it’s name but it had a dam”
I feel the "is it kind" gate you're talking about shouldn't always be considered. Sometimes people *need* to say unkind things for the better. (keeping it real)
Sachindra Bhattacharya Good thought, but only if you are close enough to that person. Otherwise the conversation partner might be unnecessarily offended, thus just taking it as an insult and even if it is meant to be of that kind, you want to support even without kind words. Also most advises from strangers are most likely to be disregarded (what makes sense). And by removing the kind door you still need to find the right time, way to express it, etc. because even if you are right, if you are just seemingly out of bad intentions, then little does it help.
Sachindra Bhattacharya he phrased it poorly but I think if it can make it through 1/3 gates, it can be said. Because one of his examples only made it past one out of four gates
I am not that great in social situations, so sometimes I say something and don’t realize that it could potentially be hurtful. I appreciate it when people tell me “Hey, that wasn’t nice.” Just simply saying that in a polite tone makes me feel so bad and I apologize the the person or people I offended throughout the week. But what I hate is when I say something that isn’t that mean, and a friend gets all pissy about it. I apologize, of course, but then they say things that (unintentionally) are much more hurtful, and when I tell them to not say that, they ignore it! Like, da fuck dude?!
I used to have this teacher back in grade school that would find insults in literally everything. One time I told her "oh did you get a haircut, it looks nice?" And she made a crossed face at me. I didn't know why she did, but she pulled me out of class and said what I said earlier was really rude.WHAT??? I gave her a compliment! Fast forward 6 years later -> she doesn't teach anymore and is mom to a little girl. Bless that young soul.
I'd say, you have to tick off 2 of the 3 doors 🤔 a few examples - a friend is sad and you want to comfort them -> kind+necessary - you go shopping with a friend and the try on something that makes them look... bad -> true+necessary - a friend has a new haircut and you compliment them -> true+nice Because honestly I'd rather have someone say the truth to me, even if it isn't nice. Especially if I ask for their opinion 😊
But it really isn't necessary to tell the friend about the thing *you* think looks bad since its your opinion and they or other people may think it looks good
I agree with your parents, although mine went "It's not what you're selling, it's how you sell it" but I applied it to other kind of conversations as well!
Stardust._.Slimes My mom told me "Turn that music down" and I said to her " " yeah thats right i said nothing because I couldn't hear her I found out what she said when she busy in my room with a bed upset face
I hate when people who are being kidnapped on tv are like "let me go" Oh yeah, the kidnapper is TOTALLY going to let you go JUST because you said that.
Carolina Lopez nahh my natural instinct is kick them on the knee break their legs and run if that doesn’t work i try to get to their back where i proceed to break their legs and run
Dean Natuno I feel his thinking with the gates is too B&W. A lot of good- natured comments aren’t exactly necessary but still do good. On the other hand, hurtful comments sometimes need to be said.
"Hey man, why are you talking so weird? With these long silences between words?" "SHUT UP I'M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT IF "AND" PASSES THROUGH THE "IS IT KIND" GATE"
Evan Jarvis was it really necessary for you to ask that? Was it necessary for me to ask? Are we being funny? What is funny? Is that question necessary? Is any of this true or kind?
I thought the same thing! Like when characters have really long inner dialogues, but the magic of creative freedom pardons that. In real life: ... Hold on... Still thinking...
I hate when people say something rude or disrespectful and I tell them not to say things like that and they say something like, "It's a free country (America) and I can say what I want to say
I was on this game and this person kept on cussing in the chat and I told him to please stop because there are little kids around and he says you can't control my mouth.
I also hate it allot also. I'm a indian I all ways cringe When i see a comment like u suK tseries fanboy your country sUKs Unsub right now. me:....you know Discretion
I remember that I said “I’m going to run away”, but that was during one of their weekly fights, where they yell at each for various reasons, so I felt slightly justified.
