Ter'Asia wants Judge Lynn to tell the father of her two kids to put a ring on it. Subscribe to channel bit.ly/1fj2ql1 Check local listings at www.divorcecourt.com/where-to-...
Royal One Right?? Somehow they always have an idea about how "I'm not ready for the commitment of marriage". Seriously?? Marriage can be broken of by divorce if everything is lost at some point. It shouldn't be easy, but it's possible as a last resort. Kids are for ever. They'll be there until you die.
A dysfunctional culture that celebrates more baby showers to unwed mothers than weddings is black folks biggest problem in America besides racism. This gives black women a pass to wear being a single unwed mother like a badge of honor.
Because, like an idiot, she thinks bringing another child into the world is gonna hold him down and make him behave. If he won't even act right after the first baby, why would he change after the 2nd? If anything, having more kids makes him think he can get away with cheating or whatever else. Smfh..
@@JeNn0mic0n please stfu. you have no idea what it's like to be her. No reason to be so damn judgemental and self righteous when you've never been where shes been. Why aren't you blaming the shitty boyfriend for not leaving her because he knows hes shity and she deserves better than him?
hope so....sometimes stuff we think is just common knowledge to us may have never come across the mind of some other folks just because they are in a different part of their journey in life. Hopefully he can turn around for the sake of his girls
Lmao what? I really don't understand how someone can have kids with someone so casually but then flinch at the thought of marrying that same person. When did things get so backwards???
True. But she should have enforced marriage before popping out kids. Can't expect him to marry her now. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
Lansana Camara -- That's a excuse that would have worked maybe 60 years ago. There are so many methods of birth control. It's impossible in most cases to say opps I "accidentally" had sex and didn't Renner that's how a baby is made. No such thing as accidentally got pregnant.
Potty Maybe I worded it poorly. I agree that there are obvious ways to prevent pregnancy. I was referring to the fact that said methods are not 100% preventative, and thus people can still get pregnant even when taking the right steps to avoid it.
Gotta give that dude credit. He soaked up everything Judge Lynn Toler had to say and took it to heart and reflected. Some of these doofuses (or is the plural doofi?) just don't get it at all and lie through their teeth. I have hope for these two. They seem willing to learn and understand, not just do what they want.
Here's good advice: Don't have a child before you get married (if you want to get married to your partner). More advice: people don't change, and ring doesn't mean anything. Last advice: Use protection if you are not ready to have children.
Arbitorriku2 AGREED!!! idk why women have kids with these boys and then after they have kids want to get married!! Did their parents teach or show them how it's supposed to be done. I got married first then we had our son. No cheating or lying in our marriage. Communication and trust are the best part to having a successful marriage.
I'm so glad that it all worked out for you but there are plenty of marriages where someone is cheating, and or lying. The divorce rate in America is around 50-60% so there is obviously no guarantee for a happily ever after even with marriage. But I do agree with you, marriage first, children afterwards is a better way to go, at least that way you may have a deeper commitment and some legal protection.
It always kills me when I hear couples like this say they are not ready for marriage and that kind of commitment, yet they have kids together. Having kids together is just as big of a commitment as marriage. If you're not sure about them for marriage, don't have kids with them either.
I saw it too! He experienced some epiphanies when the Judge was speaking to him! Hopefully he can start investing that $600+ every month instead of buying shoes! Good luck to him and her!
@@tamianicoledoingme3007 No he,s not immature, He quite mature, just need some real man gidance, He,s young and spending tons on money on his bling, He opionated , and nieve, But as a black man growing up you have to be tuff to survive those streets! He jus need to wise up, fighting with the police is unacceptable that could of gone south real fast!
I got married at 19, but didn't have my daughter until I was 24 and then my son at 27. It was good that we waited and understood each other.. if it didnt work it would just be us seperating and no one else would suffer. When we felt the time was right, we had our 1st child..then had our 2nd and now im.expecting the third by the grace of God. And also 9 and a half years of marriage and continued on.
"Your daughters will put up w/ what their mother puts up w/ today." My lawd 🙉. That, is a man who just had a Damascus road moment. Truly hope they do better for the babies.
Judge Lynn never disappoints me. I've been watching a lot of those type of shows. The ONLY judge that can make me emotional like this is Judge Lynn. Nobody else comes even close to her. She is an absolute gem.
I totally agree! I was just telling my self that today no offense to Star ( she is like the newest divorce court ) but she ain't got nothing on Judge Lynn Toler 💕 she's awesome 😎
The guy may look stubborn, but I think he has an ear. He can listen when someone speaks, it is just that he is still young in some other issues of life. I do have hope for him. The lady loves the guy. Splitting is not an option for her. She wants to be with the guy, despite the fact that he's acting this way. I believe they will be fine together.
The guy is more mature than her, He was also able to listen and take good advice, but they are bout really young. So hopefully he can mature before he get his self in serious problem, Fighting the police is definitely not a good idea, that could of end real bad for him! I think he just need a serious older mentor to guide him alone the way! to show him that he has to change his dont care attitude! As that mentality will cause him his life!
504Thickbeauty: I bet ya she has changed more weave than the number of shoes he got in the same time period. She needed to have been on some birth control. These folks acting the fool.
Honestly, they're just 2 good people, nothing wrong with them at all, all what they need is to get lessons from life in order to handle any issues they might face in the future...😊 i really wish you the best, you both are amazing and you gonna make it...😊
How does a 22 year old have a sneaker collection worth $10 grand? Where did he even get that money? I swear, people's priorities are trash. They can't wake up on time for work/ won't go to school, but can find hundreds of dollars to get some Jordan's and will camp outside the damn footlocker for a week just to get a pair. Folks are goofy as hell.
+ASouthernWriter(JJTV) -- I clicked on your name and was just browsing your playlist. I was just wondering, are you a fan of tommy sotomayor, jesse lee Peterson, and Donald Trump? I'm just asking, and I won't have an opinion either way.
No Name Regardless of his economic status... those are ridiculous things to waste your money on... this is why there is no legacy, no fortune to leave to children so they can have a better life, because instead of investing young people are spending. Ridiculous.
These two will not be happy if they get married. It's too bad that they already have two kids, they didn't give themselves time to be adults before having kids.
Children shouldn't have children! Your age doesn't make you an adult, your actions decide how old you are. I've seen 50 year old children and 19 year old adults. If you're child like in thought and behavior, please don't reproduce. 😑😒
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
judge spoke to their souls with this one🫣 the way she told both of them to boss up was awesome🥰🥰🥰 I pray they work out, well mannered and beautiful souls they were
I really like that guy. He really listened & learned something. I feel his mom raised him right. He's going to turn out a good man with time, growing, and with this new understanding.
what I don't fucking understand is why people think marriage is a perpetual lockdown on your life but having kids isn't? you can get divorced from that person, be done with it and never see that person again. having kids, on the other hand, is a lifelong, forever commitment that WILL tie you to that person until the day you die. fucked up mentality.
Valerie H so true they rather have kids without getting married. than getting married without having kids. which is weird because they afraid of commitment but having kids all over the place with 60 different women
When the judge said "women don't know how to leave men alone" especially after concrete evidence of stuff. smh! We got to do better ladies so that they will be forced to do better by us!
I love that guy, simple because he listened....I wish we could have more of these young couples who just need some perspective and direction...wishing them both all the best...The young lady should also listen...
I like him. I think he heard what the judge said. I think he will be okay. The person I was at 22 wasn't familiar to my 32 year old self. You change so much in 10 years. I hope the young woman works on herself and not have any more children until she gets husband.
I love Judge Toler..she's going to tell you what it is, whether you like it or not. More people need to be like that. The reason people usually receive her rebuke or encouragement is because she actually cares about the people in front of her. She has boldness and confidence that we all could learn something from,
Well i dont blame him, if he's unhappy and things are bad now , u can imagine wat well happen if they get married! By the way marriage is design for women not for men! Its society way of legally binding you to their corrupt system ,then turning you around, to get FUCK up your ass!
@@dwayneevans683 The man who got to marry the brilliant, beautiful, self-aware judge Lynn Toler didn't get screwed. He got the best deal in town. Men dismissing marriage out of hand like they know every last woman should be so lucky. Companionship, when it's good, enriches people immeasurably.
And the judge said "a man ain't a plan", so women could very easily give up on marriage, as very often we're the ones who end up losing out. It's not a zero sum game though, ultimately.
@@ileanasantamaria2364 Yea and how do you know he got the best deal in town, she's not not all there! She herself admits her short comings! She's not 100% stable! She has her psychologists on speed dail! Furthemore you dont know what goes on behind closed doors! She cant cook and im not sure if she cleans up at all! maybe he does all that, female stuff and wears an apron! People can put on fronts in public for many years, so u cant know what really goes on behind the scenes! Furthermore you goona pick a needle out of a hay stack and post a comment ! You wanna comment on one -in a million marriages, where the women is the bread winner, what about the 999,999.00 other relationship where we men bring home and control the money! Im sure there is animosity in their Relationship, because its a man ego that dictates that he should be the PROIVIDER and bring home the Big BUCKS to take care of his family! Thats the way GOD design it to be and thats the way it should be! He might not say anything to her about it, but im sure it eats at him! And like i said before marriage was design for women not for men!
@@dwayneevans683 And he's without any faults, sinless and spotless? How do you know, since you don't have any more of an insider view than I do into this particular marriage, how much she has supported him and tolerated his flaws? A good marriage consists of give and take, not in a transactional sense, but in a way that, on a day when one partner is weak, be it the man or the woman, the other holds him or her up. And for every marriage you mention where the woman falls short in the ways you mention (which includes a whole lot of stereotyping, because women and men have many different interests that aren't so strictly dictated by gender - what if a man prefers to cook and a woman ends up, say, earning more?), I've seen, up close, marriages where the woman is the breadwinner and the man is getting a degree and she's supporting him. Your utterly bleak, pessimistic view is obviously informed by your own experience, and I'm sorry it's been so grim. I've seen good marriages and bad, and the only available human beings are ones with flaws. Even so, God did say it is not good for man to be alone, so here we are. Blrssings and peace to you, Sir.
best line of the show? "A MAN IS NOT A PLAN." Welfare offices, social security offices and high schools ought to post that simple but powerful message in very large print on the walls to impress upon women that very notion. there ought to be a STAMP with that message causd id stamp every young womans forehead with it. its all about having OPTIONS.
Walker Pantera Right! And the sad part is, the people who need welfare can't get it because of these procreate-for-profit whore moms know that babies are the way to get government money.
I don't understand how teenagers will get themselves entangled with meaningless relationships 😏 get pregnant and still want to hang around with these no goods. Get a life, get a job, get your priorities straight, go to school, stay in school, get into meaningful relationships & make your own world beautiful. How hard is that ?
Judging from what the young man said outside the courtroom compared to what he said in the courtroom I got the feeling that he was really listening to her advice. I hope he puts it into action before that beautiful young woman who loves him, leaves him.
What no!! she just seems like a regular girl tryna have a family with a boy who wont grow up, she knows how to speka up for herself but she wants her 'man' to pick up the pace too. even though theyre both kids!
1234JANA The babies don't have time for them to mature. The parents need to grow up now. In most other countries, age 22 IS GROWN. These two are still playing "house".
There's nothing really too wrong with these two, but I think they are a little too young and immature right now (I think him a little more than her) You can't be scrapping with the cops and spending $100s a month on shoes when you've got kids at home. You just can't. They need to grow up before they start doing grown folks things like having more kids. Let's hope they wrap it up/use birth control. Let's hope they get it together for the sake of those little girls that they already brought into the world. I really hope it works out for them even if they don't end up together. The judge gave them some bomb ass advice. That was straight fire at the end there! 🔥🔥🔥
I bet the daughter's are GORGEOUS! Sigh typical 22 year olds. But they are good people. So with time one day they will wake up and realize they are not whom they use to be. Childish things grow old and having security in different aspects of life feel so liberating one wants nothing more for their family. I really hope they stay together. Being with your highschool sweetheart and growing together can be very hard, but keeping others out and the love in is the key to a successful future with one another. I believe in them and I hope they both will achieve in their future endeavors.
I'm sure that these two young people heard what the judge told them. It will be fine in the future for them. I'm sure of this. God Bless you judge for your wisdom! Any child would be blessed to have a mother like you. That's why I love this show!
I really believe being on this court show changed his life... He's a good guy and she means well. They more than likely will work and marry. Judge Lynn is a great Counselor.
This judge she ought to be in the head of UN Supreme court, the way she solving issues its terrific brilliant, her humour and shining face, is stronger enough to heals the entire world problems.
This was an amazing episode! I'm so glad he was able to have a reality check of that magnitude and I hope that they grow and do what's right for those babies!
He actually listened, didn't get defensive no matter how difficult it was to hear. I know men 2-3 times his age who cant do that. He's grown within a matter of minutes.
The fact that he was still in his daughter's lives, and with their mother is a great start...I hope they grow deeper in love and get married when the time is right
Young women don’t know how to leave a man!! And the choir said amen! I ended a three year relationship in a telephone call AND I had an engagement ring When you have enough you’ve had enough..
Well it was clear from the beginning that these two should not get married. Sad too because of the kids. I try to tell people all the time once you have kids being an idiot is over. Hanging out when you want, getting drunk all night and passing out behind the liquor store, taking it back to the college-day thinking and having a four day weekend instead of three, to really reflect on you and what you want and feel, pop up and decide to go play pool on your last money. Gone. The earlier you get that in your head the better everything will turn out.
you don't need a ring to be married when you have sex that is marriage buying a ring and getting marriage certificate is all bs man the government want you to get marrriage certifcate just to tax you.
Stephen Smith Sadly, having sex and making babies doesn't make anyone secure in case of emergency and death. Sadly that's the truth. You might have a kid or two with someone, but if that person die and papers aren't made, then you'll loose it all. House, car, everything your name isn't on.
everything Judge lynn had to say about his girls one day running into a him and accepting the bare minimum was DEAD ON!!! I think soulja boy fast forwarded into the future and saw exactly what she was describing and woke up. this was a good episode
I'm getting annoyed by the fact that we always reproach girls for not using birth control when actually both partners can use protection. Now boys believe that it is not so much their job to care about it. Both are equally responsible.
@@KemoneArmstrong Boys not giving birth doesnt mean they are less responsable of the kid. If you use that reason to justify why you teach girls more about birth control, you're silently telling boys that it's less of their business, which it should'nt be.
People tend to forget how 22 is. They are young, and I think they just have to go through life to learn. You people are so evil sometimes. I hope the judge opened his eyes... hers won't open until much later I'm afraid.
the only way to grow is to live..to experience. so they will grow, alongside their children. they just need to focus on their kids and their short/long term wellbeing, and love them, and they’ll be alright
I actually really liked this young man. Sure he's young and immature but he came across as respectful and having the potential to take Judge Toler's advice and grow. I don't think that the young lady should stay by him enabling him and waiting for that growth but I honestly wish the two of them (four, including the daughters) the absolute best.
I love this episode. The look on both their faces at the end is the realization that they're not just in this for them but for the tiny humans they have created together.
#1..i bet she a leo....and #2 i LOVE the way Judge Lynn Toler not only give them a verdict but she ACTUALLY TEACHES OR “TRY” to teach them a life lesson💯🙏🏽🔥
the fact that she wants to marry a man who is so reckless with money is insane to me. This man has at least a 10 grand sneaker collection and nobody is calling him out on this.
60 seconds in . I see he has a shoe collection worth 10,000 dollars. That does not sound like the priorities of a grown man. They will not work. She just doesn't want to be known as a baby mama. It's not worth being unhappily married, as he said.
I'm very impressed by this couple especially the young man..They're young so their immaturity is evident but I can see them becoming contributing human beings down the line.
I’m so glad these two had this opportunity. I feel the judge touched this young man and her words will forever be with him. Hopefully he can man up for his girls 🧡🧡
