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I am strongly against any single mother introducing her kids to a man that she has not known for at least a little over a year.... We have too many children these days dying at the hands of their mother's boyfriend because they think a new boyfriend equals new babysitter
Also alot of sexual abuse that ends up happening behind closed doors too. So irresponsible and absolutely selfish parenting. That's a common occurrence when kids have kids..
I don't like a woman with children that needs a man, any man in her life. When do the children come first? Never. A dick in the bed is priority.Nothing more important than a man and no thought towards birth control.
ladies, it is completely ok to be single.....don't settle for a thing like this.... please learn to love yourself FIRST...BEOFRE you just get with anyone.
Dont waste your breathe. Even though millennials act all strong and independent,they still fear and look down on "single" people as lacking or that something is wrong with you. Alot of people just lack self-love.
Judge Toler is so on point!....she always has a wealth of wisdom to share that goes well beyond the situation presented to her. That's why I like this show so much!....Not only do I learn from the couples on the show, but I feel like the words of wisdom she shares with the couples are words of wisdom I can apply to my own life.
Wait, she moved in an unemployed man to live with her and her kids after 3 months? And he sits at home, plays games, doesn’t cook/clean, and then she chauffeurs him around town when she gets off work? Whew, chile. And we are supposed to feel bad that we are single? Ok.
How could it ever be a good decision to move a man, with no job and who you haven't known for too long, into your home with your two kids? They both just make bad decisions. These two have got to get it together. Those kids will have a rough life with two goofy people as their legal guardians.
Many people appearing on this show have fiances or spouses that are bums, gold diggers, and over all nasty people. I often wonder how THEY are able to be in a relationship and here I am single. Then again, going back to my first observation I am single because I actually have standards. I don't have kids, I work in a lucrative field, and I enjoy my life. Being single is not so bad after all...
Exactly, I don’t even understand how they put up with it? I mean, as soon as I’m questioning someone’s motive, I feel stress and want to run, literally ! I lose interest before it even get so bad.
Being from the DMV and knowing Alexandria, there is no way in the world this dude could not get around and get a job. There is public transportation all over Alexandria. This dude is using her because he knows she has low self-esteem and is in a tough position having children at a young age.
Lol facts, there are DASH buses and metro buses that run all up and through Alexandria, not to mention stations on the blue and yellow lines 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ that man is spoiled and lazy.
samson xi Too bad your heart is closed. I try to live by the "we're not promised tomorrow" mantra, try not to let a person steal your time on this earth :-)
I've know all about that situation , I'm very grateful the young lady put the stop 🛑 on that one sided situation . If she stayed his behavior WILL get even more worse.
S Evans Thank you so much. I just cringe when I hear a woman referred to by that word. It's especially irritating to hear women use it. I always want to ask, "female WHAT?!!" UGH!
SuperMinnieBEE I’m former military myself and understand the description being used to distinguish between two types of soldiers. Professional Warriors who move as a unit. It is a military professional term. When it’s used outside a military setting it gives the impression of the opposite sex from “males” as if referring to a pack or litter of animals.
In all honesty, I would have liked to have heard more about her upbringing to see the root of this problem. A thong in the laundry....the judge said it best
16 seconds in and this is a mess. She had two kids by the age of 17 and almost married a convict. Let's hope it gets better. It can't get any worst, I guess.
I need mothers to stop moving these men in their house with their children without knowing them after days and months. Stop being selfish and think of your kid's safety
Thank you Judge for speaking some truth to this young lady . I get it she’s young but she deserves better get a guy that’s going somewhere in life. And it’s also ok to be single and work on ur self too. He brings NOTHING to the table
i can name 5 things wrong w her that she couldnt think of on her compatibility test. 1) too trustworthy of men (i.e gives her heart to the wrong guys) and still hasnt learned not to 2) no self respect 3) subjects her children to men she doesnt thoroughly know who could possibly emotionally, sexually or physically harm them 4) an enabler 5) a pushover in relationships while allowing herself to be taken for granted. DUH
I don't think she looks aged, just stressed because she's been raising two kids and a grown man who does nothing for her and doesn't respect her. Once this guy is gone I think that will turn around.
Krista Harris I agree, she looks 23 in her countenance but her body seems somewhat mature. I'm proud of her, she fell short as a teen but she has picked up the mantle and doing what she ought to.
I love when Judge Toler highlights the elephant in the room. These no good BOYS! How you ain’t working and ain’t doing shit in the house🤦🏾♀️? How do you feel comfortable just being so lousy as a man? I swear I will raise my son different!
He is lying to you! He doesn't love you! And he is using you! what part of that don't you understand?! where is your pride and dignity?! you need to love yourself first!
this stuff is too much for me, I feel sorry for her she doesn't know better being a young mom u jus want someone to love u but she's doin it all wrong. Go get counseling and help your children become great independent adults who wouldn't need to rely on ppl and leach off anyone. Only Jesus can help this broken heart.
Zhane, the unemployment rate for black men is a little less than 10%. I don't think that's typical of an entire group. On DC, the rate might be about 80%. P.S. Is this payback for me trolling you about a month ago?
It's not the fault of the show that the type of people willing to put their personal drama out on national television are more likely to be unemployed.
That woman deserves better, she's come a long way! I feel sorry for the brother, he seems nice, not many men will come clean the way he did! And that woman he slept with left her thongs intentionally, the guy just aint so smart!
I'm sorry for this young lady, noone had to tell her it was a mistake to even have the thought of marriage cross her mind. This young man don't have a heart man. He's playing on her self esteem issue, he sees it an he talking advantage of that ,cause she don't even realize that she actually have a self esteem and self worth issues. Someone should find this young lady and be a mentor for her. She need some help, and she need some good counseling. She don't deserve to be taken advantage of like that.😔😔
I can't wrap my brain around this one. I don't understand how a man or woman who chooses to live off another person can actually have the NERVE to cheat on them in their own house?! To the women out there who love dealing with bad boys, this is what you are going to get. I hope it's worth it lol.
Also, see how bad things happen and kids get abused... why after knowing a man for 3 months do you move him in to be with your kids all day while you work!? 🤔What the hell?
Getting together so soon and quick does no matter but it's all about how you control and responds on ones behavioral ways of life and how much you value and care for each other feelings, ie learning more and don't go emotional ones you realized certain things you're not sure of; Tyler is such a loving caring beautiful lady but this dud seems he is not serious at all.
That's why you don't date people that don't have something going for themselves they dont value the hardwork you put in to get something so they destroy it. Like he did with her car 🤷🏾♀️
In her bed in her house you let a next woman in and she out working. She ad such a beautiful smile ☺ good luck to her and I hope she found love and pain her ♥ heart. I remember a male friend said to me after being abused 'learn to love myself first before I love any man"
I wish I could talk to this young lady. I feel like Judge Toler. I'd love to have her here and talk to her. Her first step is getting rid of this dude. Not making that love proclamation was the best thing in her seeing the truth in how he really is and always will be. She can find me on Facebook with my username.
"Hi! My name is Antonio! I'm going to end my engagement in dramatic fashion on national television... and I deserve to get put out on the street as soon as we get home." Wow. Knew all along whose thong it was, lied through his teeth about it, and tried to make her the bad person for it. And took advantage of her generosity to mooch on her couch for a whole year 'waiting to get his license back' instead of asking her for enough to get a bus pass until his paychecks can cover them. I feel bad for Tyler, because like the judge summarized, something has been missing in her life for a long time and she's making decisions from lust and hope instead of sound judgment. Tyler, go it alone for a while - and that includes those "male friends" too.
MdniteEagl well said honey.......there shouldn't be any excuse for not working.....a friend of mine has a degenerative disease where she loses her balance a lot and sometimes has to walk with a walker and she's only 36......she was in disability for about 3 years and since October she has been working a part-time job which the disability people help her get.....now if she can do that with all her issues than that simple looking dude can do it too.....as for Tyler she needs to focus more on her kids and stop worrying about a piece of gristle......that shit will get u in trouble if you ain't careful and cause you all kinds of hell and stress.....
How can you be angry at your man for having the last time rendezvous with an ex-girlfriend when you're sending pictures of yourself half naked? There's no loyalty on either one of you . Be more careful who you bring around your children ladies please.
I absolutely do not understand! Ladies is okay to be alone. Why settle for stuff like this just to have a man?? This dude is sorry as hell. I got a dui 10 years ago I didn’t lose my job but my license was suspended. What did I do? Got a cab or got on the bus to get to work !! And the bus ride in my city is LONG. There no excuse. And tbh with just one misdemeanor dui, you can’t find employment. Maybe not what he was doing or a driving job other than that one dui does not ruin your life. He’s just lazy
He moved in with her cause he needed a place to stay. I ain’t moving nobody in that soon. If you can’t pass the 2 year mark of being independent? Then thank u, NEXT! And had the nerve to sleep with someone else in her house and lie about the thong. Smdh, Adult Toys are out there for a reason. Use em and keep the kitty to yourself til a real man comes along, my dear
She's still a baby and needs some good guidance. Needs to take time out for herself to find herself, boost her self-esteem and know she's worth it and deserves so much better. Write down what you want and know you deserve in a man.
If your partner can't have friends of the gender they are attracted to, you shouldn't be together. Trust is number 1. They should be able to talk to and see whoever and you should be secure that they're trust worthy
Hats off to the judge. She gave the man some feedback on how he is holding together the home. However I wonder in this day and age that a woman that wants to keep house and kids is okay but a man wanting the same is somehow worthless? When women earn more degrees and make just as much as men?
Nothing wrong with a House Hubby, but this man is a deadbeat, not a homemaker. Those whom take care of the home cook and clean, not just sit around all day.
I'm glad they came here because she would've ruined her life. Dodged a damn bullet and she needs counseling and mentorship. I love where she came from to now. She did not let those poor decisions dictate how her future was going to be. But being with him is moving backwards. She has self esteem issues and I'm glad the judge spoke openly with her
I had a baby young and that got my life together, AKA, having another baby before 18 and the second baby daddy goes to jail. Shit if she has her life together, how fuckin good are we all doing? Lmao
