Divorce Court: Larry vs. Tamesha - House Man 

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​@@CafELittERaire😂 uh r her ex husband right?

I thought I was the only one that did this omg 🥰🤗

Oh my God I wish there were so many more women that actually saw this case as you do!!! 🥳

If you notice that this is the One of the few times she actually said you guys need a divorce because she could see that this woman doesn't care nothing for this man the way he does he is actually in love with this woman and she's not she's looking at an opportunity All she cares about is making as much money as possible she's complaining about salty french fries and he's talking about hey can you just tell me that you love me here and there... If you're married that should come automatically You shouldn't have to ask your partner to tell you that they love you This marriage been over since they said I do!

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man Nothing much comes automatically. You have unrealistic expectations. I hope you realize before you get married (if you're not already). Also, going out of the country to get a wife is cool, but it won't solve everything.

@@A_Well_Traveled_Manthe thing about that is that there are different love languages at play and just because saying the right things might come easily to you and him, doesn’t mean others share the same language. For example; I personally struggle complimenting people and telling them how I feel because it’s not something that comes naturally to me and when I have tried, people add incorrect assumptions to what I have said, making me feel like I’m some kind of a false, sleaze. The chick is like me. She’s better at showing it through actions like taking care of his kid and doing romantic things for his birthday. The big, glowing problem that stands out to me in this case is that they are both guilty of being overruled by their own ego’s. I think the dude just wanted out. I wasn’t at all convinced by his reasoning.

@@CleanSheet1191987 yeah I completely agree and I'm glad you wrote this comment to me because there are a lot of guys on here that said you might be "a simp"... But I understand exactly where you coming from with this and yes there are definitely different languages.... But she's not at all trying to be involved with him... It's not really hard if you're married to say I love you before you leave out the door It's actually kind of odd... Because you don't know the next time you going to see that person... But I understand as far as cuddling and really being affectionate I get that not everyone is an Apple but the simple saying hey babe I love you I'll be back later on tonight should be sucking nature to just about anybody that's married.... That is the main thing he's fighting about and he's upset about her not really acknowledging him and she's really picking her career over her marriage which a lot of women do nowadays...

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Stop lying on the man.

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@@thetrueone30 Imagine that! 😂

Toler! 😉

Exactly!

I think you women forget that men have emotions too😢 I completely understand where a lot of women think that a man is there just to provide money in lavish trips and amazing dinners every day of the week and I understand that you ladies would love to go on a trip at least two to three times a week all over the world every man needs to have a plane every man needs to have a 12 bedroom 16 bath mansion with a great room family room and three living rooms but not everyone is built like that... Look at the world for what it really is just because you're born a woman doesn't necessarily mean you have to have a handout for everything All this man is really just asking for is a little bit of love and being able to have someone to talk to.... You guys need to really start seeing past your own selfish wants...

@@A_Well_Traveled_Manwe don’t forget we just don’t like when you make everything about you even when children are involved, a lot of you are unrealistic, unreasonable and very selfish when it comes to helping to raise children and house life.

@@A_Well_Traveled_ManSir how many women are you dating?! If you have ONE woman and she behaves as in your hyperbole ridden statement…get ANOTHER WOMAN! I’m so tired of hearing this nonsense from men when I’m ya basic woman who demands not this type of life. It seems that men who lead with their purse…pun intended, versus leading with their morals, character, work ethic, integrity and manhood…tend to get the women who only see you for your purse.

@@cheyb2257 clearly you did not read my post! This man is not trying to not help raise kids! A lot of men statistically speaking help raise children It's the picker that a lot of women use to pick men they pick the bad boys and the chess and Tyrone's and then they try to turn those kind of men into good men You can't do that It's been proven so many times!!! In this case right here this man is just saying that hey I just want a simple I love you here and there he can't even get that out the woman He's helping to raise the kids he's washing dishes he's folding clothes helping the kids with the homework He's cooking dinner He's ironing the clothes he's fixing the house He's getting the cars done He's doing everything around the house he just wants a simple I love you here and there and he can't even get that but you guys are saying that he's wrong for wanting to have some affection towards him not even physically so much in the bed even though his sex game is a little outrageous what he wants but still if he's bringing all of that to the table I think that what he's asking for it really is not that unreasonable because technically she does not have to work... She works because she wants to be a multi-millionaire She doesn't really want to have to ever want for anything which she kind of already has that life That's what got me so mad....

I'm glad you pointed this out especially as the woman in this case because everyone is defending everything that this woman is doing which is absolutely ludicrous for me to be reading here like it's all the man's fault and this guy is doing a lot Yes he's a little childish I understand that but if she came home and talk to the man maybe a lot of this could be avoided with a conversation but it doesn't seem like she wants to have a conversation because she grew up thinking that men are just walking ATM machines...

I agree. Both would make it quite difficult to live with.

@@nookieham2798 I have to say that the woman is more difficult than the guy would be he seems like he would at least listen to the woman having a conversation and try to make things better She on the other hand thinks that he's beneath her and she doesn't have to listen to anything he says or suggestions.... She believes that she's the grand prize and that all of her money is only thing that matters when a man doesn't care about a woman's money at all....

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man I am a woman, but (or AND) because I have male and female children, family members, and a male spouse; I see things from both POV's. You seem to be genuine, open, and honest, but very one-sided. Why?

This person has commented on the last 5 videos I've watched, same rhetoric 😊 I think they are being paid to stir up the people in the comments or has issues with women 😂

And begging his wife for attention🤔🤔🤔

These people are just not compatible. They need to co-parent. This relationship is done!

But my question is isn't she the mother of the child... She's talking about the forgetting about giving the child medicine.... How come she's not giving the child medicine he works just like she does I don't see how it's so wrong....

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man but my question is isn’t he the father of the child… he’s laughing about not consistently giving the child medicine…. How come he’s not giving the child medicine if she works just like he does plus going to school so I don’t see how it’s do wrong….

@@Awsumzoe oh no I agree that he should be giving a child medicine very very much so but it's like in this case she is absolved of all wrongdoings because she has a job also... That's my point She had a child with him so instead of telling him to give the child the medicine how come she can't make time to give her child medicine.... It goes both ways and I'm glad that they told them to separate because she's looking for a multi-billionaire She doesn't want to have to work a day in her life She doesn't want to ever have to want for anything and wants to have servants and chefs and drivers and private jets....

​@@A_Well_Traveled_ManShe said that she remembers and he forgets. I'm gonna assume that when he has the baby, he forgets.

@@A_Well_Traveled_ManThe assumptions, wow. She literally said she wants more money so she’s working AND going to school so that she will be able to Make more money. What part of that says she doesn’t want to work a day in her life? Or that she’s looking for a millionaire? Some of y’all be looking for anything to paint the woman out to be the villain.

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Shes better off without him hes too selfcentred and immature all he thinks about is sex..pathetic

That is actually incorrect He's in court cuz he wants to save the marriage... She doesn't want to save the marriage because she's hyper focused on her career which as we all know mostly women will hit the wall at 40 years old and then wonder where all the good men went...

They never were really together I think she saw this man as an opportunity to have someone to be home and take care of all the home responsibilities take care of the kids cooking clean because it definitely seems as though that she doesn't know how to cook and she doesn't like to clean or do dishes or wash clothes... But I'm glad you see the truth because there are so many women in this comment section saying that this man is a bad man and I don't see how he is Yes he asks for sex a little much but he's just committed to his wife in loving his wife I don't see what the problem is It's called counseling and I do not believe that she will ever go there

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man on the flip side, he saw a woman who was willing to be the bread winner and he thought he was just going to be sitting home doing nothing, not understanding that taking care of the home is a full time job. It sounds to me like they both got what they asked for and he didn’t like it. So I see why he could be perceived as a bad man.

@@JordanRenaee NO! YOU MISS THE PART IN THE CASE WHERE HE SAYS THAT HE WORKS A FULL-TIME JOB!

@@JordanRenaee So he can't just sit home and do absolutely nothing and just take care of the house He's taking care of the house after he's working his full-time job and taking care of the kids full time there's no excuse you can give to this woman...

@@JordanRenaee to me it seems as though this woman wants to be the kind of woman that has millions of dollars in the bank not ever have to lift a finger for anything has a chef a maid a car service a laundry service in a full-time pilot with jet so she can go anywhere she wants at any given time... Along with the nanny that can take care of the children... As I know that this is the same lifestyle that most women would like... I honestly don't look down upon this man not because I'm a guy but literally you can see all the things that strives that he's doing

He probably has a side chick

Some people just aren't meant for each other. When you really love someone, doing the dishes to make their day easier isn't hard at all.

How did you get that..... 😅

I hear you but she seems to be a bitch about. It’s not what you say but how you say it.

I agree I didn't like the judges response to that. It showed how inconsiderate he is but it also showed how hot headed she is. They don't need to be together because she seems uninterested and he seems childish.

Let him go.. I don't feel sorry for her frfr

🎉🎉🎉 thank you so much You're probably the only person outside of me that's seeing this... And the other side of all of this that makes it even worse all the man is asking for is a couple times for the wife to say hey baby I love you She can't even give him that she said that takes too much time out of her day.... She doesn't really care for him All she cares about is trying to be as rich as possible because she doesn't care about him

But yes clean it really does suck I'm naive a lot to you it really does take two people to clean sorry about my other point I went on a tangent

I have to agree there are so many women would die to have a man like this here she is already going to make a fuss about something that most women would love to have a man that can cook clean so she doesn't have to do those types of things and he's doing irony picking up the clothes that she puts down on the ground But that's not enough.... Like literally what will be enough for a woman to put out a little bit more That's all this man really is asking for...

She listed more than that.

@@jennevamadison3803She sure did, but you see who didn’t hear it, right? Lol

These two sets of red flags stood out to me, what stood out to you?

@@jennevamadison3803what else did she list?

They need to just separate they are not compatible... 😅 She is married to a man that is soft but he is married to another man.. If you understand where I'm coming from... She's a modern woman that's looking to be a boss chick.... 😮 Nothing's wrong with that She just picked the wrong kind of man She needs to be with a Jay Z a Brad Pitt a Bill Gates... She's looking for a billionaire.... He's a blue collar worker looking for a traditional wife This is not what she is.... He needs to go cross seas...

He wants affirmation a lot Because he's not getting sex she a bad person. It works both ways to be a partner.

@@shereescott8162 OBVIOUSLY it works both ways I don’t care about your opinion. Bye Pickmeisha! 😇

@@TootieTootie who hurt you I just want to know 😆 I'm not trying to be funny or anything like that I'm sitting here with a smile on my face I just want to know why are you so mean to men... And then this girl comes on and says something semi nice about the guy and what's going on with the woman and you getting mad at her....

@TootieTootie I agreed with what you was saying, and you are going to text me this . Wow !!! God bless

??? It's called everyday life You can request off from work You can get a babysitter and get married on a Saturday when school is not open.....

Difference is gram had help she didn’t do it on her own she def had her household in order I commend her for that

so he can't cook and clean? Because your grandmother was doing all that, all women need to do that? The struggle is real. Dam, this is crazy.

This is why alot of y'all are single with this mentality. The husband does have some things to work on but the wife definitely has some issues. I don't know why a lot of women nowadays minimize how important sex is in a relationship. They act like it's not that important like going through the drive-thru or picking up chips at the gas station. Her focus is too much on work and going to school and not on home. There are a lot of things that need to be worked out in the relationship on both parts I do agree with that but her minimizing sex is ridiculous. She will end up having five degrees and no man. It's time to get it together.

Everyone is different. That was your grandma

She works and doesn’t have 6 kids to help. She is also going to school to help contribute to THEIR family stability. Was she also having sex two or three times per day. Not everyone wants live their life working like a servant for 24/7.

That man doesn’t have enough time to give his child her medication, but finds time to take his own 😢

@@yomajestytoyou2565 You are a sad individual 🙄 ... How are you going to try to comment under my post and not even read it.... Reading is fundamental

@@yomajestytoyou2565 I highly suggest you go back to third grade before trying to spread this crazy sexist rhetoric... 😂😂😂

So that's all you got from that? 😂

🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ Tell them again please A man is with a woman because they actually love that woman here you have a man that's all he's asking for is for his woman to love him That's all he's saying He's like I got everything else I'll get with the bills I'll get with the kids I'll clean the dishes I'll cook the meals I'll do the laundry I'll do the irony I just want you to love me and she can't even give them that

🗣️ Speak on it!!!! So very true and all the women here are saying that this man is still not doing enough This man is cooking meals he's washing the clothes washing dishes folding the clothes ironing the clothes paying bills what else can he do... Outside of give this woman her own private jet.... It was said before by our grandparents and great-grandparents that you cannot make a woman happy in this world they will always find something to be mad at you about...

C'mon brotha! She didn't show any bias, never does!! As adults we have to learn to listen without listening just to respond or find fault... wrong is wrong, right is right.. I've been seeing a lot of things referencing bias for women or the men in our community.. we have to be honest with ourselves and be accepting to the things needing fixed..❤

You are ignorant clearly this man is very selfish and inconsiderate yes she has issues but forgetting to give your child the SAME medicine he takes faithfully all the time shows he’s not as invested in caring for the children as she is while working and going to school.

I think opposite I think he was raised by women so he was taught to do the things that most modern women don't like to do and on top of all of that you have a lot of women here saying that he's not on enough still.... Every woman says that they want a man that can cook clean take care of the house cars repairs everything like that and all the men is asking for in return is to get a little bedroom activity but can't even get that...

he grew up with a single mother. he aint gay

Oh Please Think and Discuss Something else!

Clearly you have not listened to this case because this is actually a very different case....

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man you a single dad? Caused I’ve watched and listened to the whole thing.

@@Berta2real what does a single father have to do with anything that has to do with this case.... This is clearly a case of a woman that wants more than she's getting out of this man She wants.... A man that can provide a lifestyle where she doesn't have to work but she can work and keep all of her money but the man pays all the bills and she has a nanny in the house a chef a driver a maid service a butler private pilots and private jet but I know this is the same thing that you would like.... This man is only asking for her to have 5 minutes to say I love you but she says that's too much time for her and she can't afford that type of time it eats into her working time

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man idk what you’re on about but the case i’m replying to the Mom is clearly working and is a full time student as well as a full time mom. She never stated she didn’t want to work. There are none of the things you mentioned in their home…she stated before school she was the only one watching their daughter so that no one else had to. She also said that her husband would deny her any type of personal financial support saying she didn’t deserve it. How degrading. This man can’t even stick it out until she’s done with school which is going to better the household. He can’t even give his baby necessary medicine talking about he forgot! But didn’t forget to take some for himself. That’s deplorable. In my opinion they are BOTH very much immature and need to do better as a whole.

@@Berta2real You're only seeing it from a woman's point of view and I'm trying to say that I see it from a much broader sense of the fact.... This woman isn't looking for a traditional life This woman is looking for a lifestyle of carefree not have to worry about anything in this man is not... You have to look past a lot of what's being said and actually understand what's really going on kind of as the judge did that's the reason why she did not let them stay Mary while she's adjusted divorce because she knew that they were both incompatible more so on a woman's side because she's looking at a life of money and not having to worry about anything... At the end of the day she is more of a masculine female...

6 times a year?😏

This is a terrible comment. Her husband passed away and she said she wasn't the best cook or home maker but she did it and raised his kids bc he had I believe 3 kids prior to them being married that lived with them that she considers her own kids that she took care of.

@@natashastevens5351 no you're actually incorrect... They have a daughter together that's all they have... And at the end of the day she wants to make more money She doesn't really love this man That's the reason why the judge agreed with giving a divorce as you know nine times out of 10 judgment wants the couple to stay together... So my comment is not terrible It's the fact that it doesn't vibe with yourself and I don't mean that in a bad way but this is really where this lady's coming from This lady was raised... And the notion that she doesn't need a man! So she's never developed traditional feminine qualities that attract most men She was raised as a man.... If you understand what I'm saying So my point about her wanting millions of dollars it's very accurate She doesn't really care about the home She doesn't really care about really raising children She looks at it more of a burden She is a woman that is chasing the money bag That's all she really cares about.... That's what my comments about

@A_Well_Traveled_Man sir.....clearly you haven't been watching divource court as long as you think or say you have bc I was NOT referring to the lady in this case I was referring to your comments on Judge lynn.

@@natashastevens5351 🗣️😱 I am so very very sorry because I was responding to multiple comments and multiple different threads and you are absolutely correct I didn't realize this is the threat that I made so I am very sorry about that I'm a man and I eat when I'm wrong and I am sorry I was wrong for that comments I'm going to go back and reread your comment thank you for pointing that out and thank you for not belittling me as so many other women would normally try to do because I am a guy shows you how enlightened you are so thank you

@@natashastevens5351 now to reply to your original post... I understand that her husband has passed away but my comment still stands just because she does do some things.. at least she did go in and try because she is a judge and she does make plenty of money but for her to be able to go home and at least try and also help out with raising the children shows a big light on her so I definitely have changed my view now that you brought that to me So thank you I wish more women were like judgeline in this instance because she makes a crazy amount of money and she still takes time to be a wife and a mother of an everyday family. 🥳