Divorce in the Quran - Live Khutbah by Nouman Ali Khan: New Jersey (USA) | Al-Mustafa Islamic Center 

I was meant to read your message on this day ❤ Al hamdulilah

Some people feel very lonely and alone in marriages as well.

Subxanallah

I feel lucky too because I can learn from him whenever I want. However I really want to see him live on story night stage. 😊

Alhamdullilah ustad Nay complete ki hoi hai Epic masjid RU-vid channel hai wahan pay ap ko mill jai gy

Girl's family give dowry? Which country is that?

​@@karimmoorad9649Pakistan 😑

@@farrahkhan6101 sad

@@karimmoorad9649India

Try put up your volume

Personally I think that counts as patience and forbearance rather than hypocrisy "And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth easily, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace." Quran 25:63 Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "The strong is not the one who overcomes the people by his strength, but the strong is the one who controls himself while in anger." Sahih Bukhari 6114

I read a comment abt this on ig. There's a shorter version of this khutbah. I'll copy them for you insya Allah

@sumbalsajid9208 @ neehatariq Hypocrite is someone who pretends to like someone and make them feel that they are something to them when he/she hates them and tries to harm them behind their back... hiding your dislikeness and behave like a normal person is not being a Hypocrite when you're not conspiring against them... and you just want to get over that meeting peacefully. For example you don't like a teacher or a colleague of yours because of some annoying habits or because of their personality... but that doesn't mean you imply harm on them or talk to them disrespectfully, you maintain you professional composure and deal with the day talk to them with a great sense of social responsibility and move on with the day without having bad intentions for them... you don't trash talk them or conspire against them because that's what a hypocrite do who hate someone but makes them believe that he/she absolutely love them @ ishaquemkhan Hypocrites are completely different people. They harm you while make you feel they are with you or they love you. But if you control your anger and smile while you don't like someone just for the sake of Allah and you are harmless to them. That's completely different.

A atheist women can’t marry a Muslim man

It's important to recognize the diversity of perspectives within schools of thought deriving knowledge from the Quran and Hadiths. Interpretations of Hadiths vary, leading to differences in fiqh. Emphasizing commonalities over differences is encouraged. Additionally, discrepancies in takeaway from khutbas exist; some derive lessons while others critique.

Which hadith is that sister? Please share

@@karimmoorad9649 that one which told by nak. That. While a women getting divorce she said. Thai I found this man is pious but I don't like him to be with him..... This Hadith is in. Miskhat kitab nikah chapter talaq .. there mentioned reference of Muslim o bukhari ... When I follow the reference I found it in a tafseer of an ayah there full incudent mentioned. But I forgot that ayah.

@@ayshabutt5838 Jazak Allah ghair

I understand this because I experience it myself. After I got cancer, I begin to do the innerwork. I realize that it is the trauma (feeling of unworthiness and fear) that causes me to have this controlling behaviour. I want people to hear me out, to be obedient, so that bad/unfavorable things don't happen. This controlling behaviour is very difficult to acknowledged, because I thought I was performing nahi munkar. Being mindful 24/7 isn't easy either. Extra struggle for people w trauma to be more gentle and understanding that people's conditions, backgrounds, level of perceptions vary. I used to be around people that are strict in terms of the delivery of dakwah, which made my trauma worse. Alhamdulillaah now I'm slowly unlearning those behaviour.

mashaAllah TabarakaLLAH! His explanation of this concept is spectacular! May Allah (S.W.T) preserve and reward him with Jannatul Firdaus.

😮😮yes that was a needed understanding

And seeing the order as said and how both get a chance to humble selves before the Merciful and get the wisdom that comes no human could provide

Marry a women who doesn’t commit Zina (boyfriend) or even a virgin 😅 inshallah next time

Are considering divorcing her because she said bad things about your family? I don’t get it

@@Muslim.mode. No, she said about me and bad things about me to her friends and family and made me like a joke. Now she repented but I dont know if forgive her or not, Im not sure if I can believe in her anymore. Also I don't her to suffer because of this. So I dont know what to do

@@messileo9484 hard to give help without the details are about How bad these things said were, but it is a sign that she does not respect you and she might only be sorry because you caught her, but also maybe there is some bad/weak things about you that she has ask you to change in the past but didn't, and now she is venting out to other people bc you refuse to change/improve, idk full story but some thoughts to consider, may Allah ease your situation

@@Muslim.mode. Yeah she is sorry, but Im not 100% sure that she will not do it again. She told me that she did something very wrong and she asked sorry. But maybe it's because I caught her. Ive done something wrong also because I was spying her phone because I didnt trust her anymore and then I found that she told about what happens in our house and also our secrets to her family and friends. She did this because she was very angry with me because Ive done something wrong(masturbation). But things became sooo big, if she stayed quiet and told no one about what I did and my problems and what happen in home then I would have surely forgive her even when she told me bad words at my back. Now I dont know if continue with divorce or leave her to her new life. We have 22/24yrs old so maybe she is young and didnt know the importance of keeping private thing private and dont tell to anyone. But I also think that Im not sure if she will do it again, so Im having and I'll have trust issues. I spoke with an imam and he also told me to divorce bcs you can't live a life where you dont trust each other.

wa Alaikum assalamu brotber, Read surah albaqarah or play it in your home everyday. The reason why I am sayong this is because I have witnessed separation in close families and later was known that there was hasad, ain and or sihr. May Allah make it easy for both husband and wife ameen. Find out why she doesn't want to stay in marriage.

Do Istikhara for what she is doing , may Allah help you to understand what’s going on her mind .

That still a wife, there are PARENTS that are trying to discreetly harm their own children

@@razamughal9095 May Allah have mercy on all. This dunya is a scary place