Divorce is devastating but you determine if you become bitter or better 

Man, this is so true. My divorce left me homeless and alone in another country, but I took charge and also became a "Responsibilocrat". No bitterness, I just kept moving forward. I won't lie, in the beginning, it was tough, almost fell into depression, but kept busy. I was blessed enough to get a second chance; a restart. I admit a lot of it had to do with the way I was raised. For the ones who didn't have the father I had, have you! More men should take charge and not play the self-pity card. You are doing amazing work, George, helping out many people. Love having the Daybreak show back. Have a wonderful day!

The best overall outcome for divorced men come from those guys who quickly move on, learn from past mistakes, and focus on becoming the very best version of themselves. Post-divorce they: travel solo, get in the best shape of their lives (even post 60 years of age), take great care of themselves, pursue diverse passions (cars, motorcycles, fishing, ice hockey, painting, etc.). Many post- divorce guys have an “a-ha” moment and say “I should have done this years ago”. The older guys (50+) who are in great shape and have their lives together are in the “Super Bowl” of their dating lives. They attract very beautiful, playful women. Just my two cents through a divorce lawyer’s lens. Great video!

Good morning Mr. Bruno, Todays my 21st birthday and i wanted to thank you for helping mold me into the man today. Been a supporter for going on 3 or 4 years and never want the content to stop!

Ha this spoke to me. When I got divorced the first thing I did was went to the gym and lost 60 lbs. It was so good for my mental health. I too waffled over buying Christmas gifts for her. Habits good or bad die hard, ultimately I stuck with just the weights. Good advice!

Thank you for this. Divorce and loss of my business in 2020 destroyed me. Vids like this let me know i will survive and thrive..

I start work at 4:30am. I love when you put these out extra early. Glad you’re back.

I feel for anyone who has gone through divorce. It’s tough on so many levels and sucks the life right out of you . However , there are many things to be said about fresh starts .

Been divorced for just about a year now. The best thing I've done this past year is build a vision for my future and I now I'm starting to go after it. Definitely the new version of me. The old version was not worth saving. I am open to marriage again but at this moment I'm excited and busy for the next steps towards that vision. Each step forward is a step closer to that foundation which will make a healthy marriage/fatherhood/new business/single-life/monk-mode possible. Thank you for the encouragement. I credit you with showing us an example of what is possible. Cheers!

Experience is what you get when you don’t get what you want, & I can’t thank you enough for sharing yours that has given you your wisdom; life experiences that you’ve greatly learned from. I’m 27 & the past 2 years of my own, including a near-death coma, has greatly taught me confirming all of what you speak about.

No divorce for me but my Wife died 5.5 years ago. Guys listen to this video! I tried to date under the old blue pill then when that didn’t work I had to go to work on myself. Work work work and don’t stop. Fight and claw, read listen and write. God has never left me. Forgive your wife if you got hurt but remember you were responsible for the marriage you were in. It’s been a ride but this video is a reminder of how far I’ve come.

I have went through this at 24 and have take the betterment path. Its been 2 years and im happier then I have ever been. But I still needed to hear this. Thank you.

“Your job is to get you back”

Thanks George for talking about how being emotional around people can change them. My daughters witnessed some of my emotions during my wife’s affair. I can’t get that time back. Thanks for addressing.

If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment. - Marcus Aurelius Stay Based

The worst thing about break up or divorce is when you think you and only you were the only problem side.

Been going to the gym regularly for 2 weeks now! So happy that gyms have reopened in my area. Working to get strong and keep this a routine for the long run!

You’re right on George. I’m heading into 60, and the lights of change are becoming brighter. Lots of cool things on the horizon.

The importance of personal responsibility cannot be understated.

It’s amazing that I found your videos when I did. He works in mysterious ways.

You're absolutely correct. It's very important for men to recognize their own nature. Coming face to face with the reality of my own nature has saved me from potentially disastrous decision making. Great video, George.

Good morning, George! I'm a college student from Wisconsin, and I frequently enjoy listening to the words of wisdom you share in the mornings. Thank you for always giving me something for my brain to chew on every day!

Just wish to have this strength to be a live. Thank you for every video.

Those 6 downvotes are miserably married men who resent another’s freedom.

Good morning. Late morning today, but regardless the sun is up and I see another day of opportunity to be better than who I was yesterday. I would try making cowboy coffee, but I have no coffee grounds due to the overwhelming convenience of the keurig. The pre-heated heavy cream is indeed a game changer and has improved the flavor immensely.

No valentines no birthday soon to be no mother’s day , fuck all that, I’m expecting nothing in return. I ran the hampster wheel for 20 years, she left, kids think I’m an ass (I was at times maybe) but i threw it down for the family . I never wanted a damn Nobel prize , being seen would have been enough but was always just not good enough and a let down. Kids are grown she left it sucks but not so much I’m getting there, thanks so much for the videos. God bless!

George I'm new to your channel but am right in the middle of a divorce. I needed this encouragement. Thank you!

This vid helped me quit drinking, a new me is emerging from a dead simp carcass, gracias señor

Awareness is a one way street, can’t go backwards.

2 years ago I found you. You started a series Friday night I think called 'What you go through after divorce'. I have dated since but im also happy alone and not bitter. Thank you for guiding me through the hell tunnel sir. You are saving lives.

I am divorced. Only 2:30 minutes into this video, and I'm already inspired and my sense of anxiety has dissipated.

Thank you so much, George. I am in a position where these were the exact words I needed to hear.

Thank you Mr. Bruno for this episode. Very informative. It felt I was asking my father for advice. Getting divorced soon. You are helping me being on course. Thank you again sir.

I'm going through a divorce now this really helps

Responsibilicrat. I find that in inventorying my responsibilities, the one area I had to work on was enforcing boundaries and not expecting the group, the law or any community elders to do it. Good point on delaying emotions until later. I'm dealing with the "later". Beats disassociating as the consequences of that play out and then you have more consequences. Learning what the signs of trouble are and the weaknesses in my upbringing are my responsibilty. Only sure reward is that I live an honest life surrounded by those that respect my needs and boundaries. Damn....typing that was cathartic in it's own right.

Good morning George! You're always calming me, whatever the video is about, I watch it.

Wise words = wise man. Wise “wise”. Experience is key

Wow, Just popped up on my feed, That's the best advise ever, really great post, Thank You, I'm taking this advise and will do it.

Thank you. I needed this. Right video at the right time.

Good morning, George!! Can’t wait to see you again. I have a juicy story to tell you and it happened the day after you cut my hair.

I agree so much. I'm 50 and have been separated for 9 years. My life finally began this year. Everything you said holds true Mr. Bruno. I may now even join another gym, why not? Lol

Great message George. People need to hear that. ESP during this time. Thank you.

I have had a divorce in my past. I made the choice to simply accept that I was a man that had a divorce, but I am not a Divorced Man. The first is a simple statement of a fact, and the latter is a badge that some choose to wear. A divorce does mot define me as a person. I define me as a person by my actions.

I really needed to hear this today! Thank you.

The amount of clarity i get from this channel is ridiculous. You're very No bullshit, just the truth. Thank you. Im 22 years old but am separated (got married at 20) and it's been extremely difficult severing that bond, and that was only after 2 years. Can't imagine what it would be like if it were much longer than that. Still fcking sucks. Anyways, it's enlightening to know despite how lackluster and crippling it all seems now, there is still hope that I can still improve things for myself and consequently everyone else.

George you ate so calming Thank you for you 👍

New Daybreak shows mean a more interesting morning ride to work.

You should talk about how divorce could affect the kids

Watching this from 36,000 feet on my way back from much more liberating Puerto Morelos 🇲🇽 to fear & loathing masked Philly. Great message George! I'm 46 with a 6 year-old daughter. 2nd wife decided to divorce. I could easily become bitter what with the way 2020 has been plus I am fighting cancer for 3 years but NOT GOING TO BE LIKE THAT! Is The Sultan also a fan of a certain RU-vid real life Cowboy?

Great Talk. Where were you when I was about 30..would have saved me alot of Drama

I needed this. I watched this morning and again this evening.

This was helpful! Thanks George.

Her happiness was her responsibility You likely weren't perfect but still gave her plenty for which to be grateful and choose happiness

BRUNO Does it again. Thanku sir Can wait for nxt video

Smart men learn from mistakes, wise men learn from others mistakes.

Thank you so very much This is just the message I needed today

Life now is weird because I'm aware that red pills capitalize on warning against marriage. But I'm also aware after marrying young and getting divorced that marriage are some of the best year of life.

🐷 🐷 ☕️ 😆 love it. Good words brother. Thank you for your work.

This is a great video Mr. Sultan. Im on the email list but nothin yet. I look forward to more content.

Why spent your co-payment on therapy! Just watch George Bruno!😀👍

Here, here for the responsibilocrats! Great term and message behind it! Partial lyrics from “Touch” by Natasha Bedingfield Every choice we make And every road we take Every interaction Starts a chain reaction

Love you George! You’re welcome for turning you on to cc!

I grew up in the 1990s, seemed like divorce was common. Even as a kid, I could tell something was off about marriage (and the reasons for people to get married). I have never been married and I think I dodged a bullet. I do not have the emotional intelligence or the desire for a long term relationship. I am too much of an asocial hobbit to comprimise or desire to live with someone else. As far as I can tell, marriage made a lot of sense in the past (before birth control, before feminism, when all roles were traditional). In a traditional society, getting married and staying married was thought of as a normal thing to do, as normal as drinking coffee in the morning. However, Everything is transactional in the modern world. When women are in the peak of their beauty, they hook up with very good looking me or atleast the best looking men they can attract, because that is what they are in the market for. In fact, everyone is going for, the best they can get in the dating market. If modern dating is just a game of finding the best sexual partner, for the time being, until I am old and then ready to settle down for companionship ( I sounds like modern women, doesn't it?), then I see relationships as just casual flings

Great message, George. Thanks!

thank you for this message.

Wow really fatherly advice

Wow i just needed this,thank you George

Jeremiah 8:9-10 9 The wise men are ashamed, they are dismayed and taken: lo, they have rejected the word of the Lord; and what wisdom is in them? 10 Therefore will I give their wives unto others, and their fields to them that shall inherit them: for every one from the least even unto the greatest is given to covetousness, from the prophet even unto the priest every one dealeth falsely. "Therefore I will give their wives to others..." Brothers it's none but our own fault. Thanks, George; brother in Christ. I needed this reminder.

Wise words. Thank you for your video.

George - I would like to say that I’ve been a long time viewer and subscriber (JoeGrunt) and while watching your videos of the daybreak show - I will add commentary where necessary like in Mystery Science Theater and also colorful call and response cursing like a Pentecostal Sunday morning sermon. I’m also debating doing an actual studio recording of the Daybreak Show jingle I wrote a few years ago. If you’re interested, let me know. I’ll trade you for a beard trim.

Attempted cowboy coffee. For my first try it was pretty good. A bit weak, but I just think I added too much water. No worries. I'll keep at it and eventually get it down.

Respect.

It starts here! 🧠

I’d send the estranged wife a xerox Christmas letter. No gift, no card but maybe the most distant thing you can, a xerox Christmas letter, the thing you send to distant acquaintances. That is if you feel the need to. Insult her. The absolute best thing to send her is nothing but give yourself a finalized divorce a start the next phase of life with her holding you back.

Talking about Cowboy coffee....Kent Rollins taught me about it. He has a great channel dedicated to cowboy cooking. Check him out, he is a 21st century cowboy cookie who goes out on the range and cooks for cattle drivers. Pretty nifty.

Divorce is only "devastating" if you have kids and combined finances. If you don't have kids and you hide money so you don't split assets then divorce is no different than any other breakup. Not having kids and not combining assets is one of the BEST LIFE DESCIONS I HAVE EVER MADE.!!!

excellent,thank you.

Nice ending music 🎶🎶🎶

I guess it all depends on who you are divorcing, it could be a day of freedom from a selfish person a prisoned contract, no sex, no nothing physical, mental or emotional ect or if you spent quality time and resources and have a family it will be a big transition depending how long youve lived a married life, this also gives opportunities to work on your self and not become devastated by the courts, subjection to child support, alimony, property, financial accounts, assets ect that you may have to give from not being in a marriage.

Good Morning ☕🥢 Right on time.

I prefer responsibilican but use what you like

Divorce was indeed the worst thing that ever happened to me... as a child, going through my parents'. As an adult, I have the privilege of making my own fuckups. I actually like the pig heads, but I have a story behind that I'll tell ya some day. Edit: Can I put Responsibilocrat on my voter registration?

George Bruno? What was your world view when you were in your 20s? I mean you were 26 when Woodstock happened. Were you into hippies? Did you have a idea of your future? Did you think you'd be where you are today?

Thank you

I had coffee with my homemade vanilla extract coffee creamer . It was alright .

1:51 ... how`bout both ?

First bitter, now better. Way better.

“ root out all bitterness “.

Responsiblicrat means taking full responsibility for oneself regardless of circumstances. I get it Sultan, but the problem w this when having dealt with the lying cheating narcissist who secretly cucked you by bopping your x-best friend over the years is, that every decision you ever made until you found out “the truth” was made on false pretenses. If you had only known the hard truth, every decision would’ve been different i.e., to your favor, rather than theirs. But since life is a one way street and you can’t go back and you must live w yourself, the person you became is the product of your bad decisions made on false pretenses. It’s a lot like losing 20 years of lieF for having been wrongly convicted. Imagine what you could’ve accomplished but never will. How does one reconcile this??

I Liked this one, very awesome

Coffee ALWAYS comes first.

Discipline = Freedom.

George my wife wants to separate it’s killing me. We have been madly in love for 30 yrs. I ain’t no blue pill guy. But it’s painful.

The divorce and remarriage for adultery doctrine is based solely on the supposed guilt of the wife in Matthew 5:32, and Matthew 19:9. However, the wife in Matthew 5:31-32 is clearly not guilty of fornication because the Jews that Jesus was speaking to were still living under the law, and if fornication was discovered, there was a moral obligation to report the offender according to Deuteronomy 22:13-24. The wife, who would have been found guilty of fornication, was subsequently stoned to death, according to the law, which had still governed the Jews up until Christ's death on the cross. The same for a woman caught in adultery, according to Leviticus 20:10. How could a wife, guilty of fornication, or adultery, under the law of Moses, be given a writing of divorcement and be caused to commit adultery with whosoever marries her, that is divorced? Jesus is clear, in these examples, that the wife is not guilty of fornication, but is still caused to commit adultery if she marries another man now that she is divorced. This is the only way that Matthew 5:31-32, and Matthew 19:9 keep harmony with Romans 7:2-3, and 1 Corinthians 7:39. Unlike the synoptic gospels of Mark and Luke, which were written to evangelize the Gentiles, Matthew was written to the Jews, and has of 24 characteristics that identify it as intended for the house of Israel. The ancient Jews called the betrothed (engaged) "husband" and "wife" according to Deuteronomy 22:23-24, Matthew 1:18-25, and Luke 2:5-7. Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage) was never for fornication or adultery. Allowing those guilty of fornication and adultery to remain living and become a prospect for remarriage was against the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22:13-24 and Leviticus 20:10, which commanded that those who were found guilty of fornication and adultery be put away from Israel, and stoned to death. The law of Moses was not given to the world, only to the Jews. From the exodus, to Christ's death on the cross, the law of Moses governed the Jewish people. But when Jesus died on the cross, he caused the Jews to be dead to the law of Moses so they could be joined to Christ under a New Covenant. This is what Jesus's fulfillment of the law of Moses, including Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage), means. Paul gave several warnings to Christian believers against keeping the law of Moses over following Christ and his commands under the New Covenant with Christ. Keeping the whole law is no longer possible for those in Israel and that is why Christ prophesied that the temple would be destroyed. These scriptures make it clear that if you choose the law over Christ, that you must keep the whole law: Romans 7:4, Galatians 3:1-9, Galatians 3:10-29, Galatians 4:1-7, Galatians 4:21-31, and Galatians 5:1-15. Being unequally yoked to unbelievers is not a cause for divorce, once two become one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, according to 1 Corinthians 7:12-14. Many one-flesh covenant marriages between unbelievers are recognized by God in the scriptures, most notably the marriage covenants between Herodias and King Herod's brother Philip, Potiphar and his wife, Ahab and Jezebel, and Ruth to her deceased husband Mahlon by Boaz when he took her to be his wife. Some are teaching that 1 Corinthians 7:15 implies that those who are abandoned by the unbeliever, are "no longer bound" in a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The reason this is in conflict is due to the way they word it, which gives it an entirely different meaning, and context. 1 Corinthians 7:15, says, "15But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace." As you can see, the actual scripture says "not under bondage," which means that the husband or wife is not enslaved to sin with the unbelieving spouse, and is free to worship Christ in peace. Subsequent translations have changed the words to imply that they nullify the marriage covenant, when this is not at all the case. The issue that this creates is with 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, which says, "10And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: 11But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife." As you can see, those who claim 1 Corinthians 7:15 has the Apostle Paul giving permission to remarry do not understand that the abandoned husband in 1 Corinthians 7:11 is expected to also remain unmarried, in order to be reconciled with his wife. The theory that 1 Corinthians 7:15 nullifies two as being one-flesh in marriage puts the Apostle Paul directly at odds with Christ, by implying that he has issued an opposing command. Some also teach that 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 is referring to both divorced men and virgin women, and not exclusively to men and women (virgins) who have never been married. This has been falsely taught for some time in churches as referring to anyone who is not currently in a marriage, which, for them, also includes those who are divorced. This is a very false assumption, and puts these verses in a different context, that is at odds with both the teachings of Christ and the apostle Paul. We see Paul refer to virgins, which signifies the unmarried who have never before been wed, which is the proper context here. We see Paul saying clearly that it is good for virgins, which is also speaking to never before wed men here, "that it is good for a man so to be." He goes on to say, "Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife." Who is he referring to here? Men who, like himself, have never married. The word "bound", in these verses, is a clear reference to betrothal (engagement) and not to a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The ancient Jews were considered bound as husband and wife during the betrothal (espousal/engagement) before becoming one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, through consummation. This is affirmed by the context of the term "bound" seen in Numbers 30:14-16. The Jewish couples in ancient Israel, who were betrothed (engaged) were also bound together until death, either by execution for fornication, or by other causes. Then Paul says, "But and if thou marry, thou has not sinned", which is who? The men who had never married in the congregation at Corinth. So he begins with verses 25-26 speaking exclusively to men that have never married. Paul then says, "and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned", which is speaking directly in regard to virgin women who have never been married, within the congregation, not divorced women. Notice that verse 34 says, "There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband." Paul speaks plainly when he says "there is a difference between a wife and a virgin." Paul goes on to say, "But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry." This is speaking of a virgin who has become of age to bear children when it says, "let them marry." This is a clear command, to a single man, who has taken a virgin to be his wife. Paul then says, "Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well." This is referring again to the single man who decides it is better not to marry, but to stay betrothed (engaged), under the present distress, by saying that he "hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin." Paul then says, "So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better", which again means single men, in the congregation, who have betrothed a wife, do well if they marry, and those who choose not to marry their virgin brides do better, under the current climate. For more proper context of the word "bound", let's look further down in this chapter to verse 39, which says, "39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord" (1 Corinthians 7:39). For so long, these scriptures, between verses 25-38, have been twisted and used to enable divorce and remarriage, by wayward churches and teachers, and have caused many to stumble and to be trapped in unscriptural unions. The use of the woman at the well, in regard to marriage, falsely implies that Christ was endorsing remarriage after a divorce. This teaching is in defiance of Matthew 22:23-28, which shows a woman who had been widowed seven times, and entered into each subsequent marriage without any scriptural conflicts with God's law of marriage (one-flesh covenant) seen in Genesis 2:23-24. Mark 10:1-12 and Matthew 19:1-12 both record Christ's teaching that day beyond the Jordan. There is no mention of the words "fornication", "writing of divorcement", or "divorced" in Mark's Gospel, because Mark was not written to the Jews (as Matthew's Gospel was), but to evangelize the Romans and Greeks, who had no knowledge of the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22 or Deuteronomy 24. All of these facts draw a clear understanding that remarriage after a divorce, under the New Covenant with Christ, is a scripturally false and baseless teaching. Please use wisdom when living in any situation against what the scriptures command.

I do need help George. I need to email you. I'm extremely introverted and lately I can't go around any people other than family (girlfriend, grandma, dad.) I don't really know what else to say I'll email you.

George , you and everyone reading this needs to go to Three Hearts Church on you tube and watch the Coronavirus series they are on part 25, so it starts at part 1 and is now at 25 any that you can't see on you tube means they have been deleting by the powers at hand, but you can watch them on there website which you can find on the you tube ones. It is a Christian view of what is happening and it is compelling, I hope I can hear back from people who check it out ,you will get a whole lot if information from it

Best advice for a divorced man is 😂never never get married again

Face the music while it's classical before it goes to dark metal.

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