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You and Mercedes are wonderful!!! I unfortunately will be going thru a divorce during spring/summer and before watching your videos decided to get a rv and be stationary. Just doesn’t make sense to buy new couches tv etc plus rent/buy a home for myself. So any advice would be appreciated. GOD bless y’all
We stumbled across your channel and we are hooked. My husband Andy is 14 years older then me (Andrea) and some times it’s challenging with the gap, but we are working our way on our RU-vid travel channel and the working together etc has been great. Looking forward to more of your content. Andy & Andrea
I’m a Divorce attorney and your video is so gratifying to watch. I see so many couples give up for so little reason. John, good for you to want to be a part of Sage’s life. Best wishes to you both.
I realize this video is approaching two years of age, but I am compelled to say I believe this is the most brutally honest and uplifting vid I have viewed. I’m happy for you as a couple, and have much respect for you as individuals. Thank you!!
My wife and I are on the border of divorce right now. Trying like hell. I’m so glad to hear your story. It’s very inspiring! I have a very similar story to yours and it feels good to see it work out for you. I hope to have the same outcome in own situation. We are both trying but things happen that sometimes are out of your control. Hope you both stay strong and keep it alive!
Stay and work at it or you will find another relationship with the same problems. Work on yourself. Make the changes that will make the difference like these guys did. We were there … nearly divorced and had to accept our parts in the dysfunction. Vow to change what you need to change. Dont try to change your spouse. But do be honest. We are so thankful that now we can live in an rv with each other and work together and learned to love again!!!
Guys, if she is going to go , shes going to go. Why are you trying to keep her there ? Did you lose your value during marriage ? Buying an expensive RV hoping that that's wht will save a marriage is completely ridiculous. Let her go, AND buy YOURSELF that sports car you always wanted , take that fishing trip you kept postponing. Find yourself , man .
I'm sitting here crying. Thank you for being so honest. I lost husband to cancer 11 years ago. Lots of memories. So glad you two are in love again and are living honest. So glad you are including God in your lives. So glad I found y'all. At 62 you are teaching me!
I feel for you as I lost my wife 23 years ago with five children to raise alone. I did have a lot of help from family. If it wasn't for God and my children I would have ended it a long time ago. Everything is great now. All my children are grown and I have very close relationship with all of them. I bet I talk to all of them almost everyday.
@@jimmysapien9961 it does take time and it never totally leaves you. But most widows and widowers find that the first 3 years are the absolute hardest.
@@isx9046 Not without fixing what he's doing wrong. At this point (3), it's time for self-renovations. No healthy person agrees to marry a 3-time divorcee without a thorough walk through of the property and checking for bondo. If a newcomer avoids a 100-point safety check on a 3-time divorcee, that is someone the divorcee should not marry.
@@C.Church You're a low life. No one asked you to critique his life. The man obviously knows he made mistakes and was trying to find some peace in seeing two other people do what he couldn't.
Thank you for sharing your story. What a roller coaster! My wife and I will be married 47 years in September. We live by one main rule (in fact it will be on our grave marker) LOVE IS A DECISION. It isn't a feeling or an action, it's a decision. You made a decision to love rather than leave. THAT will be your number one best move every day - decide to love each other first. You are amazing! God bless you
Wow! Roger this a powerful concept. Because if love is a feeling, then you can stop when it gets tough. If it's an action, then it's based on deeds. But it's based on actions, words, thoughts, and everything, so ultimately a decision makes sense! Thank you so much!
Wow, so true. We are 27.5 years here. Each day we decide to be married and love each other. It is only if you take things for granted and in our opinion, get lazy, do things go awry. Perfect topic.
This is literally our story!!!! We were on the border of divorce constantly fighting all because of a house we were trying to fix up. It was driving us both insane and then this Pandemic happened and I lost it I'm a germaphobe and my husband couldn't handle my constant news and updates! I was John! I used to live in an RV when we met and he suggested we buy an RV and get back on the road because it made me so happy. We have 2 dogs and no kids at home (we both work from home) so we are in the process of buying a 5th wheel and park it nearby while we downsize and move into it. Screw this house and all the problems it has caused, I married my best friend and we want to be happy and you guys are so amazing!
@@RVOddCouple Can you do a segment of RV life, when you and your wife just lost you're job due to the pandemic, you're living on unemployment, and are about to get divorced?
Wow sounds like husband and self. 40 years together. First were bumpy but he started AA and been 30 yrs sober. So glad I stayed and he quit. There is hope for everyone don't give up.
I’m crying. Don’t you dare let that love ever go away. 27 years of marriage, he had an affair, we divorced. Taking off across the country this July in Pearl my Airstream. Hope to share a hug someday. Peace💕
My wife once asked me why I put up with her, I told her because it was easier to put up with her than to start dating again. You can say that when you have been married for 31 years.
Comments like these are Exactly why we read and reply to all of our comments. We have a handful of RV Odd Squad members that are widows and we pay attention to the wisdom your pain brings forth. This really hits home! We want to thank you for taking the time to leave a comment. We are so sorry you lost your wife. We know there are no words that will fix it. We just want you to know that you sharing this means a lot to us! Thank you Tommy!💚
You have to LIKE each other. You have to RESPECT each other. You have to be HONEST with each other. You have to COMMUNICATE with each other. You can't allow your ego to dictate. And you have to always remember WHY you fell in love with each other in the first place. ✌
You two are special, and very fortunate. My husband and I worked, separated, for three years to get somewhere near partners in parenting (after being together for 26 years), almost got there - and he had a heart attack and passed. Our daughter was just turning thirteen and we were both devastated. Time has been healing us, we have learned to live without him, but we all learned so much. I don’t say this for sympathy, but that it is heartwarming that you two realized in time you needed to be together. Make your life the best! You are blessed. Thank you for sharing.
Jennifer, this comment really hits home. We (unfortunately) have a bunch of RV Odd Squad members that are widows. Their comments always have wisdom earned from pain. I appreciate you sharing this. Ultimately this puts so much in perspective. "If this is the last thing I tell this person, how would I feel?" Thank you for sharing & letting us get to know you!
You can feel the "realness" coming through in the emotions. I know the video was probably hard to do, so thanks for sharing and getting real with the Odd Squad.🤩😀
The Odd Squad is showing up in droves and letting us know it's safe to get this "real." It was hard figuring out what to share, because it's easy to tell little stories and get lost. And then hearing it out loud is scary. We ask, "should we share this with everyone?" Well the answer is yes- people are real too and they get it! Thank you B.A.
I am going through separation as well. It’s not an angry separation either and I’m moving into my RV and selling our house. I will be debt free and working full time as well. I appreciate you sharing your story. 💕❤️I can’t wait to see where things go for me from here
God Bless you and keep your head up as best you can. I went through divorce after my 2nd tour in the military. It sure is a learning experience with no Play-book on how to live but with positive outlook and Loving yourself things will flow through ok. Cheers Olympia WA
Wife & I ran our own business ( elevator repair), work load was prosperous ($), but brought my health down- I got an offer for my company- sold it. We wanted to see other states- rented a house in AZ. One week ago bought a class A. We are thinking of selling the house- so we can travel & visit our 5 adult kids. My wife found this video at 4am this morning & tears are falling. I’m 61, she’s 52.... so much similarity. We are blown away. Thanks for sharing! 🏆
Omg great story. You guys are so honest, and broke down the walls for others. You two are a testimony. How great God is to keep you together. I love you guys . Just Awesome.
Love it!!! I'm in recovery as well. 4yrs now! Congrats on your sobriety! Hubs and I sold our 3500sq ft, 5 acres...living in 400sq ft as well. Celebrating our 39th wedding anniversary today!!! God is good!
And this is why I read the comments to videos like this. Judy Whitman, your story sounds as inspiring as theirs! I would love to hear it in it's entirety some time!
My husband and I just celebrated 24 years. He was a trucker over 25 years when his National Guard unit deployed to Iraq. Long story short he is a disabled Vet. He has a bad case if PTSD. For several years he denied he had a problem. While dealing with his PTSD my 2nd oldest son died in the line of duty. I checked out for quite a long time. Thankfully some of our Christian friends nagged us back to church. It was a life changer. He finally got help and I finally began to deal with my grief and got past the anger. For the last 2 years we have searched and researched TTs. We finally agreed on one and purchased it. Our 5th and final son left for college this past August. I am ready to see my country. I would love to go full time but he is having separation issues. He wants to keep a permanent nest. Maybe once we get more miles under our belts he will change his mind. Love your channel.
Thank you for sharing this with us Lynne and for your Families Service. My Son was just diagnosed with PTSD. He served as a Marine. God Bless and let us know if we can help💚💚💚🇺🇸
What a great story. One rule in our house, only one television, and none in our bedroom. That is our sacred space. 33 years and counting. Peace and love.
Thanks for being so open. My wife and I are currently going through the same thing. I thought I had cancer or something (which I am finishing all my tests now). Diagnosis... Overworked (+80hrs a week) and something wrong with my back. Ta Da! I looked at my wife over a month ago and told her, "Let's do your dream, sell everything, and get a 5th Wheel Toy Hauler ( which will become our digital studio). I taught 3D, VFX, etc. Now, we will be able to GO to the work instead of me being stuck at one location. The stress of everything was leading down the same path as you guys. So it was refreshing to see a couple that UNDERSTANDS what and WHY my wife (Carol) and I are doing this. Thanks for everything, keep a truckin', and GOD bless! M.E.Ford - the Digital Cowboy
Congratulations to you & your wife! Stress is a silent killer! We wish you two many Blessings on your new adventure and hope that we can meet you one day. God Bless and keep us up to date on your adventure💚😀👍
I can so relate to this. My husband and I are 2 year newlyweds. He is quite a bit older. He was a workaholic until he was diagnosed with a brain tumor. He has slowed down and we are now starting our RV journey. Thank you for your continued honesty!
My late husband had the same rule but sometimes it overlapped. We RV'd around the country back in the 70's. We loved it. Glad you worked things out and your honesty is raw.
I’m just realizing I’m signed under my daughter’s RU-vid account so disregard that, but I just wanted you to know how much this video spoke to me. My husband and I have had this dream of rving for about 2 years and finally things with his job and our house have aligned in a way that has allowed us to live our dream. My husband was so over stressed at work. So he quit his job we are selling our house and belongings to live this dream. This particular video spoke to me so much because my husband and I have been separated for a year. And with things aligning the way they have at my husbands job and with our house my husband asked me if we could try one more thing to save our marriage and that is finally living our dream and coming with him rving. I have been very nervous thinking it could possibly drive us further apart, which I know is a real possibility, but hearing how it United y’all gives me hope. Thank you so much! Also do you have any tips for creating a RU-vid page I would love to document our travels as well?
I loved this video. When Mercedes teared up I actually cried. I’m glad you guys made it. I really enjoy your content. I watch every one you post. Enjoy your journey. Peace and Love - Chris.
Your story gave me God bumps! What a beautiful testimony to what can happen if you don't give it all up and realize your love is worth saving.. I love so much that you shared this story. My husband and I have lived in Costa Rica for 15 years (retired from Houston Tx area) but now thinking about buy a used RV and travel the US for 2 or 3 years. WE are so excited and listen to all your videos from the beginning! You are in inspiration to us!
You guys are soo sweet. With that being said I sold my rv today!!! My husband passed away in January and I thought I could rv by myself. You need the husband to do outside and wife inside. I was doing everything by myself!! I sold for 43,000.00. I am now flying back home to Hawaii for a week and then off to Europe for 6 weeks. I will still continue watching the rv videos, but for enjoyment and not for the wanting to get out there. I now know I like room service!! Lol
Thank you for sharing. My husband and I are fixing up our house right now to sell and start our RV adventure full time. Before all of this we were not sure where we were going in our relationship. The process has really helped us realize what was blocking our relationship to go further. I am thankful we are in a positive place now. Your story brought tears to my eyes because of our story. Thank you.
It's incredible... Your story is almost the same of ours! We divorced last year, and today, we are planning to RV together 100% in march 2020!!! We now appreciate ourselves as friends, partners, companions, and are stronger than ever as a team.
Glad it all worked out for the 3 of you. I so enjoy your vids! Just left my hubby after 13 yrs and what I found out.... makes me feel absolutely stupid for marrying him at all and not leaving sooner. But you do BOTH have to want it to work and make the effort. Screw 'compromise' ... I compromised for 13 yrs. While he apparantly....I allowed him to 'run my show' I retreated to the separate bedroom to: 1) keep my sanity, 2) have 'me' time, 3) have a certain amout of time per day to recharge and get strong. Which is why I'm on a 'I married a narcissicist' Group now to heal, grow, Get past the PTSD and Move forward. So I'm really considering the RV life for my future. Watching ur vids is entertaining, enlightening & informative. I thank you!
My wife is 10 years younger than I am. We have had our rough times together. As time has gone by and through a lot of discussions our marriage is stronger than ever in the 8 years we have been married. You guys are a wonderful couple. 🙏
Wow,,,, thank you for your truth and honesty. Craig and I watched together this morning, and we both are soo very parallel to you guys. Having Massive “material” possessions takes sooo much out of a person. Reduction of those things is difficult, as my husband. I’m the “purger” and he’s the “holder”. Our experience so far in getting a (1 of 2) home on the market, reducing our possessions, planning ahead, has brought some anxiety, argument, cooling off, and finally the reality of learning what is IMPORTANT,,, US! Our love and respect of each other’s opinion, value, communication, patience is our 🔑. Blessings sent your way. Thanks again and again.
Hi Lisa & Craig. Isn't it funny how we "think" we know what will make us happy but in the end, it's the simple, free things in life? So glad this resonated with you. Funny story- we almost didn't share this. Ultimately I'm glad we did!
WOW...what a beautiful story you have, my wife and I have bought an ambulance and am converting it into our full-time travel vehicle. It is so great to be working on it together and have that share vision. Teamwork makes the dream work!!!
A baby at 50! I became a dad of twin boys at 47, micro preemies, 4 months early one pound six and seven ounces. Now I'm 58, they turn 11 in June and we are in the process of buying our first RV trailer. We've been watching your videos and learning. Look forward to many more and lots of miles pulling our new home away from home!
Your chemistry together, is very evident. When Mercedes is talking, John is never looking like “hurry up and finish, so I can talk”. He is usually waiting to reinforce, or sometimes disagree, but in a very respectful way. Watching the two of you work together is a big part of the appeal of your videos. It seems real, and you are not just “acting out” for the camera.
This one is raw and real guys. becoming more intrigued with your vlogs. Putting away the alcohol is always a hard but rewarding choice. 28+yrs here. I do not begrudge anyone a good drink. But instead of me managing it,.... it was managing me. I am glad for y'all on sooo many levels. a great story. tell it often.
Raw is a great word. It was raw. It's hard to look back but there's a lot of gratitude in getting through it. 28 years is a lot of one days at a time! Thank you so much Rusty!
I don't watch any other channel about RVing. Taking my family and doing this full time has become our goal which we hope to obtain in the next year or two. When I see saved marriages, it warms my heart because I nearly obliterated ours all on my own. But Mercedes said something so important. She started working on her self. And it appears through his actions he started working on himself. My wife and I have been facilitators with marriage ministry for 4 years and this mindset is so vital. When you both start working on your own personal relationship with the lord, God will grow your marriage individually and you come out so much stronger in the end. Team is the operative word. It's never perfectly executed but if it's the goal and you take divorce completely off the table, then you will always be blessed. If you ever come back through Colorado Springs, I would love to meet you guys. Continue to have faith and courage. God bless you guys.
Hey josh, we live in Colorado Springs too and believers in the Lord. We also help couples who need help in their marriage too. I’d love to hear more about the marriage ministry you both have
Entertaining video. Two thoughts: One, no one ever died from a poopie diaper. Two, when you fought you went to separate rooms. Not much physical separation in a camper compared to a house. I told my wife one time when she brought up buying a camper- If we can't get along in this house, how are we gonna get along in a fraction of the space, lol.
We were in the RV for nearly ten years and that almost destroyed us after 40 years of marriage. We finally came off the road and are in a house. The arguing stopped and we both are so much happier. We are calmer life is easier! The RV is in storage for now. We will see what the future brings.
Thanks for sharing your story. Divorce can be a very devastating thing. It is such a wonderful thing to put it all back together and rebuild your relationship. I hope that you guys continue to grow together the rest of your lives.
Okay, I'm RV Video obsessed -- I've watched thousands over the past 4+ years, but your video today is better than all of them. More honest, real, life-changing, and life-enhancing than I could have ever hoped to find. Thank heavens you pulled up the stick before crashing-n-burning. What a greater life you have together than apart. Because of you and your candor, I am compelled to do some self-evaluating and rewinding. Your humility and roadmap are most inspiring. Bravo you two! Thank you for sharing your experiences and may you be blessed with continued happiness. Thank you.
Mike what can say in response? We are humbled by what you've said. Thank you just doesn't seem enough, but Thank you! (oh, and we can relate to being rv video obsessed! lol!)
What a great story. And like Roger who also gave some great advice I would like to share what has helped my wife and me stay together for over 37 years.No matter how upset we are we promised to always sleep in the same bed.Usually thats enough time to think things through and a gentle touch goes a long way to start a conversation and reconnect in a way you both can feel good about. We love your videos and your honesty.Thank you.
My spouse and I are in the same boat as you guys were. We decided not to divorce but we are still running our own race vs running life together. I am have been looking at RVs for the last 4 mos and making plans to live full time next year BUT have been doing 97% on my own. Thank you BOTH! Time to bring this together ❤️
I don’t know how I ended up on an RV channel, but I am blessed to hear your story, and tears flowed about how your marriage was made stronger. I’m 49 now and my life is way different from yours, but I have hope that one day, those joys you share with your wife will be mine once again. To God be the Glory🙏🏾
Love the video! Understanding marriage is hard but you both are much better together than not. My wife died when she was 50, almost 22 yrs ago and the time spent in disagreements was trival in comparison. When you realize how "meaningful" life can be so short you get another perspective. Enjoy you're journey because everything only lasts for a period of time:)
Dennis we're so sorry for your loss. Your perspective references a ton of wisdom and pain. But you're right. In retrospect, will you say "I told you I was right" or "I wish they would do that annoying thing again because I miss them." You comment is powerful! Thank you!
So totally awesome!!!! And another thing I might add, is I have noticed how much time y'all take to try to answer as many comments as possible. That's commitment!! I'm not sure how I've missed watching y'all. I've been subscribed, but the title caught my eye. God will bless you for your honesty, inspiration and testimony!! Safe travels!! And God Bless y'all!!
this video hits it on the head - me and my wife were ready to call it quits - and in a flash i bought a rv to set up at a camp ground - me and my wife found a new way to get away from the everyday problems and just sit and talk , and hang out as much as we can
You guys made me cry. I just love you two. I lost my husband to cancer in 2007 and then one of my amazing sons was shot in the face and killed instantly in 2015. I want to travel but will get a big fully equipped van. the healing has to happen somehow and I think nature has been the kindest to me. Selling my house and things...and then go!
Thank you for the supportive comment. Yes, this was one of our more vulnerable videos. We almost didn't share it. Very close to home. Glad you liked it.
Thanks for sharing! My parents separated when I was in Jr High, the only thing my Dad ever told me about it , "All I did was trade 1 set of problems for a different set of problems " My Wifes parents were also divorced, and that gave us both an attitude of we ain't going there. We have been married for 36 years, we piss each other on a regular basis , but exactly as you spoke of it, you have to get over it. Thanks again.
What a true statement! Divorce is just trading problems. We both come from divorced homes too and it's so hard because we don't want our family to be another statistic!
While a divorced empty-nester, I'm still the biggest proponent of marriage you'll ever find. As such, I'm so grateful to you both for sharing your story about near-divorce and life afterward. Many divorce because they're "not happy". They believe that they'll be happier after divorce. However, research shows that 80% of those who divorce for happiness are actually less so five years down the road. By contrast, 80% of those who stuck it out and slogged through struggles to ultimately remain together describe themselves as "happily married" and that their marriages are stronger than before. John and Mercedes, this is you, and I'm thrilled for you both!
John thank you so much for your comments. We understand what you mean. And If you would have told me then that we would be this happy today, I would never have believed you! We appreciate you kind words because it was terrifying sharing this information.
@@RVOddCouple It's in our vulnerability that our story blesses others. So, thanks for stepping out in courage to transparently share yours. You may never know who or how your story touches someone. Just know that it will!
We love transparent and real people. You guys truly meet that with your open-ness here. Marriage is truly work or it at least takes work, compromise, patience and a willingness to choose to LOVE. Yes it comes naturally much of the time but in those moments where it isn't natural it has to be intentional focus. Thanks for sharing and glad I stumbled on your channel.
Appreciate you taking the time to say this! You know, we almost didn't share this video. It felt too personal. But comments like these make us glad that we did. :-) Thank you!
Great story guys my wife and I with our kids are buying an RV to live in while our house is being built,I hope we have as fun as you guys are having in bringing the family closer together. Cheers!
Thank you for being so open and honest with the troubles in your life and how you conquered them. Very inspirational video. I began watching your videos for full time rving tips, I had no idea I would get such a blessing from them. God bless you on your journey
Love your story and your channel. What an inspiration in so many ways. There is no greater blessing than your children❤️. They are a temporary gift while we are on this earth, and it sounds like the two of you have figured that out. I’ll so inspired that I have watched this video twice!! Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for your honesty! I think I saw this in you from the very first video. It's refreshing to see a couple win and thrive! Living in the moment is an absolute key. Thank you again!
Candie, thank you so much! Appreciate the kind words and the support on a video in which we bared our soul to the world. Appreciate the kind words and support!
So...when I first watched you both on RU-vid, I thought, 'Yeah, yeah, yeah...same old thing, just a different angle, a different approach to get people hooked, then comes the ask for $$'...but after watching a few episodes, I think you're honest people who just want to help others through your own knowledge and experience. That's rare in today's world, and I'm so happy to have found you! I love your 'no-Patreon' attitude that other RV bloggers seem to feel is necessary for success. After subscribing to several of these Patreon RV bloggers, I started feeling like it was just a business, a method to have their lifestyle paid by Patrons, and the rest of us don't count. Thank you for what you're doing, and for being real people with integrity.
Makes total sense! All we're doing is sharing our truth and experience. Sometimes it's pretty uncomfortable but it's real 😀👍 Thank you very much for this comment Chris 💚
My wife and I do the upstairs downstairs thing too, to the point I sometimes miss her. We do that to avoid conflict but we only have so much time together and we're throwing that time away. RVing may not be the answer for us, but you two are an inspiration to finding an answer.
My plans are changing too. After my little sister's life drastically changed. We are also forming our future out there. We camped as kids and in our marriages so we are campers. We can't wait to get on our way!
This is such a beautiful story of redemption & restoration. Thank you SO much for sharing! Hubby & I are about to celebrate 20 years of marriage & have 2 teenagers. We just bought a 5th wheel in hopes of restoring adventure, family unity, and beautiful memories. Not full time unfortunately, but as often as possible. My hubby is also in the construction industry & I know how crazy life can be because of it! This will force both of us to shut down from work and focus on family & fun. 😀
Congratulations on 20 years of marriage. Woohooo! Thank you so much for the kind words. We were afraid to share this because it was so vulnerable but now were glad we shared it. Thank you again!
Thank you, for your reply! Much love, from Texas! Come visit our great state sometime! I'm new to all the RV channels but I've subscribed to yours. Happy & safe travels to you all!
That's right....Yep, We all can sense their honesty when talking about their journey..... Hope everything works out well for them.....Keep up the transparency....God bless ya'll...🙏
It's so easy when in the world to loose track of why you ever wanted to be together to begin with. Having projects where you work together makes for wonderful bonding experiences. A sense of adventure is awesome and amazing. Sage is lucky to share in these times right now and she will treasure these days when she gets older. Enjoy your freedom , peace , adventure, and serenity and grow together with God. 😉👍👌
Stress can be very debilitating. Depression can zap motivation. Motivation is needed in order to do anything. Even brushing our teeth. I am glad you posted this video. On my birthday by-the-way! I hope your journey is filled mostly with happiness. You both sound like you know and realize there will always be valley's that we must pass through.
We knew it was your birthday so this was your birthday present. Your welcome! Just kidding. Thank you for the support. We almost didn't share it. Glad we did. The outpouring of understanding and support was amazing.
I have a nephew who is in his 40's and gone through a divorce. Without examining what went wrong (alcohol) he posts all the "fun stuff" in life that he does on Facebook. Life is always "perfect" in his world. The postings of the new girlfriend, the new boat, the picture of the boat and his feet as the sun drops behind his beer glass. All wonderful.... In his world. His father, my brother is the same way. "Perfect" in every way. Yet, all I have ever asked from them is honesty. Not much of that seems to be around. I am not perfect, and I am flawed in many ways. I try to live a full life. I have worked my tail off to get here. Life can be and has been a struggle for me. God let me return from Vietnam where I was a Marine ground pounder toting around a machine gun. I bought a little I-Go Cloud Series travel trailer last summer. It is perfect for my needs. I was able to take it to northern Maine several times last year along with my little cat Blue. In the fall we pack up and fly down to south Florida for the winter. Where the sea water is warm!
I had a similar "turn" whilst running my photography business. 80 hours per week, I had symptoms of a stroke that passed very quickly. It was migraine with aura. Scarey. Gave up business and now lead a simple life.
John, I believe that the Man should be the boss and run things in the home or RV. I made that clear to my wife from the very beginning. Like last night. I Ran the Vacuum Cleaner and the Dishwasher ! Tomorrow, I'm going to run that new Washing Machine, and I don't care what she says 😎 Been together 19 yrs to one great lady. Key is that I learned to actually listen to her conversations and see that she does have great ideas, (it did take a lot of hits in the head to get me there)😎.
Kenny, I read this comment to John. You had us both laughing. Your humility and humor are excellent. Love how you speak of your wife. You are so right. Women just want to be heard. Even if it's just small talk. Congrats you two on 19 years! You keep running things! :-)
Funny. We were looking at RV's 17 years ago and I found out I was pregnant. Friends were saying at 42 years old, the RV would have been cheaper. We were blessed with a baby girl who is a a wonderful independent individual. We still are planning to Rv but not for a few more years.
Now that's a great story! And your daughter should be graduating high school soon? Sage is fiercely independent too. I'm grateful for that. Lets me know that she will be ok no matter what! :-)
Roles are very important that is why my relationship with my husband works. we know what our roles are. Glad you found each other again! Love you guys!
I don't RV and have no plans to RV but I can't stop watching you guys..... you guys are so in sync.... different but in sync... like a spoon... one face concave and the other convex. Very inspiring story. Thank you.
I decided I wanted to save up for an RV; so of course I need to do my research! I discovered y’all and I am so happy I did! I’ve been binging your videos ever since I found your first one! I love your relationship and you provide SO MUCH quality information!! Thank you for everything!
That was just beautiful. I loved it and I love you guys. 9 years ago we were in divorce court, but God miraculously saved our marriage. Today we have a wonderful marriage and life together. Im also sober 11 yrs. The other day we bought our 1st RV and were ready for this next season in life. So excited.
Thank you for your service. Teamwork is such an important lesson to learn. It's hard within a marriage framework but so important! Thank you again for your service!
I just found you guys and after 4 videos, I’ve decided you are the most real people on RU-vid. It’s nice to watch your journey in your day to day, and to hear people of faith share their humanity. Keep of the strong work. You are positive role models for a lot of people😁
Hi, You brought back many wonderful memories. We bought our first bus and immediately headed to San Marcos, Texas for a "Life on Wheels" conference. It was a 3 day event about what you need to know to live full time in an RV. The first class was taught by Joe and Vicki Kieva. They began with much of what you said, teamwork. They called them pink jobs and blue jobs. As it sounded very stereotyped, someone asked for a definition and their response was, "It's whatever the two of you want them to be." They were so right. What we also found interesting was what happened in our travels. We went around the country and were visited by many family and friends. They all wanted to see the new bus. They would walk through and admire the bus. At the end they would look at their spouse and say one of two things.... "We envy you, and wish we had the time and money to do this." or "No way in hell, we would kill each other!" There was no one in between, it was always one of the two. As an aside, my ex wife is still a good friend. My current wife took her through the bus and she loved it. When she was done, she turned to my wife and said, "Better you than me." We all laughed because she was speaking the truth. She would not have enjoyed the confinement. Great message and a wonderful story. I'm now in my 80's and look back at our time in our RV, and the time we full timed it as one of the best parts of our life. Best Regards, Dennis Miller Anthem, AZ ... just south of Sedona which you mentioned.
