Allahu Akbar! I cannot express the amount of happiness and contentment I feel whenever asiya aunty comes for the MA podcast. Yaa Allah please answer my prayers regarding asiya aunty that she starts her own channel and we all can benefit from this knowledgeable personality. Ali sir please please please convey my msg to her that I personally want her start her channel and let us drink from her cup... With lots of love and duas Binte Khalid Mumbai, India
So far the Best MA Podcast. We want part 2 . Relevent questions & practical scenario solutions given by both the guests. Some kind suggestions for MA Podcast : •invest in a mobile holder for the host •include the guest social media handle in the description Jazaka Allah khair.
Every woman wants a partner who is 1 level up than hers. A woman will only submit and "adjust" if she knows that the guy is physically, mentally and financially more stronger than her and can take care of the next gen better than her. So rather than telling women "to adjust" to what suits a guy, why don't you ask men to step up their game and be in the actual leadership roles rather than being Mama's little boys trapped in a 40 year old body?
It wont work. Women have become worthless. Full stop. By preventing four wives they have made themselves worthless. Even a mature man will not value his wife. You cant assign value to something that is worthless.
@@MyRaahim Even in deen men are the Qawam. The guardians but unfortunately not many men follow the true spirit of the deen rather only remember deen when it comes to "4 shaadia" lol
My husband is a classic example of a narcissist. He has never even spoke to his children about life in general. We have been married for ten years. He buys them everything but never sits down with them to have a father-son, father-daughter conversation. I agree his parents never spoke to him, that is why he never knew about this kind of bond with kids. But hes 40 years old, its high time he learns to be a father. He can watch youtube videos to learn about healthy relationship with his kids. I am not even talking about my relationship with him here. Because at this point in my life i have given up on fixing him. Its not my job. He hasn’t touched me in a year, he has gfs, he blackmails, he manipulates, he is a criminal too. only reason i allow him in our lives is financial dependency on him. I dont make enough money to raise 3 kids on my own. All your talk about respect and blah blah is for those men who deserve respect. Those were men of prophet Muhammads time. Todays man specially south asian man, is nothing but an evil narcissist 80% of them.
Even in Quran Allah says, give them hidayat and dont be sad or try to fix them if they dont listen. Here you want women to adjust to such evil men, who dont even pray once in their lifetime, who dont even know anything about Islam and women’s rights. Much of your talk is cultural.
Badi dukh ki baat hai app jis thali me kha rahi hai wosi me ched kar rahi hai. App k under ak ℅ bhi saram hai. App paiso k liye reh rahi hai. App ko toh app k ghar wale na rakhe apne ghar me. 10 saal baad maloom pada tujhe ki wo criminal hai aur kiya kiya baqwas kar rahi hai. Kitni negative aurat hai chollo bhar pani me doop mar.
Come off it, you can get on the benefit system and feed your kids. He sounds like an asshole, but what you have to understand it that ALL the problems in the world Come from WOMEN. Thats why more women will be in hell. Had women not prevented four marriages you would have been able to divorce him easily and another married man would be ready, waiting to marry you. If there were four wives you would only need to worry about how you look, what to cook, keeping the house clean, keeping the kids clean, every FOURTH evening. The rest of the days you would live how you want to. Women are so stupid, that the new generation of young women are getting old and ugly waiting for a proposal. If i were you i would have left this man a long time ago, despite money issues. A woman i know did that, she didnt care if she would have money or not. It turns out that her life got much better, she had more money and she raised her kids how she wanted without his interference. Although no doubt she moved hell and high water to make sure that he stayed in their lives otherwise no amount of money can make up for an absent father, kids lose their mind. And she ended up re marrying and she says to people that Allah wanted me to have a better, richer life, thats why he had written divorce for me.
Please monitor your kids amd make sure they don't learn toxic behaviour. Set a good example for them. And try to stand on your feet. May Allah help you come out of abuse. Ameen
@@mohdaadil9057Mary experience ka mutabiq jb Ak bewi jb apny Haq or haqoq ka leya bat karty hai tu osay hamri society mai bad ikhkaq or bad zuban kaha jata hai... Or jab wo chup chap sahay tu apna zehni tawazn kho jati hai phir osay Pagal kaha jata hai 😊
Really great episode! Both the speakers brought up great points! Br. Muhammad Ali, I liked how you directed the talk. JazakumALLAHu khair. Salams from Illinois, U.S.
ماشاءاللہ very good discussion. Wish there was an English version to this, for those who cannot understand Urdu well. For couples who have arguments / fights should feel happy that they are still together, as they are just making the bottle bigger so the drops Don’t overflow. Just a thought 😊
Dua to Fix all your family issues: رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ اَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وََّاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا اے ہمارے رب !تو ہمیں ہماری بیویوں اور اولادوں سے آنکھوں کی ٹھنڈک عطا فرما اور ہمیں پرہیزگا روں کا امام بنا۔ Our Lord! Grant us from among our wives and offspring, comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteousness. (Al-Furqan:74)
When you feel like giving up upon your Dua's Remember ALLAH's promise when He say: "I'll provide for you from place you would have never imagined" (Quran:65:3)
ALLHAMDULLULAH , Allah ap sb s razi ho, ap sb bht bhtreeen ustaad hn hmary, hm bht lucky hn , hmary swalon k jwab itni khubsurti s dety hain k hmary dill skoon m a jaty, Allah ap sbko dunya r akhrat ka skoon dy, jazakAllah khairan kaseerah fidunya wal akhirah Ameen ♥️♥️
Very genuinely presented by both speakers. Jazakallah khairan brother Ali. We needed such talks. I was in need of such talk. Though it covered less of my confusion but generally covered a lot. Very impressive.
Masha allah..bht behtareen ..ye bht zaroori tha. Specially young couples k liye..bht ache points diye h ap sab ne .jazak allaho khairan kasera. Love from india .
Very healthy debate I agreed with this and I am talking about this that we should educate our child’s either daughter or son about there married life under rules of Islam
What about who treats wife like a maid (they just st want things to be done) not there in wife happiness, in your sickness or or when she is emotionally hurt or down due to anything
What a beautiful way to contribute to the understanding of Islam. May Allah bless him with success in all his endeavors. This is a true example of how patience and positivity can make a significant impact. May Allah grant him strength and resilience.
Ali bhai lagta hai aapne ramadan main weight gain kar lya😅. Masha'Allah tabarak'Allah Allah apko aur apki team ko ajjar de aur khushiyan de ache ache topic launch karte hain
Mashallah...it's really helpful for our generation...they need really like this teacher who teached them how to handle every situation.....keep it up...
Please Sir please One Podcast about Prgnant women...kitna jhelti h wo new new marriage hoti h...adjust bhii nahi ho pati...good news aa jati...jiski wjh se jo changes aate usme jo Inlaws ka behaviour hota h...plz
Good news tbhi ati hy jb physically relationship bnta hy husband should understand this k he should give some time to her wife nd also thori understanding create hni chahye comfortable zone creates hna chahiye dono main.. Good news k lye bht time para hy at least 1 year to khud aik dusre ko time dena chahye.... Enjoy krna chahiye Bht br aisa hta hy k foran se physically relationship bna liya jata hy then ALLAH maaf krain divorces ho jaati hain nd in the end child ko suffer krna prta hy... Is lye aik dam se family plan ni krni chahiye.. Love marriage mai koi issue ni hy agr waqai mai love marriage hy aur kaafi time se understanding hy couple mai .....to agr understanding hy aur ye b maloom hy k zindagi achy se guzaar skty hain...but arrange marriages main kuch time bd plan krna chahiye Its my thinking...
Such podcasts are really needed these days spcly when the kids are on the edge of disasters. What am practicing in my family for namaz habbit, with the same circumstances.. tht i said to my kids one namaz one day atleast.m and add another every 2 weeks.. i have 2 kids and this idea is working Alhamdulillah, still am on their back to push them, as kids become a lil lazy etc but i always scold them if needed, i mean if they ignore my order to offer their prayer. And Inshallah i believe one day Allah will succeed me in this way. Its my suggestion to all sch mothers who are struggling with this issue to try thia idea.
@Muhammad Ali Bhai please change the title of the video, it feels bit strange to share it with someone due to a strong title (divorce) to any couple who just have little misunderstandings between them but if we share it with those they might feel awkward and think that they have came on this stage where people are sharing divorce related stuff. Jazakallah ❤
Just an opinion Sir, Thumb rules don't seem to work in such affairs. It takes virtue and wisdom that can only be developed through worshipping one and only Allah. Times, demands, standards and expectations will keep changing on the timeline. Thank you.
اللهم بارك Aunty is very very good and unbiased, I wish for her to come uk or even go to our Mirpur city for dars & we will compensate her well….my outlaws sorry I meant in-laws need a nasiha…… بارك الله فيكم
Mashallah very beautiful byan..you bring such a series ...There are many issues these days regarding in-laws. Husband refuses to support , how to manage?
Asslamualikum bhai jazakumulaah Allah aap ko woh zubaan ata are jis ke alfaaz dil ki gehraion mein utar jaaye aur Allah aap sab se aise hi kaam lete rahe Allah aap sab ko dono jahan mein khushiya aata kare (Ameen) 💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝 Darasal Mere bohot hi jald nikah hone wala hai aur ye podcast dekh kar mujhe ek tarha ki Guidence mili. Mere liye ye podcast manafa bakhsh hai .... me: sameer ahmed from India 🇮🇳 Deccan
Tryning sab say phalye saas ki honi chiue or agar saas bipolar ho to us ko betay ki shadi bilkul bhi nahin karne chiye ,,kun k wo talaq karwa dete hay apnye betye ko bool kar..so traning to saas ki hi hone chiye.
السلام علیکم و رحمت اللہ وبرکتہ اللہ تبارک و تعالی آپکو جزائےخیر دے سب مہمانوں نے ماشااللہ بہت اچھیے طریقے سے رہنمائی کی ہے اللہ تعالی ہماری خاندانی زندگیوں کو اسلام کے مطابق بنادے امین
