I feel you bro. 28 years and haven't seen my dad once. Haven't heard from him or his family. Might as well say I don't have one. It's been rough growing up and having to learn things myself, but I made it. Got my own money, house,car and family without him.
Big ups to you bro. Your changing our generation by being a good dad. Love you bro and keep teaching your kids to change the way the world thinks. Blessings 🙏
damn my nigga i cant imagine shii like that yknow like my pops stayed wimme and there was times he tried to leave the house and i wouldnt let him, im shit im 13 almost 14 and my pops is older then you and i still was ready to fight this nigga i dont care im not lettin him leave my fuckin my baby sister she isnt a baby no more she 8 now, so this shit can effect her with prolly like depression or some shit i cant let that happen, but say she wasnt around, ah hell he'd be gone he prolly just leave, and like 2 days ago i had juss fought my dad that shii fucks wit my head, but id rather fight my dad then not have one, i got all the respect to anybody who grow up without a pops and is runnin they house how they poss to stay straight big bruh much love
Moms really don't understand how important it is for a boy to go Outside & create his own life. If a boy cant go outside & forge his own identify outside of his mommy, then he forever gonna be a mamas boy... 25, 35 & still up in his Mama house, Up in his Mama face . They made a movie about it , Baby Boy . and what happens when mama is gone ? i was out at 16 ... took me til 22 to get it together , but i'm a proud MAN
Bro I have a cousin my uncle's son is the same way like me and my grandma talk about everyday when is he going to get his life together if something was to happen to his mom and I felt this
I’m glad u brought this up bro like my mom had me locked up in the house all day myself from elementary school thru high school I left home from my moms house when I was 17 lived with my grandma till I was 21 but it took my to 22 to finally get it together and my mom and dad broke up after I was born even tho I had my father in my life a lot and I went thru a lot of stuff myself this is why I tell myself I can’t repeat history to my future kids
My brother, we got so much in common, my father was murdered in front of our apt door when I was 10 months old, so I grew up without a father, and it kissed me off and made me sad to see other kids with their fathers and me all by myself, and me growing up that way, made me want to be there for my son, I don’t want him to go thru what I went thru, it’s tough growing up without a dad,
Thank man, I really try to be there for him, and I talk to him like he a grown ass man, since he turned 12, I honestly wanna have more, but I haven’t found a donor, lmao, jk, I jus haven’t been lucky with love, had girls try and take my life, so it’s kinda hard to try women, lol
Damn ur mama got 7 different baby daddys and nt havn ur dad dats rough yo but look at u nw bro u made it and ur a good father big ups frm nz g! Ghost gang!!!
I lost mine when I was 5 to them too bro I know how it feels I shed a few tears every few years about him being gone fam it be random too we gone be good in this life g !!
I grew up wit out a dad and a mom I had to learn how to take care of myself and how to survive and be a man on my own and Not gon lie dat shii was hard af real shit 💯
My father was "involved" in my life until I was 14. He lived with me and my family but he never once asked me. I remember when I was 5-8 years old he was the best man he could be. Then in the summer of 2011 he went on vacation to visit his parents and brothers and when he came back he changed in the most negative way possible. He started abusing my mother physically, mentally, emotionally, verbally. He started beating me and my sisters up. My mom went through depression and anxiety. Last time I saw him was April 16, 2018. I doubt I'll ever see him again. Last time I talked to him on the phone was in May 2019, it's September 2020 and I got the news he married another women. It pains me because these are the years I need a father figure the most. These late teen years and early 20s are when males need someone to look up to so they can be good men in the future. My brother is 7 and will grow up without a dad. This is also a blessing in disguise though because I'll be the father to my brother that he never had. And if I ever have a son in the future i'll be the best I can to him.
I didn’t grow up with a Dad, but I was lucky enough to have strong Uncles and male cousins. That’s the good thing about growing up in the south, at least where I’m from, family is close as hell. I felt this entire video from start to finish. Real Shit.
bro i grew up without a dad and then at 26 i found out i was a rape baby..... everything i watched my mom go through to take care of me not knowing as a kid tore me up at that exact moment i found out. which was ALLOT im hoping to find my way soon... i dropped out of highschool but ive been returning to finish that shit but i do feel like im mad at the world still.... i love life but i hate it at the same time
Real shit bro my peers and the streets raised me seen pops like 3 times in my life moms died wen I was 13 bin to jail at 19 had my daughter at 20 I know the feeling bruh stay blessed 💯God gat us all
I'm 28 and I call my dad almost every day to discuss life and how to better myself. I feel so much for anyone without both their parents because they are the only thing keeping me straight right now. Man life is unfair!
Ghost I respect TF out of you because you keep it 💯 all the time. I grew up completely different from you. I’m an only child and my parents have been married for 35+ years. I graduated from an HBCU. I might be just a lil younger than you but we’re around the same age. I had it all growing up and never had to worry. Crazy thing is that your drive to want a better life than what you were dealt with as a kid got you to where you are now. You’re far more successful than me, and I look up to your channel. This is just motivation for me to get on my grind & get my shit together. ✊🏿
Thanks Ghost for this Truth, I am glad that you are doing well, and through all what you been through, you stand strong. Peace and blessings to You and Your family and loved ones
I was the only nigga on my block wit a daddy. I see the difference bro. So respect for sharing. Cuz every child need that so their kid can pass it to their own.
This shit crazy bro I felt this one all the way everything you said I literally went through and still goin through now shit wild but I’m knowing it’s gon get better 💯 especially the part when it came to looking for a male role model I was always tryna find that nigga nobody could fw it on a certain level of mentality 💯
You gotta talk more about this bro. I'm 21 puerto rican with a similar situation but I got 2 little brothers both pre teens and my momma was single momma so I dont know too much on how to teach them to become a man.
Educate yourself and teach them what you learn and more importantly how and where you learned it. That’s how it is done. I learned so much through RU-vid alone and do my best to educate when I can.
Jeffrey Use law of attraction to attract money and escape the matrix . Tutorial ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-FCHTL66rLGk.html I also recommend watching spiritual so he will change your life
I grew up without a mother myself a loving and caring mother I mean I have her I just don’t feel the love from her like I do from my dad because she favoritism’s my two older siblings and there dads then she does me and my dad
@jovanmiller3650 That's terrible. But to be real it's different for me tho cause yall are niggas without a mom, and im here looking like a lil clown cause I'm raised around my men and people keep telling me I aint feminine enough and a lot of other extra shit 🤦♀️
My dad was in my life, even tho my mom made it hard for him and he seemed like he didn’t want to put up a fight like that. But we were able to resolve our differences and our relationship was better than ever until i lost him 5 years ago and it’s been the toughest thing I’ve had to deal with. Folks if you have your dad and he’s still here try and work on things and if they don’t work out then it is what it is: but at least try 💪🏾
I’m 16. Grew up by myself. I seen so many similarities I just don’t gang bang. Shit is rough. We all grow up differently. Ain’t no money around but I know money is the only way you gone survive. I got different mentalities from everyone. I’ve taught myself a lot. It hits mentally knowing you got a dad but he ain’t around. It’s tough
In so happy i have a father in my life and dat hes not a buster💯 not stuntin or nun im juss grateful. Takes a strong individual to become a real man without a dad
Man i grew up the same way im older now i still dont fw my father hate him with a passion but I learned when i have kids im never leaving what i created🤞🏽
Honestly it’s the worst feeling ever. I’m 18 and going through it right now. I’m just grateful that I know the stuff I know so I don’t have to worry about money, job, school (I make money trading options) but I have no emotional support and never did as a kid. My mom blames me for everything and so does my sister. I’m the youngest out of all 5 siblings and none of them cared to help me when I was little. It’s a battle everyday. I’m grateful I have weed to cause if not I probably wouldn’t be here. My mental health is fucked and I know it. But I will make it out my current situation cause of my discipline. My mom treats me like always treated me like a stranger then wonders why things the way they are. I try to explain to her but she never understands and it turns into an argument. Please pray for me.
Luckily for me I had a father so I was happy but at the same time he doesn’t live with me I live with my mom but he was still there in my life and that’s enough for me real talk 💯
Mane same shyt wit me ghost🗣I was mad close to my muva cause my pops dipped only a couple months fa bein dere fa me🤦🏽♂️buh my muvas jus passed a bit ago R.I.P🕊💙 growin up wit out a pops either gon make a man or break ya ah 🙏🏽💙Ian have no fava figure so I jus learned frm all my nigkaz and opps in the streets too keep my head out da swivel. ghost gang🤝🤝💙sparked a fat wood while watchin nis
Pops got locked up when I was 5, just turned 21 and he got out a week before my birthday.. got a daughter who finna turn 3 and before she was born I didn’t know how to be a man, I was just a kid raised by moms and grandma in the middle of the hood. I’m grateful though my daughter saved my life.
No cap, I started first watching your reactiuand stuff but bro you really doing something w this podcast!!! You letting people know they're not the only ones feeling the same way!! Blessings DjGhost!
i feel you ghost in only 16 my parents divorced i’m just hoping i can live the best way i can when you only learning by yourself you know only thing that’s taught me was myself and the streets
I thought I was da only one bro I’m 14 lost my dad last year ever since den I just been angry and pushing everyone away ion niggas yo feel bad doe bc nigaas go through way worse but ghost u a real one💯
I can relate to you lowkey I know my dad but he wasn’t there for me when I was 13 until now because he had a lot of personal shit going on with him and I was a rebellious young nigga, I had uncles and cousins that only ever talked to me but I didn’t want to listen. I salute the niggas that grew up without a dad and got shit without guidance
Sometimes I forget how lucky I am to grow up with a father.. don’t know what I would do without him I salute u ghost for making it out on the right side without a dad👏🏾👏🏾 must’ve been rough
I grew up with a father be he didn't treated very well Same as my mother so I don't know what's worse Growing up with a single mom or growing up with Two parents who don't respect or love you at all
Aye bruhh i 👏for you its tough to talk about this by any means to anyone!🙃 you helpn kids feel better by doing that an its the start of real HEALING of humanity an mother earth
I knew other people could relate to living without a father I just had to see it. mine left when I was born so I never had that guidance and I’m struggling to find that guidance if that makes since? Almost cried watching this.
Is it just me or does nobody notice this nigga ghost podcast cutting off early I must’ve missed some shit cuz today my first day on this channel done subscribed and been watching every video and also wassup wit the vlogs we ain’t doin those no more ghost 👀😂
Luckily I had mine growing up. Parents was teens when they met had us in they 30s. That's the real problem. I notice the younger people have kids the higher the chance of it not working out. I blame the parents. Them women know the "man" ain't shit when they open they legs. Word of advice dont have kids with someone unless you been with them 10 plus.
The fathers need to step up and take care of the kids just as much as the mothers need to pick good fathers for their children. Don’t put all the blame on the mothers. When it comes to single parent homes, men are usually the ones who abandon the kids.
Ever seen I was little I would wonder why my dad wouldn’t be home and if he did come home he would go straight too the tv and if I go up too tall to him he’ll ignore me as a 8 year old it made me mad and being a kid it was really difficult and now as a grow man it showed me what not too do as a father and then seeing my friends have a good relationship with there dad it kills me a lil bit everytime
