DNA testing kits: Family secrets revealed 

Me too🤣

I am the third person kkkkk And watching from Africa- Mozambique

I find this stuff intriguing as well

@@chichi6796 finally someone that understands

No not at all. I love watching them too.

I enjoyed it too, got me a bit emotional. His dad was a real one indeed, taking in another mans baby a mixed raced baby at that in those days. Beautiful! ❤

I hope you find healing and peace in this life.

One of my friends said something profound. She said that she had a much better relationship with her father after he died.

Keri Oh ☹️

Same. 100%

Keri Monaco Your father doesn’t define you. Prayers for healing. 🙏🏼❤️

paul hoskin or you’re related to Donald Trump

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If he’s dead the moneys all gone momma

That's the dream 😂✊🏻

And I'm you sister, whom you adore. :-)

It's amazing to me that rape is never mentioned as a possibility in this type of story.

Thank you very much for sharing this story. Love from Germany, Andrea 🥰

Amen to both of you

It is not the child's fault.

@ThatOneAsianBroChick Especially if a man is paying maintenance for a child/ children who are not his. I'm sure there was a court case a few years ago in England. Where a man sued his ex for obtaining money by deception.

The child is the most important person here. Having a father, not being genetically related.

@@Talletc I agree but sadly the children who he thought was his rejected him when he sued their mother for deception . If that would have been my biological mum I would have sided with the stepdad.

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Lol 😂

No cheating, no secrets, no worries.

Such a beautiful response!!! :)

I think it is actually sad. Let people have their secrets!

I' m glad is that way now!!! Let the truth go!!!

​@@mrsTraveller64Secrets ruin people's lives. Everyone needs to know who their biological father is.

Unfortunately, I think rape would be an all too common explanation as well.

The mom likely had an affair with a Nigerian. What is crazy is that he genuinely looks like his "adoptive" father !!!!

Some serious self-deception in that family

The same way that most Dominicans deny they have any African ancestry 🤣

Funny enough, I have an acquaintance who identifies as African-American. He is actually 100% Indian.

It happens a lot in the States that fully grown, otherwise quite savvy individuals believe they are “Italian” but they are in fact multiracial, usually African up north or the vague “puerto rican” down here in Florida (I knew an entire, QUITE obviously Black family who claimed to be white hispanic; that desire for “passing” stems from the racist history here). Still others could have Sicilian extraction and not understand how much Black is in their heritage. Most of us have pretty firm ideas of who we are established from birth by our families, and that belief penetrates the cellular level. Finding out something different can be utterly mind blowing.

In Italy it's easy. Remember that Africans have been in Italy since the Roman Republic, and the interaction has been continuous since then. Remember Othello? Obviously African presence in Italy was common enough in 1500 for that play to make sense to a British audience. Being a throwback wouldn't be that unlikely, especially when the child was younger.

they have the same mother so they should look something a like anyway dork!

Gillette Razor Crybabies Fear Womens Power I wanna know what happened to you to make you like this

I was thinking that the mother may have picked the husband BECAUSE he looked like her baby daddy .... it's not only men that have a "type" they prefer.

Mama Vee tho less likely

I'd say the majority of us have the experience of being boringly normal in this regard ... lol ...

It can be done or it can come out years later one of those babies is the “milkman” and sometimes the brother in laws baby. I’ve heard it all. Women have affairs and outside marital babies, men aren’t the only cheaters.

DNA testing revealed a few things to my family. We all suspected our grandfather may biologically not be our grandfather. He's been gone since 1979 and just last year we learned he wasn't via a family ancestor DNA site. Also I always felt my daughter, who I raised, was mine from a failed relationship with her mother , but I was never 100% . When my daughter did her DNA I was kind of holding my breath. Fortunately her results showed my sisters daughter as her 1st cousin, so I knew then she was my daughter. It would not have mattered to me if she wasn't, but then she would have become curious who her biological father was, and I'm so glad to not have to live that chapter. Yet another DNA revelation Was with my aunts. I had 3 of them. One of them was so odd and differently looking from anyone in the family that we truly wondered if she had been switched in the hospital. She was kind of crazy too and her son was eventually taken and she was committed. Turns out, through DNA that she WAS our aunt :)

the ancestry part is still in progress.. your matches are 100 percent right.

They’re 99.9%.The thing is some families unfortunately have secrets.Infidelity,adoption etc.

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Try to find a way to look for the good in them because once they die you might regret it. Only speaking from experience. I always wanted to punish my mom instead of forgiving her.

@@janicescott7338 - I hear what you are saying-and I agree. The relationship isn’t so drowned in contempt as it was. However, we remain distant.

@@janicescott7338 I wish my father wasn't my father....he is dead and I still wish it 🐨

@@CelysRebornBabies I know, some of the trauma we go through is awful and never goes away. Especially when the perpetrator never showed they were sorry or asked for forgiveness. Just remember our Heavenly Father will never leave us. And he will deal with the evil ones.

Not true.....just watched a vid where the “mother” swore up and down that the “daughter” was hers, turned out the “daughter” was her sister’s child.

This is why African societies relied on matrilineal descent lines. The king's sister's son was the next king, not the king's son.

@@k.c1126 yes, some tribes in Ghana do this as well.

@dkfca I am very familiar with Italy and how they look and there is no way he looks Italian. Even in the photograph with his adoptive father, he looks obviously half black to anyone who can see. He just kind of glossed over his DNA results of being half African like it was nothing. Maybe it is too hurtful to deal with it now, but even his daughter knows what the deal is. No need to be ashamed of being black.

@Stephen Murphy No doubt about that that father/son bonds are strong but you don't need to be ashamed or embarrassed of who you are.

Italy has a history of close ties to Africa dating back to Roman times. The throwback idea is not as far-fetched as it might seem.

We can only account for our own behaviours. You could still pop up as a step mom 🤷🏻‍♀️

Yes!! Glad someone said it!

If she breathes she a thot.

@Wendy Jones It was a joke.

@@Womberto you are too but you're not funny either

@@felixkatzler94 an abusive male is his own worst enemy!

A lot of people are actually quite interested in the grand and great-grand parents, especially if they never had an opportunity to meet / know them. It's a connectivity thing.

Knowing your dad is your dad doesn’t mean he or your mom didn’t have secret children outside their marriage

Dad's lie is the truth, just not the whole truth, which is "Joe" is short for Joanna, or Josephine, or Jolene"....

I would say go for it, do the test, find your father. With the cousins it can be an opportunity to practice maintaining your boundaries. Knowing the truth, even about your maternal side is empowering.

Ged match

You should take the test.

Since you are looking at this video and wondering if you should, then you really DO want to know for sure. I didn't find out that the person claiming to be my dad WASN'T until I was nine. I couldn't figure out WHY he HATED me so much until my sister told me that he was our step-dad!

Yes, you should take the test friend; maybe someone you know could use their credit card for you and simply pay them before using. Just a thought; however, you should take the test. You might find some really loving and sincere relatives who might be looking for you.

Go to the drug store and buy a prepaid card - Visa/MasterCard/American express - only put the amount you need plus $10, that way you don't have to worry about theft.

Put very simply, they look at how many of your genes match & if the number of matching genes is enough to confirm your relationship. However, it's a very complex process, which is too complex to explain in a comment. You would learn more from a video from one of the DNA testing websites like Ancestry or 23 and Me.

hfredydl trust no thot. If she breathes she a thot.

Bingo.

That's what slavery and abuse of women and girls causes so every abusive beta male has it coming to him and double if he's a cheater and worse if he's a sexual predator!! Most of those guys had it coming or they knew the kid wasn't theirs?

@@lostinpa-dadenduro7555 betta get those dna tests beta bitches! I bet you are NOT the fathers!!

Miss. King Emery well chance is they are in majortiy of cases but playing russian roulette with a lunatic feminist and a loaded 1911 aint fair game.

Sometimes the DNA test shows that what seems to be "obvious" difference is actually not a difference at all. I keep thinking about the "mixed race" twins, one white and one black, whose mothers have been constantly accused of stepping out on their men. Looks can't tell the whole story ...

@@k.c1126 if you are a mixed race twin and you follow one or the other parent that is absolutely normal, but to look like an African and your parents try to convince you, your just a throw back it's cruel and messing with the child's mind, in this film the daughter seems more accepting than the father which is a shame,

@@namiin3034 I understand where you are coming from, but I'm also thinking about a case in South Africa, back during the time of Apartheid, when a girl born to white parents, with a white sibling, was "obviously" black. They didn't know what to do with her. Eventually she left her family and moved to live with overtly black people. Later she was able to conduct some research which uncovered the fact that her father's great-grandmother was a full African of, IIRC, Namibian descent (I could be wrong about the Namibian part). Apparently the grandfather was passed as white by the great-grandfather. The girl was a throwback. All I'm saying is that it wasn't an impossibility to look African in an Italian context while having two white appearing parents. And the emotional injury to the child, stigmatized as he likely would have been as an illegitimate child, would possibly have been as great. I think the father is struggling with the entire concept of his beloved father not being his birth father as much as with the idea that he is of African descent genealogically.... not to mention the fact that his mother never said anything about it to him. I'd expect the daughter to be less stressed because she is a child of a different generation with some very different perspectives on race, ethnicity and heritage.

@@k.c1126 a case of the sins of the father/ mother etc., he was lucky to have loving parents even if they didn't tell him the truth, I think I remember the South African story that's a whole other kettle of fish, you have generations of hiding blackness or whites abandoning their children if they came out a shade darker and could not pass, even worse in Americas deep south.

Ancestry has the biggest database of people who have tested, so there is a greater chance of matches.

You can get one test done and then upload to several sites. I did ancestry and uploaded file to FTDNA.

Can't judge, you have no idea the circumstances. How many illegitimate babies were the result of abuse or rape, back in 40s 50s 60s there was no way to resolve that legally.

YoshiPeach Mario he’s going bald like William so maybe they’re related after all

Yeah he sticks out pretty bad

Heatley Noble - no need, just racial insults.

ThatOneAsianBroChick your sick.. lol that would be insane.

Heatley Noble maybe that’s why their letting him leave the royals? Cuz he’s not really one of them

Italy has a history of close ties to Africa dating back to Roman times. The throwback idea is not as far-fetched as it might seem.