DO I STAY OR LEAVE? Long Distance Relationship: Entanglement |  

Long Distance Relationship!!! Do you STAY or LEAVE??? #RegoDise #FamBam

Dise crying when his women was in tears was a beautiful moment💯😭♥️

As a young person who is currently in a 6-year+ courtship LDR, I cannot stress the important of prayer!! So many battles in the relationship )and otherwise) are won when you and your partner are on your knees. Don’t think you can do it without God because that’s just fooling yourself. Try to spend as much time with each other as possible. I only see my partner once or twice a year at most but when we are together we make sure we create memories to last us until our next meeting. Also, communicate!!! Be very honest about where you are emotionally and spiritually. If you no longer feel like you want to be in the relationship, be honest and don’t string your partner along. Do fun things together over video calls. Cook with each other, pray together and do devotions together, play games together , etc. tThings don’t have to be boring just because you’re miles apart Lastly, remember that this is your relationship. The two of you are the only ones that can make it work or destroy it. God bless

My bf and i have been in a long distance relationship for about 5years, i am based in Capetown and he is in Limpopo. We communicate all the time however i think this lockdown has really been hard on us since we last saw each other in Jan, last week he went on a camp where phones are only allowed for an hour, one day a week. He will be back at the end of August 😭. I keep myself busy with work, watching our videos, looking at our pictures , sending him messages (he will see them when he opens his phone) and talking to my family. I stay away from situations that may get me into entanglements 🤣🤣, and its all worth it!!!

I can’t imagine you two with anyone else apart from each other. I’m happy you went all the way

If you really love someone you can manger long distance relationship ❤️

The crying part guys 🥺😩❤️

So me and my partner have been together for 4yrs and 7months. Our relationship has always been a distance relationship from the beginning. I’m in Dubai and he lives in SA. Before this pandemic we would see each other twice or three times a month since I’m a F.A. mind you sometimes I’m just on duty so I stay 24 hrs in SA but man when you have found the one, it’s worth it. We have learnt to be patient and not worry ourselves about when are we gonna see each other again. We communicate all the time and with the time difference, sometimes I fly to a country where SA is 8 or 10 hrs ahead/behind but we make it happen. We are so honest to each other and we always talk about our feelings in fact we talk about EVERYTHING. We have not seen each other since March before lockdown and this is the only time we really feeling this distance ( We miss that physical touch) but it has made us to connect even more. My boyfriend is one person who has been keeping me sane during this time. Our relationship has been amazing in terms of distance. Respect, Loyalty, Honesty, Communication are the key to a distance relationship.

I actually prefer long distance relationship. So I'm definitely staying🙂🙂🙂

Hubby and I were in a long distance relationship for three years, two years dating and one year while we were married. We kinda became pros at it until the we tied the knot, after that I couldn't deal. During the first two years we really grew though because talking on the phone for a minimum of one hour on the phone builds a connection and depth that I would never trade. Thank you so much for the transparency and proving that long distance (with an end date)can be done , it's not the end of the world.

Haaa this was a good episode. I'm in a LDR, been in it since day one. Now we are married and he's planning on moving to where I live. Unfortunately with this pandemic, a lot is on hold and has affected the process of him coming. We have been married for over a year now. So we know where we are going, but it does get hard at times because we miss each other etc. Thank God for WhatsApp but still... presence is better. What keeps us going is Praying together♡ very very important and also involving each other in most of our day to day plans. So yes, communication is key. Finally, we watch Netflix together via WhatsApp and read books then discuss. We've been reading the book of Daniel and Revelation, that has kept us busy for weeks . Also read 'Benefits of Love making in Marriage, Trevor Noah's book, Love languages, Gabrielle Union's book, The alchemist, Deep work, Mindset etc

Stop crying Rego, he is all yours.🥰🥰

I really don’t mind long distance relationship as long as we get to see each other at least twice a month. Definitely stay ❤️

Love, respect, communication, transparency and faithfulness is so important in a long distance relationship

I caught feelings in that crying session 😭😭😭

She cried 🥺😭❤ I love you guys. " Distance does not separate people, silence does" true!🤞

I’m in a long distance relationship right now where we’re in different countries and what I’ve found to work really well for us is compromising , in terms of time zones and sacrificing time with friends because you know that’s when he’ll be available etc, and also communicating!!! Like Rego said , being honest about how you feel and especially when you’re feeling it. Putting conversations off for later puts a lot of unnecessary strain on a relationship. So i would say learning to compromise and communicating honestly are what really help to build a long distance relationship.

Communication and transparency.....ain't nothing as true as that. Y'all are truly God sent I mean I most certainly resonate with everything your experience and also your advice they are just spot on.❤❤❤❤❤

I love the transparency and raw honesty between Rogo and Dise ❤

"I would have lost you" 😭😭😭😢ohhh my

I haven't seen my man since September but with communication the loneliness is eased definitely 💓

Aww! you guys.. i literally cried with Rego. I know exactly how hectic it can get because i was in one until last year when God decided to bring me closer to my partner. #newsubbie over here #Botswana represented

Guys don't do this to us...you know we will cry with you...Dise, your love for for your wife is so tangible...I feel it through the screen...from how you look at her to your little touches...may God cover you and protect your marriage...you remain in my prayers. I love you guys.

Your love story is exactly what has happened between my boyfriend and I, like from first when you didn't know you would be where you are right now. We are not married yet because I'm still studying and we are in a long distance relationship but we have grown, accepted and understood and still understanding our relationship and the love we have for each other. Truly we are where we are because of this distance it has shown us how much we don't want to loose each other and how much we love each other, love conquers all and communication is one of the best foundation. I love you guys may God bless and help you

You guys are so genuine 😭😭😭🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Long distance relationships are so so painful. I think it has its people. I feel like I’m not One of them but when you love someone, when you’re serious and have intentions, it’s worth it

Reason y I joined fam Bam was e fact that u both cute, e way u look at each other , e stability u both have n most importantly s e fact that ur God fearing couples, ur tears make me cry too knowing well loosing someone u love is just painful, love u guys

Long distance relationship is hard work really, especially when base in two different countries! Only love, honesty, respect & trust works..

I just found your channel and more specifically this video and I believe God wanted me to see it in order to give me some courage. I’m in a LDR marriage. I just got married in December 2019 and I haven’t been able to see my husband since then and I’m so sad. And lately it’s been even harder, I’ve just been really really really sad. So I’ve been working a lot to keep my mind elsewhere. We’re going through the immigration process right now and I know it’s in God’s hands, that’s the only thing keeping me sane. Anyway, thank you for your video and your honesty

I wish you guys where my parents, you would set such a great example of love in a marriage not just marriage but love formed in different types of relationships ❤❤ I love you guys so much

Kim lives in JHB and Tevin in pta. It was a lot easier for us to see each other cause it’s only an hours drive. But since the beginning of lockdown, things have been hard because of the restrictions on travel and obviously COVID, since we both still live at home and we don’t want to bring danger into our home. It’s been hard. We’ve broken up a few times during the lockdown😂 but we’re in a better place now. Communication is important when you’re on a LDR. We believe that speaking at least once a day makes things better. Speak about how you feel. Be compassionate to each other

Have been in a long distance relationship for 6 years now and sometimes its hard physically touch is needed sometimes 😓😓 but communication is key

Awww when Rego got teary 🥺🥺this was a beautiful video. Long distance relationships are a lot of work but it can work out if there’s good communication

I believe it depends on how serious you guys are about each other. Long distance relationships are not easy at all but they are possible. If both of you keep the end goal in mind then it can be a success, regardless of the challenges. ♥️

You do stay. As long you guys communicate and understand the situation and your partner I have been in a long distance relationship for six years. We are still strong and keeping it. But it gets hard

Awwww the pure love and affections here😭🫂🥰

"I would have lost you " 🥺🥺🥺🥺

nompumelelo simelane It’s so beautiful when Rego cries🥺 picturing life without the person who’s your forever right now...must be hard. This was a such a great video. I’m in a long distance relationship and we’re in different counties right now and it’s shed a lot of light for me, especially the taking time out and really thinking about how long the distance is going to last and t’s&c’s 😅.

I haven't seen my boyfriend since October 2019 so I need this

This here is what we call true love. I've learnt that forgiveness is a promise, not a feeling. When you forgive other people, you are making a promise never to use their past sins against them. I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, it is so not easy but because we are both so madly in love with each other and most importantly we treat each other like children of God. That's just keeps us going. Thanks for sharing❤️🙏🏾

Woow am INSPIRED by you guys am in a long distance relationship right now past 2yrs when God is in the midst everything is just moving well the love is strong and we are expecting to get married soon God willing.... you guys are Amazing ❤❤❤❤

I haven’t seen my fiancé for four years now, he is in Nigeria and they have been declining him visa, so this year we decided that I should go Nigeria and get married there. And then Boom Lockdown. But we put our trust in Jehovah that this year maybe in November or December I will be able to go. We have not even made love because we need to get married first, it is not easy but we love each other too much....

I refer long distance relationship. ....am definitely staying God will see us through

I love how you two are so honest, it's really beautiful FamBam. Intentions are very important especially at the beginning of the relationship, they are the why behind the what; like you said Rego, relationships have their own ups and downs and I feel that at the end of day as a couple people must hold each other accountable for their intentions. Oh my Rego, I felt it when you shed a some tears🥺🥺😭😭 Much love FamBam ❤❤❤❤ #FamBam #RegoDise

I am in a long distance relationship.. Different countries and it's really hard right now but I will not give up... He is the best I ever had

Ncoooo I love you guys ❤️ I can see the love you have for each other’s. God must protect you always ❤️❤️❤️

I'm in a long distance relationship. I can't wait til we can look back and be like it helped us with this and that 😂 😩😩

That amen 17:57 hit the soul.

I'm super single right now. My short lived long distance "relationships" never worked..the cake was not part of the deal..so it grew cold and later vanished. .and the other was not really faithful. I love you guys and I love your stories. . That was a very cute and emotional moment Rego😢😍

Wow babe your love is really deep for your men when the tears start coming and u still laugh to prevent the tears from falling I felt u❤🌹

When Rego cried💔😭😭😭. I felt it💕💕🖤🖤. Much love🖤

For the longest time I've beeeeeeeen waiting to call things off with mans because I'm longing for physical touch. The cheating temptation is there I won't lie but I genuinely love this man. After watching this I feel more confident about the relationship and I'll put suggestions forward on how we can keep the flame burning and also speak more about my emotions

Iyho. Did I not start crying when Rego started crying?!!!😢😭. I love you guys so much and I pray that God continues to bless your marriage 😢😭💞

Your love is soo beautiful... I love the honesty of your relationship... ❤️Thank you guys..... I nearly shed a tear.

I don't mind long distance relationships, it all depends on the effort from both parties and its very important to communicate

I swear I shed a tear when Rego started crying. Theeee cutest😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

I once did long distance in the UK and CPT, different relationships at different times. Mark me absent, give me zero mam. Future bae must live down the road, lol.

Why did my eyes start being teary, when Rego started to cry oh my word 😭❤️❤️❤️

☘️: That mini crying moment was a beautiful one😊🙈❤ I don't mean to be forward or anything neh, but before getting married were you guys in a celibate relationship?

I love you guys 💖. I downloaded the video for my bf to see. We're both students and I personally think you've said enough to convince him and I that the time we've spent together is important n we can't let go of all our memories over Distance. He thinks n believes that our relationship will be over once I move away after this lockdown. Things are easy now coz we live nearby, we doing online learning n I sneak out to go see him 3 times in a week. So it's crazy young love but you two are beautiful. Your love is undoubtedly true and real. And there is God... May you grow n may God bless you. I can't wait for your ten year anniversary celebration n many many more anniversaries to come. You give me hope and light. Thank you. ❤

you guys are sweet and crying really shows the closeness OMG i pray i find sm1 who im gonna do the same with luv u guys

I was in a long distance relationship for 5 full years.The toughest time.We loved each other so much.Finally,we are in the same province and with each other most of the time.

If there is one couple that speaks to me it has to be Regodise ❤️ guys I love u. I shed a tear when Rego cried. #TheMostRevelentCoupleToMe🥰😘

Goals !!! That's what you guys are to me😍

When the relationship has God behind it nothing can end 😢

Long distance isn't so bad if u have a supportive and understanding man one who communicates and loves you truly 💓 #TEAM Stay

Am in a long relationship Botswana/uk taking it easy talking everyday eases the pain,but waiting for this lockdown to go then i hit the road.

I’m gonna stop watching you guys if you gonna make me cry like this! 🥺🥺🥺

I came across this channel by chance lol and its funny how you mentioned teaching in Asia, I am in a long distance relationship and I stay in South Korea, my boyfriend also stays in South Korea but we are 2 hours away from each other, we take turns visiting each other. Its not easy and our relationship is fairly new, its always bitter when its time to leave...

You guys really love each other.

First time watching you guys😍😍😍you are both sooo pretty 🥰🥰 Im right now in a long distance relationship 😪it’s been an year now I don’t see my husband waiting for immigration reopening the visa center 🥺

The long distance relationship is not easy but somehow it teach us and see the absence of someone you love ,it could teach us and makes us realize that we love this person ...but cheating isn't a solution for a long distance relationship

My boyfriend is going overseas once the pandemic is over. It's tough! But it would be very selfish of me not to allow him to follow his dreams. He reassures me everyday that we'll be fine, we'll chat, call and video call. I really pray we survive. Thank you for this fam bam🙏❤️

I’ve been in a long distance relationship for a year now and we’ve always had a plan on how we can be in each other space more and time frame as well. Communication and trust is key (not stalking your partner) We are finally moving in together. Sacrifices were made because love conquers all

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Found this video at the right time you guys make me see what life could be like once we make it through this stage in our relationship 🥺💔 havent seen my partner of 4 years since January was supposed to go back to SA but covid hit the UK badly.. it feels surreal and its sucks but The relationship is worth it though not a day goes by that we dont speak❤

Notification gang✅ ❤❤❤

It’s even harder when u in a new relationship where u don’t really kno each other that well. Been a relationship for a year got engaged Nd we only see each other twice a year,for a month each tym We spend most of the tym on video calls It gets soo hard that sometyms all u wana do is hold ur partner or be held Sometyms I get so caught up that when I’m home I wana see family Nd frnds Nd at the end of the day u just end up not spending enough tym together Trust issues arise Sometimes u feel like prayer isn’t enough when it gets harder But hey when the love is there one will just hold on It’s not easy It’s not

you wont lose him Rego❤❤❤ He's right there. HUG❤

Love is a beautiful thing♥️❤️ May God bless your union guys♥️❤️

Oh I love you so much guys ♥️.. I could have lost you part also made me cry.. Look at you guys love is beautiful

I used to think it will work best for me until I was in it. It didn't help that the guy was not willing to make the investment. I couldn't shame, I walked away as much as I loved him so much.

I love this video infact I am very proud of you two I was married Saperated for 6years now and in a long distance relationship it's really hard and it's killing not having someone just to kiss you or hug you for 6 years

Long distance relationships are very challenging. Things are still smooth in the first few months kodwa as time goes on the communication fades away. But I would definitely stay😌 and be honest and transparent as Rego said rather than straying someone along while you entertaining other human beings.

Its evident that you're both very much in love with each other. God bless your marriage!💕

The background music fambam 😍❤😭

I love the fact that you guys pay attention to FamBam 🥺❤️

It has been difficult to be away from my partner for more than 3 months but we are hanging in there. My advice to other people is to keep on communicating regularly

Ncooo when she cried, I felt it❤

Yoh I'd definitely leave mna I can't bekezela a long distance relationship. But yeah people are not the same man, we handle situations differently

Man I here you. I felt that. Left Swaziland in 2017-2018 to Cameroon. I left my girl and we did try to communicate...and it was hard and I asked her that we take a break. We did and after a month she cheated on me. I said baby lets talk when I come back home. Came back 2018 and I had to leave again. I still love her though shes dating another guy. And we had this, we really felt it when we still at varsity. I get you guys.

I don't know how many times I've watched this ❤️❤️❤️ I really love you guys. You inspire me 😍

I can relate so much to this. My partner and I battled last year when I was on an audit in Pretoria for 6 months 😩. We really struggled because we see each other everyday. Now we have the same situation as you guys because the maximum I’m away due to work is now a week. But love conquers all ❤️

Abit off topic but can you guys do a cover just to let us know how , url handle fights and keep your relationship healthy . Much love for you guys ♥️

Ncaaaaaaw Rego bathong😢❤️ I thought Modise was going to join you with some tears as well😂

Supposedly letting go is difficult and there’s no chance that you’ll be seeing your partner soon and you miss them badly but you don’t even know when you can meet again.. what can one do?

I cried with Rego there🤣🤦‍♀️OMG I’m so bad. Love you guys ❤️

Wow your love for each other guys wow 😍♥️.... Fara God WhatsApp Regodise’s prayers were Lord I copy and paste🤣

I'm away from the Queen of my heart since October 2019. I miss her so bad and every second is a long nightmare. It is very hard for her too because our love is so magical and strong but I'm in another country to build our future, I'm here looking for a better financial situation.. the most difficult for me is that people around her want her to breakup with me but she still fighting for us...I need God's help because I can't see the future without her😞

I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend since 2015 but he cheated on me twice ,but l forgave him we good now n all the things you guys mentioned happened now l learnt to be strong from you guys