Do Men Really Want to Fall In Love with One Woman? Christian Keyes Does. | Dear Future Wifey E623 

I felt that deep in my spirit

I have heard this before and I didn't understand it then but I do now.

mmmmmm Selah

Unrealistic!! No relationship can feel like an holiday. Relationships requires hard work to stay together. This man is not ready to marry any woman

THIS 🤎

Girl, I would walk on hot coals for a man like this.

Agreed

This ladies

That kind of a man is what I would call "the love of my life", make room on those coals for me, I would want on them too. Trying to out do each other doing good things for each other. Yes😊

Now this is real love! Indeed! I’ll be on those coals too

He keeps saying that without giving credit to Essence Atkins who was on this channel and said it. If you watch her interview on here, she was the one who expressed that about her own life and being famous. In all fairness, he really should be saying “as my friend, Essence Atkins once said here .....”

Only a prophet can’t speak such beautiful language! 😂🙌🏾😊

Christian said this which I still remember, “May take me longer because I’m dragging my integrity with me!” Wisdom! ⭕️

It’s the fact that he says it and means it. We quote ppl all the time without saying who said it first. Sometimes we find fault in things great.🙃

I literally just said that when I saw the thumb nail!🙂

This was a great podcast Christian is the whole package for a "Real Woman" Bless you both our Black Kings ❤

Ann, yes!!!!

He needs to come find me! I need to marry this man

Yes, I agree 💯

I 💯💯‼️‼️ agree with you!!!

That's what kind of man that I need in my life a man that knows what he wants in life ❤❤

FACTS‼️‼️‼️‼️

God will bless his heart, that future wife is being prepared for him❤

@@areyoufreeenough1372 yes God is definitely preparing his future wife indeed!! They are both being prepared for each other. God bless their future marriage🙏🏾🙏🏾

You are truly praying for.you daily keep going Eps Man pray 4me also Konnie

Both Blessed

That was an ah-ha statement for sure

I felt that too. I’m still a hopeful romantic too!!!

He lead me to look up what is the meaning of home. What I found he said now apply that to your husband. That’s how it should feel. Sense of peace, comfort, safety, loved, accepted, etc.

I agree

And these are the people that the industry doesn't allow to make it. Sad but I absolutely love him.

Hello, my sister in Christ. I'm so proud of you for being abstinent 16yrs! That's truly encouraging to me. I've been abstinent 10yrs. I look forward to the day when God blesses me with my Boaz. I pray that he will send Boaz to you & your daughters as well. God bless.🙏🏽

He gives off that energy in his movies as well.

Pearl, me too Been single now for 8 years , suffered an abusive marriage for 11 years. such conversations gives you hope

Ya’ll DO EXIST‼️ TGBTG‼️🙌🏾

Amen I don't blame him for being very particular because it's lot woman's just want be with a man because he successful but don't want to be committed

Have you found your right person yet.

As a woman who is embracing her fears and vulnerabilities and loves to learn, to grow and to transform her life, her organization and the world, it is nice to be reminded that whole Black men are willing to embrace the imperfectly, perfect me in a mutually accountable, authentic and reciprocal loving relationship. Thank you for doing the work to being your fullest selves.

Correct

Amen people always say men's look like him are dog well that's a lie because seeing this interview going change lot people minds because can't judge a book by his cover he definitely is a husband mati

He is very low key and quiet

50 is not too old! You deserve the man God has for you.. Never Settle! I’ll be 50 In October and refuse to settle!

I'm 63, and I almost settled at age 60. But I'd rather be alone than settle. He ended the relationship, and after I got past the hurt, I had to thank God.

You definitely cannot settle now. You’ve got skin in the game. Why would you? Don’t let them put you on the mark down shelf.

Yes....Im 55 and I will not settle...Praise the Lord! Plus Im TOO BEAUTIFUL😊😊😊😊

Thank you all. Trust I wasn’t raised to be on anyone’s mark down shelf. Being single at 50 hasn’t tainted my view of Love and Marriage. What God has for me has always been for me. This episode just proves me right. Men do desire just one woman to love 💗

I believe now that light skinned men are soft and compassionate.

😂😂😂😂😂😂 I am not saying anything about this😊😅

all of this👏👏👏👏👏

@@olanikeshamonda73 right😁😁

Yesss to all of this 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

Hellyez

Very much so !!!!

This right here is it Glory to God

Amen!!! Amen!! Future kingdom couple that will encourage and inspire so many!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

@@seedofabraham0149 Hello, where??? Inquiring minds want to know 😊

Amen 🙏🏼 amen

@@seedofabraham0149 I never said I didn’t know this I’ve seen good men. I clearly simply said thank you for showing it because sometimes good women get discouraged 🫤 because good men are hard for some of us to find.

I agree. It’s truly encouraging.

I ENDORSED WHAT YOU SAY SIS..I LIKE HONESTY🤭😘LOVE IT 💝❤‍🩹❣💯

Wow! Thank you so much

My pleasure to give you your flowers! I cover your anointing and your heart….because “oh the places you’re about to go.

Which is important, you need healthy conversation to pour into you before that desired husband arrives.

I like this post. Very creative, sweet and genuine, Lil Sis! ❤

Daaaaag Christian is all pushing 5 0 and he looks as fresh as he did bk in the day! Must be all that PT and massages or sumtin’😂

Amen

Thank you so much!

I'm glad you joined ☺️

Welcome to the family Dr Renee 🥳

@@gwendolynhawkins5704 I appreciate that. Thanks!

@@SimplyKea Thank you for the warm welcome.

A teachable spirit

Amen I'm with you on this.

Love it 😂

RIGHT!!!!🎉🙌🏾

Facts!

God's timing is key. I'm 50 and still single. People ask me why I'm single and I tell them because God is doing a work in me. I used to choose men like my father (long story) but by the grace of God I've committed myself to be the Bride of Christ. I'm staying outta the players club. 😂 God has more for me. I feel like Ester. I was made for a time such as this.

Amen

DC baabby!!🙌🏿

Wanda…. Do you mind me bringing something up?

No please do

Thank you Wanda for being open to a comment. I truly hope I did not interpret your response improperly, but something came to mind after reading your response. Forgive me, but I’m not sure of your age…if you are in a relationship or if you want to be in a long standing relationship…But I did want to lend my 2cents. It may enlighten. It may not. Despite what we think and or believe as women, men are created so differently. Men do not feel, hope, believe and think as we do. Men come from a different space, place and have a different mental process when it comes to doing things in general. The saying Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus is so true. There are key differences between men and women in how we think, act & communicate so to say you hope he observes and want to do…in many cases, does not come naturally. In Some cases, perhaps. Being instinctive is often not in their make up, so that’s not a good measure of whether your man loves or cares for you. What’s in your mind is often not in his. God made us to be their help mates. We are their companions & helper. We think like women…We are nurturing, caring, thoughtful & a bit softer. Men are very simplistic. Protection and provision often comes natural, but they often need guidance when it comes to everything about us, so communication is very important. That goes for every area of the relationship. He’s not going to be able to always figure out what’s wrong or what’s needed & It’s not that he does not care…it’s just not his thing. This is where you come in. I’ve been married for 35 years & It took me a long time to learn this. Through reading, observing the married couples in my life and being disappointed here and there, I changed the way of relating to my husband. Men will not read our minds and they certainly do not think like us. I now communicate a lot. I write shot notes. I have a white board. I create a honey do list, Send texts and make sure I communicate my wants & needs. This way, he’s able to know exactly what I need. He’s happy and I am. Ive learned also to leave space for him to be a man & do his man things even though I could do them for myself. Trust me, I thought the exact same way you did in the beginning of our relationship, but after a few years of disappointment, I got a clue & it has helped immensely.

Thank you, I am a mature woman who has dated two different type of men. One was very observant and a man who didn’t pay attention to details at all, because of his selfishness. Pending aware that Man. Depending on we’re that man is in life it is possible for him to be very attentive because you matter. However, a man that has a motive which are selfish, I could see where you are coming from. Just because I’m requesting for the man to be observant. I’m not inclined to deal with the selfish man. Congratulations on 35 years of marriage you’ve been you’ve been through the peaks and valleys and now is your opportunity to rest in the fullness of the love in your marriage hallelujah!

@@jyotitaylor7022 I agree with some of what you stated and appreciate your sharing it. My question is, how are male boys achieving the traits you described, if they are only raised by females. The average black male child is born into a single parent households. How are the roles effected when so many black boys are fatherless during their youth, and struggle during adulthood?