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But later the tarot says they do miss you , your energy and the way you make them feel but they don’t know how to love healthily and apparently neither do you. The reader said something like “the blind leading the blind”.
Pile 2❤ extended confirmed exactly what I thought - he realized his feelings too late now I’m disgusted by the emotional immaturity. He can reconcile with this block button. Thanks for the closure!
@@violetmoon141ofc the extended was quite different than this reading bc I think it pulled their facade of “friend zoning” and playing games versus them being regretful and realizing their feelings…
I chose pile 2 and it really resonated with me. I watched it last night and woke up to being BLOCKED by this man. Guys i have never been blocked by a guy what is this 😭😭😭😭
pile 1. the last time i cried from a reading was years and years ago. your words are still ringing in my ears and vibrating my heart and soul. i have never felt such an accurate reading and i believe the word accurate doesn't do your work justice. there needs to be a whole new word in the dictionary for your readings. i can not thank you enough for how deeply this reading has healed me allowed me to detach. with peace and love
wow. This is too accurate??? Like i know it’s a pick a card general reading but still, it felt like you were doing a reading FOR me. You’re amazing. You’re so fricking talented like everything was on point it’s crazy i’m amazeddd😭
This was one of the no BS no fluff to the point readings I ve heard so far. I need to hear the truth even if it sucks. This was so accurate! I appreciate what you do and you do it so well❤. Pile 2 was so cut right thru, so true. Your the best 🙏🙏🙏
“Following your heart isn’t ever wrong” 37:10 thank you for saying that and for your reading💛🕰️ I will also do my best to remember the whys of what happened 💐🌷🌼
1: Since he didn’t admit to emotions in the past, that’s improvement, but I think you’re right that he has a lot to learn about handling emotions. We trigger each other terribly. We both have abandonment wounds.
Huge respect on the way you focused on us the querents and taking us accountable. In a relationship, it's not all about the other person... It's not all about how they are feeling. Our actions play a part in the situation we are both in. I very rarely come across a reader that states that. Subbed ❤
Pile 2, yup friend zoned the connection when I talked about getting back together again but, to be frank.. still wanted to have “relations” with me. Very closed off to a relationship .. last time I spoke, I told him I needed space to heal because you’ve hurt me & ect ect.. so yea, he should feel guilty. He denied a fairly good relationship between us two & I can see that he has feelings for me & hasn’t been able to let go.. I had been in other relationships since initially breaking up with him. So idc if he does come back, I have nothing to like steer here .. I kinda want to just detach & let it die.. esp if he really doesn’t want something committed when he decides to come back. I won’t keep sharing myself at all if he’s coming with like bs junk. This offered me confirmation ! More so than clarity cause, a lot of our dynamic? I already know the truth.
2 wow I’m glad how straight forward this reading is. I needed this honestly and I’m glad this is over. On the path for my self development too. No more looking outside of myself
Group 2 I’m already excited because I felt called to pull some cards for myself this morning probably half an hour ago. I had just started listening to this & walking back over to grab my coffee cup & as my eyes glanced to my future card-The Ace of Pentacles you pulled & said Ace of Pentacles 😳😍🥰 I had to stop & comment before I buckle up for this ride 😆 Thank you ✨
“You think about the more than they do you”I barely do already that’s sad it’s more I look back at how stupid I was I was imagining everything and didn’t realize till now is crazy delulu😭😭
2. This video came to me, I wasn't looking for this topic... This reading was clear and true, I loved it, many people don't like other people to stop thinking about them and focus on their careers, but I loved knowing that he is this way, funny because I spent a lot of time in my life thinking about love issues without pay so much attention to my career so I'm doing that for now (too). The advice about intuition also resonates because what I feel is that I don't need to do anything, whatever is meant to be mine will be without me worrying for nothing.
pile 1 was way too spot on. super specific. especially with the cancer + taurus and the beatles/paul mccartney mention. as well as a lot more literally but thank you this helped lots
Pile 2… I loved a man so much - a love so deep , and his world wouldn’t let his collide with mine. We tried so hard but he couldn’t not listen to what the world was saying. I miss him
You just affirmed I made the right decision and I feel it with my whole body even though I meant setting firming boundaries and transition our relationship to friends with a pause. You are remarkably talented. Thank you!
we haven’t met but I used to watch your readings an unhealthy amount years ago, I have since stopped listening/doing tarot pretty much all together. something tonight told me I should listen to one, and I heard your sweet Australian accent in my head as an indicator to revisit your channel- long story short, you never cease to amaze me with your precision and accuracy. Always get chills, you are so gifted and I feel very grateful to have found your channel. Sending love from pile1!!!
Group 1. def felt like the energy of my ex. I wasn’t the one who left, but everything you said about him not bending and stubborn was correct. I definitely still feel his energy, so I guess that’s why he’s still in my thoughts and dreams after all this time. I don’t wish to go back to him though because I could never full trust him again - he leaves when things get hard and I can’t be with someone like that.
Screaming at the accuracy of Pile 1 😂 I'm really disappointed that he hasn't grown or healed. He still owes me an in person apology, which he vaguely alluded to, but apparently his pride was too much and he didn't keep his word and ghosted me AGAIN. I used to be so easily accessible, but I learned my lesson and told him I was done because he not only broke my heart but my trust MULTIPLE times. Remorseless egotistical man child. Now he's blocked everywhere for good. Knowing him and his breadcrumbing avoidant ways, he won't bother going out of his way to find a way to contact me (so many mutual friends and acquaintances...) Never getting involved with avoidants (ESPECIALLY dismissive avoidants) again, they will DESTROY you.
wow, it’s been about a year since i’ve watched you and for some reason, my gut told me to come to you for answers. I chose pile 2 and it was super spot on. You being very blunt about it helped me realize what i’ve been thinking. The person I asked about was someone I had met through a mutual and he lived about 2 hours away from me so we usually called. He went from calling me a couple times to calling me every night. We’d be on the phone for hours since i had a lot of free time and i started to get used to it. I started developing something for him and felt kinda weird about it but I still acknowledged it. After i had just realized my little crush, he started becoming more busy and suddenly just cutting me off. I was hurt by it and wondered what had happened since he stopped calling and texting me. He would only message me when he ranted about how stressed he is in life and how his life is a constant cycle. Me being me, i would comfort him and he’d always say the same words, “i’m so happy i met you.” He would call me drunk saying those exact words too. This made me think he had a thing for me (as foolish as it sounds) and i noticed myself waiting more and more after he kept being distant. Next think yk he messages me and tells me he has great news. He goes on to say how he met a girl and how he’s so glad the cycle has been broken. I felt so hurt by this and felt like maybe i was being delusional. I tried justifying myself about liking him and getting angry at myself for EVEN liking him. But, I pushed my pride aside and congratulated him. I told him i was so happy for him. He never replied and that was also the last time we talked. You saying he probably felt guilty over something, then backing that by saying “he probably felt guilty for not replying.” really resonated. You also saying I might’ve liked the idea of him really stood out to me. I did like the idea of having company. At the time, i wasn’t comfortable with the loneliness. Now, I know better and if he were to come back into my life, I wouldn’t entertain it. I’m far more busy than before and wouldn’t even have time for it.
I've listened to this reading twice some time apart. The very first time it came out right after he moved to different city, went no contact with me. I chose pile 2 and oh man it was a mess. Even his feelings about reconciliation. A month or so later this reading showed up on my wall again. So I said I'll have a look. And I tried to be drawn to pile 2, but my heart and eyes said pile 1. And I'm glad I chose it. His thoughts are calmer now. And it's so true about energy pulls. I'm moving on with my life and out of nowhere he's on my mind. It took me some time to realise that it's always the same time. When he goes to bed after his night shift. Substances were on spot. He smokes. The reading was amazing and all about him. Both piles just confirmed my intuition. I always knew that it's not finished between us. He will see that grass is not greener where he is now and will come back out of nowhere. Now it's up to me to decide if I still want this immaturity in my life. Heart says yes. And I think I will follow your advice and will try again. If nothing will come out, I will have a closure I didn't get this time
Group 1. This person reappeared a couple of weeks ago 10 months after I broke up with him. I’m unclear why. He gave me a sad story about wanting help with his grief over his mother’s recent death. Over a couple of conversations, it became clear that the help he wants is sexual. After his breadcrumbing and dismissive attitude, I’m not impressed
I chose group number 2 and then i felt like i needed to also hear group 1 i thought i was just avoiding the truth but then you started singing yesterday and it felt like a sign, early in the morning I was singing it too, now i need to meditate about what parts of both groups are meant for me
Pile 3 and mannnn do i hope i get my soulmate back, he’s the love of my life. Nobody will ever compare to him, it’s still so fresh since we broke up but i just can’t let him go
Pile 3. I have prepared myself for anything. Sadly even my breathing is somehow connected to them so I just want that physical contact for selfish reasons. To set me free. Being then disappointed or dream come true. But years of confusion is eating me from inside. I just want this over with. Also my love is unconditional. I’m tired giving and not receiving. But if I have to give to someone without reciprocation then rather someone who once made me feel alive. Who taught me the true meaning of love and who woke me up to who I want to be. I’ll help them the way they once helped me. No matter what we have to face. I fight for my true love. 💜
I picked 1. He left a year ago. After 3 years together. Hes tried coming back twice, then messed with my head and heart. When your in a relationship with him.. Hes a lovely partner. Yet when he does the hot, cold on off dance when hes walked away. It feels like hes 5, rather than almost 42. There was so much love between us. My heart absolutely is still tied to him. So many unanswered questions. I know hes seeing someone else. Which is why I told him I am done with the drama of his indecision. I told him sort your head out. So i've tried to heal for these past 6 months. He did love me, I know he did. Yet he said a lot of hurtful things (in anger) which leaves me with even more questions. I am really kind, caring, generous and loving. I was his rock when he had no one. Its just been horrible loving someone a lot, and letting him go. Yet in my heart I know the door between us is not fully sealed shut. I want to settle down and grow old with someone, which my ex knows anyway. As we were living together and had huge future plans. He also did in the past have issues with substances.
Hello , I seldom comment BUT pile 2 was insane. Every single word hit home. A connection spanning nearly a decade with minimum joy and maximum overthinking 😅. Cant move on like most of you strong folk out there. Will see this last connect request through with 0 expectations , and then call it quits if needed. Every single word in the reading and my purchased reading was true ... if I'd known this 10 years ago ( which the instinct did) I'd have called it quits much earlier. This return seems genuine enough for now and the HOLD is too much.
💔#2💔 (5/17/24) I really wish I didn’t miss someone who doesn’t even miss me. This is emotional torture and for what??? I’m so tired of having feelings for this person. I just want the feelings to go away!!! 😭💔
I have been following you forever! And it’s so funny because usually I’m really loyal to a certain pile & you’re always like “hi old friend” (paraphrasing lol) but I’ve been switching it up lately, and you still say that! So HELLO OLD FRIEND!! Lol 😂
Pile 2. Before getting to know this person I felt closeness to him as if I met him before like an old friend or a relative but was never really physically attracted to him. He is not my type so I was never in a position to be friendzoned by him but he felt the need to state that he was just spending time with me and implied that a romantic sparkling can occur but he is not a type of person to chase. So, he gave me narcissistic vibes as well. He was an aquarius. I cut him off after he started to get off limits with his interaction with me. I felt since he was not my type he tried to get a validation from me on his physical appearance in a subtle but disturbing way. He sort of like tried to show off but there was nothing for me to see. Anyways, I liked spending time with him as a friend and I wish he contacted me but meanwhile I was expecting an apology but he's decided to just block me. Disappointing. He is the one who needs to be fixed actually.
Pile 1: "Remember why you walked away..." I needed to hear that. You were spot on, giving me goosebumps. You kept on talking about Taurus and Cancer, that's us. We were also back and forth for many years. Another freaky thing was when you mentioned about coffee...I just started drinking coffee again. So many signs that this is the message I needed hear. Thank you so I can be prepared to fortify my walls and stand my ground when they come back.
Pile 3 yes that s very similar that what s happened but I did not know that we could make this effort to give me space in his life . We start talking yesterday again after 2 weeks at 11.11 am , and he text Today saying hopefully we meet again ( I not sure how serious he meant it ) yes he s married but we know each other for long time as a friend and got so close ( karmic relationship) yes he s very possessive does not show it and pretend not but I notice it . All the messages of the travelling really mean to our connections 😅 True this how I feel every time he comes back he does not give me any support it s all about flirting and satisfying his needs so I am not so surprised. Thank you so much for the last Messages this is so true ❤ first time I will subscribe and like ❤
Group 1 it's been 5 years and i still haven't recovered, so it's a no from me 😊 my heart wants a heart centered person. At the moment, that person is me. Thank you.
Pile 2 is spot on 💫 We dated in the past in 2017-2018. During that period I could say he was definately immature in why he dated me and eventually I left. I was around him, not with him in 2019-2020 and didn’t see him until 2022. When I saw him, I did enjoy our times together, but it’s like a sense that he’s kind of confused emotionally and does spend 0 time by himself to think about things. I remember the last time I saw him I told him “you need to heal before you do anything else” and I feel like he heard me, but didn’t feel me on why I said it. I’ve been feeling like I’ve been thinking about this connection more than him, but I also been feeling like it’s up in the air with this connection. In a way, I feel like he’s making the necessary steps to get himself together in some way, then maybe emotionally…? Idk Again, everything is up in the air.
*sighs* Pile 2 here! It's pretty on point, except for the part about him being my boss or colleague. We were in fact in a relationship, and we talked marriage big time. The house, the work, children, you get the idea. It was him who wanted it, and he was very passionate about being together and all the things we could do, but then he pulled away because of work, treated me like I was a hindrance in his life out of the sudden. It gave me whiplash, the man who said wanted everything with me suddenly wouldn't even talk to me because his work life got so insane, and he got so irritable he wouldn't even let close, throwing snarky comments and withholding his affection, but staying in contact and refusing to leave. He went from loving me to barely tolerating me. We ended up putting everything on pause by his request after I told him it was wearing me out. In my view, a "pause" in a relationship it's just another way to break up. You are either in or you are out, and he clearly didn't want to even try. So I gave him what he wanted and went no contact. His approach to work has left me speechless, since I wouldn't trade my personal life for my career. Not like this. After all, what's the point of being successful if you can't share it or enjoy it? He has left family and friends aside for this to the point he barely sleeps! He refuses to let others help him by being there for him. It absolutely broke my heart.
This is my very first time choosing the pile tho i’ve known you almost 4 months . I do feel shocked to hear a mouthful reading from you . I would like to show my gratitude from the deepest place of my heart ❤️
Pile 1. Thank you. I am often frustrate about the fight between my logic and my heart. Over wanting to move on with other potentials than accepting his on /off connection.
Thanks for the warning in 3. I was already over it but this person is actively trying to manifest me back and it caused me a lot of pain until i got aware. I’m gonna stay strong and keep going my own way and protect myself
Very triggering, but you hit the nail on the head with a lot of things. I even did my own pre reading and got a lot of the same, but you have a better way of stringing everything together. I've detached myself from the situation, but oddly enough it felt good to feel again even if it is self inflicted emotional pain? That's sounds weird but as someone with heavy water I'm often motivated by deep unsettling feelings as it somehow drives my creativity and allows me to pour out and face shadow aspects. Anyways good reading, I love it when you come back from hiatuses, the readings always seem to hit different, I hope you enjoyed your vacation and wb!
#1 I don’t know if he will ever contact me again…He just unfollowed me first and he turned cold all of a sudden. My feelings are complicated now, like I low key want him back but don’t think that would ever happen as he is the one who walk away.
I always get the group that you say you know!! I live across the world so I unfortunately do not know you but my bday is December 25th and any time you speak about your personal life I definitely feel as if we're on similar timelines 💜
Why i can't be loved one time, God 😭 Atp i'm gonna date a woman at least my lesbian friend is so loved by her gf and i just want this GOOD romantic feeling 😭😭😭
