Do THIS If A Man Seems Attracted To You But Is Acting Distant (This Makes Him Value You Again) 

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Keep him guessing by marrying someone else

I really lost interest in a man who pulls away , there’s nothing more unattractive than a man who pulls away , that’s immature and not manly.

If a Man tells You he doesn't want a relationship... Believe Him!! 🌐

If you have to manipulate a man into chasing you, then he isn't the right guy for you. If a guy is distant, then he isn't truly into you anymore, and that's ok. At this point, it's best to move on. If a man is being distant because he's playing games, then he is a boy, not a man. Women and men should be able to directly communicate their needs. If they can't do this, then they have no business dating. People need to leave the games behind in high school.

when Right man is interested in you, HE doesn't play games, he stays interested, if he pulls back,. MOVE ON, too many nice Guys out there. Don't analyze him. ignore him.....he will come back. BUT ladies move on.

"It's not about playing a game, it's about changing your habits."

Take him off the pedestal! Soooo true, im going through that right now with someone...i need to set boundaries!

You can't really manipulate them to like you when they don't - best to let it go. But you will get more respect, and less dramas and unnecessary heart ache.

Always WITHIN, my beloved feminines))) In my experience as a feminine counterpart, the feminine counterpart (man or woman) needs to put all attention on self love. In other words, the feminine needs to utilize her (I will just use the term "her" for the feminine) energy toward meeting all of the aspects of the self which the masculine triggers to the surface (not good enough, not beautiful/thin/smart/sexy enough/young enough, reject able, unworthy, etc). When the feminine stays true to herself by remaining in her feminine energy, meaning, she remains in HERSELF (when the compulsion is to reach out to the masculine), and when she receives the pain and hurt and confusion triggered by the masculine, and when, in doing so she parents/partners/loves herself the way her ego desires the masculine to love her, then she becomes extremely attractive and desirable to the masculine, because in reality, she is reflecting his potential to become an integrated masculine, a balanced being, and this embodied feminine is a rare creature indeed...like a fairy tale feminine that the masculine always dreams about... A feminine who does this is the embodiment of the goddess. She is a testimony to human potential, and there is no greater magnet of inspiration and adoration to a masculine of conscious intent than a feminine who reflects his potential. (she reflects his spiritual potential which inspires his worldly potential) Now, this will not attract every masculine, only the masculine who is interested in living his true potential. Every time the feminine unconsciously reaches out to the masculine to receive loving, accepting, validating attention, it is for her to become aware of the conditioning to turn away from herself, to stop, and redirect that energy within and give herself that attention. When she becomes skilled at redirecting her attention consciously within, she will attract a man who is seeking a woman to light his path for his own growth, rather than fulfill his needs or exceed his egoic expectations. He will be naturally drawn to the most self loving mirror. He will not be intimidated by a feminine who is stepping into and shining her feminine power, he will realize he actually needs her in order to fulfill his potential. So, beloved feminines, do the inner work. Come into conscious relationship with your unconditional self. Redirect all of your available, loving, compassionate, generous, gentle, sensitive attention away from the masculine and place it on holding safe space for all of the fractured, rejected, abandoned, hurt, hated aspects of yourself. Hold those broken pieces. Love them deeply. Make this your commitment and you will, at some point, draw in a masculine who is a clearer reflection of your true self rather than a confused masculine who isn't sure if he wants to step into his potential or remain sedate and lazy in his egoic programming. When you take this conscious step and you devote yourself wholeheartedly to it, you will never again need to figure out how to navigate anything with any masculine energy. You will always know that the direction you need to take whenever you fall into confusion, fear, doubt, uncertainty, hurt, etc; is WITHIN. Always within, dear goddesses. That is your superpower. Self love. xoxox

No he feel like when he got you and he knows you really like him that's when he starts ignoring you because he knows you will always be there

Alex is smiling like a little boy... so adorable.☺️

My husband has also done this throughout our 39 year marriage. I wish I had understood what was happening sooner. Implementing the “leaning back approach” has retrained both of us to a healthier state. It’s my cue that I have put an unhealthy amount of energy into our interactions and that I need to take some time for my own interests as well. Thank you for your tremendous help !

My lover being hot and cold to me during quarantine. I'm at one point where I don't care anymore and finally told him I'm walking away and he can have much space as he wants. Now he keeps texting me everyday and asking me to come over. I refused him it's not that I'm playing hard to get but I just need to take a little break from pain. Men tend to take us for granted when they think we women can't live without them and vice versa. They can only realize when they feel threatening from you.

I loved this & its so true! A guy just recently came back into my life that id known for over 4 years & I approach him completely different than before... where before I was pretty needy, anxious & frustrated when he would or wouldn’t do certain things, the last couple of months, I shifted massively, so I was living my own life, I do the mirroring thing with him - not to be petty, but just that I don’t feel the need to respond right away or interact like crazy. My texts to him are shorter & lighter & since my habits has changed, his have changed more & more as well. I don’t make a big deal about any silence either, because I know he has stuff going on in his life & so do I. He’s even admitted certain things to me about how he feels & sees me, that he never did before, but I’m just going with the flow & enjoying life!

I love how you (Helena) kept reiterating that we as women have to do these thing for us, and not just him. Boundaries, Value, and Respect go a long way with both parties.

I love the feminine energy advise! Let the man do the work ladies and just focus on you until he is committed ❤️ thank you for this advise always remember this Alex! 🙂

I’m sorry if a man act distant towards me I’m letting go, next!!!!!!..... a man knows what he wants from a woman the minute he lays his eyes on her, I don’t have time for that, I’m too old to put any work into a guy and I won’t allow him to make me question myself neither sorry bye

Love the content of this video 😍 I was in a situation where the attraction was strong at the beginning, but then the guy got cold feet. The need to understand what was happening with him and to clear things up made me engage completely in my masculine energy, and I became the pursuer. If only I had known then what I know now (famous last words) I would have implemented the tools that you teach, and it would have taken 2 days and not 2 years to get myself out of that compulsive and exhausting and not to mention self blaming because I felt responsible routine. In the end however, I stopped all contact and changed my phone number too. What I learned was to ask myself, “is this how I want to be treated in a relationship, or by any person?” If not, I don’t give it anymore of my energy. When I started watching your channel, I began to stop chasing, and started allowing things to be. Thank you

Men think it's about them, they don't know that it's about the energy felt with him

Men are confused.. I'm peaceful without all that drama...

I like the advice of this guy he is right to the point lots of love coaches go around the bushes and give you nothing wasting your time

Since I’ve started what you have said to do , he’s been in contact heaps more , still sitting back . I can actually feel the empowerment for the first time in my life . Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

I'm going through this 110% right, and found this video comforting. It is a very confusing landscape to navigate, when a man acts like you're practically his girlfriend, then does an 180 and freezes you out. So hurtful and so confusing, and having no clue on how to react.

I know I should ignore him, yet that is so difficult as I have so many things I want to share, but I really have to learn to stop. Thank you both.

Honestly I don’t even know why I am watching this video when I know that I just need to be patient and work on myself, make my self better for me and if is meant to be it will be.

I agree with Alex Clermont and when your boyfriend text you back saying, " Hey Where've you been for a week?" Say," I'm an extrovert."

My current situation has made me go through deep healing about my self worth.. I am worthy a deserving of people's time, effort, appreciation etc and yes, it is so much easier once you join him on the pedestal as your equal. EFT ra is brilliant for all of this. 💕

Do the walk right out the door.

Yes,if the guy ignore you Ignore him also wait till to come back if not We move on wait for a month let see what will happen

I like how you don’t demonize men who go ghost or cold, and how you acknowledge that it’s usually unconscious and it’s less likely to be a sign of narcissism or abuse. There’s always room to create change in their behavior but we as women have to be open to change ourselves and our reactions/behaviors to their confusing actions. To stop assuming these men are narcissists and being so quick to cut them off and blame them. Men are usually reflecting our energy, so to change what they’re reflecting we need to change what we’re energetically projecting. Thank you for this video!

YES !!! If he tells you he can't commit , do not interview for that "relationship" and date other men !!!!

I’m not comfortable putting myself on a pedestal. Not because I lack anything, it’s just because I think it’s unnatural. Im a humble, kind, down to earth gal and I think that many wonderful men appreciate this. what worked for me is just trying to connect authentically with a man.. showing love and affection without losing self respect.. meaning not behaving needy. But, some neediness is ok.. men want to feel needed and desired too! :)

I know this is from 2yrs ago, but this is so relevant in my life today. I had to set the boundary... And it sent me such relief doing so. Thanks,

this is what I did intuitively and its true. create new habits to occupy ur time away from him. if yall live together you have to leave and let him be with his bs, take care of your thoughts and self care is crucial. make new friends, nurture your friends and family, always be graceful but stand up for your values and beliefs of what you want from the relationship and never settle. it's not your job to teach them except how to be around you.

It’s difficult to not think of him when I’m under quarantine. Stuck home and at this point relying on him. If I was busy, working, just going out it would be so much easier. I asked him to call me today and he he said he would call me in a bit there was a family issue going on. That was hours ago. He hasn’t called and on top he didn’t open my message that I was letting him know, Ok. But it showed he was active. I may not pick up his call when he does call. Then later say I missed it. Setting the boundaries.

I really needed this again! Shifting back to having myself on a pedestal instead of him! Love this! Thanks again Helena!❤️

Why are some men so dodgy and don't like showing they like someone , just because they could be committment phobic? If you confront them about their behaviour, why they are getting cold towards you, that's gonna send them miles away! It bothered me for years, but now it's a turn off. If he isn't available, then he rather FO!

This is exactly what my life story is about right about now....OMG Alex, you are preaching good stuff my brother! “Word for word” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽you are on point! It’s like you’re in my head lol. I needed to hear this. Thank you & God bless both of you for what you do. 💜💜💜

The chemistry between you too was brilliant. You both look comfortable and at ease with each other which I personally like as a viewer. Alex well done for challenging yourself. Your communication skills are brilliant you must have worked so hard. Your clarity was brilliant and it’s obvious that it is important to you to elevate your English skills. Mission accomplished. Amazing guys👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Oh wow after 9 years single I have just made this mistake 🥺 I should of stayed celibate and single it’s brought up emotions I didn’t want!!!! I walked away last week and haven’t heard from him

I love his accent n dimples too, so cute

When they lose interest I don’t even want to do it anymore. What’s the point?! I don’t want a man who can live without me ! I want a man who wants me because he can’t imagine a life without me . That we love fully . Or not at all.

Alex is so adorable and very smart. I love his accent. This was a great video, Helena. You're my favorite woman dating coach because you have wonderful guests.

It’s time for women as well as for myself to play my role correctly not a game but understanding men way of thinking so we can have successful.healthy.challenging relationships.

Wow this was so deep 💯 I really appreciate it he is blocked rn giving it time getting myself together done chasing

You guys are absolutely adorable! The best duo by far! Enjoyed your sweet, positive energy and the great advice! Thank you so much! Looking forward to seeing some more interesting videos from you two! 🙂🤗😘❤️

I love both of you :your empowering people with mindfulness and boundaries and self confident ; that is why I am becoming health and life coach

Skin is glowing Helena. Natural beauty. Alex your English has improved so much. Alex this was brilliant clear advice 👌🏾👍🏾

Separate your standards from your feelings 9:47-10:11:00

This is really great stuff Helena! I love how Alex broke everything down. Could you one day consider doing a video on how to deal with a man who is grieving? Who has lost someone close to him such as a sibling?

Helena is a rare gem, like myself, who thinks like a man. This was a good video.

You have reminded me that leaning back is really easy the tough part is that at first it’s a leap of faith and trust! Ladies please trust that the higher power out there and within yourself will attract the energy you want from a man when you lean back regarding romantic love

I don't mean to be fresh; his accent is lovely! Just beginning the video now, Thank You both! 💜

What would be really interesting is to see on your channel an exploration into attachment theory and how it intersects with a lot of these topics. Mainly these types of behaviors are frequently found in insecure attachment, especially Dismissive or Fearful Avoidant types. Going silent is generally a red flag unless you want to put in a LOT of work and do a LOT of self-abandonment and repressing your own emotional needs just to have this guy in your life.

I love his accent!

Great collaboration between two super coaches!👏👏

This guy was so into it , telling me how much fun we are going to have together this summer and to spend days at his house , blah blah.. I was kinda guarded.. and he got distant and I let my emotions get to me cuz I am pms'g and I sent him a text saying I guess you arent into this anymore nice knowing you. So now hes ghosted me I guess. Lol

I love the advice when something sounds weird just pull back

Tbh, when a man ignores you or seems to be playing a game, it's very off putting and I start losing respect as well as attraction. I think a real man will be honest and not play games. Really distasteful when a guy deliberately acts distant... I'm so repelled by such energy. Thank you, next.

I love his smile! 😍

Really the BEST DATING video and essential to ur personal growth. Thanks so much. Alex, you are so smart and have really nailed and explained what men think. Thanks for filling in all the gaps to our understanding of men.

Although this video is from 2 years ago I really just received confirmation on a lot of things. I'm on the right path

It’s 50/50 investment , if not move on and find a emotionally mature man , simple thanks so much I know now ! 😊✨

Not to be out of subject here, but Helena is so gorgeous !

I love hearing him talk ❤️

Helena i agree with you and your content. thank you for always liking my comments. i met a good guy once. he one time went three days without texting me. he came back saying he was busy. fast forward three months later and he tells me that he liked me since the day we met some women are pouring their traumas and insecurities onto other peoples lives. which i can sympathize with them on. but the reality is, a man’s distance with you has nothing to do with how he feels.

We were good before he visited from U S, when he left everything changed after he promised to send me some cash which he sent half. Now we does not talk every day, but he checks out my status every day.

When he started distance on me,I tell him block me and have a happy life then suddenly he did it😂😂😂

Helena you present a wonderful show every time because your energy is so very positive! Alex Cormant is absolutely a wonderful cohost as his energy is just as positive as yours and offers his wisdom in such a comforting way! Really enjoyed both of your thoughts and thank you!

It's interesting to watch this over a year later and review the question I asked (37:50). Update... We're just friends now. We never did sleep together and I'm glad of that. We had an open and honest talk and continue to do so. He said he thought highly of me and only wants the best for me. He said he also didn't see his career changing anytime soon. So with that, he said he hoped we would always be friends and thanked me for being there when he went through some tough times. He still calls when he has time and we have good conversations. I'm more at ease with him and myself now. I'm glad we're just friends. I still love all of the advice in a video, not just that to me.

I only do ROI. I return his investment if it’s low investment I do the same, I mirror, the mistake most people do is invest completely in that person. Think of love like the air we breathe, we need to give and receive air. That’s how love is.

All i have to say is Gratitude guys it works for me I never thought humans can be this difficult to conet with but now I control I know what I want nd how i want it nd is all about me thxx 💪💜💎👑✌️💯🙏🙏🙏🍷🌹🤗🤗🌍

I love Alex's formulas He is superbbbbbbbb

10:11 Wow, speaking about me right there. Thanks for the comfort.

Always great videos. Talking with common sence....i emjoy very much.

Well this guy I like told me he liked me recently and I told him I liked him too and now he’s gone a little quiet and I’m kind of testing in a way for making him see me differently even tho he likes me, creating a different flow since he told me we should go with the flow since we both like each other a lot but he did tell me he missed me after one day of not talking as much 🥺🥺💓

My biggest issue with dating, I'd say, is guys who at first seem very interested but then disappear. I get that they have lots of things to think about, like work and their kids. But how do you hold their interest is my biggest question.

Aw Alex is so sweet!❤

It's all about sitting boundaries 🙂

Please do this more!! So great to see you both together on the video! x

This was very informative, thank you. It makes sense and it's like an inside secret as to why men pull away. Thank you both of you! and thanks for helping people!

Learning to ensure my texts are shorter and lighter as sadly naturally I am one of those who like to explain and explain long overwhelming texts

OHMYGOSH...Alex is feeling so adorable...

This video is especially good. The chemistry and the accuracy is magic. Great job!

Now i relieved from my fears ..thank u Both of you

Give to yourself what you want from others

If you haven’t been needy and see him as your source of happiness - and he pulls away then he’s not interested anymore and well he’s immature Move on ! Love Alex accent The way he says ‘ bunderies ‘ 🥰

Alex you are amazing and real

I’ve been doing mirroring after six years of dating . I usually pull back as well . I recently set boundaries. Haven’t seen him in almost two months . My bf is rarely texting replies back in several minutes to hours . Back to celibacy waiting to marriage . I will use lets be friends again I have told him years ago . Making myself less available. We live in separate cities see usually each other every few weeks . Thanks for the advice !

You should pull back first. Let him be the one under stress.

Have men thought that we might need to cuddle in this world. We want the warmth

Thanks guys!… really appreciate your time and energy!…🙌🏽

Thanks very much Helena and Alex. This was enlightening. I appreciate your time and messages.

I love Helena & Alex’s advise, awesome, thank you both, love ya ❤️

This is the kind of video/podcast advices/insights i need to watch and hear. Experiencing this right now esp in the midst of pandemic. Thank you for sharing your insights and advices Helena and Alex. You two made me feel a lot better!

Great video, I like the way Alex explains what to do and why.

Thank you Alex for advising women not to sleep with men because that is the only most important thing he wants from a woman, while women want a lot more from a man and women give in to him without taking out time to know him or any investment from him. Then men love the cat and mouse game . A woman wants more after being intimate but then it’s too late because women get strung along by believing or hoping him on empty words. That is why men nowadays, don’t want to get married anymore because women become wives anyways and after a few years he might find any little excuse and move on to another relationship . Women have very limited time to waste on serial relationships , and these men waste their prime youth , then most women end up with being with younger low quality guy, who needs financial assistance to build their lives . There was a time when men chased and courted women but now tables have changed due to this modern vice of becoming their wives without the ring.

so good to listen to this Alex. Where have you been all my life when i needed you?

Do not bring up past at first sentence, If he does not want to commit. Be just friends. He may be afraid,