Watch next...but only if you want to! ;) xx 25 Signs She’s Interested: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-cNQscGKzlek.html 3 Ts of Flirting: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-pk6mUqn8Yw8.html what it means when she looks at you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QAd0VxdKiGA.html chasing vs pursuing video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-O6_q8VGFrtE.html Flirting / Touching playlist: ru-vid.com/group/PLQ8Q-8-X18dnONIdMCi60rCpPOlRDjDBW Friend zone playlist: ru-vid.com/group/PLQ8Q-8-X18dlOU9NfaIYnbG0zUveivHjs
Note, there is no such thing as rejection, she is either feeling you or not, and anyway she answers should not affect you one iota. Only deal with the females who show genuine interest back, but if not, smile and say it was nice meeting you, and have a great day. There are many reasons she could say no but only one reason she would say yes. Just be cordial, respectful, and debonair.
Which is why you've got to watch for signs of interest. Notice you didn't say (correctly) the man is (subjectively) attractive. Women are attracted to more than looks. :)
I do this every time I cold approach a woman... I walk up confidently with a smile and say "Hi, I saw you and wanted to meet you.. my name is XXX"... if she responds with her name, I continue, if not.. I politely smile and say have a nice day.
Actually, that's great advice! Will keep you from feeling like they're better than you. Kind of fits with my #3 ;) (edit: oh wait, #3 might be in an upcoming video lol)
@@YourWingmam Yeah. It was meant as serious advice with a tinge of humor. Wish I could have given it to myself when I was younger. At my mid age now, I see the karma in the fact that most men and women both age into looking more masculine. And that curve for women often follows their loss in fertility. I don't want to get into great depths, but I was born with the genetic lottery. Although on one side of my divorce parents I was given lots of freedom to grow and the other I was made to feel less than! Your comment actually is very fitting! I don't treat others as I am better than them because I am human with faults. I do however know my worth and unfortunately that has caused me to quit looking for a unicorn for my situation!
Okay, okay, okay. (Not be be confused with "Alright, alright, alright.") This is perhaps the best video on approach that I have ever seen. And I have seen a lot. Excellent info and excellent personal presentation. Also, excellent graphics. Graphics can take the place of the "for example" stories to refresh the audience between the presentation of theory. (The words are only for the people who do not understand the pictures.) The graphics were very good a achieving that purpose. You might consider using the sunlight through the shades effect in the future. It is used a lot in Asian movies to create realism, interest and tension. I didn't think that you could get any better, because you were already one of the best, but you proved me wrong. I hate it when that happens.
Hi Anna, You give really awesome effective advice. Thanks for the videos. I saw the video you mentioned near the end. Don't understand why you would feel embarrassed by it. It was intelligent, solid and you looked Very Beautiful in it. What did I miss? Merry Christmas To You!
Oh thank you! That makes me feel better. It was just an awkward video to do because of the visual examples... guess my old shy nature got the best of me. But I did it anyway, so there you go. Get out of your comfort zone lol Merry Christmas!! :)
Again a very detailed ,information packed video. I am always a bit hesitant with the touching part. So you are hindered by sunlight ,are you ? Didn't realize you were a vampire dating coach ! Well you can "bite" (wink,wink) me any day ( night ,i guess ) Miss "Elvira" Jorgensen !
The safest, least threatening place to touch her is her elbow. Best if used to get her to focus her attention when she's not looking directly at you. Example: she's collected her coffee and you touch her elbow to get her attention to nod or point toward a table that's free (whether you're joining her or not). ~ Elvira J ;)
There is a young lady named Anna Giving advice and her best tips To help improve our relationships. In her chat, she says don't be a doormat or accept a hellcat, improve your habitat. In your life Leave behind the strife Give hate the shove Do her course WakeUp2Luv We create our own fate We all think she is great And she looks much younger than 58
Dear Anna: I've gotta say, I don't believe you. I think you are wearing that outfit again because I said I like it. You even went as far as hiding the cat in the very same place. Well, singles party was a modest success. I got an invite for lunch and an invite to a party from a couple of female attendees. Really enjoyed the video. I must say I wasted a fair share of opportunities with stupid pick up lines and asking women if I could buy them a drink. I am thankful I am way past that. Well Anna, I hope you have an amazing Christmas. I hope you get every gift you wanted and you get to spend time with your loved ones. Well, even though you wore the same outfit for me again, you once again looked very, very, very pretty. You rock Ana. Hug and a peck on each, well, look at that; we are under the mistletoe. Tradition is tradition. Merry Christmas Gorgeous!!!
Two invites? I'd say that was a success! High five! And yes, pick up lines are only well received if made so obvious as to be intentionally cheesy. May your Christmas be filled with loved ones and great cheer! :)
Why would my date say she's tired on second date and third date when she works nightshift and tells me she's free all night? She called it quits after 3rd date. Both dates were gaming activity (2nd date arcades,bowling and 3rd date mini golf and arcadds) we didn't flirt, do much convi or use the three t's, but why was she tired when having fun? Also, why when I asked on the third date how many siblings she has, she gave me a sigh... and said yah a sister... I asked her about music and she sajd "anything" ....
@@Johnnyboybravo Probably she didn’t have anything else to do or like you said you’re paying for the day she did you a big favor dude. You don’t want to be around girls like her I think the stuff you took her she was very nice also.
If she asks what your sign is tell her your FICO score. You know the saying the bigger the FICO score the bigger the (wallet)...needs to be at least an 800, go big or stay home. This lets her know you have a big Financial Stimulus Package. She will be happy to her mouth where your money is.
When she walks up to you just ask..."What are we having for breakfast?"...I mean...why waste time? hahahahaha And if she rejects you just remember these famous words...Failure is success in progress...Albert Einstein
For serious long-term relationships, just wait patiently for them. Focus on your responsibilities. Men waiting patiently and not playing around will get the woman who don't play around. Outside the group of flirts are quiet women who are truly busy, too busy to be playing around in the flirting game. She's marriage material.
Some women only flirt with the one they want and yes, some women need all kinds of validation. Sounds like you prefer a less bubbly type and that's ok!
Agreed - start out while one is in High School getting friend zoned and build a network. Confidence will be through the roof. My best female friend of 30 years still says that I am the one that got away (Her Loss) 😉
If you see a Woman that interests you, just approach her and say something funny (Non-sexual), you have absolutely NOTHING to lose ..... you never had her in the first place. Treat it just like you're meeting someone who you know would never reject you, if you don't value yourself NOBODY else ever will either!!!
This right here. Definitely will keep this mind when I start cold approaching women out at the coffee shop, park, or at mall. Dating is a lot like job searching, yeah you're going to be rejected but then it doesn't really matter because after a few rejections, you get immune to the no's and those lead to yes so you have to keep taking your shots until you succeed. Just don't give up.
Best to wait until she lifts up her dress and shows you she is going commando before you do anything. Or if she takes off her G. string (is it a capital G?) and comes over and gives it to you. Clear signs are what it is all about.
Wonderful job on the topic. Brought up a number of memories of me as a young man. I was quite shy back then; I could have used this information (but I'm not sure I would have had the gumption back then to execute). Was initially surprised about you doing two videos in the same day (based on the same outfit and cat position as last week), but it makes sense for a part 2, especially over the holidays like this. I hope your health has rebounded and that you have fun plans for Christmas ahead of you. Praying for you always, -- Russ P PS/It's just Tyson and moi today, as PJ went home with his mother. It's so quiet here -- and that feels so weird! Mr. T sends a loving snore. Wishing you a Merry Christmas, lovely lady!
Thank you for watching! I had a few after thoughts and didn't want the other video to run even longer. My health is on the mend (again), thank you! Planning a low key Christmas weekend with friends and family. Hope you'll be spending it with loved ones, too! Scratch for Mr. T! God bless, Russ :))
Good! That means there's room to get out of your comfort zone. However, don't start with the most brazen stuff, start small and work up from there. Total beginner suggestion: start smiling at old people or saying hi to people who aren't intimidating at all. You got this!
if she gets crappy about it, I fall back on the dumb and dumber line "so You're telling me theres a chance"..... or if I am not feeling spunky " here I thought we were going to grow old together, turns out you grew old real quick"
Two men with the same behavior. If the woman likes him the behavior is charming, if she doesn't, he's creepy. This is soooo much approval seeking pandering it's exhausting.
Wing mam... Craig the rip snorting wild man. Fireballs. With iron in my bones. Ram rods for spines. Lightening filled eyes, guy here. Who won't be satisfied until I've tasted of life on my terms.
60 minutes use have counter point. I think you should get together with the Better Bachelor. Pick a topic and do a debate. I think you two together . Would get a lot of likes. Killer Bee
I’ve been known to get a bit buzzed at a party and tell women I was a Doctor. You can well imagine how I suddenly experienced a lot of interest in me that I had not noticed previously.
@@davidz2562 You will pay one way another as Pimpin Ken says all women are Hoe's all men are John's. You can switch the game and be the gold digger but is you game that good?
@@davidz2562 I would just move on at the party after making the point to myself that a big percentage of women are looking for what some call “success object”s” which is a take off of “sex objects” anc what many men look for. God knows I was that way in my youth. In my 70’s now so so those days are long gone.
I just have to say, if a woman shows no interest in me...I'm outta there! Why in the world waste your time on someone who is too damned dumb to check out a great thing? Her loss. She has to prove she's worth it. Pursuing is fun...until it's not. Be the best you can be, go for what you want, either she is a keeper or not.
OMG!!! You’re hilarious. “Ope the sun is hitting my face” OMG! I definitely like your mind set, it’s a mind set that I’m gathering from you. Really good video, you’ve come a long way with this thing here. I think we all have.
Invite her over? Not me. I get up and go to her. Why? Because I just caught her eye, she smiled when I caught her glance at me. If you invite her over, you are giving her easy out to change her mind, don't do that. People will talk themselves out of free gold if you let them. She may be to shy to just come over, she may think (accurately IMO), that if you want to talk to her, you should go to her (if she's all that, there are guys coming to her, that Sigma hooey ain't gonna to fly). The exception would be if she was in a less desirable spot (like next to restrooms or busy kitchen door maybe), and where you are is more deluxe. Also going to her shows confidence verses arrogance. Cave man act may not play well on a first meet. I wouldn't risk loosing the spark over her wondering should I or shouldn't I. Regardless, if you are checking her out, she glances at you, you maintain the eye contact (critical, DO NOT TURN AWAY), you lay your best wink and wry smile on her and she smiles at you, either right then, or she may look away, then look back and smile...you should be at her table (or near her, outside arms length) before she has much time to think about about the exchange. Of course, she may shine your wink on, so you go find someone else to wink at. Keep it "stupidly simple". The wink: I practiced it. It has to be fast and natural or it won't work. I stood in front of a mirror for a few minutes everyday (mid-20's) for a month or so and practiced to take to make the wink and smile to not only look natural/instinctual but can be employed in half a heartbeat. This is even more important now that we live in face diaper world where all you are going to get is the wink, no smile possibly (That's not in stone but it's difficult). The wink and the furtive grin is a golden tool if you can do it with panache. It is by far the best way for a man or even a woman to send a very fast, modestly sexual tension inducing, non vocal msg across the room, "Hey Hello". It a coffee shop, party, lecture, dance club, etc. In a place like coffee shop you can get her attention without embarrassment for her. That's important no matter how you make your approach. Practicing winking at myself made a notable difference. I if you are a young guy in high school, wink at every pretty girl you pass in the hall...GOLD. I know it sounds lame, but an awkward wink just won't have the same juice, a missed wink is the same as no wink at all, and if you have to think about it...too late. It does have power. But it must be nearly automatic. Guy's if you doubt this...watch this video again and count Anna's furtive winks or blinks. Stirring. Get it right.
Great question! It's about you being *her* choice and you having standards. If you like her right off the bat, she doesn't have to work for anything and she subconsciously wonders why you're not vetting her. :)
Flirting with no purpose. Just because I can. Not needy, but most girls like to laugh. Sense of humor with safety is a door opener. I choose girls that are Safe. Happy New Year.
The way it looks like or seems like, building or sparking, igniting the attraction is the man's role, or it's only men who need to know or learn how to attract women, not the other way around, women are attractive to men by default
Flirting is needy and wanting. Good healthy relationships comes from growing unconditional friendship. Flirting is a 'I want or need attention' kind of play. Avoid these people and also avoid doing what they do. They are NOT long-term relationship material.
WM, now that's something women need to learn! Speaking of the impact of rejection on the ego, have you done a show on that? That's a deep topic, I know.
If you stare at a female to get her attention, try not to drool. Also as the relationship "progresses", do not take restraining orders personally. It could be she just needs space. As Scarlett O'Hara aptly said...."there's always tomorrow".
Gets up after the girl across the hallway remarks about his sexy smile,as he starts to " walk" our limping heroe can hear her friends say" oh,what a disgrace,the way he walks!"
... which makes him lift his chest up and throw his shoulders back and continue limping over with even more confidence, which impresses her with a nonchalant, maybe-you-CAN'T-have-me attitude. (After all, if her friends are nasty like that, what might that say about her.)
Depending on the situation that could be funny but you'd have to have balls of steel to pull that one off. lol More than likely she'll know you mean her ;)
At a dance I noticed an older man come over to ask a younger woman to dance. She declined and giggled to her friends. He bashfully went back to where he was sitting. This reminded me of a tip from the internet. This was that in this scenario to have a second girl in view, so that you could casually walk along to her if declined by the first.
Charisma goes a long way, you may want to practice stepping up your confidence.. bold moves get noticed when they come from a place of confidence and charisma. Mega Confidence playlist: ru-vid.com/group/PLQ8Q-8-X18dnXVCTKU7yEavRdpEfMKK52
You must be new to my channel, welcome! All women want certain things for sure, but no all the same and def definitely not riff-raff (unless they're emotionally damaged). Hope you stick around! Merry Christmas! :)
Thanks for the detailed accurate information Anna I admire that your beautifulness is the least thing about you . You are very smart, imotionally intelligent , energetic personality with so much loving and caring energy for the both genders in all ages ! As if you are a mother of everyone here 😂. Personally me I am not a fan of admitting but your efforts deserves to valued. Merry Christmas 🌲 What will be the next video about?🤔
@@YourWingmam Oh , that's great topic but deserve really long video because PUA Community have problems with keeping women for LONG term relationship , they can attract but can't keep . and my problem is a problem for PUA until they realise that in their 50 ! they do have problems but they don't admit that I always fall for the wrong ladies . stupid me, 😅 and that's my real problem in addition to that I used to be so selective.
I dated a woman who was essentially this woman. Age age looks wise. Ultimately she was as nit as this broad. Used to be cute. But doesn’t understand the difference between used to and is. Long story short. When they’re helping you they are desperate. Like this wrinkley.
@@YourWingmam Sounds like you’re a beautiful woman who allowed her ego and bullshit made up mental excuses to get in the way between her and her ridiculous daddy issues
Anna, I am shocked by your 'next Tuesday' comment. Naughty naughty. Ladies are not supposed to know that expression or use that word. Interesting that author Phillip Roth observed that every woman has one. Merry Christmas and thanks for the videos. You are keeping it real for the Homies. Love from Jim in NZ.
I’m not needy, just superficially greedy. As per your beatific style, your glow must shine for a mile. I am not in denial, only in observance of your ineffable smile. Don’t worry, I am weird but not a weirdo, as it is not my intent to exude innuendo. Just please know that as you glow, you cast a spell. I only found out once I fell, that You ms Danish Queen, are more exotic than you seem. I know, I know, your ears ring of ‘creep’, but all this came to me in my sleep. To Your luminous luxury nothing can compare, in fact, I must go now before I stare. I do not wish to be spellbound by your beauty. Instead, I’ll leave you to yours before the tide turns moody. I am not after your affection or hand, just stopping to admire a portrait and follow my pesky poet’s command. All written for you. May your days never be blue.
@@YourWingmam Guess I shouldn't mention what I caught some couples trying to do near closing time in the art galleries. Ever see the portrait of "Cupid And Psyche"? There's your clue.
That naughty cat again! She is a little monkey hiding in the same spot. I had to put my glasses on to find her! She looks just like my baby girl Luna !! x
@@YourWingmam OMG ! You with a real life cat sorting mens problems out is probably the most amazing viewing I could ever possibly imagine! Giving me goosebumps!!
@@YourWingmam Well I all ready got a warning from the local cops last night in a bar about my exposure therapy even after I name dropped your page...they told me to keep it zipped and they did not care about my Wing Man....lol...
