And black people find this behavior of calling their own women such derogatory names fine and acts if the behavior is hilarious and humorous as if it's cute but there's no other man on this planet that talks about or disrespects his women like that and worse is that it's others like you that think it's cute and acceptable. That's one of the reasons why we stay in the conditions that we are.
No wonder BM die From hypertension so often. Y’all get angry over everything. The entitlement is unreal! No one owes you anything….adopt this and you will live a long peaceful life.
its amazing how MUCH you yungins think like lil mama. OG's DONT do silence!!! or say butt hurt. he NOT complainin hatin or in his feelins. yall call clownin hatin cause u hate gettin clowned for thinkin like THOT.
We already know y’all mad when y’all go silent though lol it’s too obvious . Best thing to do is text her back like nothing happened.. then one day out the blue don’t text her at all .. trust .. the next day or so she gone be texting u lol
@@corrydonaldson5352lol then that’s what your level of attraction can get. If the women chasing you are typically ugly lol then look in the mirror brotha you might not be as sexy as you think.
Facts , I usually just cut em off , unfollow delete the number so I’m not tempted to send a message ever because I don’t remember her number . We not chasing these hoes bruh
Lmao, I deal with clients every day. I know when people are serious and when they are not. Any excuses I move on. Imagine yourself hesitating to go out with someone you actually like. Exactly
Automatic termination. I refuse to be your entertainment!!! Damn I miss the 80's, 90's & early 2000's when both men & woman enjoyed each others company & conversation!
If that happens, then I 100% guarantee you that either she's not interested or you're just one of several guys that she's trying out to see which one she likes the most. My advice? Cut your losses and move on!
Don't double text. If you do text and she doesn't respond in a long time, then you can wait the same amount of time to respond to her text. If the time for your date plan passes because of the delays then that's on her. Never call a woman out on a slow text response. Calling her out makes YOU look weak. Just make her feel what you are experiencing on your end. Always be ready to walk away and that means at every text message that was not responded to.
@@avve9001 never call her out if anything when she finally gets back to you after 24 or 48 hrs with some BS excuse. do the following oh sht i forgot about you and start making plans with 3 other women so my week this week is busy but how about next week you do this EVEN IF you have have 3 other women lined up because 1 it shows you have options 2 it shows you dont care about her and arent willing to sit around and wait for her what this will do is 1 get her to actually commit to seeing you because how dare you cancel plans with her for 3 other women because she responded late OR 2 she will just move on to the next man either way you win because 1 you have the leverage now and this time shes committed to making the dat 2 you got rid of some girl that was wasting your time unfortunately men have to play mind games because women play mind games but what women dont know is men are better at mind games than them its just that most men are unaware that they have to play these mind games and thats why they lose out
@@justthatguy1808 Replying with "sorry you missed out, I have other women"-kind of answers can come across as butthurt and/or immature as it will shine through you are trying to make her jealous. If you really have options you couldn't care less because the other girls are keeping you busy while this girl is holding on her reply. I hardly believe any woman would commit to you after sending her a text like that. I think you should not burn bridges because of your ego.
A girl like this is: 1. Unsure about what to text back. 2. Not very into you. 3. Keeping you as a backup. 4. Playing games. 5. Testing your confidence. 6. Only looking for validation/is bored and don't actually plan to set up a date. Don't get mad, don't double text, don't invest too much, just keep these girls as a backup. You could call them out in a playfull way.
@@stellatheastronomical You could say "hey my beard is turning gray over here" or "two days have passed and that reply is all you could come up with? 😅"
@@stellatheastronomical No, a needy response would be something like "please respond to me" or "did i say something wrong?" or "why don't you answer me?". Keep it fun and confident and don't be afraid to walk away.
People as a whole, whether male or female have begun to make relationships more and more complicated and difficult. State your intentions and expectations in the beginning. State your deal breakers. Playing games with each other over a text/phone call is not the way.
Best believe she’s responding fast to and giving up the box to the ones she’s into fellas, let her go she’s not that into you and not making you a priority and truth be told you probably need to work on your looks, attitude and purpose/finances if she isn’t chasing because she isn’t interested and probably sees herself as better than you and has better options.
@@Felipe-gm6fu 24 hours isn't too much just because you wait shorter. It’s like someone replying you “5 hours is too much, I only wait 40 minutes” 😂 Like me, some people aren't active 24/7.
Give her the silent treatment, a womans biggest threat is when us guys respond emotionless. Women thrive on emotion, negative or positive and they dont care which one it is. As long as they get attention
This still a SIMP move...she wants you to accept it when you kneel with that 'happened to me too last week' BS. Instead, tell her 'no worries' and send nothing else..let her text you first after that..always
@@jordanmitchell9742 lol thats not the point, acting like it’s getting to you and telling them or ignoring them is weak behaviour. That’s saying indirectly that you’re needy and desperate, as if you don’t have other options. Sure they will mess around with you for validation but they will never be serious with you or let you clap them cheeks. Don’t act like a beta billy even if you are one lol, you got your own life and sht to do show her you don’t need her and theyll start to chase you. Cmon guys this is common sense.
No cuz if thats what shes on then im on that too it dont bother me . I treat womwn how they treat me. Those women givw the coochie on the first date cuz they know they been playing
I used to be so much of a DAWG N*GGA in my prime (before I got married).. shit I didn’t give a damn if one of my women didn’t hit me right back… because I was already setting up plans with my next one to go see her.
LMAO the same women telling fellas to call are the same women that ignore calls 🤣🤣🤣 this why they get mad when you have other obligations or hobbies. We're not going to constantly "chase".
I'm a grown ass man in every sense of the word... If I text a woman & she doesn't hit back... So what! It stops nothing I want to do! Say, If I want to have dinner with her and don't text back should I not eat? Of course I should... I'll just ask someone else or go by myself! And when she does respond... I'll just simply let her know what my agenda was...
24hours is too long... I delete a girls number after 6hours of no response... A girl will go to the bathroom to reply a text if she is busy and likes you and has high interest.. so that is no excuse
Lmao blocking people for not responding in the manner or time frame you want means that they win. Are you saying women shouldn’t exercise free will if they want to be in your life? Pathetic
Once you see how they act when they really desire you, little stuff like taking long to text back is an immediate red flag!! That's when you play that same game right back! You ain't gotta throw her ass away just keep that same energy and text her ass back next Christmas🎅
Da Real Crisis: I'm in a messy situation (sis approaching 50-just found out) right now. Do I pretend and continue simping or just cut her out? Or, do I just reverse this shit and turn dirty dog on her?
They can’t help but check their phones or watches even in church. If she tells you she didn’t see the text or she thought she sent the message that’s a damn lie. As soon as they open the message app it goes directly back to the thread they were texting so there’s no way she’s oblivious to the fact that she didn’t send it.
If you don't like someone's behaviour, just say so: I don't like your behaviour. That's the adult way. And if she continues that behaviour: drop her. Easy.
That's why I'm honest and don't even give my number to someone i have no interest in. It's not an audacity tho it's a clear indication of them not being interested.... you actually shouldn't even be reaching out after no response.... that's automatic block.... both ways. Yall have fun dating
It happens . Hell i woke up this morning and my adidas shopping cart/pay screen was still up... I didnt click order... People have stuff going on and many aren't glued to a phone. I had to check my friend twice before telling him to stop calling.. i don't have my phone on me while i am doing, alot of things. No phone at dinner or movies or do, answer my pvt line vs text, on my job. Just yesterday, . I was cutting my grass, then sprayed my weeds. it took me 5 hours on a Sunday to crabgrass/clover treat my entire lawn after, i cut the grass and trimmed. Not about to have someone get upset, if i come in and eat then fall asleep. Have faith and not fear, if i am not readily available
Most people have something going on it only takes few seconds to send a text to someone letting them know you're busy if someone can't spare a few seconds to show common courtesy then move on it's not worth it that person will always have an excuse
Even the busiest ppl can quickly say "not a good time" or "im real busy hyb later" its just something that can avoid attitudes and misconceptions but maybe thats too much.
So if you actually like the person and you “forgot to send the text” wouldn’t you in your mind be wondering if they got your text within idk maybe 2-3 hours?? Quit your bs excuses people only do that to ppl they could care less about.
@@MrOneal9141 i am adult and do not text as a form of communication, per se. I call and leave a msg. If i forgot to text, its a text to say, "i am not going to be available for the evening or i am going to sleep" . I dont have conversations via text . I gave examples and i am not attached to my phone. I told my partner up front that i am not texting as a form of communication and i meant it. Call. Leave a msg
That’s why my block game would make Mutombo proud of me. 🙏🏾 Just blocked one a few days ago. Always on social media dnt wanna hit me up. Funny thing is she came to me in my DMs smh 🤦🏾♂️ 😂 man these chicks pitiful.
Only after God, then her .. u are third. Accept that and you will have zero problems. You should know your person vs being upset about a text that came, 24 hrs later. Ask first b4 the blowup
Gotta kill em wit kindness especially when you know she was being a piece of sht or jus not responding, then watch her squirm🤦🏿♂️😂 ....but that was out of left field bra, i feel ya pain G😭😭✊🏿 you meant every word of that sht💯😂😭😭🤣
Girl gives me her number. I text 1 month later saying happy new year. No response. I see her 5 months later. I said oh I thought something happened cuz you didn't respond. She said she was busy. She came back later that day and said hello. I didn't respond. She said oh not interested? I said oh. I'm busy.
Nah rather ask what she been upto and try to see what the reason was she ignored you. You can't be assuming bad shit always. And you can't let people dictate the energy you gonna put out. Just see if she going to pull the same shit time and time. And tell her ass she's not serious and you can't take her seriously from now on.
@@abelalemu6546 wrong, your time should be as valuable as hers, if you text her and she doesn’t reply to text you for eight hours later I wouldn’t take her back until next week
@@abelalemu6546 So she read your message and couldn’t give you the courtesy to even say she had something going on. Text you in a bit? She never after reading your text looked at the message again? It’s not about assuming bad. It’s about the fact that you were ghosted. It doesn’t matter the reason. A text takes seconds to say give me some time. What you’re suggesting is judging the reason for the lack of communication to see if it’s good enough to you. Why play that game? If we text every day and then nothing for a couple days. You not respecting my energy to stay consistent. So go do that over there
@@benG3483 from my experience that ignoring texts happens probably during the first 3 dates of getting to know eachother. And I've seen it always being a little shit test to see if you gonna double text or cry about it like other weirdos In her dms. That's why when she notices you being cool about it it won't happen again and attraction goes higher for you. But if she pulls it again without valid reason then you call her out on it and tell her she not being serious, and if she genuinely likes you that's when that game stops if not cut her off immediately.
@@abelalemu6546 But you not following what he said. She “meant to text him back”. She thought she sent it. Basically she left him on read. If you have the time to read it. You have 3-60 more seconds to quickly respond.
Nah Bro, If A Female Do That To You. ...You Dismiss Her ASAP. Starting Any Relationship Lying Is A Huge Red Flag G. Drop Her Like A Bad Habit, Move On😎💪🙏💯
Never mention or bring up when she blows out on you, and never wait around if a woman will choose you... Remember this number one rule fellas if you haven't hit the kitty you mean nothing to a woman period.
If you let them get away with that shit they'll never stop doing it. I never said anything for a year and it never stopped. I created a monster by letting her get away with shit.
Rejection is protection...She is revealing her character...It takes a minute to get back to someone...She is playing games...immature and needs to learn some manner...let it go...life is tough and relationships should not be complicated ❤
Stop caring and match people energy. You must have no life if you are waiting on anyone's text. You respond quick to my text I do the same. You respond slow to my text I respond the same. MATCH THEIR ENERGY.
Coming from a single woman that is guilty of doing this, I can because I'm single. I'm not obligated to rush to return a message. If you are just a friend and women do this don't take it personally. If I choose to be in a relationship then that's definitely different.
You're right. She's not obligated to give us husband treatment and with that attitude, a man isn't obligated to marry a selfish ass woman. Women who think like you shall never be married. Only dumbass/weak dudes marry selfish women.
Choose women who choose you and don't choose those women who are not choosing you. Move on and keep moving on and don't ever move in her direction again.
If she takes 24 hours or 48 hours to respond, there's no need to respond with butthurt vibes or dry texting vibes. Respond light and regular but pull back attention from her and make her put in work or let her walk
I sent a message and she waited a whole week then asked me to come over and bring a whole list of liquor. I said ok and ahe said the door is open I'm in the shower now. I never text back or made it there 😂
As a person who texts back when/if I feel like it and sometimes neglects to hit send, I approve this message. Because I know how I am, I’m just honest. And yes, subliminally it does have a bit to do with how I regard the person because I would NEVER neglect responding to my mother or father 🤷🏽♂️
I use the 3x rule. If she takes 2 days then you multiply by 3. 6 days. If she takes one month, then you don't reply at all and invest in other beaches or better yet, yourself.
True story, I asked a woman to help me read a script for an audition. Initially, I thought that she was offended by something I may have said but I was wrong. She told me that she responded to me so I when? She went to show me her thread and she literally forgot to hit send.
Those are very rare occurrences think about how many times you've typed up a text and didn't hit send unless you're just slow then that doesn't happen I had a female tell me the same thing and then she tried to get mad at me for saying I didn't text when I did this was supposed to be our first date and it didn't happen so then I blew it off and couple weeks later we were supposed to link up again and similar situation again she said I didn't get your text and I was waiting for you to text blah blah blah I knew right then she's just playing mind games and I'm not entertaining that never talked to her again
Men and women have their ways. People never go for the people who actually like. Goes for men and women. Some people are in it for the thrill of the chase.
Naw if she do that just respond with “ok” or better yet don’t respond at all, then proceed to delete her number out ya phone and never talk to her again. Problem solved, no more time wasted.
I hate when a female hits me up and asks,”why you didn’t hit me up,it’s been 2 weeks and I didn’t hear from you?.” Okay,so why did it take you 2 weeks to hit me up?.I don’t always have to hit you first!!people make time for those who have time for them..👍🏿
I ignore the chick Im dating because she call me literally atleast 15 to 20 times a day. She don't want to understand my reasoning for her to stop calling or texting so much.
Or… she just doesn’t like you that much! 🫢 Go figure! 🤷🏽♀️ Feel free to focus your attention elsewhere! Everyone deserves to be fully-liked (almost everyone, not grown men who refer to women in general as “bitches”) but if somebody isn’t paying you the attention you feel you deserve, move on! It ain’t that hard! Maybe he can get her attention, maybe he can’t, but all this means is that he ain’t got it yet!
Anyone that expects someone else to care about you that much has a mental problem. If you are not the job, the bank, or the hospital, just wait because you are not special.
I’m surprised you didn’t get attacked hard for this one LOL!! Especially when you told the truth! A person can have literally anything going on and just couldn’t text back but as always the geniuses in these comments want everything to be about them
@@rakn752 exactly lol everyone has a life, apart from that people don’t understand even then that dating is kind of a game. She is testing you and you’re failing when you pressing her about not texting back or ignoring her. It is weak behaviour and it will just push them away cause you’re indirectly telling them you needy and desperate and have no options. In the begin stages of dating don’t even text to talk, text with purpose lol get them on a date don’t be on your phone for hours entertaining them. You have a life, she has a life, you don’t need anyone. At the end of the day the only one who got you is you.
