Once I had an panic attack that was almost like a seizure and I felt something break inside. It took months before I was able to feel strong emotions again.
We relate to them for sure. Heroes just shadow the bad parts of life. While vilains. Show it. And heroes just erase it. Make the vilain's conditions worse.
The "You feel too much until you're numb" part actually made me realize something and the "you get annoyed easily" is more of just me running away without saying anything, i hope this helped. thank you psych2go
1.) 0:50 You cry easily over small things 2.) 1:40 You lose interest in the things you used to enjoy 3.) 2:06 You get annoyed easily by people's behaviors 4.) 3:03 You feel worthless and hopeless 5.) 3:40 You keep replaying the bad memories in your head 6.) 4:36 You feel too much until you're numb 7.) 5:45 You feel clueless and stuck
I've been stuck in this mental loop for so long, finally realizing and understanding that I have A LOT of emotional wounds. I found it ironic that this popped up just now when I was thinking of this. Thank you for this. I hate how apathy has become my daily for a multitude of years.. it's been more debilitating that I knew.
as a person who has an emotional wound, I never knew I even had an emotional wound. I started to cry as soon I realized how damaged I am, thank you for making this video even though its a year old. When someone asks me what's wrong too much I get angry ( 2:03 ) I'm not trying to be rude and whenever I tell them they get angry at me saying "jeez I was just asking" which makes me feel guilty. ( 3:39 ) Whenever I have those thoughts I get mentally weak like I don't want to do anything like I get numb just like ( 4:35 ) These signs are really strong and it makes me feel like I'm not the only one. Thank you for helping me realize things. ♥
I understand as well because I always have a tendency to ignore others when they say something or tell me to do something. I can relate to almost all the signs except for the last one. Most of the time I actually feel pretty useless to other people. I don't want to make people uncomfortable so I just leave them alone for awhile. I mostly stay up during night contemplating whether I should say something to my peers or my family, but I don't want to be mean to them or have them get the wrong idea. I also think that if I was to talk to others about a certain topic they might get mad at me and leave me alone forever. I also feel retarded and stupid whenever I raise my hand in class for everyone to hear so I just keep everything to myself and bottle up my feelings to hide from the rest or the world afraid that others will judge me. I also always contemplate whether or not my friends except me for who I am. So in conclusion, I hide myself from the world.
I’m crying listening to this realizing that I keep fighting the pain. I just want to move on and be happy. My husband left me and I am constantly replay and asking what went wrong. i relate to every single topic. I listen to this channel often and appreciate everything you do 💜
I feel the same. Would never take my own life but I’m just waiting to die. It’s not over an ex-husband, but it’s another extremely traumatizing event. I used to be so strong and resilient. Why not now? Weird how I can never find my car keys but ask me any tiny detail of my emotional heartbreak of several years ago. I’m on it like Blue Bonnett. Im guilty of all mentioned but the worst is “over sharing.” I can stay in my house and no one knows if I’m crying and lethargic but…all you do is annoy people when you over share. Ughh. I won’t lie and tell you it’s always easy to recall, but there’s only two things that help me…1. We are all unique and perfectly made in God’s eyes. …and 2. It’s All part of God’s plan. I know you’ve wondered a hundred times what is wrong with you because he left, but see 1 and 2. There’s always a reason. Love and prayers for you.
@@emmbieemmbie2131 Hello Embie. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation . You say you believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 . Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God. Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart. But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much Do not give up.
I've basically been through all of this because of dark pasts. I had to move from many schools because of bullying and strict teachers, so I gave up on a lot of stuff that I enjoyed very much back then. It can be understandable if the memories coke back to mind. I hope everyone is doing great right now.😊❤
same!! i am afraid to open up and get close with anyone because i've always had to change schools growing up. thank you, and you too!! sending a virtual hug your way
Nah, I just prefer to not socialise. The quiet is relaxing for the mind. Obviously I don’t have social anxiety or anything like that, and I’m willing to respond to requests or general statements from the public. (In college rn)
atleast you moved but i have to remain till finished high school enduring everything was a challenge for me , my mom still tells me that its a good school that i am good at certain things , that i am impatient , aggressive it would have been same everywhere
I think we’ve all been hurt a bit mentally but when it’s severe I definitely see how these behaviors can develop. I truly feel like they’re spot on honestly. But being aware and deciding to heal is the first step to a better mental headspace. Wishing everyone the best 💛
yk when you're so aware but you feel like maybe you're lying to yourself and everyone for attention except for a fraction of a while when you actually connect with yourself and you're aware for a fleeting moment but even then you can never really commit to healing or even ask for explicit and continuous help? yeah.
I am 70 years old and am just now trying to did with bad things that happened to me all my life. within the last year I have been told I am bipolar and I suffer from PTSD. Right now I am stuck in April 17 2005 that is when my wife passed away. come close to taking myself out. but I see a little light. my therapist is helping and they are trying to get me on the right meds
@@davidlafleche1142 what do you want him to do with that? Your encouraging su!cide right there in this context buddy. Keep going man, for it is just not your time yet. Keep going. Best of luck to ya!
This was me a couple months ago with basically every sign: I got angry quick, I cried at all the videos I watched, and I felt unloved and I wanted people to leave me be. Thank you for this. For me it’s a reflection of what I used to be and how much better I am. I hope everyone reading this and everyone here can someday feel real healing 🥀🌸💜💜💜☔️💧🎖🧸🧸🧸
I literally started crying just at the start of this video and all of the points resonates with me,and the emotional wound was given to me by my depression and anxiety and the reaction of my close ones to it aggravated it even more. Right now I'm completely clueless in my life,like where am i heading,what even makes me happy???these types of thoughts arises in my mind. Everyday is just now same,waking up,faking a smile on your face so that others don't get upset because of you even though you're the one going through it and then just sleep at night and again repeating this cycle. I know there are many out there suffering from this situation,and i really really hope that you all get healed really soon and find your lost self and happiness again.❤❤❤
But what if I don't know how to get healed or who to talk to? What if I don't want others to know that I need a therapist? What if I don't know how to take of the fake smile?
“You feel too much to where you’re numb” that one hit hard. I have depressive episodes every now and then and I feel so much emotion and pain, then I just go blank. Like i feel nothing at all, numb. This really gave me reassurance to know I’m not alone.
Heh more or less the same for me s It mostly happens to me when I have nothing to do and it's silent gazing of then it just hits me and makes my whole week miserable
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation . Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 . Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God. Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart. But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
I can relate to most of these. Being emotionally wounded was the darkest time of my life so far. I’ve struggled with that, being depressed, social isolation, self-identity, and even dealt with suicidal thoughts. I only started to get out when I talked to my parents about it. I still felt numb and depressed but it was a lighter than before. I started making friends again and I became comfortable with who I am. I finally let go of all the hurt and sadness so I can live my life. I might not be completely healed but I am grateful for the people who helped me get out from the worst of it. Thank you Psych2Go, you’re amazing.
Oh wow. That is the least helpful advice your dad could say to you. I hope you have a friend or someone you can trust to listen to you and maybe help you with whatever you’re going through!
this hit. no matter what experience you are going through, always keep in mind that soon it will be something that happened in the past that will not need to be revisited anymore. it gets better, keep your head up! 💞
I never managed to realize that feeling numb was an actual thing and always told myself I was being dramatic. All your videos help me realize that I'm not being dramatic and they made me realize I needed to get help, which is good because no one around me cared to notice
@@fardeater I understand how you guys feel too. Im probably ) depressed (not diagnosed, because no one cares and literally is like "you dont need help just get it over with" the same as my parents so they didnt got me to an psychologist or anything like that) and everyone said that im just being dramatic and I should act more like a man and not be a crybaby So these videos help me a lot I literally realized things about me, me myself didnt even know about
I just want to say, thank you. I am a 12 year old individual with depression, and within the almost 13 years of my life i have had to deal with a lot of loss, and heartbreak, and you guys help heal my depression by calming me, and allowing myself to let go of the past and negative emotions. I couldn't be more grateful for you guys. Much Thanks.
From being emotionally wounded to start getting healed... it's a journey; this is how life teaches. It is important to identify the causes of the crisis within us and outside and get rid of those. We all deserve a good life 🌼
@@insearchoflight2444 In life there are only 2 problems--mind and the body. Once you take charge of these life is stress free. To feel better reduce negative thoughts. Be careful what you feed your mind. Avoid comparing yourself with others, reduce negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress-anxiety. For a relaxed mind observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 10-15-20 minutes or more. You can sit or lie down, neck straight and eyes closed. Never meditate with expectations but with awareness. Don’t fight your thoughts. With practice the mind will relax. Keep a reminder to observe your breath sensations throughout the day and night --before sleep, when reading, at work, when sitting in the park etc. Like me, make this a lifetime habit to have a better life. Best wishes--Counsellor.
@@insearchoflight2444 Only if there are multiple symptoms a visit to your family physician is needed. Since many years I have made it a habit to observe my breath sensations even during my normal activities and I am feeling relaxed. Anywhere-anytime it can be done. The best part is nobody comes to know that you are doing the breath observing practice as there is no deep breathing or sound. Reduce watching negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind. Read my msg and do the practice regularly. Best wishes. Sr. Counsellor
I lost a friend to suicide a week ago. I'm broken, the school I go to has forgotten. The afternoon after it happened, I was sitting in the commons. A girl named Alice, one of my friends, walked up to me because she noticed I was having a tough time. Instead of just focusing on the bad of what happened, she showed me fun pictures of the friend I lost instead. It helped me so much to remember the fun things my friend would do instead of what he had done the previous night. Everybody, please, find yourself an Alice who will help you through tough times. I dont know how, but she knows how to perfectly comfort somebody. Not with coldness, but with warmth and happiness.
The apathy thing... I struggled with that for a while. One thing that helped me turn it around was thinking "If I decide to give up, life will be like this until I die" It helped me realize that it would be boring, depressing, and it would probably get worse. I was more scared of those possibilities than taking trying again. It didn't jump-start me with a lot of energy, but it was enough to start working on myself, slowly, but consistently.
@@reevebryllielawas7834 hope is an illusion. hope can be build when he starts doing what he says but he can only do that if he is living somewhere where that can be done freely without disturbance. inner and outer physical dimensions have to have the right conditions to align.
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation . Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 . Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God. Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart. But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
Sometimes it's not up to you... can't move on and imagining living your life like this is too painful and probably that's one of the reasons people kill themselves...
In high school, we had a hsie teacher who would jokingly insult some students occasionally, but I noticed that (at least) one of my classmates seemed to dread the classes, and I think they might have developed an emotional wound from the teacher. On top of that, he was also very strict at times. I know he wasn't trying to hurt people, but I think some were actually mentally and emotionally affected by his 'insults'.
Uhhhh you don’t have to put “insults” in quote marks. They WERE insults. It doesn’t matter if they were intended as humor. Not everyone is okay with that - especially from an authority figure.
I have 6/7 signs I can relate to everything but crying I used to cry a lot until i was 10 Now, i don't cry at all on anything Not on emotional movies,loss of friends,funerals Nothing Is it bad ?
@@theteenagedragon1 not crying at anything, not even funerals, could be bad. Some people may think that you're being disrespectful to the person who passed away, or they think you don't care about them. It's okay to cry at events like funerals, just if you're bottling the sadness up, try to let it out sometimes.
Hello I am 14yrs old I’ve been with my strict parents and they always gave me pressure to go to a good school. They said that they are trying to support me but it was really difficult to go through. And every time I see my friends they are always free but I’m the only one crying in the bathroom stalls. And I’m watching this rn and I’m crying thinking about the words my parents told me. My friends were very good while taking exams and I did really bad because my anxiety kicked in while my friends getting a perfect score. I hope I get over with it and thank you for listening
I just lost my dog in October from when a coyote attacked her. It was so sudden, I have felt almost all of these. I used to write stories all the time, now it feels like a task. I have have apathy, and you have helped me a lot. Thank you for your videos
@@europeanghst why don’t you both try to write a story together? Creating a background, the characters and their relationships, even if it’s short or something easy it could help you both to revive your passion. Or something like role-playing, maybe? (Sorry my main language is spanish) but this also happens to me when I lose all the motivation in drawing, I take an exercise book or something easy to follow and try enjoying it and learning something new.
I’m sorry you lost you’re dog ❤I just prayed God helps you heal. It’s difficult to lose a best friend. I know you’re dog can never be replaced but maybe in time, you might be ready to perhaps help out a rescue dog from the shelter. It’s very gratifying to save a pup from a bad situation and as you know they reward you with unconditional love 💕. God bless 🙏🏽
It looks like I have all these 7 symptoms. I started crying even while watching this video because I could connect myself with all these points. It feels like I am the only person in the world going through all these emotional rollercoaster...
I have the same symptoms but with uncontrollable happiness and laughing, I feel happy and cheerful all the time that I just try to be negative, usually always cheerful that it feels like I am messed up in the head, got a kind of trauma of being too cheerful. Only have one solution that is to hide it and try to be gloomy and edgy. (I'm finally in my teens so there's nothing wrong with edgy for now)
I lost a couple friends who were like family to me. I talked to them dang near every day for several years. People around me told me they were bad for me and were more bullying me rather than helping me. I couldn't see it until it was too much for me. I gave them the benefit of the doubt the whole time. I still can't help but think if things could have been different or somehow prevented. Ive been separated for a couple years now, but still not over it. I don't know if I ever will.
@@BharatSingh-qf9ip Yea, it sucks...I don't feel hate, just sadness. But I've mostly moved on. You will too :) It just comes back to me from time to time.
I haven't moved on from it not yet to be honest in fact i think it's getting even worse i don't feel that happiness and positivity in things that i used to. now the only thing that makes me happy is music
I know what you mean. I felt exactly that same way after it happened to me. Just stay positive and try to work on yourself. I know its hard, but you can do it.
Yeah I'm trying bro i just need some time. if you wanna be friends then i would love to ☺️ . we can share our different countries culture, traditions languages. it kinda feel interesting to know about that stuff to me
these videos sometimes really just give what most of us need - acceptance and acknowledgment of our mental and emotional struggles...like just knowing that your not alone and it's okay to have them, and to know that you are seen is really the best one can ask for when we're so beaten down
I cry over the smallest things like sad song baby animal videos & more but the same way but I feel the bad things replaying in my mind a loop but I feel numb
❤️ Reminder ❤️ Unfortunately a lot of people around everyone of us are struggling in life, for one reason or another. Probably, even ourselves. Sharing love and positivity costs nothing. Let’s all remember that some small word of encouragement can literally make someone’s day. Because sometimes, that’s all we need ❤️🚀🌙
I'm at the last sign. I just feel numb after all these years. It's been years yet the wound still remains. I'm honestly not sure if it'll ever go away. I'm only turning 22 this year and I already feel empty. The few times I truly am happy feel temporary. They go as quickly as they come. The stress and guilt along with other emotions are giving me strands of gray hair... I've been told that I'm too young to be experiencing all of this.
I felt like this after I moved out from my parents, struggling with things my family went through, job pressure, emotional pain and physical pain, loneliness, religious conflict, everything. It felt like the world was crashing down on me. I felt empty. I would spend time with my family at gatherings and I would act happy while inside I kept asking myself "I should be happy right now but why do I feel like I'm on the verge of breaking down in tears?" And I hated myself and felt ashamed for feeling this way. Sometimes I would get home at night and lean against my vehicle and just cry. I didn't know why I was sad or felt so empty. After a while I stopped feeling anything. Each day seemed like I was a zombie dragging myself toward what I perceived would be my next happy moment hoping that it would make me feel better only for it to leave me feeling empty in the end. I never went to therapy, but I probably should have. My own stress was eating me alive and created even more problems for me as well. I am still not completely healed from this but I am feeling much better and when I do start to feel this way I have learned how to handle it better. What helped the most for me was writing how I felt in a journal. Writing my thoughts helped me rationalize how I was feeling in a more clear and concise way because if I tried just thinking about problems in my head I was way less nice to myself because I already felt terrible. I even created two Instagram accounts and talked back and forth with the accounts as if it was two different people. I would view each message as if it was a friend I cared very deeply about and wanted to help them. My own responses to my problems were a lot more clear and helpful then they ever were when I just thought about them. Turns out we tend to hate ourselves a lot more in the moment then if we take time to rationalize why we feel things certain ways and for what reasons. Looking to external reasons for solutions never helped because my problems were rooted inside of me and in the way I perceived external problems I had. A friend once told me that it was a shame that I had all of these negative emotions against myself because I was one of the nicest, most caring people he had ever met. He told me to use the same compassion I extend to others and try to view myself with that same compassion. It was really hard to find a good way of doing that but the journaling and messages to myself really helped me a lot. Sometimes we need to look inward to ourselves and learn how to become our own best friend, because someone who hates themself will never be able to find lasting happiness. I hope this can help you in some way and you can find a way to push through the numbness you are feeling and live happy again. You got this❤
@maple_istrue1023 I read it bro, I got your back as well and don't downplay any of your own problems either. Any issues you are going through deserve to be respected and taken as seriously as anyone else. I hope that the therapy has been helping 👍 Don't worry about me though I'm doing alright. Thanks for responding it means a lot!
@H2D Fives I did the same thing writing my thoughts and feelings in a notebook to figure out what to do next it really helped me a lot in the end I found someone 4 me and she fixed my whole lonely world and helped me realize I was worth more than I knew
I am 19, in the same stage, I feel you, people say we are too Young to experience this, but its pretty common and noone does anything about it. They will say you shouldnt go trough that, but thats all they will do.
Quick update: I was diagnosed with bipolar depression and schizophrenia. I'm on meds but it's really messing with my head. Recently my eye has been twitching uncontrollably and my memory is worse. Doctor said both are side effects. Not sure what to do rn if I'm being honest...
Watching this and making my conscious face my problems directly got a lump in my throat and holding tears. I'm officially drained. I have been like this for years, despite that, I made it to my dream college and faced the hardships that I still can't believe I did. But what worsened it is that I couldn't get better at dealing with pent up emotions and the fear of not being accepted (I always was the hated student in every class I was in and was popular for that), also nowadays the attitude one of the professors has with me, like she is trying her hardest to pinpoint that I didn't care enough to study the given lecture, saw the way she treats other students vs how she treats me, for one particular subject I DID study and scored high, but made me retake the test out of the blue (mind you, she just made only me retake it), agreed unwillingly uncomfortable but she just changed my former score to a one that's significantly lower, when trying to understand where I went wrong, please let me know my mistakes , promise to do better, she just told me "you have no right to discuss anything with me, take your leave and don't make things hard for me" with a roll of eyes in front of my colleagues. like MRS, this is my future and every grade is important in order for me to ensure my stay in my dreams field - in my country it's equal to NEET and MCAT - and I hung my head and silently left her room crying. To this day it hunts me the thought no matter what I do I will not be enough and even now I think about quitting everything bcs I can't find it in me to continue. I'm desperately trying to feel any kind of positive feelings but to no avail.
I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm a 10-year-old kid with depression. It's been hard for me, because my parents don't know. But I hope your family is there for you the rest of your life. ❤
@@hazelpopp2843 you're so sweet♡︎ but my heart now aches for you.. you're so young to let all of the depression's burden on your soulders! I didn't really take my problems with uncontrollable negative feelings seriously so when I was overwhelmed with them I would talk about it with family - mind also, they didn't take it seriously too since I get sensitive because of any harsh word thrown at my way - but it actually helped! Getting what's bothering you out of your system and talking about your depression lessens the pain. When I was younger I kinda held everything in and was so closed off but after growing up I became more vocal about my struggles. I wish I seeked help from parents earlier though, now I'm twenty years old and still trying to cope. Please, don't let the same thing happen to you. I'm sure your parents will try to understand💜 sorry for writing this long:(
I almost started crying because of this. I relate to most of these. And even if we are broken… shattered. We can pull through as long as we try. But almost everyone has had to gone through something painful, and we had ways to cope with it or are still finding ways to get through. I indeed understand that it will hurt, but overtime it will get better. ❤
I'm at the verge of crying while watching this video. I tend to hurt myself but not physically. And I feel guilty of not being compassionate to myself. :((
The worst thing for you to do is to self sabotage. instead of finding your way to heal, you prevent yourself from healing because you yourself is now actively and passively participate to depreciate your value by negative self talk, low self esteem and ITS NEVER YOUR FAULT because its is the result of your trauma, wounds. its never too late to heal. healing starts when you acknowledge your wounds then you can encourage yourself to try baby steps.
I relate to this a lot... I've had some serious trauma as a kid, and even though I never realized it when I was young, the older I get the more I realize it. And it hurts really badly... I'm a very sensitive person now then I ever was before. I do one thing wrong and tears start to fall out of my eyes. I'm trying to get the guts to tell my parents about all this bottled up trauma but its been really difficult... Thank you Psych2Go for providing such accessible mental health information for all ages. Its super helpful for people who are dealing with stuff, or people who are just simply curious.
Hey, I’m going through the same exact thing. Is it okay if we can vent to each other? It’s eating me alive how angry I get and how much worse I’m becoming the more I realize my childhood trauma. All that trauma has been an influence on every decision I’ve made in my life, making everything more unbearable… 🥺
@@Harharmahadev-nb3uq made me tear, reading this. When you feel alone all the time and misunderstood, it makes me shut everyone and everything else even more. I grateful for people like you.
School ruined my life (update)I was just hating school because it’s boring and stuff but now I feel like school is not a place to educate like I get the useless information but my school is the most fun school but the teacher are hypercritical and disgusting I have never seen such a disgusting teachers is this what middle school look like or I am just unlucky also they don’t know how to teach which would be problematic when you go to high school and the students are just disgusting the students really like the old teachers as a joke and the teachers is just neglectful and don’t care if the students take their dark humour seriously and they don’t care to change the students not to mention that there is a very bad word worse than the n word in the school walls and it was still there for 3 years no one cared to clean it so disgusting
Thank you for this, a lot of this I can relate to and my emotional wounds still affect me today. I have thankfully taken on therapy recently and all I can hope is it helps not just for me but for my relationships with my family, friends, and even my girlfriend. I know that these aren’t the only reasons I have issues but therapy is a start to help better these in particular.
I literally cried while watching this video because everything fits perfectly to me I already had the thought if I maybe have Emotional Wound and not only once. I already had the thought like 15 times and I think its actually the truth
Don't worry dear 😃😃 Someone is in your life who love you and understand you better than anything 💕 Find that person in your life hmm..Be happy Be strong 💕💕
Can i be friends with you? I'd love to have someone in my life who is actually like me and at least wouldn't shout or get annoyed at me just becuz I'm feeling emotional... 🙂
You get hardened as you get older. I don't remember the last time I cried but I definitely have experienced depression when I was younger... Even now occasionally. It's good more attention is being brought to mental health because treatment is so unaffordable.
Every day I think to myself… “I feel like everyone around me was just a traitor no one loves or cares how I am feeling ” I feel just hate and sadness and nothing else…
I haven't realised that I've been emotionally abused, or emotionally wounded until I watch videos like these. I don't like feeling that I can't let myself release my saddness or anxiety. I know I've been crying over the littlest things, constantly thinking about dark or sad thoughts. I also noticed that I've been very dissmissive of myself and others, rarely talking to anyone and losing some friends along the way. I've always been ignored by my toxic mother whenever I try to talk about something that I'm passonate about. Sometimes she listens, but she always looks at her phone when I talk to her about my passions, then changes the subject to school. My mother has done other toxic behaviors, and it's because of her that I unintentionally ignore people, and I really find it hard to talk to people. Emotional wounds are no joke. It can really affect your life.
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation . Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 . Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God. Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart. But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
I didn't even realised I was like this for so LONG. I only paid attention to my mental health and trauma when I was a teenager, I have experienced trauma and abuse in the past and that really wounded me so bad 😞 I'm trying my best to cope with these feelings and thankfully it's getting a little better. I just wanna say thank you psych2go! You made my life better by these videos! After knowing these things I try my best to get rid of these behaviours! ❤️❤️
Yeah me too, i didn't underatand my feelings when i was a little kid, neither did anyone around me, i was really confused about everything, until i went to a place where people treated me nicely, i still had to figure things out by myself tho, atleast im not depresed anymore, but i still strugle with changing things in my life
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation . Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 . Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God. Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart. But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
I actually cried... Because it’s like you understand what is happening in people’s lives and I do have an emotional wound thank you for your videos they really help me to understand things...
You know what is the worst feeling in this world ? *The feeling of being dead from inside, feeling numb, laying on the bed looking somewhere and waiting for death* Actually for me this feeling is my best friend right now...
That's a daily activity bro. The only emotions I can sense is anger and sadness. Most of my time at school, I wait. Like from 12h to 14h I don't do anything i don't react to anything people look at me and ask me if everything is okay and I say yes just so they go away because talking about it is not easy. Talking about it is the only thing that makes me cry. A year ago, there was someone in my school that bullyed me for the whole year I think that's why I don't react to anything anymore. I had deppresion for a long time. After he was gone, I started to not feel anything. Now I realize, but going at school is (for me) useless because I don't learn anything I already knew everything that we learned. But I kept going... And now I stay in bed in weekends. Thank you to have read this comment I hope you are not like me. Seriously, you do not want to be like me. Anyways I am going to continue my life even tho it is not interesting anymore. At least I have friends. And I can trust in you all. Hope you're doing well!
@@migueldossantos9987 same here but the only difference is I didn't get bullied just simply isolated and talked behind after getting used... even the best treatment was that I was treated as a classmate who is good in studies. no real friends i just coped up through and just trying to go on even though i have earned some friends but they barely understand me. It's enough that they talk to me share their problems and I'm their listener in a way
Also, Nunber 5-6 is my literral definition. I keep thinking about that bully and what he did. I am in my 2nd year of school after primary and he went to another school this year. I keep on thinking of THE BIG FIGHT that happned june 26 i think. My whole neck was red and it hurted so much. I just hope I don't feel that again. In front of every teatcher he lied. I was the one taking all. So unfair. Il also have 136 IQ and I really felt how unfair his advantage was. Good Luck with your life!
As one who has emotional trauma, I must say that a lot of these things happen to me, and it’s relieving to know that my experiences are not completely unique.
Besides 1 and 4, you described me. I don’t replay the same bad memory in my head though, it’s always either a daydream or dream following the same premises as all of those horrible memories, but in a different style. Thank you for this, I’m only 12 and I’ve been through way to much then I needed. I’ve been through a lot of horrific things, so when you said the stuff about apathy I thought you were stalking me.
Ever since my father died almost 4 years ago, I've felt most of those signs, especially the first and last one. I've never been emotional before, so now crying often is really weird to me. And that last sign is still present, hopefully I'll be able to find my way again. Thank you for you videos ❤️
I feel similar after my mother died 5 years ago. She was an important person in my life and losing someone important to you can leave a big emotional wound. But before she passed away she told my family and me to live our lifes and even if I get sad when I remember her I try to also think about the happy moments we had and there are still people here who are also hurt and we support each other when we have problems. What I´m trying to say is that even if we lost someone we should also remember who ist still there for us.
I’ve realised I have all these signs since my first kitten died well my new kitten definitely has made me feel better about my first kitty’s death he can never replace him I hope my dead kittens knows that he’s loved And I want to offer my condolences to those who have lost loved ones
I cried during this. I always put on a mask about how I feel. Every day I go out and act happy and over emotional. Even though I'm numb. I don't feel anything anymore just misery. The air feels like a viscous liquid wich I struggle to breathe. The only times where I don't look back at bad things and feel miserable is wenn
I definitely saw myself in this. I did start to feel not good enough when I was younger in school (from not getting straight A's like my younger sister), but my inner pain got worse after I graduated from business school and ended up with a job that eventually caused me to fall into a mentally and emotionally deteriorating loop. I'll try not to make this comment too long, but I feel I should say how I felt and still feel so I do apologize. I always wanted a job as some kind of artist and author because I loved to draw illustrations and write stories ever since I was very young. However, reality hit me like daggers after going through a couple of years at my first full time job. The work environment was negatively toxic and I was placed in a position I didn't even apply for. I was grateful to have a job, but other than that I felt like a prisoner. It got so bad to the point I actually stopped doing the two things that made up my being drawing and writing. I truly felt it was my fate and believed that I would never become successful in what I long dreamed to be. I kept telling myself I want to get out of there, but I never took action. I was just expecting something to come along and save me because I was trapped in my own mind. Today, I'm in a different job position, same company though, but I'm trying to heal my wounds inside my mind and heart. Learning to trust and love myself. I'm working towards writing a first book I want to get published one day. As for drawing I want to start drawing again on the regular, but I know I shouldn't push myself too much so I'm working on weaning myself back into it little by little. It's still heartbreaking knowing that me a very positive person got my spirit sucked out of me and for about 8 or so years that I stopped doing what I loved. I'm promising myself I'll become an author one day and I'll find happiness in drawing again as I had before. I just have to take it one day at a time and be patient with my healing.
@@aparachakrabarty6507 Thank you for your kind words. I actually opened up to 2 of my family members about it about it yesterday in fact and I do feel better than I was. I know it's not going to be easy, but eventually I'll be able to live in true happiness without the burden of the past holding me back from living. Thank you again.
As a 12 yo kid, I already have these symptoms. I lost my self esteem because i got laughed at because I liked a girl in grade 2. Now that I still like her but I’m too afraid to confront. I would normally walk around the school with my head facing down because I am scared that I might look at someone. At the moment, I only have 1 mental supporter that is my friend, not my mom or sth. He is very empathetic, kind and sympathetic. I only feel better sometimes thanks to him. But I am still struggling with those. Most of the nights i just go to bed and start crying 😢
Hey kid, take care of yourself and know just because others think your weird doesn't mean you are and just know that someone will always be there for you, don't let go of yourself and know you are worth everything. ✨
The problem is its difficult when it's ur dad. They just bulldoze their actions towards u without giving a thought to how that affects ur emotions. They still keep on doing the same things over and over even when u have reached 22 years old.
I cried while watching this video. I've been hurt by so many people I've become numb to it, but this was the last straw. Some people I'm close to tease me alot but not only a few months ago while talking to one of them, they said they didn't like me anymore because I'm ugly. Being sensitive when it comes to this kind of treatment with friends absolutely broke me. Later they 'apologized' by saying "Oh, Sorry, I didn't mean it" this was obviously a fake apology. I'm still pretty close with them I guess.. we've been friends for more than 4 years. I don't plan on getting out of this relationship anytime soon, so I... don't know..
i check literally every box. the wound is recent and its been very exhausting. thank you for clearly identifying these signs i otherwise wouldnt be able to put into words and please continue to make amazing content like this
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation . Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 . Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God. Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart. But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
I have alot of people bully me alot, and recently I got held back in School and got a better class, so I think some jokes arent jokes, and getting called what I did get called last year hurt me alot, or having someone hug me feels weird because I never really truly feel love other than from my dad or my brother. My best friend (I only have 2 friends) gave me a hug when I was super depressed from some things that happened in the past, and I felt super weird. In a year I usually only get 4-8 hugs. Most from my dad. Thanks for taking your time to read this 💗
I'm really happy I've watched this video, I've been trying to figure out why I feel this way, and why it started worsening lately. Now I can find better ways to distract myself from, well, everything, for a while ^^
Thank you for explaining basically exactly what I feel after a guy a really loved broke up with me. Even though the relationship was short term I still felt a emotional and deep connection with him and this is exactly how I feel.
You are the only person so far that has made me feel like I am understood. Like I’ve been heard. I know this came out a while ago but…I just wanna thank you for what you do. I feel like you’ve healed me a lil bit
Reality carries so much--too much--to the point, where it's unbearable. 💔 What we feel, express, manage, even break from, plays a significant role for the next page. If we choose to do smth about these matters we face, we can definitely overcome the stress, we just need to be emotionally available to ourselves. 🤲❤️🩹✨ I know others have had it far worse than I have, yet I hope you will be able to slowly allow yourself develop courage, self-love, hope, and determination towards your endeavors. 🙏😔
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation . Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 . Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God. Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart. But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
This video made me shed tears so much, the things from my past just never goes away. As if it's like a crazy ex stalking me. I used to always laugh at jokes for a long period. Now it's just one chuckle and just move on with my day.
Thanks for this! My parents got divorced when I was 5 and this really helped to heal it. I have all of these signs. I used to lash out at my friends, cry over things that are only fictional, and I used to love playing with my little cousin. Now I just push him away. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
This really speaks to me, like that’s how I feel sometimes when it’s a rough moment or when I’m stressed out on something. I am a sensitive soul and sometimes I feel like I am a child because I couldn’t control my tears.🥺😰😞😭
I've always known that I was emotionally wounded but this just makes it more real. The wound is how throughout my primary school all the kids socialy isolated me and alienated me because I was different, mentally. I have ADHD and ASD. I felt completely alone and hated it often crying to God "why can't I make friends? Why doesn't anyone like me? And what's wrong with me?" Yeah I remember the very words I said so long ago under the jack-o Randa trees. And it hurts to remember.
@@alicehaus1365 It's cool. 😌I like to refer to this as Walking on the Moon, as I feel detached from social normacy, I gain insight into a new unbiased perspective that allows me to see the bigger picture more clearly buuuuut also overwhelms me more easily at times. Just like what it fells to look down onto the Earth from the Moon. 🌙
This video helped me realize that all of these happen to me almost daily, like a cycle that just keeps repeating itself as if its a daily routine, hopefully me and everyone suffering from this will someday get out of this misery. Thank you Psych2Go for helping me realize I'm not the only one.
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation . Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 . Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God. Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart. But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
I am an avid #MentalHealthAwareness advocate and spoken word performer, and I love this so much. I travel the country trying to bring that awareness on stages, in classrooms, hospitals, and on my RU-vid channel, so I get excited when I see other advocates.
Thank you so much Psych2Go for helping me thru this hard time of mine. I've been dealing with this loop for over an year now. But now...after i watched this video...i feel...safe and calm. And again thank you SO MUCH for all the support i could imagine. Hope you have a wonferful day / night.
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation . Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 . Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God. Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart. But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
I have had a lot of trauma and I have had a lot of suicidal thoughts, depression, anxiety, losing family members, and I have anger issues, my stepmom made me think that I was worthless and she took my little sister, my best happiness away from me. I was also very unpopular last year in fourth grade and I was verbally bullied. I’m glad I made more friends now. I can definitely relate to most of these. Thank you, Psych2go, your videos are amazing.
WAIT. I’m probably the same age as you, seeming as that fourth grade was one year ago, but you went through all this? I really hope you feel better soon!
I have felt so many of these emotions and they have been so hard to deal with.But watching this video has helped me to actually see them and deal with them. So thank you for this video 😊
@@schurik5851 Appreciate the suggestion, but everyone has their own ways to find worth. I want to find worth within myself without having to depend on anybody or any deity.
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation . Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 . Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God. Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart. But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
My grandma died in 2021, and it was very sad, and today my brother played a tune on a clock my grandma gave me a few years ago, and I burst into tears 😢
Thank you for this posting, RU-vid ! I've known people who were hurt emotionally, mentally, and physically as children by Adults whom they trusted. Realizing that this blind trust was based on lies, and more on wishes 😳 than the reality they experience ; these damaged 💔 people construct a wall around themselves to keep pain out, and other emotions, or feelings ! This carefully, well- built wall makes it very difficult to establish meaningful 😕 relationships with other people. Consequently, these people live behind their walls 🧱 safe from pain, anger, and betrayal ; but it's also a prison for them , and they've long since lost the key to opening their door 🚪! Sadly they live amongst us and going through the motions ; existing but feeling alone ,unloved, unneeded, and unnecessary !
Step one. Find a therapist who can guide you through it. I'm not going to say that you can't fix this yourself, but I imagine it would be extremely difficult. I am not a psychologist and I do not play one on tv. However, I am a first responder who has dealt with past PTSD issues. Having a guide to help you resolve those issues is very helpful.
2:40 mark when he said " im trying to figure it out!" I broke 😢.. last few months I've been going through some things on my own and it's just to much sometimes. I felt that in my bones
Wow that video really hit me. I haven't been feeling well the last couple of months and hearing how honest and truthful this video was, made me cry. Not sure if that's a good or a bad thing
I’m here because for a while now I’ve been having a tough journey with mental health. And I kept having all these triggers, hearing things from my last trauma or the things that I’ve experienced and crying every night that I didn’t know what to do. Almost Everything you mentioned in this video is what I’ve been experiencing. I’m fighting to cope and to get away from all this pain that has been bothering for a little while and it just hurts. As especially as an Autistic, I’m having a really hard time. Everyday is the same thing. I pretend to act like everything’s okay when it’s not. It’s hard to tell people how I feel or for people to understand how I feel. I mean first I come to whoever is willing to comfort me and the next thing they act all different like it’s no big deal. I’ve been ashamed of many things such as who I am. I’ve grown to many insecurities and when I was a child I was abused. Every now and then I would always be mistreated, used or backstabbed. I’m now dealing with anxiety and depression. Just recently I’m now having suicidal thoughts. I’ve asked my parents if they could get me a therapist. I’m not even sure if they’re willing to help me. At this point I’m lost 😪💔 I’m running out of options. Im now thinking that as long as I live, no one would want to hear me out or there will never be a time will people would just accept me. But this video has shown me the I’m completely broken. Because no matter what, things could never be healed…. I’m really tired of all these feelings that I’ve felt or dealt with all my life. I’m hoping that I can overcome this fight before things can get a-lot worse ❤️🩹
6 made me remember a time when I sat in my kitchen for two hours without talking. My dad was trying to talk to me about something (probably grades), and I said something about my ADHD, and both adults in the room said things along the lines of “You can’t use your ADHD as an excuse.” and “No. Stop making excuses for yourself.” I just shut down after that. I was crying, but no matter what my dad said, I just didn’t say a thing. I’m pretty sure he actually got concerned about me, because he brought in my brother and just had us sit in a circle and tried to make conversation.
As a person with borderline personality disorder, this video helps a bit. Extreme sensitivity, major depression (Some have diagnosed me with bipolar 2), lack of interest in things I used to love, and a general feeling of not being well are my symptoms...Also, I'm very upset when things that don't even matter cause bursts of anger and madness. I'm on several medications, but they don't work well anymore. I'm at wit's end most days. My shrink and therapist do a fair job at helping me, but I still feel frustrated with them at times. I'm doing the best I can.
About 6-8 months ago I had to break-up a 10 month relationship. It was one of the most hardest decisions I had to ever make. After I did so, I felt a sense of relief, but after a few days it started to catch up to me. Making me feel lots of heartache, and caused me to be different as a person. Almost all the symptoms in this video is what I went through, and still am a little bit. It has gotten better overtime but it has turned out to be a very slow healing process.
Man, I have watched other videos of yours, but this one relates to me the most. I don’t know how you know my life, or my sadness, but this video helped me recognize how to fix my life!
... I feel all of them. Quite regularly. And yet, I'm not sure I'm depressed. I still feel large amount of happiness, and some of these feelings and actions can be explained by my autism, rather than depression.
