"Do You Know Who I Am?" Backfires on Arrogant Boss When an $800k Project Goes Off the Rail Cause He. 

I started to feel like i knew the guy... Shows hey. The internet can be a powerful place if used right

Conspiracy mode here, anyone else have a suspicion that truck "accident" was a deliberate (sadly successful) murder attempt on Mark? I imagine the gobshite would have shady affiliations and certainly has enough motive for doing so.

We hardly knew ye.

​@@rogerc6533people like you is what's wrong with society

I really hope Mark's wife got help from the redditers. Having a group supporting you can sometimes help.

Hide your spoiler please. You don't even have to open the comment section in the current YT mobile app to see the top comment. Some people may enjoy the suspence.

A guy dies and ur worried abt spoilers… wtf

@@phoibe. oh yeah, me finding out he died 15 minutes earlier than I would have without the comment would make his afterlife experience or the grief of his wife easier

💀 bro watches too much anime

which one are you even talking about? your comment makes no sense. ah yes just start flaming people for no reason and dont elaborate.@@crimsonthereaper3015

as disrespectful (in the funny and literal way this is to noisy gobshi*e) this is i feel like mark would have laughed to this sort of reply to the situation he was a jolly lad that made everyone around him happy, R.I.P

@@Insanearcdid you know him?

Yeah people are thinking wood is wood but a lot of this stuff was also built using old growth which would mean either chopping down a super old tree or growing one for decades/centuries to get a rough equivalent. Not everything can simply be bought at a lumber yard or Home Depot/Lowes, especially with historical sites

also, nowaday trees (and other plants) are off lesser quality, has to do with co2 in our atmosphere making plant grow faster and thus less dense, so even if we had the same size of lumber than back then,it wouldn't be the same

@@TheMrJuoji that's really interesting, I didn't even consider that as a factor.

Pretty sure it's plastering. They used to use lyme motar plaster. Moden plastering is done with wire lathe, a base coat with portland cement and a plaster of paris-type finnish coat. Historic plastering used wood lathe, a sanded lyme base coat with animal hair for strength and a lyme finnish coat. Even most modern lyme is diferent, you have to get historic lyme fom a few companies that make it for restorations. I'm from the U.S. and some of that stuff came from france.

​@@gdwnetit's also completely untrue. Don't believe everything you read on the internet.

David crying is healthy. Davind crying harder whenever he talks with OP's wife isn't, because it's his own sadness compounded by the wife's sadness. She was unknowingly putting extra pressure on him thinking he was fine and he could take it, but nobody cares how much pressure the strong people can take, they just assume they can take it (Kinda like Luisa from Encanto)

​@@PsychoMachadoVery true.

But you also can't expect people to read your mind. Mark's wife didn't know because David never told her. She knew he was heartbroken too but she didn't know how much. Luisa never ​told anyone in Encanto how she felt, and people assumed she was okay. Open communication is necessary. It's a sad situation all around. @@PsychoMachado

@@Cadapech but the issue comes from thinking it's okay to unload on strong people because they are strong. Like how big children are often seen as strong and because of that, needing less support. Or how smart children need less help with studies because they are smart. David was seen as a rock, and thus, nothing could shake him and he could take whatever load was dumped on him. Luisa was strong, so whatever needed to be done, she could take it. These people struggle because when they can't take it they feel guilty, because everyone counts on them and they are falling short. It is, indeed, a sad situation

The crying is definitely healthy, for david. But as somebody who also dissociates my sadness and went from somebody who cried all the time to somebody who barely cries at all. If he's crying a lot about this, the pain is nearly unbearable.

That must be very horrible

Tbh I'm genuinely worried for her

even if you havent lost anyone like that who is so close to you, just seriously thinking about it, and what it would be like to lose someone that close is enough to give you an idea of what its like. albeit a small idea.

The moment of horror when she realizes that she has to face everyday without him. I can relate to her when she was saying that she just wants the pain to end.

@@philkim8297 As someone who has been through that, yeah it is absolutely devastating

Its been 30 minutes and i feel like i know the guy. Now Hes gone... Seems we really lost a good one😢

I'm in the same boat :( fuck that's really heavy

Left with sadness and nowhere to put it is an excellent description of how I feel. I think the empathy is one of the most beautiful things that humans can feel. Part of me hopes that by many of us being sad maybe his wife is just a little bit less sad and handling her grief a little better because there's enough other people consistently being sad about Mark too. I doubt it works that way, but I can hope. It has been about 4 years now. I really hope she's remarried by now to be completely honest. To someone who doesn't compete with the ghost of Mark but accepts him as part of the woman he now loves. Maybe a widower themselves. Or maybe just a pup or two so she's not alone. My best friend was widowed at 21, there was no real question that she'd eventually remarry. But now we're to the age and I think the wife is just a bit older in the same generation as us. I'm not sure I'd remarry if my husband was lost early at this phase of life. My friends and a pet or two would be enough. Not enough years left for another love story in our 4th quarter of life. Perhaps too many years to be alone is another perspective. I think I'd watch this movie, even with the end as it is. Real life doesn't always get a sparkly happy ending and that's OK too.

It sounds like she got a lot of free therapy off Reddit...one of the Internet's most beautiful qualities.

@@ComradeQuestion091 truly. But it's also a double edged sword because some people on the Internet have no issues absolutely destroying people who are already struggling

I wonder if she and Mark had kids?

​@@JediMage none are mentioned

​@@JediMagealmost very certain no. Seems like the wife would have mentioned the kids. It would actually help her grief and have more of a purpose to move on if they had kids. it's clear it was just her and him living and friends. I didn't even think that their parents are still alive or have siblings since I would assume they would be there consoling her. She's definitely on suicidal watch and if it wasn't for her disappointing her husband with the words he said at their wedding, we probably would have never gotten an update.

I am so wrong hearing this in the background at work... If I was in my own room alone I would sob like an ugly piece of shite .... dammit why did he have to go.... MAAAAARRRKKKKKK

For real it was so intense it was only amplified by the Victorian ass insults

Same, the worst part is I don't really know why. I didn't even cry when my sister died of covid, yet for some reason I'm crying like I suddenly lost my wife or best friend.

@@altorins Probably just getting it out now. Sorry for your terrible loss.

Best way to describe it for Americans; we speak English and redneck. Welsh is the redneck of the U.K. Prove me wrong.

Your translation is what broke me

Honestly thank you. You goddamn monster.

Thank you for translation😭💔

I was just holding myself together man. 😭 Shit.

absolutely, although there is perhaps a better third option of everyone involved seeking therapy so that they can heal and see each other healed without trying to sacrifice themselves for each other. The math just doesn’t work out this way: when you sacrifice yourself, it has an effect on the people you’re trying to shield. it’s not a 1 + -1 situation

He absolutely is. And he'd be absolutely fine even if he realized helping her was destroying him. Which is why the wife was absolutely right to step in. And I just hope to hell Mark's wife is okay.

I think if I didn’t have the Minecraft footage I would have actually cried watching this

@@erinfield1943 this is just one mode. Originally you can place the blocks you see and craft and mine them. It's an open world sandbox adventure game.

@@Louis_2568 still didn't stop me from crying for a solid 15 minutes lmfao

They didn't fire OP. OP was telling David's story. OP was the narrator, David was the main character, Cariad (OP's Wife) had to take overthe narrator's job because he died.

@@jamainegardner4193 Oh. Sorry, I mixed up the two people. Thanks for correcting me.

You know it’s one hell of story if you wish it’s fake. One hell of twist in the end.

If the story is fake then the author is an insane writer. But to be honest it feels very real to me, and if it was fake then I think the creator has defiantly lost someone very close to them and that’s their way of coping

The best tragedies make you laugh, the best comedies make you cry.

Sorry for your loss. You’re a good son

Jesus dude, the man died, have some respect

@@The-pe7mq I'm not talking about Mark, FFS. Jesus.

I hope you're doing better, RIP 🙏🏻 to the two of them .

Either you haven’t listened to all of it, or you chose your wording very poorly… “hit like a truck” is the specific phrase

Except it was mentioned that he was working on the walls, so an old plastering technique is more likely.

@@amayasasaki2848 very true! Completely misheard everything haha my had