@@Anonomus007 am a single child to my parents and am so worried if i get married who will take care of them . And my mom is so attached to me , she will be so lonely.
Same here. I thought I was the only one feeling that way and was beginning to wonder if something is wrong with me. I love my family but sometimes I just want to be alone.
True, I hate when someone says "family is fun" cuz mine's just putting negative vibes since I was born and then blaming me for it. I need a better environment
If anyone born middle class family, if u really want peacefull n joyfull life ,live somewhere else , choose to work in other states if u can 😂 , srsly. N send money back home they will be proud to have u as son/daughter. N u get ur freedom 🕊️ simple
I felt these lines 'coming home to an empty house'....... 🥺 I'm a 17 years old boy living alone far from home for study. At day time everything is fine but at night I really miss my old days when I was at my home with my parents. Literally I don't know how to tell how I feels but I heard that 'kuch paane ke liye kuch khona pdta hai', so I keep motivating myself with these lines... 🙂
I am an IT professional and I recently moved to this unknown city for my job.. I really feel homesick and staying here is a nightmare. I don't have any friends here yet.. I remember when I wanted this freedom so desperately, but now when I have it, it really feels like a nightmare and I want to move back to my home where my family is.. I am really finding ways to go back to my hometown, but I can't leave this job as well. I have got no choice but to stay here alone, in a hope that this too shall pass. After watching your video, I realised, I am not the only one doing this and there are so many ppl out there who move out for certain reasons and eventually everybody accepts the new city, the new place, new ppl, new culture apparently. Thanks for sharing this video, this really made my day and boosted my confidence ❤️
Being an introvert, I love living alone or at least have some me time. Still, it's a great feeling to have someone waiting for you. Someone who can care for you when you're sick or sad.
Bhai some condition needed for this 1 Marry someone 2 you are a girl 3 you have to be hansome or bad boy You will get someone for waiting and for everything even for love this is needed else you only have one option Arrange marriage
Living Alone has its own Pros and Cons... Pros: you miss your family/dear ones and you then value them more. You learn to face the reality and get Stronger. You find out how to make things workout. You learn to respect and care more about people, food, things. You get to know your responsibilities well. You get to live your life as your wish, Eat, Sleep and more no much people around to annoy or stall you. Cons: Most people may find it annoying when they need to do their own stuff (laundry/cooking) themselves. Sometimes, during any issue or stress, when you are not keeping well, you wish your dear one's were with you. Tendencies to cultivate bad habits are more when you live alone. living alone for long time can be lil problematic when you get into a relationship. Living alone sometimes makes a person prone to various Phobias. A person gets away from Cluture and Traditions when living alone. and more... Take care 🙂
It's so true. I've been living alone for the past 13 years, Though sometimes I feel lonely, especially when sick, most of the days I love my company, the peace. And somewhere I hv got so used to living alone that now I can't live with family for long time.
When you have good relationship with your family members you to live with them. If the bonding is not good then staying alone is always a better option.
I'm gonna turn 18 this yr, and planning to move out, for studies further!! As of now I do enjoy my solitude.. Don't know if it'll be same while being alone!!
I have been living alone for last 10 yrs n I m in my 30s now.. & believe me I miss nothing 😅. N I can visit my home & family in another state whenever I want but still would want to live alone.
was alone in banglore just for 2 days hotel was good, people out there were good but again stranger felt so empty there i got it i can survive alone but cannot live✨
Alone is beautiful.... it's a slow process but it gets easier and more beautiful each day as you grow more and take all the space around you ....thank you so much....i relate to this so much❤
don't know why ppl always predict, staying alone is kinda pain or dark impulse,,,but here I am so obsessed with living by my own all alone 🖤🖤🖤 it's best for mental peace n ' to discover urself more ❤🖤
Absolutely relatable ❤i used to think how it'll be if someday I've to leave my parents for my career Now i realized all them sacrifices will worth it once all these hurdles are passed by
I am hardcore introvert and enjoy being alone and independent. Sometimes do feel need of someone to care for you but no worries my mood is happier and stressfree when I am alone.
thank you for this video. In few months i will be living alone and as much as I am excited I'm also scared of being alone but I think I'll get through it ❤
In start it’s good to call friends and family when you are feeling alone but later try doing something new like how she says cooking u can do the same or something else you’ll really enjoy it
This is something I Relate to so much bcz currently u moved to delhi bcz of my studies I am a 1st year college student when I was in my school I desperately wanted to leave home not for freedom actually bt so that I can get out of my comfort zone and work on my dreams bt now I miss my home really bad it's like I cry most of the day for my mom and dad ...sometimes it's boring and lonely bt it's also actually helps me to focus on my goals rather then my distraction and tbh you start kinda loving ur own company and that's pretty peaceful for me
Living alone after 1 year means, u don’t need anyone else to survive. One goes into such a mode that partnership in life becomes very difficult. Marriage after sometime becomes out of question. Suddenly ur 40 and all ur friends r busy with their families and children And then Ur truest alone. Then actual depression starts.
You are experienced one please elaborate more how life changes anyway even a marriage person can be depressed it totally depends but I want to know what happens
Imagine: you're staying alone completely. Someday your neighbour comes to you and says: " please advise your roommate not to play loud music in the midday when you're not at home".
Living on my own for 15 years. Time flies and there are times when you need support. Being supportive of yourself brings inner strength but it takes courage to gather the support within yourself when you are feeling vulnerable. You don’t have to worry about anyone else life problems when you can focus on the things you love to do. Having friends is always a good thing to share happiness but dealing with tough times can make you or break you. That’s why keep realistic friends not materialistic friends. True, but It’s hard to summarize a life of experience with few words.
Don't know abt others but I feel happy when I'm alone cuz no one is there to hurt me 😌✌🏻 Nd I talk to myself if ever feel like I need someone to understand me 😁
I cant think to stay alone without my family. I love my family and it feels uncomfortable to imagine when they are sick and I am not with them. I had got a job in good salary job abroad during 2021 but I dropped that plan and stayed with my family. One month later dad got covid and was hospitalized for 1 month.Doctors were unsure whether he could make it. That moment was so hard for my mom and we both together handled it very well. Today dad is with us and i never plan to seperate. And yes my wife also cares for them!
When I used to live with my parents, my mom,whenever I came back from school she used to come open door for me and like hug me but since when I've started living alone I usually do one thing like I ring the doorbell snd open the door by myself and then I say I'm home 🏡 it's weird but idk it makes me feel at peace.
Well although she's living alone, she's still living in a society... it's not like she is living in some desert or mountains where there are no human beings😂
Being alone can give you joy for sometime only....at the end being human and social ...we all need our significant other to live a much happier and diverse life.
It is ok till you are 30 years old. After when you are 40 years old, it sucks and will lead to financial and social insecurities resulting in depression & anxiety.
Don’t take me wrong but please don’t encourage to people to live alone. Instead encourage to live independently. Because of studies or work, we may have to stay outside alone. In those situations atleast have one roommate
the biggest issue or lose in living alone is when you leave alone for long time after that you can't settle with the people who don't understand the privacy or me time or discipline if they're like messy you can't live with them , living alone for long time gives you a dark comfort which makes you happy & sad at same time... the idea of marrige gives you hope & anxiety at same time if the person is not ur vibe what you gonna do ? all these things are very sacry if you can't find the right partner what you gonna do specially in desi house hold you live with whole family after marriage if they people are just out of your mind wht you gonna do oooh God !! 😣🥀🥀🥀🥀
sometimes you need to be alone to find yourself, something it make you feel sad but then you don't need anyone to tell you how good or bad you are...... And at the end of day you can be yourself without anybody telling you what you should and shouldn't do, and eventually you'll learn and grow❤
And my family made me feel like they are the best people on earth they take care of my mental health whenever i feel lonely in hostel i call my mom and just say her to continue whatever she is doing without cutting video call
I have been away from home since i was 8, in boarding school to college. And now, i don't need anyone to make me happy. Yet i remember crying for my mother when i was a kid. But now, this loneliness is nothing. I will be alone once i am done with my kids. I really never needed anyone to make me happy or feel near me.
All these things only make you mad in long term. You always have a need for family when you deperately need someone to count on blindly. So, one should get a family until one still has time. Remember you cannot take things for granted for all your life.
It’s very addictive. After a certain time you stop appreciating anyone’s presence. You want him/her gone right away😂😂😂. You even don’t want relationships. All you want is a friend with benefits who should leave ur place after 2-3 hrs.
People in comment section are full of teenagers who wonder if they live alone will be good than being at home but let me tell you as a person who also thought that at your age and yesterday i came back home without any plans just bcz i was missing my mumma the person whom i hated so much at some point and regret everything i did that time bcz when u live alone you'll realise more than you can imagine siting here at your home and wondering i can handle everything on my own just wanna go far away from this hell..i know that feeling too but trust me start creating healthy bonds with ur family before you realise that there's no one in this world where everyone wants something from you and if u r a good person then u r gonna hurt so bad nd also you'll realise why your parents act like this or do things like this..
you are right, many challenges comes, no one to help, but afterall we become a better person and we become calculate about time ,career and money, living 14 yrs alone ,became a music teacher
Great we need more influencer like her who motivate women and men to live alone. This is true my life my rule. Why we Indian youth live parent single life is happy life you can do whatever what you want. INDIA really need more influencer like her.
