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I will check it out. The woman I've been seeing for years - when she finds time between multiple jobs - just isn't right fir me. She's incapable if holding intelligent conversations, thinks she knows it all when she's actually out of touch with the world. She had no connections outside if her jobs and family. Im the opposite - a news junky, active,like sports,crave group contacts.
This girl is going cold on me and I told her that she looks moody. It was in the supermarket and there were people close by. But because she is playing hard to get I don't get to see her much and I can't talk to her in private. Anyway I told her she looked moody. She responded very quitely saying that I always have some suggestions and complains. (It was not true and It made no sense. I hardly get to see her and I never text her any complains). She said this so quietly that I couldn't hear. I had to bend down (I am at least 5 inches taller than her) and ask her to repeat. She repeated and I left the place saying it is a peaceful month. (It was the Easter holidays) Did I react well to her testing?
Never chase her. If you chase, she will run away because you will look desperate. Make her chase you. It's not like 1940s or 50's when women were flattered and smitten by men chasing them.
Nope you chase a little just show interest because if you don’t they’ll think your not interested and find somebody else to date with. I wouldn’t call it chasing more of just showing interest. If your not 6.6.6. Guy then chase a little. You need game.
Unless she says, "Chase me", I'm not going to chase her. It's too easy to misread these so-called clues. It's too easy to find yourself down at Human Resources or being labeled a stalker.
Exactly! they expect you to be able to read their minds nowadays, if you misread, so many bad things can happen, I am not going to deal with the stress of that anymore... next!
If you want a life of misery, go for the chase. If you want a life of true, healthy partnership, both consenting parties will be able to sit down face to face and speak in a respectful and direct manner. There's another word for chasing. It's called, "gaslighting."
Its a hard game! Its like when your were a kid and your brother/ sister gives you a cookie. When you reach for the cookie, he/she will raise her hand up in the air and laugh 'Catch it if you can!' while laughing. You will do and try it several times, then you will give up. You will cry then or walk away... then suddenly you will hear 'Ok OK ..I were just kidding...here you are, take the cookie'
Never listen to women on how to catch a woman Never chase a girl even if she wants you to chase her cuz if u do she loses subconsciously attraction to you. NEVER CHASE, U CHASE YOU LOSE
See, this makes no sense to me. Are we destined to just have the girls that we don't want? If you never pursue the female you want, how do you ever get her?
@@rickyward6675 pursuing and chasing arent the same thing Pursuing is when a girl encourages you to go after her, chasing is when a girl is running away from you
4:47. That's where the letters to the dating advice columnists begin:. " A guy i like no longer is interested. What should I do?". " Move on. He may not be ready for a relationship."🤦♂️
Hot and than cold, sometimes Flirty and avoids the big question. That Sounds exactly like my First Biiig crush in school about 5 years ago. I didnt Know how to Interpret. In the end I came to the conclusion that she isnt interested in me so I Broke off the contact and blocked her everywhere without saying anything before. Imagine
@@Joyanima HI ANNA JOYANIMA I WELL BEEN GOING IN TOO TOWN THIS MORNING ON FRIDAY 24 SETPEMBER 2021 TOO MEETING UP WITH MY CRUSH AKA MY LDAY FREIND AN ASK HOW SHES BEEN DOING IN THE LOCKDOWNS. AN SEEING IF SHES STILL KEEN ON GOING OUT FOR COFFEE DATE WITH ME SOON SOMETIME THIS YEAR IN 2021. AN WELL BEEN ASKING IF SHES GOING TOO BEEN FREE TOO CHILL OUT TOO TOGERTHER SOON SOMETIME OVER THE CHRISTMAS WITH ME OR NEW YEARS IN 2022 NEXT YEAR OF THIS YEAR COMEING SOON AS BOYFREIND AN GIRLFREIND. AN DO SOME FLIRTING AN SMILY ATE HER AN LOOKING AWAY FROM HER WHEN I AM TALKING TOO HER IN PERSON
@@Joyanima IF SHE WHATS TOO COME HANG OUT WITH ME FOR CHRISTMAS WITH MY FAM AN MY FREINDS. AN I MEETING HER FREINDS AN HER GIRLFREINDS. AN HER FAMILY LIKE HER MUM AN DAD AN HER BROTHER. AN HER EX BOYFREIND SHE SIDE TOO ME A LONG TIME AGION WHEN WE LAST TALKED TOO ONE OTHER BOLTH TOO TOGERTHER OUT ON THE STREET TALKING WITH MY CRUSH THEN. ITS BEEN A LONG TIME WE WE HAD TALKED BEFORE THIS OVER COIVD 19 LOCKDOWNS AN SOO SOO SOO SOOO SOOO SOO. ANNA JOYANIMA I AM LOOKING FORED TOO SEEING MY LOVELEY LADY FREIND TODAY AKA MY CRUSH AKA MY NEW GIRLFREIND
i have do that eye contact with my crush aka my lady freind aka new girlfreind this is a classic sign that she likes yo an whants too keep it going with yo
Thanks so much @Joyanima. This description perfectly matches the girl I'm currently seeing, although it's an old school kinda process 😅 . Her type is quite rare.
Hi Luv, something i would like to see is , a video on how your exe girlfriend acts when she says, there is no chemistry between you too but you just know she still loves you and is pretending that she doesn't want you back.
This girl is going cold on me and I told her that she looks moody. It was in the supermarket and there were people close by. But because she is playing hard to get I don't get to see her much and I can't talk to her in private. Anyway I told her she looked moody. She responded very quitely saying that I always have some suggestions and complains. (It was not true and It made no sense. I hardly get to see her and I never text her any complains). She said this so quietly that I couldn't hear. I had to bend down (I am at least 5 inches taller than her) and ask her to repeat. She repeated and I left the place saying it is a peaceful month. (It was the Easter holidays) Did I react well to her testing?
I wouldn't know what to do if she wanted me to chase her. And if she played hard to get I would assume she just wasn't interested and not bother. Well only if I can catch her but if it is constant chasing then forget it.
Well it depends how much you want her i guess, my friend was chasing this girl for like 7-8 months while she rejected him 5-6 times already. Now they are in an 8 years relationship + 2 years married.
Well, I won’t be chasing women again for as long as I live, I’ve had 3 bpd partners on the bounce, and the 3rd one ran off with my best mate! It’s all about me now.. F - em
Her: oops! (Drops rose pedals in front of me) 😏 Me: ma'am you dropped these i think the flourist sold ya some dead flowers (Hands her fallen pedals and walks away) 🚪🚶♂️
I have a question. I have been watching your videos for a couple of weeks and about 80% of the signs that you've mentioned our present. We've known one another for about 2 years. And she knows because I told her how I feel about her and she admits to having feelings but it's terrified because we are so close friends and she has said that she cannot lose me.. what would you suggest to ease or alleviate these fears?
You can't really be friends with a woman if there is something there becouse of emotional baggage. Go for it and if it doesn't work that is when you know you can be friends.
I have this girl in my office. We do chat regularly. She reverts back whenever possible. She trusts me and shares her things with me. But one thing I still don't understand is that she doesn't message me regularly but when I message her she starts the conversations and we are starting to know our likes and dislikes. When I was about to logoff last night I said, "Cya 2morrow and she replied "Yes dear". I am being patient with her and I don't want my image to be that of a despo type of a guy. So can you tell me about it? What should I do ahead?
Just because she replies slowly doesn't mean you aren't a priority. Women know that anticipation builds attraction, so they intentionally take their time. I've had girls wait 3 days to reply but it was because they didn't want to seem eager. Also had another girl take hours to reply and slept with her on the 1st date
In my opinion never chase a girl that would never work. And move away from anyway playing hard to get no time for such boring games. But nice video anyway
I will say pursue her not chase, chasing a woman will make you a beta male. I'm a sigma and I don't like chasing women but pursue her in a short amount of time. I don't wanna waste my time to a lady who doesn't feel the same way coz one sided love is very awful to bear.
You know. Men don't like these games. They are kind or direct, meaning they want to hear a yes or a no. Womans stamina for affection and seeing eachother in real life takes more time then man and they are way more INDRECT then men. During this game a man feel like his brains is going to explode! It's a amaotional roller coaster for men. Men don't like things where emotions are involved, but woman do like emotions. Basicaly The chasing game is a game where a lot of emotions are involved! Frustration, hope, Jealousy, complication, anger control, anger etc.... THE Chasing game consists of these 'sub games': - Hot N Cold - Chasing (Actualy you should act in a way of PURSUING, really important) - Push/Pull - Fish 'N Bait - Hard-To-Get - Shitty Tests of woman (They check how you deal with that) Men and woman are kind of the opposite of the approach. that's really frustrating! The affection stamina between the two genders is like comparable with a airplane: Man: The airplaine is just parked and ready to ride. (Men is already horny to have s. intercourse without doing nothing) woman: The airplane is riding slowly and eventually READY for take-off. The plane will mostly rise 2 a 3 rounds going higher to get it's ULTIMATE BALANCED HEIGHT LEVEL. (Woman need more time to get attract to man having s.intercourse. WIth touching, deep talk, flirting etc.)
You can’t chase a woman for month on ends and think that she wants to be chased like I have said more times in many relationships coaching advice talking goes both ways.
You can chase without being desperate. Sending signals your interested in chasing, you can do this with diffirent levels of effort. A smile can go a long way and takes close to no effort
@@onnol917 who ever you are have you ever seen a woman and have a attraction to her??? Then what do you do your mindset is I want so you do your best not to mess up you show up as your best self and you try TRY!! No you mean to tell me even look at a woman in desire in being desperate?? Com on guy, thousand of women in the world and the face that you program your mind to how can I contributed their happiness they don’t see.
What if in the beginning she says she doesn't want a relationship but talks to you everyday I've been trying to change her mind for about a year now but also respect her boundaries
I was in a similar boat, not as long as a year though. I learned that a woman who genuinely likes you will make it easy for you to be with her. She just wants your attention, move on and let her go. Focus on yourself, your mission and when the time comes; on other women who actually show high interest in you. Have you read “Models” by Mark Manson? Definitely a must read.
@@edgarramos2455 She is just stringing you along for attention. It is a currency to modern women, they have fragile egos and the only way to feed it is through the validation of others.
The prob being everything she says is exactly how it's going but she only texted first one time in 2 months of talking with hello and wanted to really talk that day but never after I'm waiting for her text first this time it's day 3
What if sometimes she replies quickly but other times she doesn’t.
3 года назад
Then you're texting with her too much. Use texts just to arrange an irl meet. You don't want her to get used to be in your DMs all the time. You also don't want to be bothering her all the time. After all she may just be at the WC.
I saw this lady on Facebook and i like her then i sent her a friend request which she accepted and later i found out that she's in relationship with someone else so i decided to unfriend her just a few days she sent me friends request back and i accepted her then say hi to her after one day but she just opened it without any replied till now so what should i do please?
If you are a man you are submissive and deserve to be pursued and at some point you know you want to give in. If you are a woman you are dominant, go get that boy and make him your bit**!
It's so much easier to understand actual quantum mechanics and it's implications on everyday life and on all of the infinite parallel universes than to understand how to decipher a girl's smile. And I have not had bad luck with women ever (not bragging btw), but damn! Lol. I think what has helped me is just that: I just don't care. Again, that is what I think. They know it and get curious. You never, ever know for sure with girls. But, hey, like I said: Quantum Mechanics is so much easier. lol
Anna suppose my crush is giving me signs but I am not approaching her then what will keep going in her mind can you please make a video on it please it is urgent 😁😁🤗 And will she ever approach to me🥰
If she's already giving you signs, then she probably already approached you. She probably hovered around you, been to places with you or created an opportunity for the two of you to be alone. If you didn't take the hint, she will assume you don't like her and is not interested despite her being obvious. She will then stop caring altogether and then either avoid you or label you as a friend. Then she will start entertaining others who like her.
Ask her out. Do not wait anymore. You can go and approach her and straight up say that you have been noticing her looks and glances. Tell her how that felt very nice and flattering. Say that you also just couldn't miss a pretty girl/women like her too and you have been wondering if she would be up to go out with you sometimes (be prepared to say exactly when and where, be prepared for her to be self conscious and say no and for you to insist in you two spending a nice evening together). P.S. in case you're rich of famous, don't approach her. She probably has other motivations.
yes i well stop talking too my lady freind aka my crush aka my new girlfreind too see if shes well been chasing me okay when she dos you just need too do it if yo stop talking too her she will start chasing yo okay when
Never ever chase a woman, pursue them for a short period of time, then let the woman do the chase. If you chase, 99.99% of women will see you as low value and needy = their attraction will die within 60 seconds. Listen guys: *Never ever chase a woman, it will always fail.*
This is some great information. Can you do a video explaining general timelines for things to happen? How does a guy know if he's moving too quickly (or too slowly). Obviously, every woman would be different, but how long is a back-and-forth chase and retreat by a woman? Are we talking a week or two...or months? Some idea of the progression of things would really help.
3 года назад
Depending how old are you both but usually things are going pretty fast. It's almost a rule that you have to make a "go big or go home" (kiss or sex) move at the third date/meet-up. If you don't do that she'll get cold, if you do that you'll know for sure if there's something more to your relationship or not. Keep in mind that every girl has tons of guys hitting on her so just be confident but truthful, always have a big smile, be funny, give a funny compliment at the right time, give a serious compliment at the right time. Take her somewhere nice or if that's not an option, make her feel nice via nice conversation and some small things that you can come up at the spot. After that, say to yourself enough is enough if she doesn't like me now then she never will and just go for the kiss. If she reciprocates then that's it, you're golden. If not, then stop wasting your time, end the date. If it didn't go well but you are 100% certain that you did the best what you could do and gave it 200% then it's ok to be upset at her, tell her what she needs to hear, hurt her ego a bit, educate her a bit. You basically do that to help her and help the next guy. If she was just out of your league, then it's time to accept that fact and work from there. Basically fork on yourself. Overall, whenever in doubt remember that you have nothing to loose and everything to gain by going for it. If she's not into you, that's ok, there are more fish in the sea 🐟🐟🐟
Women don't like to be chased by the everyday (7-6 worker) they like to be chased by the top 5percent of man or the ones that won't go to work and stay on unemployment benefits all their life.
hi anna joyanima. have see my crush today she smilyed at me today when i got back in to town late on today as i was doing other jobs around an out an about well been meeting up with her on saturday this weekend.
yes my crush definitely always looks super cute. when i am around her. an i. give her lots off eye contert an smilys ate her lots an flirt with her when i see her if yo know, an soon sweet as well as loveley an soo amazing too been around her when i am around her an chatting too her an flirting an smily ate her more with her more an more an more now chasing an flirting are topics i need more off from yo anna joyanima flirting an chasing an learn new skills about relationships an dates an dating an getting back into the dating game as theny say nowdays
i well askher if she miss me. as i did in lockdowns an have not talked too her sints we come out off lockdowns the other week or soo back anna joyanima. she asks if you miss her it might sometimes seem like she is mysterious or distant which can be
Is what they all want but not gonna get from me you take the next simp im flying my own shit and be stay happy for that 5 min of feeling lonely whaha. Rest of my day im ddoing what i wanna do without having to explain why
yes we do have long meaningful conversations an the small talk stage is now over its no longer asking about what shes been doing an whats been going on for her an me just flirt with her an smily an looking away from her then looking down ate her feet i well do this too day looking down ate her feet when i am meeting up with my loveley amazing crush that i am cashing an full in love with ate the mo with her etc.
One thing that gets me is i've been chasing a gorl for a while and has said "now is not the right time but maybe in the future". I not sure how to move forward from here. Any advice?
You sever contact with her. She'll start missing you and chase you, or she is not interested in you and you won't hear from her. Either way, you are wasting energy continuing to chase.
I mentioned my "crush" in one of your past vids.. we have one class together (college)I always see her at least once a week, she normally says hey, hi etc.. whenever class is over she always did the usually gets her things & go to her next class except today, as we're leaving we/I started this small convo with her about her leaving to go to a sailing competition at NYC, which was something she told me that same day after I asked her how her previous trip went regarding sailing.. fast forward class had just finished & she had already packed up before me while I was trying to get my notebook in my bag...like I said before at that moment she'd already be heading out the door to her next class, meanwhile in my mind I was like we actually talked to each other in class today more than we normally do, hell we even snapchated each other while the professor was talking.. it's usually very quiet in the room so whenever someone talks you'd always hear them haha so in my mind I was like I should definitely walk with her to her next class. Guess what she actually waited for me to pack up & once the professor stopped me to give me this book I "won" because of this group assignment I surprisingly did well in while presenting/coming from an introvert lol & let me tell you that made it even more special when our professor handed me that book/novel while we were leaving the class together. As we continued walking we kept talking ask each other some questions, mentioned some of the things that happened on campus/class etc to the point where she told me her next class was actually online so she basically was going straight back to her dorm...we told each other which buildings our dorms in fast forward we actually live right across from each other I walked her infront of her place we said bye then I jokingly said so I'll see you in like two weeks then she kinda laugh & said no next week. So what are some tips you guys got for me.. don't ask for her number to soon etc hit me!! I literally justed crushing on her since day one & she'd occasionally gave me those looks/I'm probably interested vibe & my gut feeling also tells me to go for it but I don't want to appear needy or make her think she's like the only option. She's literally the main reason these videos been filing my RU-vid page lmao but they do actually help & give a little confident boost.
You're in a good spot. Keep flirting and talking. Mention going somewhere and see uf she tries to invite herself and welcome her to go along. Don't ask her out yet or consider or portray her as a girlfriend. Don't ask her out yet. Too soon.
My advice is to not act out of your 'needs and wants' because that is where the desperation is. Focus on having fun, what about her makes you a happier, stronger more active person. Play to your strenghts, potential partners like to be impressed with the people they are with and the more fun you are having the less stressed people are and the easier it is to get closer. If you were having a great time and the date did not work out you still had a great time and gained some experience in the dating scene. If you open way too fast and too hard, scare her off you will have a bad time and stuck where you were with a crush lost. Life is about fun, let the people join in on the fun that want to and accept those that don't.
i well been flirts an teases her with yo an me too show her i am interested in her the more i hang out with her the more i like her will tease her too show her that i like her
Nahhh mature woman only…. I ain’t here for games I’ll just find a woman who ain’t with games and will appreciate a god man or a man trying to show love.
These woman games cause is by social media, these new age songs, manipulation books written by woman with much EGO or manhaters. Dating is hard because the facebook messenger, WhatsApp, dating sites like tinder and Badoo. Tons of men will send a friends request, so she has MANY MANY options! Would also be better if WOMAN would send friend requests to MEN, but maybe 4% will do that...
i well bee asking her some questions what did shes gett upp too in lockdowns this year an ask how her family are doing today as well if i see her this friday morning in town ate her work if shes working there today an if shes there working on saturday this weekend as well too. etc tbh. have some what a loveley day for yo anna joyanima in the uk. all the best for yo over the christmas year in 2021 in december. 25th is christmas day. time an holdays in 2022
Please stop giving men the wrong idea about women they meet in daily life. You are not helping anyone, but instead exacerbating an existing problem in society nowadays. And the only reason this youtube channel exists, is for you to make a quick buck off off the hopes and grievances of the unwanted men. Most of the men here are the “undesirables”, who are merely unconsciously looking for validation of their feelings for a girl they can’t have, and will-fully hoping to be persuaded that “yes this girl indeed likes me”, while in a high majority of cases the opposite will be true (meaning: politeness being mistaken for interest). So, stop indirectly creating individual and social disasters on the workplace between men and women, by coaxing men into doing something their instincts are actually already (correctly) preventing them from doing. If you want to use your mind-bending skills, then maybe you could try and do something to transform female hypoagency instead.
Ask yourself this, are you at least 5'10", Do you have money, a 6pack and 6 inches? If you can't say yes to at least 2 of these, you're going to stay single.
i well invite my lady freind aka crush too been with me other the christmas an new years this year in 2021 an in 2022 if shes not upp too much an is not soo busying with her job an working an soo an well have time for one other too gett too know more an more about one other an me off as well too if all gos too plan well been suggest too her we shold go out for that drinks an coffee date soon sometime an inviter her out too my place sometime soon too see all the new lumbs on the farm she wold love that i but
i am going too beeen more an more an more mysterious an distant with her now now on , an seeing her today i well do soo this morning when i talk too my loveley amazing sweet crush as cute as she is i am going too been mysterious an distant with her for a few weeks now lest see if shes going too been talking too me an filrting with me more an more an i well talk too her on off days an play hard too gett with her soo she needs too make a move on me thats for sure an give her lots off eye contact with her next time i am been meeting up with her an flirt an walk away from her then shes chasing me an i have her roup around my finger soo i can do my own buysing time an soo an getting her too chasing me around the streets
BS XD 1. It's way too easy to missinterpret her-want-to-be-chased with her-not-interested -> s. harrassment 2. If she makes you wait for sex, the sex won't be worth it. Conclussion: don't chase.
This! Only exception being, she's still a virgin and wants to wait. The 1% exception in the West, doesn't make the rule. If she's making you wait, she has little or no sexual attraction for you and in a relationship and god forbid marriage prepare to be miserable
