Does Your Filipina REALLY Love You? 

👉My videos and the effort I put into them are 100% free for everyone to enjoy, and all I ask is that you leave a thumbs-up on any videos that you like and subscribe to my channel - I have never, and will never, ask you for anything else. For those of you that still wish to support my channel further, however, I’ve posted my links below. Thanks! 👉 Support through PayPal: www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=GC9T7PMLZ3BDW&source=url 👉 Patreon: www.patreon.com/thefilipinapea

I am married to a Filipina for around 3 years. I never thought I could ever find such a good person to share my life with as Her. My heart has been practically destroyed by this world and I feel cold and lifeless inside. But her love for me is true, real and supernatural.

You just never know. I met my asawa when I was 21. She was 7 years my _senior._ We dated for a few months, we hit it off; not long after something (I know it was God) in a flash of spontaneity hit me and said "This is the one, you'll never have another chance like this one." I popped the question a couple of weeks later and never regretted one second. 42 years, 3 kids, 5 grandkids later, she passed away suddenly and my heart was ripped out. It's only been about 8 months so the feelings are still raw; but I can't envision myself ever committing to anyone else -- our bond was that strong. She was responsible for everything I've become and I'm heartbroken that my reason for everything I did is no longer here. But my wife was the kind of girl that because she had a tough life growing up, would be the first to tell me "Suck it up, buttercup." I laugh just thinking about it. Never in my life did I ever think I'd find my one true love halfway around the world in Asia; but I did and God blessed me with the greatest gift I'll ever have. I look forward to when we're together again.

Your skill at observing people is great. No plans to emigrate to the Philippines, but loving your channel for the anthropology.

Miss Pea I love the way you personalise relationships by saying "your Filipina". I don't know of any other country that uses such an affectionate and charming phrase.

Been married to a Filipina for 10 years. We have the usual cross-culture issues. Apart from that she is a wonderful Wife and Mother to 3 kids. If it wasn't for her I'm sure I'd be dead by now.

listen up here guys. i’ve been in and out of asia for over 30 years. ms. pea relates some of best insights that i’ve ever heard spoken by a filipina. and a slick ending too.

True love is not when its easy, true love stays when things are hard.

Watching this first video and seeing where you are now, makes me soooo proud of you.

There is no question of that for me. Always hugging and cuddling to me. She is a sweetheart. 15 years together now.

I met my husband when I was 27 years old and he is 52 years old. Now he is 65 and I am 40 yes we have been together for 13 years and we have an 11 years old son together. I love him to death.

My Filipina girlfriend made sure I stopped talking to the other Filipinas I met before. It’s not really a problem just basically common sense. If you want to be in a relationship commit yourself too it.

I just came across your channel and find it very interesting. I am 77 years old and have no hope of finding someone. My wife passed away in 2020 after 54 years married. Watching you makes me wish I was younger and could make my bid for you. If it is not to much of a problem I’m going to write you from time to time just to make me feel a little younger. Very much love to you ❤

B.B. King sang it best... "Nobody loves me but my mama. And she could be jivin' too."

Well said and the absolute truth. I’ve been married to a beautiful Filipina for nearly 2 years now and it keeps on getting better and better! I will never regret getting away from self entitled feminist American women...

After watching a gazilion of your vids, I'm here where it started. You came a long way and developed wery well. Now I finally understand how you can provide us with so much valuable content. Your experience, your ability to watch and analyse people, plus your social intelligence at Einstein Level, makes you able to create vids like this and all the others. And not to forgett, you always make me smile... 😊

I really love that you are open and honest with your channel. As having a quarter Philippino bloodline i have seen your channel as enlightening and feel more compelled to visit my cultural heritage. Thank you very much

You are a master piece of knowledge and good advice.

After 20 years of marriage, my wife is still jealous. I think she loves me.😉 ❤ Greetz from Switzerland 🇨🇭 👋

I visited the Philippines about two yrs ago doing some research on where my dad had served during WW2 and met a few very nice ladies. I wasn't really looking even though some stole heart. I travelled to 5 islands and really enjoyed my visit. A few I connected with I felt a spark. The beginning of Love which makes me thinking about returning. There is something very nice about the women there.

Oh my gosh your videos are awesome. Straight to the point and exactly what we need to know and good sense of humor! 😁😁☺️👌🏼👌🏼

Thank you for this, it’s about time that someone gave their thoughts from the Filipina perspective. I wish you well and look forward to plenty more😊

Wow, Pea, you're brilliant, articulate, confident, charming and cute. And you prepared your content! I know you've heard all that many times before, but it's true. Don't let it go to your head, lol. All the best.

This is really eye opening for a guy like me in the US who is interested in a certain Filipina! I asked myself alot of those questions you brought up in this video! Thanks for the videos!

I’m very happy to have found your channel. Thank you!

Greetings from Bonnie Scotland - I follow several bloggers in the Philippines, however, you seem to have a different kind of vibe, so, I will stick with you. I wish you every success with this new channel.

Young lady, I have lived in Cebu since 2013 & have seen many RU-vid channels about navigating and negotiating life and relationships there in the Philippines and I must say your perspective is very refreshing and very informative, I agree with your advice and I can recommend it wholeheartedly. I told my Asawa when we first met to hold the "I love you" until we had a chance to meet and 8 months later we got that chance and have been very happy together since 2011.

I am so happy that I went back to your original and initial video post. It was nice to see that your content (even up to today's most recent post) stays loyal to your "promise" for the viewers/subscribers. Thanks so much for always enlightening "us" with your fresh and always blunt perspectives. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️ 👍👍👍👍

Philly in the Philippines turned me onto your channel. this is the first video I looked at. We all know this information that you are putting out but it is better coming from a filipina. Its good information. It is blunt and honest. I already appreciate what you are telling us. I will continue to watch this channel. thank you.

Loved the Ferris Bueller Bit at the end. What a great vid, I'm 39 and your perspective is amazing, bravo 😎🤘

Thanks Pea. You nailed it! I’ve been going back and forth from California to Manila for the last 3 years and what you said definitely rings true. Luckily, I’ve learned quickly of the Filipina ways and kept myself out of trouble. Just like in the US, it always pays to be cautious and take your time before getting into a relationship. I’ve actually bought a condo in Iloilo, which I’m still waiting to be finished, since I want to explore more places in the Philippines. I find the Filipino people as being very nice, helpful, and friendly. Looking forward to more of your informative videos.

Rewatching this one for old times sake, hard to believe how far you've come. Congratulations Pea, you are definitely my favorite Philippines blogger. And it's not just because you are one of the most beautiful woman I've ever seen.

Ms. Pea, I admire your videos and your honesty!

Excellent video which virtually explains everything, alleviating some of the fears and uncertainties regarding this subject; you had my undivided attention all the way through.

Excellent job Pea. The simplicity/clarity in explaining your culture is remarkable. Keep up the good job. Look forward to seeing more or your video(s).

Finally watched the first one....you were awesome from the beginning! Very informative and down to earth. Getting better all the time too, great job.

I felt so embarrassed for Rose but I was amazed of how welcoming her father and her family was to ed and that for me showed me how special the phillipine people are and that's what american men want to be around good hearted people and good values ❤️ 💙 💜

This was really useful in helping me understand some things I’ve been wondering about lately. I’ve served with many people from PI but have never been romantically involved with one. You directly answered some of my questions, thanks!!

Your videos are great...you have talent, don’t listen to the other comments...consider writing screen comedies, drama , etc for tv, Hollywood or do you own productions. You are wise, intuitive, and hard working...best of luck from the USA.

As always, very clear, precise and informative. Thank you for what you do.

Such humble beginnings...❤️ Look at you go!.👏👏👏 Such a great channel and community you have built pea!.. the Filipina pea is one of my favourite RU-vid channels!.😎

Wow! Amazing video for your first, very well done and the ending.... Shades of Ferris Beuller! Loved what you said, as an Australia looking for love in the Phillipines your information was both informative and very enlightening. Your channel offers a very , refreshingly honest view from a Filipina standpoint, I look forward to watching more. :)

Beautiful and articulate. An undiscovered star

hi pea,just watched a few of ur vids...well done!! love the honesty and frankness,cheers, will

I'm a latecomer to your videos and have just watched your first one (and several later ones). I would like to thank you for your honesty and your "no frills" approach to life. I'm going to watch the other videos in the next couple of weeks before I finally visit the Philippines and my LDR. Wish me luck 🙂 And thank you again from the bottom of my heart!

I just found you're page. Thank you for you're advice. I'm married to a Filipina. She did say she loved me the first time we kissed & it REALLY freaked me out. We've been married now for almost 7 years. She's awesome and amazing and I've been to Manila about 12 times. Keep up the great work I'll be watching Ayo Ayo. 🌷

I have listened to quite a few of your videos and i have to say it is refreshing to here someone from there speaking the truth openly. I have lived in Cebu for the past 5 years and can relate to almost everything you have talked about. I thank you for adding Gracie to your show because i was shocked by some of the legal issues she has talked about. I really needed to know the real estate part. Once again, thanks and i will be checking out more of your videos. James

Pea, just watched several of your videos and wanted to say thank you very much. Really good, honest, useful and down to earth information for understanding and appreciating the cultural differences. Keep it up.

So much fun to watch Pea after several of your current videos. I can see how you've progressed in both your presentation and English skills as well as your technical upgrades to the production. You've done well and it's nice to see that all your hard work has paid off so well.

For a gal in her 20's, you are very mature and well spoken. Definitely a keeper for the guy lucky enough to get your attention.

love your presentations, metaphors, humour, honesty, charm.

Glad to have found your channel. I met my Pinay girlfriend in California at work. She invited me to meet her family in Iloilo (Guimaras) and I agreed. It was a great experience to go the the Philippines. We married 3 years later, performing our wedding ceremony in Buenavista, Guimaras and we just celebrated our 24th anniversary. She and I are the same age, practically 60 now and ready to retire. We built a tiny home on the island and plan on spending at least six months out of the year there. I know of a lot of couples like us, but not many that are equals in age. But, it's OK, because a Filipina ages gracefully, and by the time she gets her first wrinkle, you are already too much in love to care. I find your "show", The Filipina Pea, to be quite entertaining and find you to be very intelligent. You remind me of my wife, Gina when we were younger. I am posting on your first video today, but I have been watching your channel for awhile now. I've been the Philippines on eight occasions so far. I've never been able to get to our neighbor island, Negros, much less Cebu. I have been invited to visit Gina's relatives in Cebu, time and time again. Hopefully, when we spend our first six month stretch, I can visit the rest of the Visayan Islands as well as Mindano and Palawan. I just want to wish you continued success of what you are doing and to acknowledge that you are appreciated here, halfway around the world. - Michael Bare

I cannot tell how your videos have helped me to an informed position. I don't even judge some of the situations of need that I encounter after learning of the poverty, family responsibilities and cultural differences. I sometimes think I need to visit the Phillipines for a firsthand experience. Thank you Pea 💯

Love the Ferris Bueller ending. This girl's been around and got some wisdom from her experiences. Interesting to watch, keep it up!

I just started watching videos on your country hoping to learn a bit about your country and came across your channel. I'm glad I did its good to see someone putting out good videos and staying positive during this COVID. Keep smiling and stay safe!!!!!

Watched a number of your videos and it is nice to see the first one to watch that change in style and pitch. You are a gem Pea keep up the good work.

Fantastic, honest and quite straightforward.

Hey ,Filipina Pea you were great. What a talk, very moving and I mean this sincerely it was right from your heart. Thank you so much for the once upon a time the unknown about the Filipina and now it has been revealed.

As a retired US teacher... thinking of "The Philippine Dream" ...in steps...I want you to know ...as if you already didn't lol ...that you are a natural...informative...entertaining...have very sincere energy with lots of charisma...I'd really like to see you in entertainment..that is your element! ....let's say...a talk show host...best of luck in all of your pursuits and thanks for sharing your knowledge (-:

This channel is fantastic. I've been binging your content. Thank you!

Thank you Pea, very reassuring!

Pea, you're the best. I was married 8 years in the phils. She left me in New York for visions of grandeur. Karma turned those visions upside down. However, I'm heading back to the Philippines soon after Covid-19 to get with my new beauty queen. I just want to mention, all the words of wisdom today go right out the window sometimes if you bring her to America. I learned the hard way. I just wish I had seen your other video on " your place or mine". That would have saved me. I can't wait to get back. This time I'm staying in the phils for ever.

Hi there.!! I'm a pure blooded Filipina that lives in a city .I maybe look a city woman but my character is conservative, Look like I'm modern and liberated but when it comes to relationship I am very loyal, faithful and honest to my fiancee 💯💓😍 I will never ever say I LOVE YOU to the one I don't love, iwwwww.!! Lol All I want is loyalty, honesty, faithfulness, respect trust and most of all a God fearing man Loving and caring....And I never ask him to buy anything for me🤗😍 I love him so much with all my heart and God knows that... And I'm really surprised everytime my fiancee told me, Hey I got something for my Asian Queen and I just say, Oh woow.! Its beautiful Sweetie, thank you so much..!!😘😍💓🤗 I feel comfortable to my love coz he shows me not only in words but actions too... He is my Soulmate...And I thank God for sending him to me after more than 12 years of searching and waiting the man like my fiancee 💯😍💓🙏🏻

Thank you for imparting your knowledge and experience to us viewers. This was very helpful.

this is what i like about Pea, she lays it all out there !! thank you Pea !!

Well done. I think you might save many relationships. I know I have thought these very same questions. I wish you the very best with your channel, and I am anxiously awaiting your next video. All the best pea!

Dear "Pea" , you really have deep insight : thank you so much , Bright Soul :)

I love your precocious manner and your understanding of our many cultural idiosyncrasies and pop culture references! 😍☺️

This was recommended in my RU-vid stream today. What a long way you came for the renewed channel. Maybe not long to some but you put so much good work into this channel already. Proud of you!

If you’re looking for someone who’s going to take up a lot of your time call you at random times of the morning. And be interesting to hearing what you’re saying and smile and giggle. I want to share their culture with you and be open to treat you like family. Then you should hang around a Filipino person or date them. They are amazing people and I could not talk enough about these people I love talking hours about the Filipino country have amazing food everybody treats me nice there and they’re welcome to see you. And if you have food a courage you to try the purple ice cream fish salad pigs blood or the blueberry cake. They are my favorites. Filipinos work really hard to understand their partners. They’re amazing soulmates and they’re faithful

Have only just discovered you. You are so clever and entertaining! My wife is a Filipina btw! Total fan of your channel now!

Thoroughly enjoyed your video.....Thanks !!!

Been watching your videos for a month now and was surprised to stumble across this one of your earliest videos. Your information is highly appreciated

I predict your channel will quickly grow to be one of the most successful in the expat foriegner community.

I enjoyed the enthusiasm you had for giving people information

Wow, Pea! I just ran across this. Your videos are so good that I would have thought you had years and years of experience. So cool to see your first. Thanks. I'm glad you are here.

Found this older video and its great and you right on the money. Love your videos Pea

I have watched every video Pea and I wanted to come back and rewatch your first video. I knew after watching your first video that you would do well, but I am surprised how fast your channel has grown. I wish you much success Pea. You are a rising star.

Wow Pea. I’ve watched nearly all your content and just stumbled upon this one. Your first. I love how far you’ve come in just 3 short years but also found this one so cute. Had me smiling the whole way through. Keep up all the good work you do with educating us foreigners about your amazing country and the all amazing Filipina ❤

Thanks Pea , I like and appreciate your videos.

Well done, you method of communication and expression are both informative and entertaining. You make a lot of sense and demonstrate that you articulate well both cultural perspectives (western/American & Filipino). Maraming Salamat for an excellent video.; will look forward to more.

Wow, a great new channel to watch (and the fact that you’re easy on the eyes is an added bonus). Can’t wait to see what you have to say next! Btw, the Ferris Bueller reference at the end was classic. You even copied his facial expressions perfectly. Subscribed 😊

Thanks for this awesome video which answered a lot of questions I have. Awesome channel. 👌

Hi Pea, great info. Nice to see how it all started. Congrats on your success and thank you for all the great info.

Pea - I've watched you a couple of times in the last week or so. You are incredibly wise, especially for someone so young. I am very impressed. Apparently you are a great observer of Life - and People! YOU are a "Living Doll"! Really. They say that The Philippines is the Pearl of the Orient. Hmmmm, I think maybe You Are! You are quite a Gem! I wish you a Long and Very Happy Life, a Blessed Life.

Hi Pea! New sub here and just finished all your videos. I love your channel and all that you provide. You are truly a national treasure for the Philippines. And a very kind soul. You are gonna make it big. I will continue to promote your channel. Start a fan mail Friday's!

You are crazee Pea !!!! Love this video becos of the facial expressions..Keep it up

The ending was funny! lol ;) Good video! I've been to the PI a few times - Clark AB back in the day. LOVED IT!

This was an eye opener for me; a couple of days of chatting, my filipina gf says the "L" word...I Could tell by her body language during our video chats she meant it: I Had to unlearn what I knew about USA relationships and learn about the Filipina culture, which is more sincere💯

Love this Ms Pea.

Great first video. What a treat!

Thanks again for a great video Pea

Hi Pea, what a breath of fresh air to the usual vlogs out of the Philippines, it's so interesting to hear from the female perspective. Well done and keep the content coming. A new sub from Australia, looking forward to the next vid, Good Luck. :)

ooh man!! that song is soo 80's!! hahahaha. a few 80"s movies used that in there soundtrack... but my mind is not wanting to cooperate and let me remember the right films that used it! Ferris Beuler's Day Off comes to mind, The Secret To My Success and Ghost Busters??? Oh i am going to have to watch those movies again and be reminded! Thank you for this insightful and informative video. I have subscribed. I am always very eager for information that helps me understand the culture my Fiance' comes from. I do have to admit it really surprised me how much she does not care about my years. However sometimes she worries about me staying healthy as she knows i am not so young. I also have found that there are bad people in all places in the world. no one culture has the monopoly on bad players. I have found Filipino's to be very warm generous kind people. my Fiance" is incredibly smart and passionate in her beliefs and ideas. she really is amazing. i believe she is a quality reflection of the land and culture she comes from. I look forward to more of your videos. Thank you also for speaking so clearly. so many people on RU-vid can be very hard to understand as they speak too fast and do not enunciate clearly.

Hi Pea, Great first video ❗ I missed a lot of your early ones. Starting at beginning now. Keep up the great work 🌹🌻🌹🌻🌹

Hi Pea. Have been watching your newest videos and decided to check out your fist show. I have to say your were are star in the making from the beginning. Thanks for all your great content and awesome sense of humor. 🙏

Well, I know this video was authentically recorded in the Philippines. It's got the trademark bantam crowing in the background 🤣😁👍

Been in Asia most of my adult life. When I visited my wife’s province and witnessed first hand the struggles. It definitely open my mind and heart to be more understanding.

Nice first video Pea and well presented. All the best on your new career.

Just found your videos, watched 4 or 5 pretty quickly, thanks for all the info and I wish you the best :-)