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Doing THESE Things Will 100% Ruin Your Relationships! 

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Doing THESE Things Will 100% Ruin Your Relationships!... This dating and relationship advice video will help you identify the things that will 100% ruin your relationships to help you avoid making mistakes that could lead to relationship breakdowns. There are many subtle things that ruin your relationships, often without you realizing it until it's too late. To learn more about things that ruin your relationships, embrace this relationship advice and ensure you watch the entire video.
Being mindful of your actions when dating will help you prevent ruining your relationship, and you will nurture a lasting bond with your partner. In the modern dating world, it's easy to ruin your relationship in ways you might not even realize. Awareness of the things that ruin your relationships is crucial for maintaining a healthy partnership. This dating advice will help you learn what ruins your relationship and share the various strategies to avoid these common relationship mistakes.
I want you to learn what ruins your relationships to avoid falling into harmful patterns and ensure you're making choices that create a loving connection. Learn things that ruin your relationships and avoid making the same mistakes, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling partnership. Embrace this dating advice video to learn things that ruin your relationships.
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@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
I hope you enjoyed my video, "Doing THESE Things Will 100% Ruin Your Relationships!" Watch this dating advice video next, " The Top 5 Reasons WHY WOMEN CHEAT In Relationships! " 👉 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-1kBpAQhKQJA.htmlsi=LoKZjzylsYTkchfv Resources ❤ Have a situation you want almost FREE help with? Join my RU-vid membership! $5/mth US, cancel anytime. Members' comments are shown to me first. Try not to make your comment a novella! Join here: ru-vid.com/show-UCEfwUiuU69mS19aJ_SveqDAjoin WakeUP2Luv GET AN AMAZING GIRLFRIEND! ("Life-changing!" ~ Steve B. "Soon after finishing the program I got a girlfriend." ~ members.wingmam.com/get-women/ One-on-one coaching? Click here: wingmam.com/relationship-marriage-coach/ The only online therapy I trust FOR MEN! wingmam.com/online-therapy/ (Discount available!) Get Your Testosterone Checked! wingmam.com/blog/2020/02/10/fellas-do-you-have-low-testosterone/ (Discount available!) Or USE THIS DIRECT LINK WITH 25% WINGMAM SUBSCRIBER DISCOUNT: trylgc.com/anna HINT: Healthy testosterone helps with mood, energy, confidence, assertiveness, and weight management! There are fake AIs of "me" endorsing products; I only promote things I believe in through my websites (www.wingmam.com; www.members.wingmam.com) or in a YourWingmam YT video on this or my @WingmamClips channel. I'll never ask you to contact me anywhere else or ask for money. Those are impersonators using my photo and a similar YT handle. *Please report fake accounts wherever you find them.* Only official account for PayPal donations: www.paypal.com/paypalme/wingmam Love is the answer, people! Don’t give up. DO. NOT. GIVE. UP. HOPE. God loves you and so do I! You got this.
@kurtvanluven9351
@kurtvanluven9351 20 дней назад
This must be the advanced class. Could you direct me to the class on how to get a relationship? I need to brush up. I think the rules changed for the 21st century??
@donotcare44
@donotcare44 19 дней назад
G'day Wingman, I need help with a crush on my doctor (chiropractor) ... I can't risk her license tho. But it has been apart of my healing process so, I kind want to thank her for that without expecting anything in return.
@101wilku101
@101wilku101 20 дней назад
Relationship is for people who want to be in one. If both want this then there is no problem. If only one person wants this, nothing we can help.
@audioelitist3677
@audioelitist3677 17 дней назад
Buy this man a Brawndo. Well said.
@Corsairforu
@Corsairforu 16 дней назад
Usually you can weed them out pretty fast though, that Red Flag part unless you want to play that Charlie Brown & Lucy gig where its "Come on Chuck Kick this ball" and you think "this time it will be different" but every time she yanks the ball out!
@itoldyouso9566
@itoldyouso9566 10 дней назад
100%
@caerleon9176
@caerleon9176 20 дней назад
I know from experience when she asks "When are we going to get married?" the answer is definitely not "When I find the right woman!". 🤕
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Ha!!
@drmachinewerke1
@drmachinewerke1 12 дней назад
When my divorce is finalized .
@kingdavid1614
@kingdavid1614 20 дней назад
One thing I noticed as you were speaking is how your cheekbones help to accentuate your eyes and smile. It makes it more fun to listen to you.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Thank you for a classy compliment! And for watching!
@rbkgaming2581
@rbkgaming2581 20 дней назад
Nah... That's a SIMPy compliment
@kingdavid1614
@kingdavid1614 20 дней назад
I think you deserve it
@IvoryTaurean
@IvoryTaurean 19 дней назад
Maybe I'm being a little short-sighted here, but in my experience the times that my ex-wife wanted to "emotionally vent" were issues that she already knew how to solve BEFORE coming to me. Her knowing how I am, how could she be so surprised when my answer was "well if you know how to solve the issue, why complain about it?" "Why not just solve it and make it go away?" Her answer was always "I just want to vent about it because it's not fair"
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 18 дней назад
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@danjsilve
@danjsilve 18 дней назад
I still find I am an emotional dumping ground for other people’s trauma. I always have to walk away, as they don’t respect the boundaries I lay down.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 18 дней назад
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@danjsilve
@danjsilve 18 дней назад
@@YourWingmam Thank you. I have to keep going forward and taking risks, as living in a protective shell is not an option. As Andy says in “Shawshank Redemption” Either get busy living or get busy dying. Well I choose option A.
@noopy24
@noopy24 20 дней назад
You remind me of my therapist I had after my divorce... She was great 🫶... Keep up the good work .. We love what you have to say 😉
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Wonderful compliment, thank you so much! 💞
@Dennisrader-ff9gv
@Dennisrader-ff9gv 19 дней назад
I used to argue and yell every single time i got home from work she would be yelling at me for something, one day i just got tired of it and didnt yell or argue back, she then started breaking my stuff, eventually she started punching me in the chest and slapping my face, one time she threw a 3/4 inch wrench at me and it glanced off my head, then one day she tried to slash me with a box knife razor, chased me around the kitchen table with it. Yeah she has many different children and has been divorced a few times now and is a counciler for "battered and abused women". I gave her everything she wanted and never hurt her. PSYCHO.
@JohnPretty1
@JohnPretty1 18 дней назад
I think this works both ways actually Anna. Being as I am single, and I don't have enough money to date (okay, I'm not sure that having money would improve that), I have to make do with my parents for close communication. (Or rather my mother ans my father hardly ever has anything to say.) I would often confide in my mother, but find her wanting to fix the problem, when really I only wanted her to listen.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 18 дней назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@JohnPretty1
@JohnPretty1 18 дней назад
Yeah, I have a lot of my namesakes nasty stuff Anna. I never had any confidence in my ability to even get to first base by my own efforts. I did use dating agencies for a while (before they were fashionable and when they were generally regarded as the option for losers) and it wasn't all bad, though I gave up on it. Apparently it's a minefield nowadays. I am almost proud to say that despite approaching a number of women in the ten year period from age 25, I never persuaded one to go on a date. Women that I thought might be interested just scared me too much. I'm always alone and despite many many years of trying to fix myself. I'll probably never be married now, but I still find some solace in your videos Anna. Thank you.
@matthughesrocks
@matthughesrocks 20 дней назад
Always great info! It's funny how people years ago like my folks can stay married 50-60 years through all the ups and downs, vs these days you almost need a degree to navigate a relationship past 6 months. lol
@cowboy44319
@cowboy44319 17 дней назад
Mom definitely had her problems. Almost everything, especially in her later years, was a "guilt trip" to get what she wanted. Not as bad as *her* mother, but bad enough that when she died, none of her grandchildren, and almost all of my siblings really wanted nothing to do with her. ( outside of obligation ) Recognizing and *not* being attracted to that behavior has taken an effort. ( and time ) She did love, in her own way, but it had its affects.
@johneason6540
@johneason6540 20 дней назад
Thanks, actually Vancouver looks nice today
@ricklegendary2990
@ricklegendary2990 6 дней назад
my partner was affectionate, attentive, and fun up untill we moved in together, this small sweet woman ignored conversations, intimacy, criticism was her go to place, she hated my snoring, she hated kissing, hugs, once after sex i told her " i love you, she responded " you ruined it !
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 6 дней назад
I hope she reaches the point of doing what is truly best ❤️ 🙏🏼
@vduncan1615
@vduncan1615 20 дней назад
Anna great stuff! I suffer from communication mishaps even if I am thinking I am quite articulate. I don't even notice that I become upset when I am called to fix someting! and my wife starts raising her voice too but for a different reason as you described it very well! and we have to shutdown any communication to prevent further escalating. And after I fix the problem (sometimes difficult like car breakdown in the middle of the woods) my wife comes to me with a thank you kiss. And both of us are asking why both of us need to yell for no reason. You are a blessing for many of us.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Thank you for sharing your experience! Perhaps next time you can practice keeping your voice steady and calm. Keyword: practice.
@vduncan1615
@vduncan1615 20 дней назад
@@YourWingmam Well, we went through three therapists (couple and individual) - only after your explanation we finally understood - practice? no problem now because we will remind each other not to raise the voice. Up until now we thought it is healthy to express controlled anger and not to keep it inside=:)
@JSFGuy
@JSFGuy 20 дней назад
Right, one must compare their interpretation, love language, resolve to what is effective and see if it is normal and not causing failure.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Seems like a lot of work but if you care for someone it shouldn’t feel like work, but instead curiosity to know each other better :)
@tal2agamer498
@tal2agamer498 20 дней назад
That helps
@ThePaulv12
@ThePaulv12 20 дней назад
Men are hard wired to solve problems. Women with problems that call men really primarily want to talk about the problem for emotional support and solving the problem is a more secondary concern. Men (including me) unfortunately don't usually understand this but I do now. It's just called listening really. Oh, as I was typing this your vid was playing and you mentioned all this LOL - don't mind me.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
If it’s any consolation, I’m as frustrated by complaining without looking for solutions as most men are!
@Stanley_Furley
@Stanley_Furley 20 дней назад
You look fabulous in this video. Great info, too 🙂.
@antoerickson4152
@antoerickson4152 20 дней назад
Hello, Anna how are you doing and how is your health now. The relationships are harder and lot of men and women today didn't had good childhood. Lot of men had the exact childhood like John. You helped me a lot in the last one and half years and I have corrected lot of the mistakes I done in the past in life and with women. I found value in your videos since the very beginning. You are a natural beauty Anna. I just learned to smile and be funny again from you Anna.Thanks for the video Anna.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Thank you for this wonderful comment! Glad you’re smiling and laughing again. Progress not perfection :))
@vince8436
@vince8436 20 дней назад
Not even sure why I watch your vids. I like them but I do not have a relationship, never had and never will. I knew this at 9 or 10yo. And decades later still just me, myself and I. And no that does not mean I have a miserable life. Actually quite the opposite I believe.
@WaterlooExpat
@WaterlooExpat 20 дней назад
Thanks!
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Thank you so much! 🙏🥰
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk 20 дней назад
I like that outfit Anna
@chipjohnson9283
@chipjohnson9283 20 дней назад
'When you do everything you can to poison your relationships; don't be surprised when it dies." - pinterest quote years ago
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@twistersage7226
@twistersage7226 19 дней назад
7:40 no, it’s not okay for her to emotionally vomit on their partner, she can discuss her emotional turbulence with her girlfriends, puking your emotions on her partner is emasculating and causes him to step out of character one way or another
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 19 дней назад
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏
@twistersage7226
@twistersage7226 17 дней назад
@@YourWingmam read the proper care and feeding of husbands chapter 5 ❤️
@PremiumUserUltra
@PremiumUserUltra 18 дней назад
Darn I like that look
@theclephane2914
@theclephane2914 14 дней назад
Also, if you’re looking at other women when you’re with her, she’s going to take it that you’re looking for another woman. That you’re not happy with your relationship with her. This came directly from my ex-wife. So when you’re with her pay attention to her don’t pay attention to the others walking down the street.
@HenrikFromDenmark
@HenrikFromDenmark 20 дней назад
Lovely episode - I can only say (man-wise) - that if a person (in this case a woman) keeps on doing the same thing that seems to fail - again and again and again - even when a person (a man) has suggested a workaround upfront that simply seems to be ignored from the other party's (a woman) side - it's simply mental torture or mental highjack of the other party listening.... I can also be so "rude" to say - the person has not been educated within cause vs. effect ....as a guy there is a limit of how many times you want to hear the same mistakes other party's are doing and simply listen to the failures again and again and again....this is not a gender thing - to be with intelligent people is a thrill, why suffer to be part of emotional rollercoaster rides, unless your life is boring and you need challenges ;-)
@dwightnix893
@dwightnix893 19 дней назад
I broke my wifes heart. It wasnt anything I did, it was from being an absent husband. She would have forgiven me of almost anything. I should have been more supportive. Now Im in my 50s and worried there are so fewer days ahead than there are behind but Im still a man and dont want to be alone. I cant function as a bachelor. My wife was my anchor that kept me here but I was not there for her when she needed me most. I dont want to be alone and dont want to make the same mistakes going forward. Therapy is rough because I have to accept all my faults as they are and deal with them. Not an easy time.
@johnpaul2285
@johnpaul2285 20 дней назад
Beautiful Beautiful Wingmam What's not to love 🙏❤️
@DEBTFREEMIKE769
@DEBTFREEMIKE769 20 дней назад
Wingmam looking great today!❤
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
🙏💞
@Bnuuy56
@Bnuuy56 20 дней назад
Personally , none of us do these things , however , on June 19 she told me it was best we remains « friends » because she didn’t felt good anymore and she didn’t know why, neither do I (while being frustrated , sad , confused , angry etc) so my first thoughts was to use logic on her like « you’ve falled in love with me first , so it doesn’t make any sense whatsoever» , but instead , I said I understand her decision if it has to be like that, and that’s it , giving her space for herself, still said I was disappointed tho. 3 months later she’s even more into me more than never , « friends » , yeah sure 😅 , that’s not what I see from my perspective, I don’t understand why she do that, was it a test and I did passed it or something ? Only god would know😂
@WilliamsScott-ct5so
@WilliamsScott-ct5so 14 дней назад
Take it from yours truly! 🤓👍
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 14 дней назад
❤️ 🙏
@scifirealism5943
@scifirealism5943 15 дней назад
Do you think men and women can love each other on a first date?
@ozarkprepper1718
@ozarkprepper1718 15 дней назад
Im not sure of the pacific northwest,but where i live women look like an inflated tire and nag constantly. I think a healthy relationship starts with healthy religious mental and physical traits first. US food supply is laced with corn syrup,sodium,and preservatives.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 15 дней назад
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@ozarkprepper1718
@ozarkprepper1718 15 дней назад
@@YourWingmam Look at Canadian soft drinks vs US ones. If what ive been told is true,Yours have real sugar like ours did until the early 1990s. Right after they switched to corn syrup as a sweetener,obesity became the new normal here.And by 2005 ephedrine was pulled from the shelves at the same time large sugary,salty energy drinks were being marketed.
@daveo9844
@daveo9844 20 дней назад
I never had a chance to learn anything observing my parents and their ‘relationship’ 😂
@Dennisrader-ff9gv
@Dennisrader-ff9gv 19 дней назад
Guilty?🤔 i had to do something to be rid of the psycho!
@przemekwojcik4450
@przemekwojcik4450 5 дней назад
how to ruin? By put her on a pedestal. After that u get less hugs, kisses, bedroom, attention, converstions and cycle of reproduction starts over with another man - it's hypergamy.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 5 дней назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@64maxpower
@64maxpower 15 дней назад
Is john a real person or is he your invisible best friend? I'm not saying i'm just saying
@bobmorgan5636
@bobmorgan5636 20 дней назад
GOOD GRIEF.... MY FIRST WIFE!!!!!
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@thetruther954
@thetruther954 20 дней назад
Sadia Khan barely leaves a crack open in the door to her marriage, lest someone come in and take that love away. That makes sense. Here though is something about my wife: I don’t think she knows what she wants to make her happy. I really don’t think she can picture/imagine happy in her mind. Exactly what that would feel like and the way that she can get there. I don’t know where she lost it or if she ever had it. No particular problem is a standout from the way that she grew up. I really do not know. Trish Leigh, whose energy and attention I just love, were it not for the amorphous bullshit, says when she dies, she wants to be all of the woman she was meant to be. She doesn’t want to see another woman standing in her shoes, where she should be standing. Yes, picture spinning the tale of your life to your Grandchild. Imagine how that feels.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Most women sing really know what they want. However, even if there wasn’t trauma in childhood, overly permissive parents who didn’t establish healthy boundaries can also create unhappy adult children. Maybe ask your wife if that was the case.
@thetruther954
@thetruther954 20 дней назад
@@YourWingmamyes, I will have to ask her. You find a lot of happy people who have gotten what they wished for, do you? I want to be with you (imaginary). “After a time, you may find that ‘having’ is not so pleasing a thing after all as ‘wanting.’ It is not logical, but it is often true.” Mr. Spock. Star Trek, the Original.
@ali94777
@ali94777 20 дней назад
💙
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
❤️ 🙏
@roberthagedorn290
@roberthagedorn290 20 дней назад
We men would also love to vomit our feelings, emotions, problems, etc., etc., etc., at least SOMETIMES onto a woman, especially one who is our partner. The ignorant ones do precisely this and more often than sometimes. And they get dumped, disrespected, and/or whatever.else negative is in the grab bag that ends a healthy relationship. It is maddening to have to listen to someone, man or woman, just go on and on and on and on...forever. Then when the man tries to say something, he is met with, "Excuse me, I'm speaking!"
@JohnPretty1
@JohnPretty1 18 дней назад
You're not listening!
@williamlindner3984
@williamlindner3984 20 дней назад
I do all these things and I pass a lot of gas as well....
@BlairPittams
@BlairPittams 19 дней назад
John sounds weak, Life doesn't make us weak we make us weak
@mypov4343
@mypov4343 20 дней назад
Accept and don't use logic LOL
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
👀
@Robert-zr1lg
@Robert-zr1lg 20 дней назад
;-)
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
❤️ 🙂
@M.E.McCamishJR
@M.E.McCamishJR 20 дней назад
Anna gggeeeesssssss have some fun therefore when are you posting your wild dancing video in white shorts?
@karihamalainen9622
@karihamalainen9622 14 дней назад
TERIBLE SMALL CAT!!!
@dennisneel9788
@dennisneel9788 20 дней назад
You rock
@deancox8634
@deancox8634 20 дней назад
Like most of your videos but this was a lot of gobbledygook. You look way too distracted.
@jarichards99utube
@jarichards99utube 20 дней назад
Yep...! 🙂🙂 👍👍 -70SomethingGuy
@x-man5056
@x-man5056 20 дней назад
I think the biggest mistake you touched on right at the end. The courting should not stop once you are in the relationship. You should continue to gently tease and flirt, keep all hygiene issues in check, kiss and 'I love you' in the morning before you go, place her above your friends, all of it. You are no longer competing for her love, you are now nurturing it. You don't stop watering a plant once it flowers.
@worshipwhilewewait
@worshipwhilewewait 20 дней назад
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!! DateNights ROCK!!! So does that note on my coffee thermos, on the shower, on my rearview mirror, and it REMINDS Me "I GOTTA BE GOOD TO THIS LADY!!!"
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Exactly! 💯😍
@x-man5056
@x-man5056 20 дней назад
@@worshipwhilewewait Yes. Those sticky notes. Awesome.
@chrismoore9997
@chrismoore9997 20 дней назад
One of the things I learned in life is to make a much more significant effort to not raise my voice to my wife. It never makes things better. Sometimes, you have to break down things for women and let her understand that when you do raise your voice, it is just because you are agitated, not because you are mad at them. They are very sensitive to being yelled at. Some will yell back and others will break down and cry and you don't want either of those, especially if you have a vindictive woman that will try to get revenge.
@SteelFanther
@SteelFanther 18 дней назад
My office buddy Stanislav is in an age gap relationship. He's 40, she's 19. Anyway, they went out for a meal, as soon as they walked in the restaurant people shot him dirty looks, then the whispering started " "fu*cking pervert" "damn cradle-robber". So his GF got upset and they left. And that completely ruined their 10th anniversary. * Moscow, Russia
@DaveTheRave-sd9yc
@DaveTheRave-sd9yc 13 дней назад
lol
@biasedknowledge
@biasedknowledge 2 дня назад
The part about not taking responsibility really resonated with me. This reminds me of the self-serving bias-where we tend to blame others for failures while taking credit for successes. I saw a friend go through a rough patch in his marriage, constantly attributing their problems to his partner’s flaws. It wasn’t until he recognized his own role in the conflict that they were able to start healing. Ownership is everything in relationships.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 2 дня назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@actmyage2149
@actmyage2149 20 дней назад
My parents had a lousy relationship. I grew up with the notion that whatever my marriage would look like, I couldn't let it resemble what I grew up with. There was a very old couple at church that had a very loving relationship that had gone on for half a century -- that became the goal for me! In my own marriage, it took me a long time to learn not to "fix" my wife's issues. The discordant part is that my wife expected me to fix her issues with ME, but not her issues with anything else! To a man, the fact that she wants me to provide comfort -- but not fixes -- to her during a fixable situation, but she expects me to fix my action/attitude for situations involving me makes NO SENSE! If it's broken, FIX IT!!! Good topic today! Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/Still waiting for the day we see proof that Anna actually has legs and that she isn't simply bolted to a Segway below the hips. ;)
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Ah yes, your experience is so common! lol Even though I know what I know about women’s need to vent (aka complain without fixing), I’m as frustrated by it as most men! You haven’t mentioned Tyson lately, how’s the old boy? Thank you for the prayers, Russ!
@EriPages
@EriPages 20 дней назад
Treat her as one without reason or accountability. Don't verbalize this. Just behave as such moving forward, and your marital life will be wonderful.
@dask1516
@dask1516 12 дней назад
Some women will always find excuses to blame the husband for their cheating
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 12 дней назад
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@dask1516
@dask1516 11 дней назад
@@YourWingmam I see these are the root issues but Im curious to know how many women have used these excuses to cheat.. The old 🗝️ ""it's your fault I cheated because.........""
@anthonyburke5656
@anthonyburke5656 10 дней назад
Biggest “terminating events” for me: 1. Start referring to MY property as “our” property, 2. Start the covert “move in” by leaving items at my place. 3. Start organising my interactions with my family. 4. Start demanding I organise my schedule to suit her convenience.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 10 дней назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@RickTheClipper
@RickTheClipper 20 дней назад
Relation with a modern woman is playing Russian Roulette with all chambers loaded, You can not win
@williamlindner3984
@williamlindner3984 20 дней назад
They have big daddy government... They don't need you...
@edwo6648
@edwo6648 16 дней назад
Ladies under stand that when you vent your problems and require your man to remain silent and just allow you to, in her words, "vomit" your emotions on him without allowing him to help solve the problem it is very emasculating and emotionally destructive to him. You are doing massive damage to him and your relationship. You will probably notice that the more you do that the more emotionally closed off he becomes from you and the relationship, this is the result of your actions and it does not go away it only gets worse.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 16 дней назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@NeanderthalNatty
@NeanderthalNatty 9 дней назад
Really? Remaining silent is imasculating? If that does it then there's nothing to imasculate.
@edwo6648
@edwo6648 8 дней назад
@@NeanderthalNatty LOL Really? Word and emotion vomiting on your husband and forcing him to not respond is being respectful to your husband...... No man should tolerate that.
@davnelruss
@davnelruss 20 дней назад
I completely agree with what you're saying about how our upbringing affects our adult relationships. Trauma and neglect during childhood can shape how we interact with others, especially in close relationships. For example, a person dealing with childhood trauma often develops a dense Shadow Self, where repressed trauma and unmet needs reside. Other key components of the psyche include the Persona, which represents the socially acceptable aspects of our identity, and the Super-Ego, which serves as a critical and often harsh inner voice. These internal interactions can play havoc with our thoughts and behaviors when navigating relationships. Understanding these psychological elements can really help in navigating challenges in adult relationships.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Absolutely! For anyone reading this, who is unfamiliar with these terms, don’t despair, it’s a learning journey. You don’t need all the answers at once. Take one idea that resonates and try to incorporate it in your life. :)
@robertbrouillette6767
@robertbrouillette6767 20 дней назад
Anna, you are the best. None of these other “self help” programs on here can equal yours.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Lovely compliment, thank you!
@vduncan1615
@vduncan1615 20 дней назад
Agree 100% - you are amazing at least for men like me listening to you - are the ladies agreeing with you too?
@nchrist511
@nchrist511 20 дней назад
@@vduncan1615 yes. I'm a woman and I think she's pretty accurate in what she says.
@eddy2561
@eddy2561 20 дней назад
My exe, as narcissist (my amateur diagnose), carried a gun and badge for her work! Can you spell control freak!! Mercifully, she's my exe now.
@danielapel1976
@danielapel1976 3 дня назад
Forgot to eraese my browser history on her laptop.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 3 дня назад
❤️ 🙏
@danielapel1976
@danielapel1976 3 дня назад
@@YourWingmam I am smarter now. Also, dead unhappy .
@jayphive2468
@jayphive2468 19 дней назад
I’m almost 20 years single, 43 years old 😂 and 6 figure earner the past 5 years in healthcare. No real motivation to get involved with a relationship, but some of the videos are interesting.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 19 дней назад
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!
@Fjord_Driver
@Fjord_Driver 18 дней назад
By communicate, you mean text message nowadays. Do people actually talk on the phone anymore? Stay away from anyone who can't handle live conversations, or has no clue what "conversation" means. Anyone can be on the other end sending a text message. You have no idea who that might be. A live voice is much easier to tell you are actually talking to the person you think you are talking to. And you get all the wonders of vocal inflections that are totally lost in text messages.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 18 дней назад
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@anthonymcnamee6297
@anthonymcnamee6297 20 дней назад
Great take on that situation
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@FlashGordon-g9n
@FlashGordon-g9n 16 дней назад
I just come on here to watch Anna , I find her fascinating ….and easy on my eyes…….
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 16 дней назад
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate that!
@mortenkalland
@mortenkalland 18 часов назад
The fear of God is beginning to wisdom. Thank you for interesting videos. Jesus bless you!
@JaySmith-pv2mw
@JaySmith-pv2mw 20 дней назад
I ruin relationships by just being myself.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
❤️ 🙏
@Pssst.ByTheWay
@Pssst.ByTheWay 20 дней назад
😂 self awareness - check✅
@JaySmith-pv2mw
@JaySmith-pv2mw 20 дней назад
@@Pssst.ByTheWay LOL. You betcha.
@allesiofondressi2602
@allesiofondressi2602 20 дней назад
Soon you'll have a woman for a can of beans; I don't like it but, it's the truth.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@neutral6941
@neutral6941 20 дней назад
Y r women so complicated and difficult? Be easy going like us guys.
@lyfandeth
@lyfandeth 20 дней назад
Because they can't just walk away from the consequences. The way men often do.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Most of us are simply built differently. (women say the same thing about men… Why can’t men be like women? lol)
@muffemod
@muffemod 19 дней назад
Wait! What things?
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 19 дней назад
Kindly watch the entire video to get clarity
@soylientgreen8618
@soylientgreen8618 15 дней назад
Really thank you..!!!
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 15 дней назад
My pleasure ❤️
@Anamnesia
@Anamnesia 20 дней назад
Women: “We want men to be a Leader - to take charge, take control & make decisions!” Also Women: “But we also need you to listen and not do, or say anything and just *_HEAR_* us talk” #MixedMessages
@markmiller2361
@markmiller2361 20 дней назад
Anyone besides myself notice the cat behind the tree at around three minutes.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
❤️ 🙂
@TerribleFire
@TerribleFire 20 дней назад
Modern women arent worth bothering with
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏
@Sams911
@Sams911 20 дней назад
still looking for that unicorn... a white woman over 50 that looks like Anna... tired of dating 25 year olds.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
I pray that you receive the woman who is truly best for you, the woman God has for you ❤ 🙏
@Sams911
@Sams911 20 дней назад
@@YourWingmam thank you Anna, you're sweet and your advise is sound.
@theclephane2914
@theclephane2914 14 дней назад
Don’t make the mistake of thinking because you’re going out doing something that’s her hobby. Like when I went to open Mic with my wife and she played music and that was our date night. WRONG!! That is her hobby. Date night needs to be something totally different. And not just dinner somewhere. Dinner and something else even if it’s just a walk. Something you don’t normally do. Something that she likes to do, maybe a float spa.
@theclephane2914
@theclephane2914 14 дней назад
Don’t make the mistake of thinking because you’re going out doing something that’s her hobby. Like when I went to open Mic with my wife and she played music and that was our date night. WRONG!! That is her hobby. Date night needs to be something totally different. And not just dinner somewhere. Dinner and something else even if it’s just a walk. Something you don’t normally do. Something that she likes to do, maybe a float spa.
@chrisradano
@chrisradano 13 дней назад
Sometimes my wife and I talk about the 1979 song "Escape". Who's fault was it that there was an attempt at "cheating" in the song? My wife said the man went to answer a singles add in the newspaper. I said the woman was the person who put the add in the paper, looking for a date. I'm not really a big fan of the song, but it is an interesting debate. Now with John yelling at his wife, yelling is not good but why did his wife trap him with her problem when he is away at work? Equally insensitive and detrimental behavior to yelling, only different. I think most relationships reach a wall. If the people can deal with the wall, they can reach the other side and grow. Relationships are not stagnant, there are challenges.
@metricdeep8856
@metricdeep8856 18 дней назад
I would never rent a dog....but I might rent a woman. Relationships matter to men.
@Corsairforu
@Corsairforu 16 дней назад
Anna you ought to do one on that Red Flag part. Like basically that Charlie Brown & Lucy gig where its 'Come on Chuck Kick this ball' and you think "This time it will be different!" but every time she yanks the ball out and flat on your back you go!" Even certain restaurants I am like "By God I am going to make sure they get my order right and put ketchup and all in the bag this time!" and still they will mess something up!
@theclephane2914
@theclephane2914 14 дней назад
Also, if you’re looking at other women when you’re with her, she’s going to take it that you’re looking for another woman. That you’re not happy with your relationship with her. This came directly from my ex-wife. So when you’re with her pay attention to her don’t pay attention to the others walking down the street.
@theclephane2914
@theclephane2914 14 дней назад
Many times with a woman telling her that you understand what you did wrong and what you were responsible for as a mistake that you made works out way better than saying I’m sorry. I’m sorry looks weak. Saying yes, you are correct. I said that and I raised my voice and I shouldn’t have, you are correct. Tell her you are taking deep breaths when she causes you to want to yell. Then put your hands up in the universal stop position and take a few deep breaths to show you are doing this. That shows that you are doing what you’re saying. It also helps you greatly.
@karihamalainen9622
@karihamalainen9622 14 дней назад
Comunicatinbg? FFFF we are fin men and we cannot comunicate! Why women cannot product more interesting talks? Rag markets*(aka clothes=) is most boring items to talk.
@theclephane2914
@theclephane2914 14 дней назад
For men, you have to always be on guard with your communication to ensure that you understand if she wants something fixed or is she just venting and is the fix what she wants not what you want. She is telling you something that bothers her or is affecting her. Listen to understand. I did not listen to understand. I just listen to the first few words and then jumped on a fix. It wasn’t what she wanted. I wasn’t listening to what she was trying to get across to me. Further down the road when she started asking, did I want to go to marriage counseling? I should’ve immediately said yes instead first I thought our marriage was strong enough. We didn’t need to talk to a counselor. I didn’t understand how upset she was. The next time she mentioned counseling I was worried about my pilot license being revoked. I put my hobby ahead of our relationship. She seen that as our relationship not being important enough to me. I’m divorced.
@rylanamundrud9384
@rylanamundrud9384 19 дней назад
Guys and women; please stop getting married because society is doing it. It takes 18 months to really know someone and marriage is a technology invented thousands of years ago to protect property. The only reason to marry is for property; otherwise, you are inviting the government into your life with marriage and men you are 90% more likely to pay child support/alimony if you decide to have the woman be a stay-at-home mom/unemployed depending on the state you are in. Lastly; if you come from a divorced set of parents and the other partner's parents have never been divorced; you are twice as likely to get a divorce. When both of you come from divorced parents; you two are 3 times as likely to get a divorce since your capacity to love/understanding of love is something you both observed from your parents. (Remember love is scrafice; no infatuation...love is basically like exercise; it's good for you but it's sacrificing your own happiness for another).
@andreaskalogiratos3826
@andreaskalogiratos3826 17 дней назад
One of those ressons would be marrying you. Just that modern masculine voice says everything
@AndrewN75
@AndrewN75 19 дней назад
Good one! Continue dating and flirting. Si easy tobtakw relationship, esp marriage, for granted. Nice to see you outside. (still no legs 😂)
@Phaedrus-th7bi
@Phaedrus-th7bi 20 дней назад
OMG I thought you were in your underwear.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
😳🫣😂
@timbarnett3898
@timbarnett3898 11 дней назад
My guess how to ruin your relationship with a woman is just showing up?
@derekbootle8316
@derekbootle8316 19 дней назад
Sex without permission, either with her or somone else will cause some marital strife.
@johnwaller238
@johnwaller238 3 дня назад
Curious if you are single? 😂
@pinkplayspkmn5011
@pinkplayspkmn5011 20 дней назад
Get video I’m glad u called back to nature and for us to understand it
@karihamalainen9622
@karihamalainen9622 14 дней назад
Anna is now again good mood. Itr is good to see.
@daleb5967
@daleb5967 20 дней назад
System programming,. ....aka, shoulder angels, aka,. Subconsious id and superego.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 20 дней назад
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@theclephane2914
@theclephane2914 14 дней назад
Yes, WAKEUP2LUV
@jccuchvjvj
@jccuchvjvj 19 дней назад
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