Domestic Violence Aur Larki Ke Maa Baap! | Bushra Ansari 

I live in the US, and the desi kids here are a bit different than pakistani kids. When they visit pakistan, they kind of miss fit in the pakistani culture. This doesn't mean they are rude.

Bachay MashaAllah bohot piyaray hain Allah in kai maa baap ko apnay bachon ki bohot saari khushian dikhaey

Many people won't understand this, only the ones who lives abroad and come to visit Pakistan will know what it is like. I lived all my life abroad and I love my visits to Pakistan. Whenever I visit Pakistan I am overwhelmed by my relatives as I have a huge family from both my mother and father sides. I'm a quiet person don't talk much in general, this doesn't mean I'm rude I just don't know what to say and yes language can be a barrier my Urdu is weak. I manage to survive by saying hanji jiji lol bilkulji I love the people in Pakistan they are so loving and caring. Food is 😋

جو بچے باہر پلے بڑھے وہ پاکستان میں رہنے والے بچوں سے مختلف۔ ہوتے کسی کی غیبت نہیں کرتے برائیاں نہیں کرتے تھوڑا سیدھا سادے ہوتے ہیں بولے بھلے ہوتے ہیں ۔مجھے تو اپ کے نواز سے نواسی سے بہت اچھے لگے اللہ تعالی ان کو صحت و تندرستی سے رکھے اور والدین کے لیے قرۃ العین بنائیں امین ثم امین بچوں کے وی لاگ کا انتظار رہے گا پلیز ان کے ساتھ بھی بنائیے ❤

You are a nice human being. May ALLAH SWT bless you more in life ! Ameen.

بشری جی ہمارے معاشرے میں تو جہالت سر چڑ کر بول رہی ہے اور جو عورت بھی ذلت کی زندگی گزارنے سے انکار کرے ہمارے مہربان لوگ اسی کو ہی عبرت کا نشانہ بنا کر رکھ دیتے ہیں ۔ ہم مسلمان تو ہیں ، کاش ہم اپنے اسلا م کو بھی تھوڑا پڑھ لیتے جوپہلے اپنی ذات کو بدلنے کا حکم دیتا ہے اور دوسروں کو بعد میں لیکن افسوس کہ ہم سب اپنی ذات کو نہیں دیکھتے اور دوسروں میں کیڑے نکالتے رہتے ہیں۔ بشری جی آپ نے بہت اچھی باتیں کی ہیں لڑکیوں کو ظلم نہیں سہنا چاہیے۔ اللہ تعالیٰ اس قوم کو شعور عطا فرمائے۔آمین 🤲

Wow !Good to know how you cared your maids. This is how a good human /Muslim has to be.

Nice msg. As u said, keh larrkiyon ke hath Main ko hunar hona chahyee, plus taleem hasl Karain, plus koe na koe kaam zaroor Karain takeh jaisa keh Apne kaha darr, talaq le li ya shauher ne nikal dia tu kia karoon gi, apna kaam ho ga tu apki hi baat 2 roti aur chhat ka darr nahi ho ga. Aur rahi baat keh log kia kahain ge tu logon ne tu marne ke baad bhi batain karni hain. Unnki tu parwah na Karain.

My kids born and bought up in Canada they r not rude but because they can’t speak well urdu they reply less it doesn’t mean they r rude they r hesitant ❤

Assalamualaikum aapki baat Durust hai independent ladies key liye options hote MashaAllah aapke grandchildren amazing hai. Daffa Karo haters ko.♥️🌹

2 personalities forever charming rahein pak mein aik Madam NoOR jahan dosari Bushra ji

Alaa, Excellent dear,ap aik achi motivational speaker hn.kindly keep it up

You've very sweet grand children ❣️ your home is very simple and beautiful ❤️

U r doing great awareness well done

You have beautiful grand children. They are fortunate to have you in their lives.stay blessed !

i wish i could give one millions likes to each and every of your video with great messages...you are a legend.... long live bushra ansari .. me and my mother watch your videos daily..

You are right about different between kids raised abroad and in Pakistan

So true! Women should work hard for their betterment. Women should not take domestic violence.

Love ur positive approach towards life and faith

Very well said ❤

Very nice word 😢

Nice talking and well said. Best prays for you

آپ بالکل ٹھیک کہہ رہی ہے ذہنی مریض بنا دیتے ہیں اس میں ساس سسر نند شوہر شامل ہوتے ہیں زیورات جوماں باپ نے دیے ہوتے ہیں وہ بھئ بیچ دیتے ہیں نہ دو تو لڑائیاں ہوتئ ہے اللہ سب بچیوں کے نصیب اچھے کرے آمین

Well said 👏 👌 👍

MashAllah boht piyry bachy hn ❤

Such an important realization for people. Do not think that your daughter has been kidnapped. Value your daughters. Respect them !

Right ❤❤

Very well said mam❤

Very sane advice ❤

my kids were also very talkative but in teenage they become silent ..in this age all kids r same

Kitni sachi or piyari batain hn apki...jesy meri Maa ki..

Ap bohat positive hn

I agreed with u .

A very good message.. You are Soo inspiring Bushra g

Ap bilkul sahi kehrae hain.

Very positive thankyou very much

Well said bushra g

Thanks for sharing your talks. You are an amazing person.

Mashallah ap ny boht pitari baten ki hin or boht hemat di ajki larki ko Kash asi bate sab ourten apni bachiyu ko smjati rhn k drna nhi or asy asy krna hi

Self esteem should be taught to children

I totally agree with you. And its not necessary that if you are very social, your children or grand children must be like your copy. Let the kids learn the life their own way. ❤

Good massage ❤

Mashaa Allah buhat hi achi baat Kahi ap ny

اسلام علیکم پیاری آپا بہت اچھی باتیں سمجھائی آپ نے شکریہ ❤

really enjoyable to see ur house ,,,,watching u from my childhood ...really all good artist seemed our family member

Well said 😊😊😊

Bushra Ansari once again whole heartedly thank you for sharing a very important message about domestic abuse. You are doing the work that your politicians and government should be doing. You always champion the rights of women and stand for social justice - how lucky and fortunate is Pakistan to have you ! Best wishes from Wales (United Kingdom),

100% right .

Well said Appa

Very well explained, really like it.

Very well said.

Very nice 👍 🦜 message.

Great message!

Ameen jazak Allah 🤗

Your home is sweet home👍

Sania’s parents brought him back and filed suit against for khula but sania said to parents that talaq yafta Larki ki society ma koi jaga nhi hote and returned to husband’s home . Please change society

Good. I appreciate U madam bushra. Ur every word is based on rationality. I appreciate Ur views. Dr Haroon from Lahore

Bilkul sahi baat hy waldain ki kotahi hy.maa baap nai dakhty reasons datay han jo ghalat hy😊

Beautiful talk today love it. Keep your children away from these negative people.

Assalomou alikum bushra ji iam ubaid from karachi apko dekh ka bohat khushi hui allah pak apko sehat da aur bohat sari khushyia da kafi depres chezay horahai ha apny bilkul theak bat ki ha ma 💯 percent apki sari batou sa itifaq karta hu zahara ka walid ka interview mana dekha th wo bechary bohat takleaf ma bat karraha th allah pak unko sabar da jawan beti ko aisy janwar logou na zulum ka nishana banaya kuch galti unky walid ki bhi ha kabi bhi usky saat nahi bhejna chahyia th ya phir khud koi ghar arrange karka dety ka yaha rohou takay meri nazaray tum pa raha bus allah talha sub pa apna raham karay

Mam mein b Kuch aesi hi situation face kr Rahi Hoon k log kya kahen gy????😢😢😢😢

Very nice things you said bushra apa.well said❤

Apne dil ko chune wali bat kr di ❤ darr sabke andar hota hai darr mardon me bhi hota hai

Ktni piyari BAAT kahi hy

Jo anchor hain un k husband bar bar maafi mangte thee aur behaviour teak kerne ka drama kerte thee,wo phele widow hain iss lia ye rishta nahi kharab kerna chahti thi,yaqeen Karen mujae itna sadma hoa me believe nahi Ker pa rahi thi k itni educated larki ne ye zulm tolerate hi q kia 😢😢😢

I agree with you on this sensitive topic.

Bilkul sai bat Kuky asal mard kabhi b orat pa hath ni uthata Allah na mard ko orat ka muhafiz banaya hawan ni 👍 Or maaf kardo magar aitbar aik bar karo warna har bar wohi galti kry ga or phir zulm ki intaha ho jai gi

Bushra, First and foremost, always remember no matter how many times they visit Pakistan, it is ALWAYS GOING TO BE A CULTURE SHOCK to their system. you’re talking about your Grandchildren, reminds me of my Childhood. Every time we visited Pakistan, we were labeled as “BADTAMEEZ” because we grew up in the very old ages where we faced Racism here in Canada, but there was still a sense of belonging, which is natural. My Children were very fortunate being born in the late 90’s and early 2000, growing up in a multi cultural society. But going back to Pakistan, it is still less of a shock to them than it is for me. When KAPRE WAALE DUKAANDAR throws 12-15 THAANS in front of me, the voice of darrr darrr darrr that would scare me in my Childhood, still makes me CRINGE AND SHRINK BACK INTO THE CHAIR. Although I am a daredevil here in the Western World, have travelled all over the World alone with my 2 daughters, but back in Pakistan. The fears and stares of men ogling you or your daughters is UNBEARABLE. The Vulgarity on the streets is so open and totally different from the rest of the World

Plz ignore fazool log we are waiting their vlogs plz

Totally agreed 💯 Totally parents Ki negligency Ki wja se Hua hy wrna kisi Ki Kya jurrat .....

Bushra apa domestic violence is extremely common.i have a lots n lots o stories .I can even write a book on it.

Stay blessed Bushra ji..

Don't allow comments on your children's video. Keep making children's video...we liked it

Bht khoobsurat baaten ki hn ap ne

Zabrdast

Sania zehra ki jo batay ap nay ki meri b same yahi soch h k beti itni taqleef me thi os time nhi nikala ab jab mar gai tho sab bol parhay ajib bat hy...

Boht achi baten ki ap ny

Very well said hume apni betiyo ki achi trabyt k sath sath unhe independent b krna chiye

Absolutely correct Parents should be answered

Mujha apka sab bacha bohot he achaa lagta hain aur ap bhee bohot pyare hain soch ke aur adat ke bhee.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

Mashallah yours grand children are awesome❤❤❤❤❤❤beautiful and innocent❤❤❤

Very beautiful ❤️

👏👏👏👏👏 good explanation

Bohat khooob

God bless you and your family your video is very nice and true informative Allah Hafiz

Mashallha ❤

Your kids are best ❤❤❤

Bushra apa great personality ❤

Bht ala. Nice

I always feel relieved and relaxed hearing your talks. Please keep us posted. ❤from England

Very good advice ,your grand children are so adorable.

Wa Alaikum Assalam.Aaj phir se aapki bauhat pyari batein sunein.Aap ne Bilkul sach kaha ke larkion ko shohar se tashadud bardasht nahein karna chahiey.Physical violence ki tarah mental violence bhi bardasht nahein karna chahiey .Allah sabki bachion ke naik naseeb karey aur easey Wehshi logon se bachaey Aameen

Well said

Bht Achi baten key han ap nay

That’s why I like her. She never try to hurt anyone. She never attacks anybody

MashAllah......

MJ PE b tashadud Karta Tha aur maray parents reluctant thy. But finally divorce hogai hy aur haqmeher nai Ada kar raha

Very Well said Bushra aapa

ماشاءاللہ آپ نے بہت اچھی باتیں کی ہیں ۔ اللّٰہ تعالیٰ آپ کو نظر بد سے بچائے آمین ۔

بھت اچھی بہترین باتیں کی میم آپ نے ماشا اللہ جزاک اللہ ھم سب کی علم میں کافی اضافہ ھوجاتا ھے آپ جو بھی بات کرتے ھو ! ھم سب کو اللہ تعالی شاد آباد اور خوشحال رکھے اپنے اپنے گھروں میں آمین 🤲💕