Don’t fall in Love with Hope!

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Don’t Fall in Love with Hope!
Hoping a person will learn how to love you, they’ll someday change and it’ll be different this time.
🌿 It’s crucial to be realistic about your relationship or marriage and how it affects your overall wellbeing because it can become very draining if you begin to suppress!
🌿 This can also become very draining to the other person because they may not be on the same page as you and just can’t understand how to meet you exactly where you want them to meet you, at your pace and based off of where you are in life at that current time.
♥️If any of the above sounds familiar to you, book a consultation so we can discuss personalized and tangible solutions that can benefit you, your spouse and your relationship or marriage.
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@Redeemedholy1 4 месяца назад

If everyone get the love of the Lord in they heart we all can love correctly and truly

@LOVESOLUTIONS 4 месяца назад

❤❤❤ You’re right

@Redeemedholy1 4 месяца назад

@@LOVESOLUTIONS ❤️👑🙌🏽💯

@latoyawatts168 4 месяца назад

AMEN

@MidwestBrotha 4 месяца назад

I'm in 1000% agreement with you!!!

@Redeemedholy1 4 месяца назад

@@MidwestBrotha yes sir

@corettagreene1444 4 месяца назад

Absolutely! Everything comes down to a matter of choice. It happens in marriages, single life and dating. People have to know what they want and be willing to do whatever it takes to make it happen with a made up mind. Learning each other takes time. No one wants to be with anyone who doesn’t want to be there. I believe in letting people go. It’s not running but, if the heart isn’t in it on a mutual level, it’s a go. I do not believe in waisting time especially, at our age😂 No sir! We are ok with whatever decisions made and still can love you.❤️✌🏾

@patriciasmith5979 3 месяца назад

Absolutely!!!

@a.b.9796 3 месяца назад

Men in the comment section stating younger women shouldn't take advice from older women. Who should they be taking advice from? Men? I feel like listening to older more experienced women who had up's and many down's and still have their achievements and are still bright and jolly yet strong and intelligent are women worth listening to.

@Zoehvvfx 4 месяца назад

True, you will find the right person that can love you right, just be available when he or she comes along.,don't settle for wrong person.

@RISINGPHOENIX2491 3 месяца назад

Also have to communicate. See if there’s compromise or not... See if it matches… Then decide.

@Grace-love79 4 месяца назад

You do have to tell people how to love you, it’s call open honest communication. No one is going to guess what you like or love.

@sannaeddie7521 4 месяца назад

She did and he didn't.

@Grace-love79 4 месяца назад

@@sannaeddie7521 yeah, that’s not a compatible union. We should be open and honest especially to our love ones. I do understand people can act or lie to get what they want until they have it, then their real self shows up. Didn’t watch too much of her show.

@Diva_D_Jennings 4 месяца назад

No, love is love. You teach people how to treat you, respect you, & your boundaries.

@Grace-love79 4 месяца назад

@@Diva_D_Jennings not all love is real. Love can be mistaken for multiple things. Teaching people how to treat you and setting boundaries is part of love. There are many types of love and sometimes some people have not experience certain events in life therefore they may not know how to communicate what they are going thru.

@Diva_D_Jennings 4 месяца назад

@@Grace-love79 Love in itself IS love. Otherwise it’s lust, or simply the individual is void of feelings for you. Obsession is not love; it has its own feelings. We communicate with people all day; GODLY love. We are not born knowing how to hate. Look up the meaning of love, then come back and “communicate “ with me. You’re talking about feelings; healthy relationships require so much more than that. Love ❤️ is beautiful, relationships require “work”. An individual CAN love you; and, vice-versa….that doesn’t mean that relationship will “work” in a healthy way for both. There are plenty of people who love each other; however, due to whatever the “issues” are; their relationship(s) ended.

@julierobinson8173 3 месяца назад

It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been with that person or how much you love them or how old you are, just end the relationship when it’s not working for you. Stop settling for hope or potential…stop wasting your valuable time and efforts ❤

@THINKGOODKARMA 4 месяца назад

I literally was just journaling about this!! Thank you for this revelation

@LOVESOLUTIONS 4 месяца назад

You're very welcome ❤

@judiboitshepo9696 3 месяца назад

Beautiful message out here....That's my biggest lesson I always look back at what I did and how I used to move so I don't get to move the same way again.....That's why it's important to take time and be by yourself so you can be honest while self introspecting coz you can't face yourself while jumping into relationships❤❤❤

@sandamiz 3 месяца назад

After 2 months I ended a loveless relationship. He was busy doing him while saying I was his everything

@Harry64278 4 месяца назад

I like someone looking right at me from the bottom right of the screen screen while im looking at a video

@sassymango9369 3 месяца назад

Another reason why I love Iyanla so much ❤

@albertantoinemane 3 месяца назад

Yes definitely...

@katmonroe4611 4 месяца назад

I needed this 🫶🏽

@TerryJr. 4 месяца назад

It was 21 for me a woman who i was supposed to grow old with dog me out been told me she didnt want me any more 21 years with just 1 woman hurts bad when u know u was the sole provider and protector and did everything for her 😮😪😔

@RakeemDixon Месяц назад

Each to their own. Because people can get it, yes it’s your choice whether you’d like to take part of that relationship going forward but people do change and as well people make mistakes. If they keep making the same mistakes then it’s questionable but only on the magnitude of the mistakes.

@closely-stitched4088 4 месяца назад

This is so REAL!!!

@YourzTruly25.8 Месяц назад

I’ve been talking to this guy for about 8/9 months and I have all these feelings and he don’t and I keep hoping that he’ll eventually love me but I realized if he don’t love you now a couple more months years he won’t either .

@user-ch3zo4jv7n 4 месяца назад

Thanks mommaz . Have a good night pretty one❤️

@tomaradoss3420 4 месяца назад

This right here

@MelL333 4 месяца назад

Love this. #facts ❤

@oliviaharris3118 4 месяца назад

I miss watching Iyanla fix my life do she still come on

@lh4639 4 месяца назад

AMEN!!!

@jordanglasper1064 4 месяца назад

This is beyond Powerful

@queenmini372 4 месяца назад

❤❤

@Pacifica74 4 месяца назад

YUP!

@sukitha001 4 месяца назад

All I heard was that she wanted the man to read her mind 😂

@Vivien_Ekong 4 месяца назад

She obviously told him

@shieldoffaith7099 3 месяца назад

I hear you.but I also heard that she respected him enough to allow him to be who he was naturally and the space to see if they meshed organically instead of nagging him into submission. 😅

@Peacealways247 3 месяца назад

Wonder where this young woman is today? I remember her on the show.

@elodiefraise1887 3 месяца назад

Thanks i will not do that again

@danieladecarvalho8519 3 месяца назад

Sis send us the full interview pls darling

@firdowskruger9896 4 месяца назад

Who is this woman?

@1anre 4 месяца назад

Accountability on zero

@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 4 месяца назад

Brought tears to my eyes , 🥲

@shirleycoleman1211 3 месяца назад

Truth don't care about how u accept handle reject Truth. Truth is raw it cuts it hurts it destroys lies. U built up lies Truth drops lies. Jesus love loves care not Truth. Truth is my Jesus. Which gives me two faces. One full of wrath of Truth & the other of Jesus compassion.

@tousainthart-yc1tr 4 месяца назад

So let me get this Right, Women have a set idea on how a Man is supposed 2love them, but we get criticized or castrated by a woman when we have a set idea on how yall supposed 2 Love Us in return. How about U let the Love take its course, then adjust 2the Love that's given while the relationship goes on.

@justiceessiel6123 3 месяца назад

This is empty you all just broken..

@mobbsaintofficial 4 месяца назад

Dumbest advice ever😂

@ahmedzaki2651 3 месяца назад

So stupid advice, love is all about mutual communication. Agree to disagree, and to a mutual point that you both understand and agree to it.

@ervincoles2532 4 месяца назад

It took u 14 years threw all the fornication ups and downs 2 realize he ain’t love u the way u want 2???? So who’s the problem the man or you??? The only true love is GOD’s love everything else is lust…. Have you ever took into consideration his needs or could it have been suttin yall could have worked out???? Sound like a excuse to leave especially after 14 years doesn’t make sense

@knowledgeablekingjudah2322 3 месяца назад

That doesn't make sense... why? You have been giving advice to people for damn near 14 or more years too people about relationships. Thee main issue, your advice in others relationships was void cause by your own interpretation You had to end a 14 year relationship because the Brotha didn't love you the way you wanted to be love 😂 It don't take 14 Years to figure that out especially when you have PhD's in these situations 🔥💯

@mafiooato7233 4 месяца назад

Stupid advice from this woman: Did she show the guy how-to be love? She did know how to love the guy? Any woman who takes this old woman's advice will end up in the street and be used like her. A lot of older women dont give good advice to younger women. Especially single older women, they are bitter for not having a relationship.