@ilqar887 I mean cowardice alone is enough to make life meaningless. If you are always afraid of pursuing what you want that alone will prevent you from engaging with anything meaningful. Enforced homeostasis is the opposite of meaning, it is in fact it's refusal. This is precisely the mindsets of stoics and Buddhists everywhere; the wholesale of any kind of engagement in discourse for fear of loss. What people fear is subjective tho
Glad to know there's a group of people that think about this. The fear of leaving Earth without knowing who you truly are as a person and your true potential.
damn 2024 is a real boost for this kind of videos, I like that they don't contain almost no edit, it's just a raw record. As if it was a recording for yourself or your friend
Omg! I’ve been starting to think about this lately. Like, I heard a story about an elderly lady who wished she had gone swimming when she didn’t feel beautiful in a swimsuit, wished she had because she was too physically diminished to do it ever again. I don’t want to be her. Your vid is everything I needed to hear & more. Thank u 🌻
Yep, totally agree. I think what it feels like to me is that we are somewhat losing our humanity. I know that everyone probably has a different definition of what humanity means, but I think that whatever makes us so amazing is somehow always on the verge of completely getting crushed. I think our purpose as a collective is to keep that fire in us alive.
Some of us have never been rewarded for 'trusting ourselves' or 'surrendering to the universe' or anything like that. There's not always some great reward and inspiring revelation, sometimes you just grind away at something you believe and it turns out to be a miserable failure every time and that's all there is to it. And you can try to feel good for 'having tried' and try to guilt yourself with phrases like 'Well, I guess I wasn't being 'me' enough', but sometimes things don't work out because you aren't good enough. Well done to everyone else 'lives their truth', some of us fall flat every. Single. Time. And it SUCKS. And you get sick of experiencing that.
Thank you. 💖 So wise! For someone who calls themselves "lost soul" in you description. :) I don't know if that was literal, symbolic, facetious, etc. :) Thank you for putting this message out there, to be seen today. 💖💖💖. Reminds me of the quote I love, (might be paraphrasing), "Be gentle with yourself You are a child of the universe No less than the trees and the stars. In the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.." I think it's from the deciderata. 💗🙏🏻
What made you feel this or want to express this today? (The day you posted). Old soul, neurodivergent, went through a lot in life, or something just put this on your heart to speak... In any situation, thank you for being here. 🙏🏻💖 Right back at ya. You are a Blessing too! 😊 "Be gentle with yourself, you are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars" what you said reminds me of this quote I love. :) I think that is from the desiderata. It's a good reminder how precious each of us are and a miracle to be a live, and a blessing to the world and all around us, if we see or understand that or not. 💗
1:28 It's not really even something that people used to do, it's a recent idea to go up & approach random people. Prior to that, people met through established communities such as church which was the largest institution by far in terms of influence outside of government. People also met their spouse through family or religious leaders introducing them. It says a lot about our society that we don't have those communities anymore.
Real love is like mercy to the self, it feels like peace or tranquillity because the self within each person already knows its own soulmate, and being separated from the self's known soulmate causes agony. The access to the self is acquired by genuinely taking everyone and everything temporarily as an enemy except The Truth alone. Then say, 'I consider everyone my ally (notice a smile), then I consider The Truth alone my ally (notice a big smile), then consider everyone saying one does not have a soulmate (notice a sad smile), and is everyone my enemy for saying I don't have a soulmate? (notice a big smile) Do I love The Truth alone now for not having a soulmate? (notice a sad smile) And to verify if someone maybe one's soulmate, ask the self, "Is that person my soulmate?" The real self within oneself reacts with a smile when both eyes observe matching descriptions of one's soulmate, but make sure verification matches all descriptions entirely from the self within oneself to confirm one's soulmate. And end access to the self by saying, 'Everyone is born with 'to know' in the pursuit of knowledge from The Truth alone. All is Hell without the Truth alone.' Ask yourself why the self was only accessible by the above conditions? Because the bond between soulmates is mercy for the self within oneself matching the self within one's soulmate; then the external forms of love, pleading or begging, asking, dating, valuing oneself, and comparing oneself to others would not be from one's soulmate but from those who do not have a bond with the self within oneself.
Personally, I'm much more content living the life of a recluse. I have zero obligations to anyone but myself. People are more phony these days than they've ever been, too, and I just don't trust them.
As someone absolutely obsessed with expressing myself to the world, some deep part of me thinks you're based, honestly. It might just be the most happiest thing if I sat alone and away from the stupid chaos of it all. But honestly? i _want_ to express myself through art. It's meaningful to me. So I'll try it, and see how it goes. But people put too much pressure on everyone to change the world. If you were going to change the world, you would've been obsessed about it your whole life. That kinda thing. Much love and good luck in your life
Althought this is true on one angle, I always have another voice who reminds me, "I don't need to perform well in this life to have MY OWN approval/love". I choose to make my being regretful or not in this life independent from my performance. Because not all life contexts are the same. In my experience most ofthe inner voices of regret.........are from internalized third party prespectives on my life...........not really mine. There are things in my life I haven't been able to change in DECADES. Am I going to double down on the warrior stance and force myself to solve them? Well, why haven't I yet? Because there is a RISK............so action and involvement don't guarantee the desired outcome in all situations. There's a bigger sense of regret I fear, which is making the WRONG move that I won't be able to get out of. I've tasted bliss and happiness, and moderate wordly sucess and recognition..........it's not a replacement from feeling I did things honoring ALL parts of me.........not just the ones that have a need to live a "GREAT" life.
yes, express who you are, but who are you really? and how can we fully know who we truly are? The scariest thing in existence is to just be, to sit by yourself, to close your eyes and do and say nothing, to relax, to rest, and let go of all control, and allow things to take their place and run their course and just be a silent witness. Eventually you will start seeing those mental loops, perfectionist urges, dialogues, stories separate from who you truly are. The more they run their course, the more they exhaust themselves, the more you shed them and become who you actually are underneath all that useless content. I like your deep and raw takes.
You only get this way when the world does everything in it's power to never meet you halfway when you're being yourself. People don't just come as not themselves by default. They are beaten down into it. To be able to "be yourself" you have to be lucky from the start to not meet pushback all the god damn time, lucky to eventually find social breathing room to do it OR just be a pretty woman / handsome man. And if you are of a certain, more quirky nature, people around you usually need time to peer through the abstract until they finally understand you. Which in some cases could take years. But in this current socio-politico-economical environment, very few actually have that time. The only two ways you can be yourself is if you're alone (which you can end up being by being yourself anyway) or if the people around you permit it.
Thank you for this message. I believe virtually the exact same thing. I believe that any person on this planet is important no matter who you are. And I believe it's a duty to yourself and others to help other people and make an impact on the world. To make the world a better place when you leave it, than when you found it. And that idea can be spread in many different ways than people think. Through art, fun, creativity, passion, dedication, responsibility, change, love, soul, depth, understanding, and so many different things. You don't have to enlist in the army or become a medical professional or astronomical inventor or ground breaking actor or writer or artist or musical composer or anything categorized in any way. You can just do what comforts you or makes you happy. You can just show yourself and be yourself and blossom into a wonderful person. Just by BEING HERE you can help other people through the darkness. That to me is the beauty meaning of life and purpose. Is the potential of what we have, and what we choose to do with what we have. And that is not only beautiful, but candidly fascinating to me......
Well said. For a moment there I thought you would quote Frank Herbert (Dune). "I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."
I do not share the idea that it is necessary to fulfill the maximum possible expression of our interpretation of reality. There is no urgency. The life of the most promising artist, philosopher, writer, scientist, etc., whose potential is cut short by fate and never gets to express all their abilities, is just as valid as the life of the most accomplished creator. In any case, society only has a certain degree of permeability to innovative creative expressions. One should be able to create, think, express oneself, etc., with total freedom and without being conditioned by the absurdity of the universe and its insistence on constraining us.
Lovely.💖 Thanks, very cool of you. The way you deliver those words ah I feel them in my heart. Love your confidence. I just especially love the specific examples you bring up to fill in the picture of how purposeful we actually are in our own very particular existence. Makes the words very clear when you put them like that. Thanks for inspiring me with thoughts I already know that I feel the need to consistently and repeatedly think to help me live fully.❤️🌸
Roy: "I’ve seen things you people wouldn’t believe. Attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhäuser gate. All those moments will be lost in time… like tears in rain… Time to die." ― Bladerunner (1982)
I really want to start a business. But I'm "afraid" to show myself(im afraid to market). How do I expose myself bare skin without the wrong judgment of some. How do I take the first step towards that?................. Also...... I've this MASSIVE hatred against all that has hurt me. What if me expressing my authenticity do me more wrong than good. Those are the questions of my life.
yes i know i waste some time of my past life but i feel like it is not so bad thing than everybody thought and i think it is applicable too... so you guys who see my comment please dont rush and look down your past life my and your past life is all correct thing you all can move on your precious life from now.
an english poet, robert graves, said 'nobody can possibly succeed in being you so well as yourself, and gradually you in that favourable position of being in your position can find out far better than anyone else what being you entails'
You say “Don’t live your life in fear” while telling people to not *waste their life* which only creates consternation and FOMO. You just got to love these young self-help RU-vidrs joining the grind.
So you'll feel anxious for 15 minutes because of what she said, what does it matter? It's still very good message don't you agree? Or do you prefer to live in fear
@@michamarkiewicz5355 Did I ever say that? I’m only pointing out the inconsistency in how she delivered it. Since having this realization does involve pressure, fear, and anxiety. Yes, I mostly agree with the message but not the delivery. I do not want to live a life in fear, I’m not advocating for that.
Tched 10 second... was enough for me. ... Women. Give women good advice please. Not bad advice. Example= Tell women to start being nice to men. Youre lives will be so happy then. Peace. ❤
Just when I needed answers I find you. Is this fate? I honestly want to join the military but I don’t want to disappoint or hurt my parents who want me to take on a different career. It’s not easy.
Who you truly are has nothing to do with you… Personas are façades. “What’s real never dies, what’s unreal never lived.” Life cannot be controlled. It can only be directed to a certain extent and even that is not completely in our hands. This may sound dreary at the beginning but if you think of it, relinquishing all control gets you the freedom the mystics keep talking about… Sorry if it sounds nonsensical
I've noted that the biggest trick that unmove a human being, are the trick of the minds and when he permit those to dwell our energy and frequences. For example others beast animals just do thinghs, in according to their nature they don't think that thinghs needs an end or a porpouse, or a meaning. For example I could project in my mind that in my life I need a beatiful woman like you, for being happy, but that's is just how the unconscious mind works, it's not the reality. But within this unconscious thoughts upon reality I could easely fall in an absurd and umoving movement in life. So it's not about an end or a meaning, but it's about what in our deep moves us. Understanding, be conscious of what kind circle of thoughts dwell our energy, if it's based upon reality or not, if those dwell us to the good for us, or in just vices, emotions or desires that have nothing in accordance with our life.
the algorithm sent me here, I guess everyone is a philosopher nowadays, it's honestly annoying and exhausting, I wish you people would talk less and do more
I have a unique experience; in that I get to experience all the intricacies of being me. Pretty cool I would have to say. I enjoy listening to the depth of your expression. My only counter-argument is if the universe is infinite or maybe starts again from a singularity or something; how can I be sure that another iteration of me hasn't typed out something like what I am doing right now; living the same life as me right now. Reference is everything in this case. There's something bigger than all of us; uncertainty. Just flow.
I will just reincarnate until I have a better body and a better life so I have a higher probability of achieving gnosis and escaping this hellish material realm of the Demiurge.
Personally I do not understand what you are talking about but it is true if I leave earth I will have some kind of regret because I do not think there is a youtube in other planets.
Allah is real, believing in allah isn't a comfortable decision for lazy or degenerate people, I called it decision because alot of people see the evidence and decide not too. The most motivational thing on earth is knowing that god, the all knowing, knows how you feel when ur at your lowest and decide to fight it and do stuff. He is not only going to reward you for what you did, but that amount of reward depends on how you are feeling. Allah is just, GO GET SHIT DONE, DO IT, AND GET YOUR REWARD.
Oh that what i want beautiful girl helping me accept my fude up life thks i think u have a good view but not for everyone especially who had more than that again thks.
Theres an epidemic of attractive lonely young women who take to RU-vid to share their inner thoughts and I can only wonder why. Sadly mostly attracts an audience of elderly simps. This is like PG13 trad material.
